They fail to distinguish between shyness and lack of confidence.
@disarmsox
7 жыл бұрын
Don J look it up, there's a difference
@disarmsox
7 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't say shyness is based on lack of confidence as such. Take for example going red in the face if someone you like looks over at you. That's shyness. But being in a bar and someone is making eye contact and encouraging you to approach them, but you don't feel confident, well that's lack of confidence.
@mrdone5733
7 жыл бұрын
There is a difference, I look shy (I think) and girls like that . I'm shy because I don't give a f about talking to girls (even if she's hot, I only try once and if she don't respond , i say bye (it' s not like she's the only girl on planet). I don't talk to other people that much because I think i 'm on higher level (they call me egoist). I don't have problem talking to others so I don't think I have lack of confidence but still I look shy to other people (shy/mysterious always get those words from others)
@yelnatsch517
7 жыл бұрын
Hmm, that's quite interesting. I'd say the opposite is true for many cases as well. Guys who are constantly looking to hook up with women are merely seeking validation and attention due to a lack of true self esteem and self confidence. It's analogous to how truly wealthy people try to remain low key while posers are the ones who are constantly overextending their means just to look rich by wearing gaudy clothes and shouting from the rooftops "look at me, look at me, I'm rich." It seems society has misunderstood true confidence with superficial confidence. True alphas don't need validation from the masses, including trifling hoes. They are above it all because they simply give no f's. True alphas define the game; the rest merely play the game. Then again, the video never defined what they meant by "shyness." They could really have meant to refer to someone with no self confidence, so you're probably right.
@kunalabraham9814
7 жыл бұрын
M Done yeah I'm like that too. I don't talk much, don't have a problem talking though, just don't wanna talk with some people, especially dumb people. I cannot stand people who can't understand shit. other than that my hobbies are different from most people's hobbies my age (21). I don't go out to parties and clubs. Im into cars and I drift and race at the track and I'm usually working on my car in between track days. might be boring to some but the adrenaline on the track going 140km sideways is something you can't match.
@DougEDoug-om8ie
7 жыл бұрын
Girl: I like confident guys who can step out of their comfort zone and approach me Guy: hey Girl: bye
@Practicew
7 жыл бұрын
😂😂💯
@amanrawat95
7 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂🔥
@peterleon9367
7 жыл бұрын
The logic
@saddamstyawan3316
7 жыл бұрын
i think you just ugly af dude... sory...
@onthaticeburg_ess6542
7 жыл бұрын
Lmao no one will want to approach your ugly ass anyway
@chris-kp4ph
3 жыл бұрын
Telling a guy to “just be confident” is like telling a homeless person to just buy a house
@askurgirlaboutmee
3 жыл бұрын
Ikr!! Like, oh you’re dying? Just stop 👍
@aft5264
2 жыл бұрын
I can’t tell ya how many opportunities I’ve missed because I’m too shy to make the first move
@Da1Dez
2 жыл бұрын
@@aft5264 Likewise brother!
@vklkg5486
Жыл бұрын
Or telling them “just get rich!”
@heavyballs8458
Жыл бұрын
Finally someone who understands
@user-dc4yr1ws5g
7 жыл бұрын
As long as your wallet isn't shy they won't mind.
@TheBAZZiX
7 жыл бұрын
A B LMAO
@ラッセル97
7 жыл бұрын
facts
@boxingbarry7194
7 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@mohammedibrar9627
7 жыл бұрын
A B good one
@guangaotian5567
7 жыл бұрын
A B Bingo!
@ibrahamlincon9876
6 жыл бұрын
So when a girl is shy that is okay but when a guy is shy it is not? Double standard
@ibrahamlincon9876
6 жыл бұрын
The women on the video are saying it about them selves when they were askif they want to ask a guy out in kama tv check it out
@DogDamour
6 жыл бұрын
sad but true
@iamjohnporter67
6 жыл бұрын
Can we stop with the gender wars, this is getting really stupid.
@ArkbladeIX
5 жыл бұрын
Its not a double standard, they probably just haven't been with a shy person if they are shy themselves
@easylife6348
5 жыл бұрын
Eylside but when the shy guy try to get confidence after the female try to get his attention for months then drifts away from him as soon he try to get some sort of connection from her to start a relationship. Girls really want is attention, if you don't give it to them as fast as possible then that particular girl will forever ignore you because they think in their minds that if the relationship happens, she wouldn't get much attention from you. That's why their are over 70% divorces come from women. Because most of them couldn't get enough attention for their man or her lifestyle with her man isn't satisfying enough.
@razer0072073
7 жыл бұрын
Girls be wanting a guy with money, a nice car, who doesn't live with their mum and all they can bring to the table is a smashed iphone and a shitty personality they contoured off a KZitem makeup tutorial.
@ricky93100
7 жыл бұрын
Mas A so much truth to this it hurts
@azzey4ilfe
7 жыл бұрын
those girls that are looking for what you are saying in your comment can have a nice view of my ass crack and a nice girl a loyal and trustworthy girl deserves a nice guy a loyal and trustworthy guy but its hard to find a nice guy or a nice girl these days so its a 50/50 that men and women slut around coz both have been heart broken so they think fuck all and im going to do this to get this depression feeling of their minds
@Sputnik-03
7 жыл бұрын
Mas A who hurt this mans
@herlocks89
7 жыл бұрын
I laughed too hard at this because I'm seeing it all too often.
@guangaotian5567
7 жыл бұрын
Mas A Brother give me a hug!
@indigobeauty1
2 жыл бұрын
Shy guys are only shy for a short moment, once they're comfortable, the real them shines. Love them 💕
@moreno-lh7ys
2 жыл бұрын
thank you!!!! that comment is just from heaven,,,, we need more women like you,, we that kind of justment and down to earth thinking,, thank you,,all the best wishes for you,,never changes that down to earth smart sophisticated thinking...
@user-xt2ux3dx5r
Жыл бұрын
🥺🥺
@bahamasbroyt
Жыл бұрын
I dont trust you
@indigobeauty1
Жыл бұрын
@@bahamasbroyt I'm not dating you, why would i lie....Every shy guy I've dated starts off a bit hesitant, which i think is smart because there's a lot of bs people...but once they get a swift of my intentions, their guard drops...it's a beautiful thang 😊
@bahamasbroyt
Жыл бұрын
@@indigobeauty1 Well maybe you should
@Vaporvsf50
7 жыл бұрын
you can be introverted and still confident. introversion is often missunderstood as shyness.
@disarmsox
7 жыл бұрын
b s you can be ambiverted too, in-between the two
@haroonshah6677
7 жыл бұрын
b s Exactly !
@nooneknowsmytroubleswithgo3406
7 жыл бұрын
b s I agree
@itz_akuma
7 жыл бұрын
lol im not shy i just dont speak much unless im genuinely interested in that person or the subject...
@shasha0076
7 жыл бұрын
true af
@xXBlackPlaguesXx
7 жыл бұрын
A lot of people are shy because sometimes they may have a sad life or something like that. But I think that the shyness and sadness brings out the wisdom and truth within theirselves.
@nerdgamer2749
7 жыл бұрын
Render Lizswith Yep, I lived a horrible life :( I'm super shy, and after watching this video, I don't think there is any hope of me finding a girl
@nerdgamer2749
7 жыл бұрын
VictorMorimoto :')
@slowboi1688
7 жыл бұрын
NerdGamer 274 same with me but we don't need girls when we have our own life and our own money
@Param-Singh
7 жыл бұрын
so true bro.
@nerdgamer2749
7 жыл бұрын
Vextor Gaming Benchmarks lol true
@DeclanTrippier419
7 жыл бұрын
Damn I'm fucked
@exodos2499
7 жыл бұрын
Mario Gonzalez same here bro
@deanroddey2881
7 жыл бұрын
Pass me the gun when you are done with it.
@imxortal
7 жыл бұрын
Dean Roddey lmfaoooo
@1acroyear1
7 жыл бұрын
Nah. Why? Women only care about money and affluence. If you have (or can fake) that they'll literally be flinging themselves at you. It wouldn't matter if you looked like uncle Fester.
@JMASTERFLAWLESS
7 жыл бұрын
Yall good just know that these girls will fuck the whole block and be heartbroken then they will come ur way and when they do don't love them fuck and pass along
@stuffasvines2865
3 жыл бұрын
I’m a girl and I like shy guys. They’re cute, and once you get to know them, it’s not like they never talk or anything. It just takes them time to get comfortable around people. And I’m introverted and I have anxiety so I understand.
@zimap
Жыл бұрын
cool :)
@abdullahimuhammad382
Жыл бұрын
As a shy guy I like shy giris I respect them
@zimap
Жыл бұрын
@@abdullahimuhammad382 yeah it's easier as a shy person to talk to another shy person
@riazijabar5296
11 ай бұрын
You are just like me lol 😅
@firstdaysofhumanity4716
3 ай бұрын
Beyond Belief
@eivom1
7 жыл бұрын
Thing is shy people tend to be more confident with people they know, hard to explain but that's me anyway, I'm a different person around different people..
@youtubeemployee6949
7 жыл бұрын
eivom same man when I'm with my friends I make them laugh and all but then when there's girls I just stay quiet the entire class period
@edwardjordan69
7 жыл бұрын
eivom same bruh, same
@herikaniugu
7 жыл бұрын
You are just an introvert, same as me. We seems shy to people we don't like, but we are confident to people we like.
@pdggaming3627
7 жыл бұрын
+Wade Wilson same and more confident in things I like , sports and stuff
@javier101096
7 жыл бұрын
Very true
@G8GTJav
7 жыл бұрын
Well, that sucks. Even worse, women will judge a guy in less than a minute and instantly reject them if they show any signs of awkwardness. They can be pretty tough on us guys. I think they watch too many romantic movies and have unrealistic expectations or something.
@Error_404_Page-Not_Found
7 жыл бұрын
They watch too many soap operas (I hate soap operas).
@akarrow8446
7 жыл бұрын
G8GTJav True, I had the same problem with my crush , still we dated and again the same thing, then I was like, wtf man?
@はる-r1r9f
7 жыл бұрын
Lol
@brentirwin2202
7 жыл бұрын
Yeag ask us out save us evan we arn't prince charming
@Mark_H101
7 жыл бұрын
Romcoms do seem to cause a lot of problems and soap operas, too. Take that film The Notebook a while back that they all went nuts for. Ryan Gosling's character threatens to kill himself if the object of his desire rejects him! Not in a million years would that work in real life.
@cant_handle_deeznuts
6 жыл бұрын
Being shy doesn't mean you are unconfident or insecure about yourself. Many people make that mistake.
@johntempleton5030
6 жыл бұрын
musiclover I was just thinking that same thing that's a very good point.
@helloMRdj1
6 жыл бұрын
yes it does. You mean being introverted, which has to do with energy levels. But shyness does have to do with self-doubt.
@georgeamaranye601
6 жыл бұрын
Exactly !!!
@mypackmypower1996
6 жыл бұрын
thats womens logic bro but what all men know that almost 90 percent of men are just doing their own work without attracting trouble in life and they think that guy is shy.. a purely shy guy may be not confident in front of woman but the shy guy topic is taking in video is a guy hiding a beast within it and being calm at outside but ones tamed then women will freak out
@zak9364
6 жыл бұрын
@@mypackmypower1996 wtf r u saying man
@nathanaelstasinski9855
6 жыл бұрын
Shy guys can be great guys,..but they won't stand a chance if this is the way girls keep thinking.
@YKDSGN
6 жыл бұрын
Nathanael Stasinski You dont get it. Girls dont THINK this way, they FEEL this way, coz it´s natural. They are attracted to manly crazy guys because they bring them exciting FEELINGS, shy ones are boring.
@shadow12264
6 жыл бұрын
Nathanael Stasinski like seriously, definitely got a point there buddy. Woman today ought to be more open minded,but as usual there picky , I say don't change for anybody,if they won't accept you for you than forget them
@christianbitar4216
6 жыл бұрын
yevgusta You're thinking shortterm. Shy guys become confident and uncontrollable in the longterm if they get the fucking chance!
@YKDSGN
6 жыл бұрын
Christian Bitar Look if I didnt use to be a shy one as teenager, I wouldn't say anything. But things change when you backup looks with outgoing attitude. If you think about it here is no need to be shy. When you understand this, you will stop shooting yourself in the foot. Your mindset is "I hope shell give me a chance" that is weakness. Your minset should be "I will take her out and will see what her chances are to get me." But that mindset is achieved by working on your social skills and your life goals. Then you become to believe in yourself and your overall attitude changes from shy boy to cool fun guy. Suddenly you are chased by girls not viseversa.
@etinarcadiaego7424
6 жыл бұрын
Nathanael Stasinski Girls this age still have lot to learn about reality.
@danieldelange1583
6 жыл бұрын
“There’s no reason to be shy...” except for the fact that literally the first 6 girls said “heck no”😂
@beckywarren997
6 жыл бұрын
Daniel De Lange Being shy is good.Shy guys are the nicest well some anyway.
@lifespill
5 жыл бұрын
the thing is that people dont really choose to be shy
@enniswhalen2428
5 жыл бұрын
@@lifespill - Hey, it is the SAME message, over and over again, that you MUST become someone else, in a hurry . . . or you MUST be punished!
@connor828
2 жыл бұрын
Incredible,isn't it? The lack of awareness and empathy... "there's no reason to be shy..." says a member of the demographic who get to just turn up and have someone else do all the hard work. No reason to be shy,love? Try being 5/10 and being expected to approach the most extraordinarily judgemental group of people,while being expected to get hundreds of different things (many of which aren't even in your control) 100% correct. Nothing to be anxious about,there!
@malikgordon5230
2 жыл бұрын
@@connor828 lol 😂
@mylollipop7199
7 жыл бұрын
I'm shy, and im confident. I just dont talk much cause I prefer my own company. Bring me to a party I probably would look like a loner, Give me a sales job and I'll be the top employee.
@tiranito
7 жыл бұрын
You are an introvert probably, not shy.
@xasddasdgdfsdfgghj
7 жыл бұрын
Mgec what introvert
@azura9987
7 жыл бұрын
My Lollipop I dont understand how to be social, I basically can't communicate verbally at all
@exodos2499
7 жыл бұрын
aurazach same
@VivaMessico
7 жыл бұрын
guess what, women still think you're a shy loser. it doesnt matter if you think your just "introvert"
@Alumnikiid
7 жыл бұрын
Women dont know what they want its plain an simple...let a women make a list of the qualities she looks for in a man..and all her Ex's and current boyfriend will have none of them
@Error_404_Page-Not_Found
7 жыл бұрын
That is so true.
@НаильЯкупов-щ7э
6 жыл бұрын
If you are handsome, it doesn't matter whether you're shy or not, you'll be likeable
@Wamrage76
5 жыл бұрын
Have you ever been on a date? You could be handsome,tall and rich but if your shy you will have to deal with tons of rejections.Being shy/quiet/tacit is the biggest turn off for a woman and most shy guys dont even try to go on dates because of this.
@beckywarren997
5 жыл бұрын
Наиль Якупов I like Shy guys and they are likeable.
2:35 "Not my style..... because I'm shy myself" hahahaha some girls are a paradox and don't deserve your time XD
@mifunesaurus
7 жыл бұрын
How is that a paradox? A shy woman might like a confident guy that would lead and continue the conversations so they don't end awkwardly as much as she might like a shy guy because of matching personalities.
@freds.8775
7 жыл бұрын
"Not my style.... I AM myself shy" yes bro, of course it's not a paradox, yeah, yeah it's not XD Really it's not! XD hahaha
@mifunesaurus
7 жыл бұрын
As I said, she's shy, so she probably wants a confident guy to make the first move. I mean, even a 4-feet 380 lbs girl would want a 6-feet athletic and intelligent guy
@Rajpeanut
7 жыл бұрын
It is a paradox. If you don't like something that you are then don't be that thing. It's like me saying "I treat girls like shit but I don't want a girl who treats me like shit."
@mifunesaurus
7 жыл бұрын
It's more of a double standard.
@bennus6670
7 жыл бұрын
Shy guys are trustworthy guys. You don't have to worry about him cheating on you.
@Jambuc829
6 жыл бұрын
Ben Nus not true at all
@GeorgeTheRapper2
6 жыл бұрын
Jay Buc as a shy guy myself I would never cheat on anyone, I’d be too shy to do so and I’d be really grateful that despite being shy that someone would want to spend time with me
@Jambuc829
6 жыл бұрын
SlickJ 95 Most shy guys are only shy with people they don't know that's not too say you won't cheat with a girl you already know and feel comfortable with
@Jambuc829
6 жыл бұрын
XxD3c0y26Xx ._. So every shy guy on the planet is faithful?
@gorrevisor
6 жыл бұрын
Jay Buc WAAY more faithful than guys who know that they can just go out, ask 100 girls out, get one for the night and forget about it. The point of shy guys that they don't approach people that could use them.
@thatguyrightbehindyo
6 жыл бұрын
They keep saying “shy guys” are not confident. I believe it’s quiet the opposite. Just because a guy is silent doesn’t mean he isn’t confident. Maybe he’s more mysterious and wants you to actually put in some work to get to know him. Maybe he doesn’t like being the center of attention cause he doesn’t need it. In my opinion the guys that hit on every girl, and are always trying to get attention are the ones that lack confidence. If you are truly confident the opinions of other shouldn’t matter to you, and you shouldn’t need to go out and seek attention from every women that has a heart beat. Reserved men are much more picky and don’t approach everything they see, and women don’t like that because they want as much attention as humanly possible. I would suggest women rethink the term “shy guy” and switch to something that’s more accurate like “strong silent type” or something along those lines. We are not shy we are just too confident for you to handle.
@nickixiusdangelolunala7779
3 жыл бұрын
True. I agree.
@multicreativeartist6579
3 жыл бұрын
Facts!!
@SafwanNet
3 жыл бұрын
@@nickixiusdangelolunala7779 I once complimented a shy girl and she looked confused when I did so.
@nickixiusdangelolunala7779
3 жыл бұрын
@@SafwanNet oh wow.
@SafwanNet
3 жыл бұрын
@@nickixiusdangelolunala7779 why did she look so awkward.? She just got frozen up. Is it because I said something that I shouldn't?
@joso5554
7 жыл бұрын
those street girls are quite a stereotype of young, low self-confidence women who prefer to let guys do the moves and judge them, rather than risking to be the one to be judged for taking initiatives or being on a more equal level of relationship...
@1XxKyo
6 жыл бұрын
Why do they act like being shy is a choice? And the "just be confident" and the "just be yourself" is totally contradictory
@jawherlili6074
7 жыл бұрын
I'm losing my confidence here.....
@vexversaa239
6 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@mayurbande7733
6 жыл бұрын
block gum just keep in mind, you are not alone
@johnathons1789
6 жыл бұрын
Britney L too bad the poison already took effect
@SandwichDoctorZ
6 жыл бұрын
Britney L if there are women who like shy guys they need to start speaking with action. Most of us already stopped taking women seriously as they contradict words and actions.
@glossy9154
6 жыл бұрын
block gum lol fr
@CelticPoison
7 жыл бұрын
This is actually fairly good news. With all the fish in the sea - as the saying goes - being shy might thin the numbers a bit, making a quality woman easier to find.
@user-ty2fd5nu6u
6 жыл бұрын
hmmm this comment gave me hope xD
@DeepForestRex
6 жыл бұрын
If a girl has a crush on me, then I’ll know that she’s someone very special. I hope this doesn’t hurt anyone’s feelings :)
@JSSTyger
7 жыл бұрын
They don't like shy guys because relationships require at least one person to put effort into it.
@DailyDiscountNL
7 жыл бұрын
JSSTyger Yes, so when the girl is shy than it's our problem when w're also shy? strange...
@brobicho
7 жыл бұрын
Good one ...Most Woman nowadays don't like anything that requires EFFORT
@mwloos1
7 жыл бұрын
Going thru life for a hot woman is like a game of bowling with bumpers in the gutters
@thebosstex1172
7 жыл бұрын
Shyness doesn't take away one's ability to put in an effort. People who say it does are hypocritical and prejudice!
@FadeHook23
7 жыл бұрын
JSSTyger shyness = not willing to spend money on me and just me. (At least in a woman's mind)
@JaspreetSinghArtist
6 жыл бұрын
Rich guy = confident guy . thats what they are trying to say .
@premnath2017
6 жыл бұрын
Jaspreet Singh fact bro
@pragmatique1223
6 жыл бұрын
Ahahahahh bullshit. Nice excuse for your lack of confidence
@Harryam3
6 жыл бұрын
@@pragmatique1223 lad you haven't seen confidence of Sardar ji yet
@pragmatique1223
6 жыл бұрын
Harry Moudgil whatever that means
@pragmatique1223
6 жыл бұрын
Draconicus the Reaper whats that? Did you get offended, snowflake? Well clearly you know me so it’s reasonable for you to speak up
@romeodesilva9408
6 жыл бұрын
This is why those "confident" guys who approach you..eventually cheat on you😂
@beckywarren997
6 жыл бұрын
Romeo De Silva Shy guys are better because they don't cheat and they are funny ,cute and loves telling jokes and they don't use girls.Im single 39 yr old.
@marcmimo4609
3 жыл бұрын
@@beckywarren997 Facts
@Da1Dez
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@miiroramzyashilaf
2 жыл бұрын
Lol bro 😂😂😂 that's it, I'm really shy man i couldn't get the girl i liked in ninth grade but life moved on man
@williamfield3348
7 жыл бұрын
Its a pity because a shy person can also be a sign of a person who is more self aware, with a greater awareness of others and generally more intelligent and generally has a personality. Who would rather see who this person is that theyre interested in first before giving your heart away to a person whom they do not even know by shamelessly flirting with every girl until one says yes. Meanwhile each girl thinks its only them that the confident guys are interested in. Big misyake ladies.
@azzey4ilfe
7 жыл бұрын
well said thumbs up
@G8GTJav
7 жыл бұрын
william field -True.
@courage552
7 жыл бұрын
I'll say this don't ever judge a book by its cover just because someone is shy or introvert doesn't mean that they're boring or uninteresting This is why so important to get to know people they might surprise you.
@pdggaming3627
7 жыл бұрын
+Courage Ekhaguere #wisdom of a g.o.a.t
@pdggaming3627
7 жыл бұрын
+Courage Ekhaguere #wisdom of a g.o.a.t
@DronZizzle
7 жыл бұрын
Lol at the girls who think that shy= unconfident
@reezis1619
6 жыл бұрын
That is the definition of shy in the dictionary though, what the hell are you talking about?
@Jambuc829
6 жыл бұрын
DronZizzle Shyness with women is a direct result of lack of confidence.
@mostafaehab1942
6 жыл бұрын
DronZizzle lol that's what it means
@Jambuc829
6 жыл бұрын
surojit chatterjee doubt it but that's funny
@sharkfrenzy213
6 жыл бұрын
lol they want a guy to do everything for them
@tioetiopepepe1899
6 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@PpAirO5
5 жыл бұрын
Women in a nutshell.
@mcpartridgeboy
5 жыл бұрын
And they have millions of men who will, if a few like you don't it just means your alone and their getting sex and love without doing anything.
@WiredDragon-fm6sy
5 жыл бұрын
and yet complain if you actually do that
@DogDamour
4 жыл бұрын
@@mcpartridgeboy sadly
@OurBros
6 жыл бұрын
Shy guys/girls are usually only shy around new people but almost all ways open up given enough time
@mugetsukurosaki7707
6 жыл бұрын
HighGradeQP Ikr once shy guys ,like myself ,know a person more we act the complete opposite of how we are originally.
@DA2THFA1RY
6 жыл бұрын
People like to label me a shy because I don't go out often, habe many friends, or have a girlfriend... but to be honest, it's because I don't really care for that lifestyle. I have no troubles making friends or going out places. I just prefer to stay at home or hang out with specific people
@beckywarren997
6 жыл бұрын
Pickle Rick Your lifestyle is awesome.I think the same way.Being shy or hanging out certain people is very nice.Im shy and I'm the same way.
@vijayatman
6 жыл бұрын
Same here bro
@greatestmusiclive6175
6 жыл бұрын
Same. How old are you?
@deadwolf3607
6 жыл бұрын
Its beter to have 3 good friends then 10 meh friends and not going out means that you would be beter suited for a father
@Qliphirot
6 жыл бұрын
I'm 22 and i get a lot of shit because i am exactly like that since ever.
@dfrancis9939
6 жыл бұрын
Double standards, it's ok for women to be shy but there's no reason for a man to be
@mcpartridgeboy
5 жыл бұрын
Different not double standards, a good looking nice shy girl will get a few million offers over her life, a good looking nice shy guy will get zero, just as a bad mannered overconfident arrogant abusive ugly cheap stupid disloyal bully will get all the women, but a woman like that will only get hundreds of thousands of offers instead of millions.
@mck7646
5 жыл бұрын
These women who say they're shy don't seem all that shy to me. A shy woman seems to be a rare thing these days.
@usamazulqarnain8420
5 жыл бұрын
@@mck7646 So true
@mck7646
5 жыл бұрын
@@usamazulqarnain8420 I really hate living in the U.S. sometimes cause the idea of being super confident and a "go getter" is pushed really hard. Many of the women are too loud and chatty for my tastes. I'm a bit shy but mostly introverted and dislike loud and over confident people. You wanna see really shy women? Go to Japan, that's probably where I'm headed one day. Many women there are shy, modest, and cute as fuck. And many of them really know how to treat a man well.
@beencxzy996
5 жыл бұрын
Damon SOCIETY CREATED A BUNCH OF BETA MALES THATS WHY THESE FEMINIST TALK SO MUCH SHIT........AND GET AWAY W IT CUZ THEY GOT A PUSSY LOL
@KidWithThePen21
7 жыл бұрын
what i don't like is how these "shy" girls are saying they want a guy to "bring them out of their shells because they are shy" yet maybe a guy is looking for a girl who can do that help him because he is also shy. the way gender roles work is really quite horrible
@DailyDiscountNL
7 жыл бұрын
Zay Hodge Give this man a medal! point made!
@Berschkaka
7 жыл бұрын
Zay Hodge :] ♡
@MrWolfchamp-xi3cu
7 жыл бұрын
Zay Hodge yes exactly
@elijahgodsservant2906
Жыл бұрын
Dude you should never as a man look towards a woman to fix your problems.
@FF-bj4nq
Жыл бұрын
Gender role is not a bad thing, the bad thing is women are denying gender role but still expect men to stick to their role while dating. And after men truly do their job, women just call all the men's hard work manipulative behaviors
@toma6068
3 жыл бұрын
Some of these responses are unbelievable. One woman says "it's a shame to be shy" and that there's "no need", I'd like to see her say that to a depressed person. Someone else calls it boring. So just because they don't blabbermouth as much as sociable guys means they are inherently less interesting. Wow. And then one woman says they're attracted to arrogant people over shy people. What the fuck
@Luemm3l
7 жыл бұрын
sometimes it is really depressing watching this... so many stupid people around (talking about both genders here) prancing around with highest self-confidence showing their swagger and really intriguing, exciting and intelligent personae hiding behind their shyness or weirdness and constant- self-doubt fearing what others might think of them... everyone is like "express yourself" "be more open" "be more self-confident, self-assertive", but when you do, you are suddenly weird, overly emotional, a jackass or whatnot.
@mekonggiantcatfish202
7 жыл бұрын
Luemm3l People are far to stupid ignore all of them and find people who think right
@bryant2456
7 жыл бұрын
let it happen naturally and dont give a fuck what other people think
@Luemm3l
7 жыл бұрын
haha, when I do that, everyone says I'm ignorant or "cold" or "unapproachable" :D
@Nothing-ce8uv
7 жыл бұрын
'let it happen naturally' lol from experience i can say that's the last thing you should do unless you are visually attractive. if you don't force yourself to learn by crawling out of your comfort zone and repeat terrible mistakes over and over again, nothing will change. no miracle is going to happen.
@onthaticeburg_ess6542
7 жыл бұрын
13 minutes ago lol
@jared3747
6 жыл бұрын
Women hate a moral man because he shows how evil she is.
@cosmicomen9945
6 жыл бұрын
Jared Exactly!
@beckywarren997
6 жыл бұрын
I like shy guys with morals and respect.Im shy to
@MrWolfchamp-xi3cu
6 жыл бұрын
Amaravi He isnt assuming certain people are immoral he is simply stating a fact. The morality of one person will always shine a light on the immorality of others only the thing is no one is moral. Everyone has sins in the closet. So if he's assuming that then he isn't wrong. But people that are like super immoral will likely be super insecure around a moral person because that person's light will only make them feel like crap and they probably won't even realize why. They'll just be so angry at the person for their moral values and general good nature that they won't realize that is the reason is they're insecure around them. Theyll feel inferior and insecure and won't know why. It's their conscience telling them that they can be better but they can't seem to discern what it's saying.
@daddy5957
6 жыл бұрын
Amaravi Morals and values exist so quit whining about it! There are things that are right by virtue and things that are not right by virtue. This is how we are able to live in communities. It's a social contract we all live by otherwise we'd be in the era of warring tribes still.
@amosmaka6030
6 жыл бұрын
Jared That's some deep stuff bro. Wow... hadn't really thought about it like that.
@BarfyMan_362
7 жыл бұрын
Anxiety is a bitch, if we could just "be confident" why the fuck would we choose to be anxious or shy 🤦♂️
@tracer073
7 жыл бұрын
Phonespin Grump life has fuckd you in the ass my friend and creamed too, and I thought I had it bad, there's always somebody that have it worst huh, good luck in life my friend
@IIMaRVII
7 жыл бұрын
i can totally relate to that bro. yeah they do exist, but most of them have severe problems or arent too attractive. if you are not confident and cant be a reckless douche if you need to, you can either lower your standards, prepare for severe problems and become an amateur free time psychologist, or you keep getting rejected by everyone and live the rest of your life alone. the world is full of superficial and one sided people. most relationships or friendships are a means to an end. you are exchangable to most of the people around you and everyone will die alone anyway. no one really cares about "great personality" or your effort to make a difference. "just be yourself" is the worst and most stupid advice people give in this situation, because no one wants to see this at first glance. its all about how you pretend to cope with reality in the most positive and socially accepted way. there are guidlines for this... everything that steps out of line is seen as a weakness, no matter what it is and what advantages come with it. if you want to, there is always the option to get cucked by a feminist, who prentends to care for good people and moral standards, but acts like a total sociopathic bitch when no one is looking. maybe not really thinking about these things is a start to cope with this. if you come to a pragmatic realisation of the meaningless and superficiality of our existence, it will lead to a vicious circle of severe anxiety and depression. you are fucked either way. it would be best if you just would not give a shit about anything and do what you want. it is the most important thing, that everyone else, who is successful and happy has in common.
@geez5519
7 жыл бұрын
Phonespin Grump exactly! Smh. Shy guys are still cute af 😍
@CellJr.
7 жыл бұрын
DO NOFAP. Your anxiety will disappear.
@tracer073
7 жыл бұрын
@ cell jr that will work, but if only I could break the addiction been trying for two years and I only could do thirty days
@liamcraddock9539
6 жыл бұрын
Girls aren't scary huh?!? I remember I was queuing for lunch once and a girl turned round and said "stop staring at my bum!" even though I wasn't! I said "what the hell? I'm not" and luckily her friends chipped in and said "leave him alone! He wasnt" It scares me how easy it is for a woman to fuck up your life just because theyve decided they don't like the look of you. It was lucky her friends weren't insane as well or I could've got accused of something I didn't even do!
@shaggygaming4612
6 жыл бұрын
Shy or confident guys??.....LOL All they need is a Rich Guy!!!!
@thatguyman6044
6 жыл бұрын
Broken Matt Hardy true
@ijatload9914
6 жыл бұрын
Lord Jiren so true bro...
@andres5220
6 жыл бұрын
This is always the comment of a loser
@shaggygaming4612
6 жыл бұрын
Andres Yepez it's evident who's the loser just by looking at your profile pic
@andres5220
6 жыл бұрын
Lord Jiren hahahahahah men thats the worst answer you could give at least my profile pic is me, not like yours of an anime the virginity is all no you 😂
@FinSkater17
6 жыл бұрын
This confirms it, I'm going to be alone forever
@beckywarren997
6 жыл бұрын
Peety "P.T" You won't be alone forever.
@CRASHONTHEWAY
6 жыл бұрын
That means your are different from most of the people.
@Kakarot64.
6 жыл бұрын
Danny Rand. On the plus side no cheating wife who’d trade you in for a rich man in a heartbeat and brainwash your kids to hate you.
@galpick1717
3 жыл бұрын
No ur not :)… thats just kinda dumb girls who think shy= unconfident. Im a shy guy, and i know for a fact a lot of girls have been into me, you just gotta find the good ones
@tmp.7622
3 жыл бұрын
same
@zeromegatron5533
7 жыл бұрын
Im a shy guy I would love for woman to accept me for being shy and accept me for who i I'm
@FazeParticles
7 жыл бұрын
would never happen, women don't about those things, they care about money and resources. they're superficial.
@depressorfull
6 жыл бұрын
There's women out there who do man, the percentage is far lower but they're out there. Like alpha women.
@user-ty2fd5nu6u
6 жыл бұрын
hahaha theyre rare! in 15 years I only found 1 or 2
@foxxy1851
6 жыл бұрын
I love shy guys, most girls who don't are stupid and they're part of the dumb, loud egotistical society. Guys who like them are pretty annoying as well.
@themilkman9412
6 жыл бұрын
ZERO MEGATRON date a shy girl then there’s plenty of shy girls more then men
@ChrisWilliams-ls7ue
6 ай бұрын
I am a born introvert, I will always be. Difference is that, being an introvert my whole life, I have heard from countless people that I am shy and lack low self esteem. The reason I became shy was that I was fooled into thinking you had to run your mouth. From now on I don't give a fuck anymore and am not going to "try" and speak. If you think being quiet equals low self esteem, well thats on you from now on and not me. Real confidence for me from now on will be not giving a damn about not speaking, which will get rid of my shyness, because I won't try to be someone I am not anymore
@Storm0fSteel
Ай бұрын
Based
@Pragnantweggyboard
7 жыл бұрын
"I'm quite shy myself" *allows random person on street to question them on camera* Buuuuuuullllllshhhhiiiit
@mostafaehab1942
6 жыл бұрын
Lol these girls don't want us guys to be ourselves sometimes being shy is a part of your personality 😂
@Handlethis81637
6 жыл бұрын
Mostafa Ehab Nowadays, women want everything their way, all the time in a relationship, and if they don’t get it, they’ll bitch up a storm, threaten to or actually leave the relationship, and hold anything, no matter how petty, against you.
@brentcook2072
6 жыл бұрын
Mostafa Ehab true man
@SAD-sq1dr
6 жыл бұрын
I am a shy person ....my whole life is cringe
@beckywarren997
6 жыл бұрын
baba black sheep I'm shy and there's nothing wrong with that.Shy men is more nicer,sweeter,funny and caring.
@flyingwhales3735
6 жыл бұрын
baba black sheep I was too before I started using Xanax trust me Xanax is the answer to every shy and introverted persons problems
@jumpman2346
5 жыл бұрын
@@flyingwhales3735 how's it feel?
@sharpnickelz
5 жыл бұрын
@@beckywarren997 Yeah, but do they turn you on? Does a shy guy make you want to tear his clothes off? A friend can be nice, sweet, funny, and caring too. That said, just because a guy is shy when he first meets a woman, that doesn't mean he will be shy once he has warmed up to you. And you know what they say about the quiet ones. =P You'd be surprised how good, giving, and game a shy guy will be if given the chance, and may even let his primal side come out if that is something you prefer.
@WiredDragon-fm6sy
5 жыл бұрын
@@beckywarren997 most of the time
@francohouston2495
6 жыл бұрын
I'm shy AF but I'll find someone who loves me the way I am.
@nobodysbusiness7866
5 жыл бұрын
I feel you bruh
@ironman8257
3 жыл бұрын
Is it you on the avatar?
@G3O.On3
7 жыл бұрын
being shy has very little to do with confidence, it's more like a personality.
@johnvasquez406
7 жыл бұрын
wrong. shyness with women or people, is a form of fear. Check out a scientific backed up website called 2knowmyself. you can call it social anxiety with women or social phobia. it is a phobia like any other. Like phobia to mice. a phobia isn't part of you. You aren't born with it, you obtain it. so you obtained shyness, and just how you obtained shyness, you can eliminate it.
@onthaticeburg_ess6542
7 жыл бұрын
stfu bitch maybe they just are when seeing new people
@suznak177
7 жыл бұрын
John Vasquez not necessarily bro, you could be that type who prefer to know less people but when you deal with people you are confident, i agree its a type of fear but doesnt mean it is a bad thing you have the right to fear wrong choices
@dorianjp
7 жыл бұрын
shut the fuck up
@rivakenpachi656
7 жыл бұрын
Geo Gil yeah actually im shy because im shy
@jameslandon1293
7 жыл бұрын
There's nothing wrong with shy people. Just because they're shy, doesn't mean they haven't got a terrific personality.
@Brandon-ew8mr
6 жыл бұрын
Shy guys may not say much, but we say a lot more important stuff. Confidence and shyness are not opposite in my opinion, you can absolutely be confident and shy.
@thohahussin5035
6 жыл бұрын
Proves I will die single
@Joker-dn5xs
6 жыл бұрын
Britney L Sorry dude, but you don't know that. Well he doesn't either but still...
@thohahussin5035
6 жыл бұрын
Redd 02 I am single
@Joker-dn5xs
6 жыл бұрын
Thoha Hussin Me too man... It hurts...
@etherallullaby5482
6 жыл бұрын
Thoha Hussin Yeah same
@SOULE547
6 жыл бұрын
Thoha Hussin Same
@rfn
7 жыл бұрын
Good thing im shy. Will be lone forever and become rich
@azura9987
7 жыл бұрын
Mike I'm only fucking 15 and I already know that I'm too socially inept that I will live alone watching entertainment, browsing 4chan, and playing modded games for the rest of my life, the only chance I will have at socializing will be on multiplayer games
@SurvivalGames1
7 жыл бұрын
aurazach self-fulfilling prophecy
@onthaticeburg_ess6542
7 жыл бұрын
same ima live alone
@andrewadams7052
7 жыл бұрын
Mike yes choose money first it's better.
@JackoBanon1
7 жыл бұрын
Being rich isn't good, either. You will fall in love with a hollow bitch and she will take all your walth in the end.
@RandomVidz690
6 жыл бұрын
The thing is, once you get to know a shy guy really well, you find out whether he is really sweet or secretly a psychopath.
@MrK1ngi
7 жыл бұрын
What my life so far(31 years old) has taught me about being super shy is that you may miss out on alot of experiences whether it be with Women, Friendships, Employment or whatever. Theres nothing wrong with being shy but people are naturally drawn to confidence. If you are truly happy, Then thats all that matters.
@Prodigy396
7 жыл бұрын
Bronson Kingi This is true +1 bro.
@aicapitan3279
7 жыл бұрын
oath! im 27 and feel the same way. im content with my life and am happy enough. and im really only interested in one girl to make me happy. i just hope i have my shitt in order by the time i have the opportunity to meet her.
@ThestLegion-ki8ig
6 жыл бұрын
DeathlyHall0w We'll for me as a shy guy what I would do is ether surround myself with friends in a public event, or do something that would get your mind off of things like being shy by drinking couple of caffinated drinks or a little achohal and then you'll be sociable at least for a while, and DON'T over due on the achohal.
@beckywarren997
6 жыл бұрын
Bronson Kingi If a shy guy makes me happy well I'll be the happiest woman.😄😊😋
@firstlast8258
Жыл бұрын
Speak for yourself 🤓🖕
@STNJ_YT
7 жыл бұрын
"I don't like a shy guy cause I'm shy" the logic
@Renzov12
7 жыл бұрын
mrbbell basically
@chunkyMunky329
6 жыл бұрын
Actually the logic is very rational. Being in a relationship means being in a team and a team works best if you have complimentary skills and are capable of helping each other overcome their flaws. A girl doesn't want her boyfriend to be more of a girl than her. She already has friends who can be superficially nice to her. She wants a man who can bring a manly influence into her life.
@chunkyMunky329
6 жыл бұрын
Chiro Hisuke Shy is a vague word that can mean different things depending on your perspective. But it's clear to me that the girls in this video are talking about the kind of guy who is a pussy
@chirohisuke7800
6 жыл бұрын
@Amaravi no they are not, they talk about shy guys, not pussies.
@chunkyMunky329
6 жыл бұрын
Chiro Hisuke Are we even watching the same video? @ 0:30 "They're not great. They can't tell you what they want" that's a pussy
@raulmasha7628
6 жыл бұрын
"MONEY, MONEY, MONEY, MONEY, MONEY!" That's what's going through each girl's girls mind right now!
@ΤάσοςΠισιμίσης-λ1μ
2 жыл бұрын
Nope. Richness doesn't bring women. Even if you are a billionaire, you should do the approach and all the hard work to get a woman. Women biological have the passive role and never approach any guy, rich or not, famous or not, handsome or not.
@montevideo3580
6 жыл бұрын
Shy guys are not brave? I'm a shy guy and I consider myself to be brave. I'm very good at talking about my feelings. For example I told a girl whom I was in love with about my feelings for her. Sadly she rejected me but at least I let her know and it took a lot of courage to tell her about my feelings. Being brave is not about having no fear it's about overcoming your fear even though it's hard.
@beckywarren997
6 жыл бұрын
Montevideo Thats good letting your feelings out.
@HellhoundIX
6 жыл бұрын
True to your last statement. Bravery can be faked too just to impress people. But when it comes time to prove it? 80% of these “brave” people scurry like rats.
@beckywarren997
6 жыл бұрын
The Glorious God-Tier Waifu-Chan It's good that guys let their feeling out.And I enjoy listening to them to.Shy guys are important to.
@antonivi8968
4 жыл бұрын
These girls don't really know wtf they're talking about if you didn't get the memo. They have different definitions for all these words we be using.
@nickixiusdangelolunala7779
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah shy guys can be brave. I hate it when people say that
@jackiedj
6 жыл бұрын
B E G O N E T H O T
@Randlow
Жыл бұрын
It’s just weird that women will say they don’t like shy guys. But never once start a conversation with a guy they don’t know. Men are expected to be out going but when you’re not youre seen as less of a human being it’s frustrating considering you’re working on yourself and nobody seems to care
@vicknelonis3094
6 жыл бұрын
There’s a reason that the saying is the loudest one in the room is the weakest
@edgargarcia6143
7 жыл бұрын
They like to be treat like crap by an arrogant and cocky guy
@kingsk0133
7 жыл бұрын
edgar garcia yeah 😒
@bernadettk.7713
7 жыл бұрын
hell nah not every girl/woman likes ass guys. I personally hate them and I'm actually trying to get close to a shy guy. I can tell that he's far more intelligent than those over confident assholes.
@alceushunterx
7 жыл бұрын
if you want to know what goes on in his head, you can always ask me. I'm a confident shy guy.
@Jambuc829
6 жыл бұрын
edgar garcia confidence and cockiness are two completely different things. They want a guy who is not too shy to approach and start a conversation that's it. It takes confidence to express feelings for some strange person without knowing how they feel about you in return. Men worry too much about rejection because rejection hurts. But for me regret is much much worse. I'd rather get rejected by a woman than to wonder if she would've had hot sex with me if I just asked for her number.
@drhappyninja
6 жыл бұрын
bern k. Want a cookie?
@Jimmy-zu2ks
6 жыл бұрын
I'm a 20 year old virgin and I've been shy all my life. I am not ashamed of it either. I don't care what girls think of me or what others think of me because I like being myself. As long as I am comfortable with myself and happy with who I am, that's all that matters. Never give a shit of what others think of you(I know, you hear people say that all the time but it's true). The only reason why I'm shy is because I am a humble human being who treat others with kindness and respect. I don't give a shit of what girls think of me because I am confident about who I am and what I believe in. There's nothing wrong with girls who aren't attracted to shy guys. Everybody has their own preference. But once a girl starts to assume that a guy is creepy JUST because he's shy or "nice", then that's where it becomes a problem. That's when the girl is in the wrong, not the guy. Seriously, never "judge a book by its cover". That's something that a lot of girls generally fail to do. And this is why girls are generally stupid a lot of times(not all girls of course). An advice I would give for shy or nice guys out there is...don't change. Why? Because there's nothing wrong with being shy or "nice". You can be however you want to be as long as you're not hurting anyone. If a girl tells you that they want a more confident guy because she wants to be with a guy who's more interesting, fun, and outgoing, and dominant, then it just means that she's attracted to a different personality and you gotta move on. That's okay. But if a girl tells you that you're too creepy or just straight up rejects you in the rudest way possible just because you're shy or nice, then screw her(seriously, these are the type of girls you would want to avoid). So yeah, don't change or be somebody that you're not for other people's pleasure. If you feel more comfortable being a shy person, then stay shy. As long as you're comfortable with who you are then that's all that matters. However, if you DO want to become more confident, then take easy steps and practice. No need to rush or pretend to be somebody that you're not, because that's not called being yourself. Just take time to practice becoming more confident and you'll be comfortable with your new personality. A good tip is, focus on your own goals in life and give zero fucks about what women want. If you care so much about what women want, then that already makes you look weak. I can try to change myself and become more confident so I can get more girls but fuck that. That's not who I am. Girls are complicated so just let them do what they want because there's nothing we guys can do to change their minds really. It's best if we just stick to our true personalities and don't care what girls want because that's what makes you YOU. If girls don't accept you for who you are just because you're shy or nice then that's her problem, not yours. Guys, speak for yourselves. Don't let girls speak for you or determine who you are. That's all I have to say really.
@chriscannon17
Жыл бұрын
How? That’s all I want. Hate my shyness
@romanbandura2451
Жыл бұрын
Amen bro But I have to said that there are girls who are also shy or introverts like us, so theres is a chance to find someone who undertand us👍
@Jimmy-zu2ks
Жыл бұрын
@@romanbandura2451 I hope so but honestly I don't think so. Shy guys don't normally attract shy girls unless they look good. They're just like any other girls really lol. Guys can only get away with shyness if they look good. Other than that, they're just looked at as awkward and creepy. Same thing goes with girls. If she's shy and beautiful, she's considered cute and greatly admired. Double standards are crazy nowadays but it is what it is.
@Jimmy-zu2ks
Жыл бұрын
Didn't realize I commented this 4 years ago. After rereading my own comment, I still stand by what I said.
@andriysseninde7922
Жыл бұрын
@@Jimmy-zu2ks Still makes sense 4 years later. It re energised me and thanks to you
@kierlak
Жыл бұрын
Most people don't know what shyness actually is. Shyness is a fear of social judgement. Quiet people are not necessarily shy, they're often very confident, it's just not visible on the outside. People often associate shyness with lack of confidence, introversion or assertiveness whereas they're are all separate terms. I would recommend a book called Quiet. It beautifully explains what introversion, shyness, sensitivity and confidence actually is.
@steviegi584
7 жыл бұрын
"no reason to be shy" ?? it´s not like we choose to be shy....
@plague_ace6843
6 жыл бұрын
steven ginty ik right
@realreview7932
3 жыл бұрын
the one question she should ask the ones that say they only like confident guys is who they be confident enough to approach a guy themselves and there you HAVE IT !
@shawkyt3174
6 жыл бұрын
0:13 *That guy walking by* 😂😂😂
@thenoobzar
6 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo
@boooo06T
6 жыл бұрын
Saw it straight away lol
@boooo06T
6 жыл бұрын
Was like will there be someone in the comments with this
@wilfred9840
6 жыл бұрын
hahahaha
@pite9
6 жыл бұрын
That was me before clicking on this video.
@kilo1205
6 жыл бұрын
Lol shy people aren't boring once you get to know them and make them feel comfortable.
@RobertEdwinHouse9
6 жыл бұрын
Confidence is a lie
@part-nd6zg
3 жыл бұрын
So is your plan
@RobertEdwinHouse9
3 жыл бұрын
@@part-nd6zg oh my god stop replying to my old cringe comments jesus people
@part-nd6zg
3 жыл бұрын
@@RobertEdwinHouse9 DUTCH, YOUR PLAN SUCKS
@spotted9106
3 жыл бұрын
@@RobertEdwinHouse9 Have faith. HAVE FAITH.
@arthurmorgan2906
3 жыл бұрын
yeah mane
@marcuslosgreat4225
6 жыл бұрын
Why do we associate shy with a lack of confidence?
@someedgyaccount3589
6 жыл бұрын
Marcus LosGreat because they’re pussys
@viktorthevictor6240
6 жыл бұрын
Some Edgy Account Doesn't make any fucken sense
@AnimeSimp234
6 жыл бұрын
Marcus LosGreat I've no fucking idea lol
@Pdrum2
6 жыл бұрын
Because they are stupid, some people just prefer not to talk, what they mean i think is that they like a guy to have confidence and approach them
@etinarcadiaego7424
6 жыл бұрын
Some Edgy Account I am not a "pussy" I just hate most humans and find not worth my time. I only pursue girls that really interest me on some level.
@ricky93100
7 жыл бұрын
"It’s never really seemed to me that shyness was all about fear or timidity. People who aren’t shy, that would be the first thing they would think that it was - that it was about being fearful. And it’s partly about that. But actually for me - and for, I think, quite a lot of shy people - it’s more about the feeling that you haven’t grasped something about social life that should be obvious, that other people have got. But when you spend some time thinking about it, and talking to others about it - as I have for this book - you start to realize that almost everybody feels like that. It’s part of the nature of social life, that it’s full of unwritten, unspoken social codes. Everybody feels like they’re kind of excluded from it, at least some of the time." - Joe Maron
@anxioussmurf2057
6 жыл бұрын
Don't mind me, Just a shy introvert stopping by for his daily confidence boost.....
@beckywarren997
6 жыл бұрын
Vaping Smurf I'm a shy introvert to.And being shy is more comfortable that way along with being a introvert.
@robert7838
6 жыл бұрын
Becky Warren what's your snap?
@beckywarren997
6 жыл бұрын
Rob what do you mean?
@robert7838
6 жыл бұрын
Becky Warren your Snapchat
@EthioJOB
6 жыл бұрын
One more filter to use on women. She says: 'I like confident men...' or 'I don't like shy guys...' BUZZZZ, not interested. Sorry, but I've got standards too. One is that you have the maturity to understand that confidence doesn't necessarily mean good guy, shy doesn't mean compromised, and that you've gotta be willing to shell out what you ask of guys. The shy women I understand, but the other ones who don't like shy guys just because, immature as hell. Just hearing them talk makes me cringe and avoid their type. I feel lucky that I'm not in their radar.
@TaylorEqualsRandom
7 жыл бұрын
girls say they dont like shy guys till they meet a super hot one
@chunkyMunky329
6 жыл бұрын
That only happens when people are young. I started out shy, but over the years I have had so many hot girls take an interest in me that I've learned how to get over my shyness. If a girl is single, then I probably have like a 90% chance of getting her to like me. If she has a boyfriend, I probably have 60%. If she's married, I probably have 40%. This kind of situation is very good for my confidence.
@dangoxnagisaxushioxlove1367
6 жыл бұрын
Why are u trying to hit on girls which have a partner?
@chunkyMunky329
6 жыл бұрын
I don't hit on them, they hit on me.
@YKDSGN
6 жыл бұрын
TaylorEqualsRandom Congrats, you discovered a super secret that looks matters the most.
@dangoxnagisaxushioxlove1367
6 жыл бұрын
thats not really true.
@shawnmacdonald9722
7 жыл бұрын
Women can't seem to tell the difference between a shy guy, a guy that doesn't give a shit about them, lol. I have been labeled shy by women, I think its a defense mechanism they use to take the sting out of a guy not giving a shit that they exist.
@portalsevil
6 жыл бұрын
Shawn Macdonald true dat
@Jambuc829
6 жыл бұрын
No women just want to have fun you don't have to be a jerk just be fun.
@Jambuc829
6 жыл бұрын
Somnumbers Andletterz Nice guy who doesn't make his intentions known until it too late= friendzone. A guy who is confident and makes his intentions known who is nice either gets rejected or gets booty. No friendzone.
@satan4403
6 жыл бұрын
everyone wants to have fun thats not boring mate, sadly woman like having fun with your emotions/feelings, aka texting dudes in their phones all day even if things are going good lolol
@etinarcadiaego7424
6 жыл бұрын
Shawn Macdonald Its possible lol I automatically ignore or friendzone women who I am not interested in and looks got nothing to do with it.
@timothy2696
7 жыл бұрын
The sad fact that nobody ever says is the being shy only works if you are attractive. Looks are everything, regardless if nobody admits it.
@TheShowOff2I
7 жыл бұрын
timothy pita Money*
@chindit6784
2 жыл бұрын
Example of a self fulfilling prophecy. If you're not immediately confident these types of girls resent you and that makes you feel more awkward.
@xzktplm
7 жыл бұрын
The issue here is not whether you're shy or outgoing. It's all about make them feel the queens of the spot or the only women in the world. You can be the most wonderful person in the whole universe, but if you can't broadcast those feelings, you're absolutely transparent. Sad, but true.
@onthaticeburg_ess6542
7 жыл бұрын
W
@anonymosity2264
7 жыл бұрын
What the fuck is a "shy guy" anyway? Is being reserved or quiet really considered such? What if I simply don't want to fucking talk to you?
@LordBoltagon
7 жыл бұрын
Girls are shy and don't like that in a guy! Translated: We(women) are boring as shit and we need you(men) to make our lives more spontaneous, fun and exciting Lol 😂😜 ...because we(women) can never make up our minds and overthink everything, and stay undecided and confused most of our lives!
@invinciblerohan7158
7 жыл бұрын
Nasir Altaf... U.. Said the naked truth man
@bryangalloway1096
4 жыл бұрын
I'm a shy guy, I feel like crap now after watching this lol
@shaishavahir5442
7 жыл бұрын
I'm shy and this video is killing me 😿😿😿
@ThestLegion-ki8ig
6 жыл бұрын
shaishav 11 if I die right now I'll be the happiest person alive.
@duckkyduck4039
7 жыл бұрын
some shy guys have confidence
@suznak177
7 жыл бұрын
naked russian sheepman shy does not mean not confident these hoes dont know shit
@KaushikBala333
7 жыл бұрын
But i am scared as hell of pretty girls!!!
@user-ty2fd5nu6u
6 жыл бұрын
XD same when my crush catches me staring I always get a shocking feeling
@themilkman9412
6 жыл бұрын
Kaushik Bala don’t look on d outside look on d inside with girls
@themilkman9412
6 жыл бұрын
Eren Hollow u funny nigga
@JonBandMiley
6 жыл бұрын
If you are not good looking, then why are you ONLY going after pretty girls?
@beckywarren997
6 жыл бұрын
Kaushik Bala I'm a pretty shy girl and I like shy guys.
@Dellenite
7 жыл бұрын
This proves how arrogant and self preoccupied women are in general because men must do things for them
@punkask3619
7 жыл бұрын
Shy girls need dominant guys, Dominant girls need shy guys. 👍
@jgmoney
6 жыл бұрын
punk ask Yin and Yang. Balance.
@alejandrodaguy5732
6 жыл бұрын
punk ask You, sir! Have completely blown my mind. How did nobody realize of this before? I must know the source of your knowledge!
@melique101
6 жыл бұрын
Both only want a Chad.
@Jambuc829
6 жыл бұрын
Shy guys get no one
@kingoftfl2149
6 жыл бұрын
keep dreaming punk
@DangitBobby9960
Жыл бұрын
There's a reason why most shy people don't put themselves out there is because we've been hurt or shot down repeatedly
@jackleo4435
7 жыл бұрын
It's not that I Am shy, it's just I say stupid shit so I just stay quiet.
@LinkWave290
7 жыл бұрын
They hate them
@magnus00125
7 жыл бұрын
Some people mistake shyness for arrogance
@deustaitan
7 жыл бұрын
TheJancharles in other words, be like Chris Hemsworth
@decreer4567
6 жыл бұрын
I am not shy, I just don't trust people and prefer to stay on the surface.
@beckywarren997
6 жыл бұрын
de'monster 456 I'm the same way.I like shy guys and I'm very shy to.
@someidiotfromnewzealand8154
5 жыл бұрын
They make it sound like we can just switch off our shyness and they make it sound easy. A lot of the times we grow up in a pretty poverty stricken childhood I did especially my parents broke up when I was young so you could think of the impact it had on me from a young age and not all of us are anxious and depressed though I myself am still going through a really depressing phase in my life and I am very anxious but I'm still quite happy with life and I am surprisingly enthusiastic around people that I know but I'm still pretty shy but to all the shy guys(and girls) out therejust don't listen to the bull crap you'll all find the right someone some day(I've yet to find one myself).
@IxamusMC
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah exactly, those peope are so ignorant and blind. It also sucks that those people automatically think that shy people are just arrogant, cocky and boring...
@mohitnegi9870
7 жыл бұрын
I'm depressed now I'm a shy guy :(
@bau_2434
7 жыл бұрын
Mohit Negi no reason to be :).Myself am I a shy guy but I have met a really amazing girl(well she ,,met" me.I haven't said to many words first).She knew how to make me to don't be so shy anymore(at least with her) :)
@user-ty2fd5nu6u
6 жыл бұрын
dont be depresed bruh! I'm very shy and never talk to girls execpt 1 girl cause she accept im like this and she actually talks to me
@carolynmmitchell2240
6 жыл бұрын
Yeah bro you don't want the ones that say they don't like shy guys, look at the video again you can tell the ones who like shy guys have more class
@ThestLegion-ki8ig
6 жыл бұрын
With great patience comes great rewards. Their are more women on this planet then their are of men, you'll find someone special soon its just a matter of time. Just be yourself and keep your eyes sharp for that someone could come into your life at anytime.
@radhe1008
6 жыл бұрын
Bro Mohit, we shy guys are like treasury full of mystery therefore only adventurous lucky girls will be right for us.
@RCmies
7 жыл бұрын
They seem so demanding. I wouldn't hang around people like this. The host seems so neutral lol I actually like her.
@username-pf3di
3 жыл бұрын
I'm a shy girl and I dont know why but I feel offended
@BilalKhan-o5w1b
3 ай бұрын
really
@johndeoliveira8476
6 жыл бұрын
Shy does are usually the smart ones.
@chunkyMunky329
6 жыл бұрын
That's true. A curious doe is probably more likely more likely to get hit by a car than other deers
@belladesa91
6 жыл бұрын
That's why women like these dont like shy guys : they wont get easiliy manipulated like the typical "gym guy"
@beckywarren997
6 жыл бұрын
Shy guys are better!
@simonpetkov6640
6 жыл бұрын
belladesa91 what?
@Sam-zz7gs
6 жыл бұрын
This is just first impressions, if you really give a shit what they think then you need to focus on yourself not them. Most of "shy" guys aren't really shy when they make friends with you.
@1acroyear1
7 жыл бұрын
I like the way that one girl says that there's no reason to be shy. Guys have to do all the work, make all the moves and face all the rejection. All that a woman does is just be there and judge a guy. Of course we all know how good women are at dealing with rejection.
@firstlast8258
Жыл бұрын
Just be rich and good looking bro
@1acroyear1
Жыл бұрын
@@firstlast8258 Wait... what? Is that all? Well, shit. You didn't tell anybody else about this, did you?
@nathanhamberg6733
7 жыл бұрын
I'm really shy around women and the prettier they are to me the more shyer around women I get
@billlevins7460
7 жыл бұрын
You are not alone there are lots of guys that feel like you.
@Ana-bw9cz
6 жыл бұрын
Aww cute
@Ana-bw9cz
6 жыл бұрын
Pedro im just a girl nextdoor sweetheart.. women like me is pretty much everywhere.. hehe
@etinarcadiaego7424
6 жыл бұрын
Nathan Hamberg Fuck looks, man. Pretty women are nothing special just because of their features. They are fucking human beings with the same parts all other women have. Here's a thought, talk to an average girl instead and leave the "beautiful" girls to the rich old men. And looks are also subjective. The chick I am crushing on now is far more attractive than any fucking scrawny horse-faced super model to me.
@beckywarren997
6 жыл бұрын
Nathan Hamberg Hi Nathan! I'm shy around guys and sometimes it's hard for me to talk to them.I like shy guys and if a shy guy came up to me I would smile and I would enjoy talking to him.Shy men are sweet! And very smart.I don't judge.
@jatttzzz
6 жыл бұрын
They want money thats it.
@cloveramv
6 жыл бұрын
I am lucky my girlfriend likes Mystirious guys !
@beckywarren997
6 жыл бұрын
Jatt Singh I like shy men and I'm shy also.Im a woman that don't care about money.I care about making a guy happy and make him laugh and have a great time hanging out with him.
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