Hmm... I came across this video and just binged a few of your other videos. This video was a good reminder that I may be judgemental to others because of my own insecurities as well. I also don't feel good about watching people worse off or judge others to make myself feel better. lol and that's why this video came up while I was trying to process and stop this behavior of mine. Wish us luck on being less hard on ourselves and others!
@PamelaBrooks2020
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your honesty 🙏 I am trying to overcome judgment and being hard on myself.
@incubus_the_man
2 жыл бұрын
Hang in there Wing. I can relate to you on some things. Watch the judgemental thinking. People will do the same to you, especially given your anxiety issues. I feel judged by a lot of people simply because I'm a quiet person. People are like icebergs, you barely see the depth of their character from the surface. Having SA, pepper hardly ever see the greater part of the iceberg do it hurts when they are critical of me overall. People can be really superficial as well. They only care about the surface and how you appear to be. The good thing about you is that you do see fault in your own character and you seem to be willing to change. That's a wonderful trait to have. Some overly confident jerks refuse to find any fault in themselves. I think you need some direction. Something to work towards. Try to join a group (sports, art, music class etc) or volunteer organization. Getting yourself to do it is the hardest part. You don't have to socialize with everyone. You can also make friends that way as well. It will give you more purpose in life. Good luck out there.
@Wing-wh5ih
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks incubusman, that's some solid advice. I honestly thought about joining a dance class because I've always thought the street dance genres were really cool but with covid going around I'd rather not risk catching it and passing it to my family. I notice I'm more judgemental online because it's easier to focus on one thing you don't like about someone and let the negativity manifest. However, when you actually meet people irl it's like you don't have that time and energy to let any judgemental thoughts manifest becuase you're busy chatting to them amd getting to know them.
@drowsyfairy
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Wing, long time since we heard from you was just wondering how you doing c:
@Wing-wh5ih
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Charlotte, thanks for asking. I've been doing alright. I haven't made a video in while because life has been just a bit busier/stressful than usual for me so I just need some headspace right now. But thanks for checking in on me Charlotte. Much appreciated :)
@lifesperils
Жыл бұрын
Hey Wing. How have you been doing ?
@Wing-wh5ih
Жыл бұрын
Hey Jessica, I've been alright, just the usual, how are you?
@lifesperils
Жыл бұрын
Hello. I have been doing ok thank you ! Just working and finally getting back to going out with friends since the pandemic
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