I've always regretted not calling out the lies and inconsistent behavior the FIRST time it happened.
@sherriespencer2461
3 жыл бұрын
I learned after my marriage. I friend zone or disassociate IMMEDIATELY after lie 1. It has been my protection
@ashajeremiahqw8775
Жыл бұрын
❤facts 😊
@drtee2905
3 жыл бұрын
Dated older Ms. Rebecca. I'm 46 and he was 52. He never been married. Just juggled relationships and never lived with a woman. He shared with me that his relationships don't last past 2 years. He had a lot of red flags and was not willing to give quality time. He was literally married to his job! Too busy so he says..lol. I was done! DOING ME! Dating older doesn't always work either.
@jayc5756
3 жыл бұрын
Age or whatever doesn't matter. You gotta pick a man based on his background and upbringing. That will give you a better idea and understanding about who he is. Not guaranteed...but just better idea of him.
@zainabinti5170
3 жыл бұрын
Truuue fact.... some are old in age but very immature...they have been there nd done that, they are not willing to put up some work...
@datingdiaries1681
3 жыл бұрын
Older men are just as bad age truly doesn't matter maturity is in any age
@sherriespencer2461
3 жыл бұрын
A lot of men are emotionally unavailable and the moment they give off that vibe I disassociate
@zainabinti5170
3 жыл бұрын
Dating older men doesn't guarantee true love... I have been dating older men, I'm sorry,they behave worse than teenagers.At this point, I'm going back to my age group.
@NursingHubPro
3 жыл бұрын
I will never date a man over 10 years older than me again. They are such manipulators!
@blacktinkerbell2324
2 жыл бұрын
I concur.
@camilleandriette
3 жыл бұрын
Don’t trust anyone that gives a hard time about answering legitimate questions . Complete red flag 🏴☠️
@TiffanyA837
3 жыл бұрын
you won't hear from me after that. Keep your secrets then
@camilleandriette
3 жыл бұрын
@@TiffanyA837 Exactly
@mann8098
3 жыл бұрын
That's why I like you Mrs. Pope, you are one of the few women on KZitem that speaks truthfully about the realities, consequences and implications of marriage in this modern society.
@mann8098
3 жыл бұрын
Subject is fascinating (that's why I keep commenting). As a man, telling the truth I've observed 2 things during my life on this Earth: 1)some people just have an affinity for lying and some naturally don't (like me). 2)older people (men and women) are some of the biggest liars, scammers and cons. They've lost any semblance of shame associated with lying, to get what they want.
@esmeralda9767
3 жыл бұрын
Find a man that can make you laugh. To some degree he's already honest with himself if he can laugh at himself or a situation 🥰
@DrWillEnterprises
3 жыл бұрын
I know 3 guys who were funny enough to be on stage ... one killed his woman ... another attempted to kill his woman; her life was saved by a stranger ... and the other attempted suicide because his woman was about to leave him ...
@floridaroadways
3 жыл бұрын
A man doesn’t have to make a woman laugh as long as he’s honest.
@esmeralda9767
3 жыл бұрын
To end the battle of the sexes is to realize we all inherently want the same thing In most partnerships. Respect, love, loyalty honesty the basics. Heal before you try to save someone else
@esmeralda9767
3 жыл бұрын
And yes nobody's perfect but someone worth it will make the ride durable
@leofeza9325
3 жыл бұрын
Probably the only sensible thing I've read in the comments. Everybody stuck in the self-righteousness bs
@tracyb2291
3 жыл бұрын
I pay for a basic background check before we start to visit each other's house. It has become a part of my dating experience. Hmmm. I'm going to amp it up to private investigator level to make sure I know what I'm getting involved in. Great advice!
@Passion84GodAlways
3 жыл бұрын
👀 Are there any particular sites you recommend for the basic background check? ✍🏾📝 Thank you in advance for your time! 😁
@DrWillEnterprises
3 жыл бұрын
If I see a woman that is a potential keeper, I pay to let her do a background check on me as a way to let her know that I'm going to do one on her too ... you can learn a lot about a woman's character, discipline, and if she plays well with others by simply looking at how long she remains with the same employer or the same lover ... If she can't maintain long employer employee relationships ... she will exhibit difficulty maintaining personal relationships ... (ladies, I don't want to hear the "not all" and "not always" bullshit) ... the P.I. level is a deep dive ... personally I would only do that if I thought she could be the one I might ask to marry ...
@Passion84GodAlways
3 жыл бұрын
@@DrWillEnterprises - Thank you for sharing your perspective!
@DeCurtaRican
3 жыл бұрын
Good luck to you. 👍🏾
@The-Mediator
3 жыл бұрын
You don’t have to have life experience for marriage. The issue is in western culture, we’re overwhelmed by sexual messages. It disrupts healthy relationships.
@cinematv7370
3 жыл бұрын
Also scripted romance narratives that are repetitive inauthentic and fixed. It creates unnatural expectations and people become robotic in relationships. Imagery is how you manifest so watch what you look at.
@The-Mediator
3 жыл бұрын
@Marie Baker You mean most people in western culture. Other cultures marry young and stay married.
@beac8238
Жыл бұрын
@mariebakerchats the problem isn’t dating or life experience. It’s the selfish and lustful mindset. It’s the lack of healthy interpersonal skills. This cannot produce healthy love and strong families.
@daniellesullivan5
3 жыл бұрын
Omg she’s right! Make sure you Google somebody when you start dating them 🤦🏾♀️
@queenriri9393
3 жыл бұрын
I'm ahead of the game because EVERYONE I date gets background checked. I'm a legal professional so no way would I allow a man into my life without thoroughly investigating his background.
@shirleykean3937
3 жыл бұрын
@Queen RiRi is this a service you offer to woman? Once I get back out and dating. This time around a full background check I will do. Just need to find someone to do it. Thanks,
@queenriri9393
3 жыл бұрын
@@shirleykean3937 no I do not. Everyone has access to do it via the internet.
@tinaharris7046
3 жыл бұрын
Hello I'm glad you said that. What ways can I start doing good background checks on a certain individual?
@Passion84GodAlways
3 жыл бұрын
@Queen Riri - Are there any particular sites you recommend for the basic background check? ✍🏾📝 Thank you in advance for your time! 😁
@queenriri9393
3 жыл бұрын
@@Passion84GodAlways I'm not sure where you ladies live and without telling too much about what I do, search for online criminal databases. Also, where I live I can search the court database to see if a person has any child support or civil cases. If they claim to be divorced, that information is also available online through our court system in Chicago. Good luck!
@rochelledavenport4054
3 жыл бұрын
As Robert Kiyosaki wrote in one of his books: "A statement is just an opinion until it is PROVEN to be a fact. Even if I say to you, 'My name is Robert' this is an opinion until you have the proof." Recently I was chatting with someone about how this guy we both know owns a house in a particular neighbourhood. I replied, "Maybe he does, maybe he doesn't. He says he does, but have we seen the title deeds??" ;)
@Sunflower_1818
3 жыл бұрын
Pull up the property appraiser records.
@DrWillEnterprises
3 жыл бұрын
"Even if I say to you, 'My name is Robert' this is an opinion until you have the proof." ... do you see how quick you ladies are ready to believe bullshit ... but then you look at a man cross eyed when he tells the simple truth! ... If man's name IS actually Robert then that's a FACT not opinion ... whether or not you want to wait to verify that he gave you the right name before you believe him ... has nothing to do with the fact that his name is indeed Robert ...
@rochelledavenport4054
3 жыл бұрын
@@DrWillEnterprises Don't laugh, but I did not learn my husband's real name until our second date, when he voluntarily showed me his driver's license. He was born overseas and uses an "English" name socially and at work etc but it is not the name by which his family know him (or the authorities, had his intentions been suspect). Of course, I never doubted him but thanked him when he explained... Anyhow, I think the point Robert K was trying to make is one never knows what someone might be lying about or what they have to gain from doing so. It's about us being able to discern what we might have to lose.
@DrWillEnterprises
3 жыл бұрын
@@rochelledavenport4054 True ... but Robert's name is actually Robert ... he wasn't stating an opinion he stated a fact ... he wasn't using a fake or assumed name ... he stated his real name but then said his statement of fact could be just an opinion ... real men or men who are NOT trying to deceive or mislead don't make statements like that ... real men try to clear away any grey areas or clear up an ambiguities quickly ... your husband gave you an assumed name initially ... but once he realized that he liked you ... he told you his real name quickly so that there would be no confusion or mistrust later ... that's what real men do ... real men don't try to bamboozle you and take you off balance by stating that what is indeed a fact "could" be just an opinion ... that is what con artists do.
@blacksongbird100
3 жыл бұрын
Rebecca, you are absolutely right. Women COULDN'T leave... not without severe consequences. I can remember my great grandmother telling me when I got engaged that if I wanted to be happy (while being married) to have another man on the side. And she said that while we were standing in church. 🤯 So, NO. Everyone that had a long marriage that ended in death was NOT happy.
@childofgodskingdom8403
3 жыл бұрын
WoW!! I was sort of sad how our ancestors lived and hated their lives
@ArethaRenee
3 жыл бұрын
My great aunts had side dudes and great uncles had whole other families.
@blacksongbird100
3 жыл бұрын
@@ArethaRenee Jesus! 😆😆
@ladyofspa
3 жыл бұрын
Background check and Private Investigator⚡💣🤯💥🧨😮👀. Thank you for making me comfortable with doing this!🕵️♂️
@isabellalora6533
3 жыл бұрын
Nice girls finish last too... bad girls win men fall in love with the bad girls
@talaya2523
3 жыл бұрын
These are facts! I was dating a man recently for about three weeks. After I did my research aka background check. He had a whole fiance that he just purposed to 12/2020. On top of that they lived together and didn't live far from me.🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
@childofgodskingdom8403
3 жыл бұрын
Wow! I'm glad you researched him. Go girl. It's on now. Stay on point through dating. Vet them
@DrWillEnterprises
3 жыл бұрын
@@October3074 nine times out of ten "google researchers" like her used Intelius dot com
@shamayyahkelley1045
3 жыл бұрын
I swear this just happen to me on Tuesday and the way I found out was some crazy person created a fake social media page and messaged multiple women I just so happen to be one of them and when I asked him about it he said I created the page and sent it to myself 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ I was like wow ok and blocked him so quick
@shamayyahkelley1045
3 жыл бұрын
@@October3074 right I was so shocked …. After I blocked him I thought to myself I can’t believe this happened in real life 🤦🏾♀️ but no he can narrate his story however he must I will never speak to him again 🤷🏾♀️
@TheLuvlfe
3 жыл бұрын
Rebecca I say it ALL the time "I AM NOT FOR EVERY MAN " I do not apologize for it!
@childofgodskingdom8403
3 жыл бұрын
PERIODTTT
@noirfit9721
3 жыл бұрын
Married and divorced twice at 26 and left being a single mom. I’m glad I made SO many mistakes early and was broke lmbo. Now I can build in peace and have no desire to marry again soon if ever. I’m comfortable being alone, it’s beautiful here. Biggest mistake I made with both husbands was being young and gullible, not realizing that men lie ALOT! I thank God I came out the other side unscathed. He knew I was too stupid and didn’t know that love is an action, not just a word.
@childofgodskingdom8403
3 жыл бұрын
My GOODNESS GOD!! Learn and focus.. Anything is possible
@cinematv7370
3 жыл бұрын
If this is true and you contributed nothing and only he behaved badly. Thats sad and tough. Sorry to hear that. But at the same time was thus a bad boy and you just let this happen twice and are just blaming and generalizing men now? Thays not a good narrative to spread, especially if you have a son.
@nicolegibbs8594
2 жыл бұрын
What is the name & author of the book you mentioned? @rebeccalynnpope
@sherriespencer2461
3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly why I say it's probably 98% chance, I won't remarry. I'm financially stable, and I intentionally work daily on my healing and I don't meet a lot of men that are intentional about there healing, including the good guys. I dodged a bullet being the higher earner in my marriage NOT having to pay alimony. A lot of my friends and colleagues were not so fortunate. NOW I know to protect EVERYTHING (my heart, my body and my finances). I KNOW AND TRUST GOD that he will send the right man to me.
@charlenemaeder8027
3 жыл бұрын
This guy just omitted to ll me he lived in his car until a month in.. And yes, it was because he felt “bad” about it (and wanted me to respect him).
@sherriespencer2461
3 жыл бұрын
When I was young I would have accepted that and probably felt pity for him. But at this stage of my life especially if he's over 35 years old I would be his friend but we would not be intimate. Because do you really think at this time in your life if you're living in your car your focus should be on dating? I'm not saying that a man has to be a 6 figure income earner to date me but the fact that you're living in your car and you're not even trying to take care of your own provision....what does that look like long term in a relationship?
@callmejo6
3 жыл бұрын
background checks are a must now a days
@DeCurtaRican
3 жыл бұрын
Did you listen to the video? The Ken who lie are telling mostly small lies and omitting small things. Any man you need to run a background check on gas likely shown you some signs that things aren’t right. Dump the guy. It’s not worth it.
@yvonne2965
3 жыл бұрын
This is just the truth !!!.. I have been so trusting !!!.. Wish I would have found KZitem 10 years ago!!!!.. Thank You Rebecca💖
@shamayyahkelley1045
3 жыл бұрын
I was just in this situation on Monday and he was gone and BLOOOOOOOCKED BY TUESDAY…… it’s a NO IM OUT…..
@workoutdivafitness
3 жыл бұрын
Had to go back and hit “like” on a bunch of videos I watched and forgot to bless. I love your life, such a light in these KZitem streets 💯❤️
@mann8098
3 жыл бұрын
Like Chris Rock said "men lie more, but women tell the biggest lies, ie. "The baby is yours" 🤣
@The-Mediator
3 жыл бұрын
Men hide whole babies with other women.
@mann8098
3 жыл бұрын
@@The-Mediator true, I'm asked all the time if I have kids and when I say "no" I encounter faces of disbelief 🤣 so it must be common also
@Hilary945
2 жыл бұрын
This is exactly why I don't do dating. I have neither the time nor the patience to put up with any secrets or lies that a person comes with.
@sarala1jan
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this clip. It is the truth. I normally when I meet a man and start showing interest, I do background checks, google search, the during dating while taking 2-3 months just meeting in the public places, I ask questions - make mental notes of this answers and then a week later randomly ask the same questions again and make sure the answers are the same....if not, that's is a RED FLAG and time to RUN!!!!!
@kishacalhoun6414
3 жыл бұрын
It's best not dating just practice celibacy. Dating requires too much these days. Enjoy your children!!
@esmeralda9767
3 жыл бұрын
This true and can go both ways. Saves the heartache of lack of vulnerability and false masks, most of us are working off a hologram
@ArethaRenee
3 жыл бұрын
@Marie Baker I am feeling the same way if mine ends. It’s gotten way too complicated and unrealistic.
@TiffanyA837
3 жыл бұрын
23 and this is wonderful , sound advice! I'm allowing God to do his thing
@queenriri9393
3 жыл бұрын
Rebecca girl some older men ain't no good either. I've met some who are very immature cause their age is only a number. It's all about his mentality. Generally speaking most older men have lived their lives and played their games and broke many hearts then they wanna make their ex-wives jealous cause they have a new, young woman. No sir!
@deliteful1991
3 жыл бұрын
No different than the younger ones out here.
@SharonTillmon
3 жыл бұрын
Love the hair! Mrs. Pope is Goals ❤
@ms.a806
3 жыл бұрын
Have your own goals and stop comparing your life to another person’s and seeing their’s as goals.
@SharonTillmon
3 жыл бұрын
@@ms.a806 Its baffling how someone can take a comment, that was positive and see something negative. Your comment is a mirror of yourself, And who asked your opinion? Furthermore, you would think that with all the hatred, division, drama, and the other evils that's going on in the world that we would at least be able to come together, love on each other, edify one another and build each other up. You Ms. A are apart of the problem. (Glow Up) Respectfully, Unbothered 💁🏾♀️
@yvonne2965
3 жыл бұрын
She really is!!!
@GlameresGems
9 ай бұрын
My best friend shared this video with me and I just have to say how much of a blessing this video is to me💕 Thank you so much for sharing 💎
@rounddawaygirl2.042
3 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad I was able to come across this video to let my daughter hear it bc she was jus asking me why this guy she caught up kept lying to her and she’s 19
@KAAT2239
3 жыл бұрын
This msg is invaluable!!! Thank you RLP!!! ❤️ love the new hair style!!!
@bklyn2014
3 жыл бұрын
One of the best videos I have seen lately. So true.
@manateeinsanity2332
3 жыл бұрын
Rebecca...this is my story. My ex financially and emotionally manipulated me. For years. Its so hard to admit. Now my current boo is on the other end of the spectrum. Thank God. But his lies if omission triggered me something fierce!! Now, I do feel like they’re less than when we were first together. He is one of the good guys. Thank you for the reminder of how far Ive come.
@naimahbuckner4062
3 жыл бұрын
You’re giving me Janet Vibes with your hair and makeup Rebecca💕💕
@LS-vt5ot
3 жыл бұрын
Somebody pass the offering plate. This is rich. Bless you mrs pope
@oceanpearl777
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, I had the same thing happen to me being in a situationship. He didn't want sex though, he was a friend but he did tell me it took him time to have feelings for me. He was hurt and told me he wasn't ready for a commitment. I am no longer seeing him and cut him off, because we were not on the same page. But, I do miss him because he was so different than other men.
@moisesbeyond
3 жыл бұрын
Quiet simple....women love the lies of men...when men tell them the truth they reject those men.
@queenofthesouth4205
3 жыл бұрын
This was an excellent video RLP!!! Always honest and dropping gems.
@user-nz6si6md1z
3 жыл бұрын
wow similar situation happened to me rebecca. i got married when i was 19 and he was 21. did so very quickly because of the church and not being allowed to have sex before marriage and all that. i knew the first day that i moved in with him that i made a big mistake but stuck it through for 10 1/2 more years. kept having same problems with him over and over again, nothing changed or got better. always lessons to be learned and i left that marriage the same way i got in, broke and no kids. the part where we didn't have kids was the biggest blessing. it's not too late to build my income.
@ItsBeautifulMe16
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video! It gave me a lot of perspective. I'm 27 years old and am learning how to vet men while dating.
@mav9527
3 жыл бұрын
Hey Sis, I didn't hear why men lie so much It seemed to be a video on how men lie. Maybe you could talk about why a little more some other day? Thanks for all of your time and energy you put into these videos.
@TheLilMagic_
3 жыл бұрын
This is great for my 28-year-old self to listen to you.
@GeminiPeach81
3 жыл бұрын
I've given up on marriage and commitment. These men don't wanna get married nor commit anymore. Best to have a companion if you can find one and focus on living my best life. I do want to have a child but without marriage or a commitment, that looks hopeless as well. Sucks but as I near 40, I just cant see the light anymore unfortunately.
@Fay1106
3 жыл бұрын
when did you start looking for a husband? Do we sometimes as women wait too long?
@childofgodskingdom8403
3 жыл бұрын
It's hard out here. But stay true to yourself. Learn learn learn... God has a plan you must grow in Him.
@GeminiPeach81
3 жыл бұрын
@@Fay1106 around 25. I was strongly encouraged to focus on school and career by my mom.
@The-Mediator
3 жыл бұрын
One of the mistakes both black mothers and fathers make is teaching their daughters to focus on career and encouraging them to have a fear of men. On the flip side, black mothers and fathers enable their sons to be players. So it’s dysfunctional on both sides.
@The-Mediator
3 жыл бұрын
@Marie Baker I agree.
@damonadams3853
3 жыл бұрын
TRUE FACTS ABOUT THE ILLUSIONS DELUSIONS & CONFUSIONS OF THIS LIFE BY THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON THAT COULD EVER TELL IT, A REAL WISE INTELLIGENT WOMAN!!![999]
@damonadams3853
3 жыл бұрын
BLESS GOD YA'LL DESERVE EVERY GOOD THING SO PROUD OF YALL!!![999]
@talaya2523
3 жыл бұрын
This is off the topic you favor Janet Jackson with this new 🔥look! 😍🥰😍🥰😍🥰😍
@deniiyareed
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve experienced almost every situation you described. (Had 12 children and lied about the , got missing for 2 weeks and he got married, lies, lies, lies)
@antonlevay3851
2 жыл бұрын
Generally men learn to be players through heart break and hurt. Women get up and leave without a word very often, so the man learns to do the same and does not feel bad as he knows she would do the same. It is hard to keep your heart open as a man when anyone can leave you and find another within a few days. It's not just family and society, it's women who program us. BTW I love your work and you are giving very solid advice to women and men! Keep it up!
@danamichelleradiatelove
3 жыл бұрын
Thank You for the message, and being Gods vessel. It’s facts period.🙏🏾💜
@smileyatthebeach3452
3 жыл бұрын
Rebecca!!! Yes!! Slow down the race to marriage. People are not authentic and need to be honest with the responsibility AND expectations of being husband and wife! Stop doing it...pump yo breaks!! Marriage is not God's greatest gift. You are not "blessed and highly favored"..JUST because you get married! Abundant life isn't just reserved for those that are married!!#niceforwhat..more like #marriedforwhat...🤣 (married 20yrs..now separated and building a friendship with the "wasband") Thank you!!
@shalalala868
2 жыл бұрын
Bible says he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. Let's not marginalize that, though you don't have to be married to be "blessed and highly favored."
@SamuelBarrPhotography
3 жыл бұрын
And I love your definition of what love is in the 21st century. I'm going to "borrow" that one. :-)
@jongoldsby
3 жыл бұрын
Did you run a background check on Mr. Pope? LOL I like Mr. Pope's Cameo near the end.
@Stainless009
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot Rebecca
@lizzie2301
3 жыл бұрын
8 mins in and it sounds like you’re making excuses for these liars, but I’ll keep watching
@jackwilson9956
3 жыл бұрын
Some men lie because they aren't mature enough to stand on the HARD TRUTH! Emotional warriors can deal with truth. The truth always remain the same. I have struggled with this. It's super difficult to remember what lie I told to whom & why.
@ladyt9618
3 жыл бұрын
You look so beautiful
@childofgodskingdom8403
3 жыл бұрын
Yes she do
@itsHappening-ry2ef
3 жыл бұрын
In the 90s and earlier you could move fast ‼️‼️ not any more these men new game is to get women emotionally attached and then start playing lots of games ladies watch AMS he’s teaching men how to doggggg women out😡😡‼️‼️
@KeyisGodsdaughter
3 жыл бұрын
This man I was with would lie and cheat and claim he did it because he knows women this and women that. Smh you gotta go!
@melissazehnder3832
3 жыл бұрын
I dont think all men lie. There are a few good men❤
@rounddawaygirl2.042
3 жыл бұрын
She emphasized that it ain’t even to the good hearted guys that watches her
@jnoneya7257
3 жыл бұрын
I’m sure there’s red flags while dating .. if you feel in your gut some it hung is not right and you feel you don’t trust them then you know you need to go. You can investigate but if you don’t trust you know what you find out won’t be a good thing lol.
@LesA_09
2 жыл бұрын
She’s right a PI & background check is absolutely imperative I am a true believer of this and I wish I would’ve
@jayc5756
3 жыл бұрын
Nah, why wouldn't I like the topic?? If you speaking real, then it is what it is. Plus, I don't lie...At All. I'm too honest and real for that. So it is what it is.
@vernontaylor1034
3 жыл бұрын
I would have to say it starts at the Foundation of the home , how the individual was raise up and rather or not if they was taught anything about relationship or how to love and respect a woman a lot of young men are left to figure it out on their own and it’s going to be a lot of trials and era for a lot of couples good and bad .
@iza595
3 жыл бұрын
I love your videos! This was a very interesting and true talk👏🏽
@damonadams3853
3 жыл бұрын
JUST PHENOMENAL!!![999]
@Aprils23
3 жыл бұрын
That part 👏🏾✨✨✨✨✨💯🙏🏾
@christienagel9605
3 жыл бұрын
Watching you today from Gresham Oregon! Thanks for sharing your jems of wisdom & knowledge wit us in these videos Miss Rebecca! Wishing you manny blessings & abundance to you & yours. .. xo
@barryhampton6270
3 жыл бұрын
Woo! Great video!! Would you analyze the Holts on the Oprah Winfrey network show called love in Huntsville? Thank you, keep up the great work, let him work with ya!
@biggmonie
3 жыл бұрын
This is my ex.....He omitted alot!! LMAO!!!
@SophiaJones777
3 жыл бұрын
I love this Thank You for sharing beautiful ❤
@malcolmnex9297
3 жыл бұрын
Probably for same reason woman do. Malcolm from Oakland
@kcraig9950
3 жыл бұрын
I thought I was his 3rd marriage. I was his 5th.
@motherswhoempowerothermoth3272
3 жыл бұрын
Hey Hey Queen, Some men need to be accountable for their actions and be an adult about Whatever they do and say. Period Its a cycle starting from their white lies, even lying for no reason, then they just want keep going SmH. But no one is perfect. 😂
@NursingHubPro
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 🙏♥️💎
@SanePeta
3 жыл бұрын
What would you say is compatibility between two people in a relationship?
@theobservermelanin1746
3 жыл бұрын
Maturity determines Whether a woman is worth being honest to or Lied to. Some women and men don't care or Like playing games with Women that are full of Mouth and Shyt. So now he's just hitting it and don't care about your feelings. Many women lie saying that they are looking for FRIENDS but if a RELATIONSHIP HAPPENS THEN SO BE IT. That doesn't make any Freakin Sense.
@DeCurtaRican
3 жыл бұрын
🤔So what study can you cite that supports your premise that men lie more than women? I need sources.
@cinematv7370
3 жыл бұрын
29:50 Women became financially independent before states financially incentivised divorce and multiple kids outside of marriage. In traditional times women had fathers to fall back on for physical and financial protection. Once the financial needs are secure the physical needs become priority. Tax payer women are financing it too. Not politicians.
@DeCurtaRican
3 жыл бұрын
Women omit things, too.
@natashamcclellan2707
3 жыл бұрын
Speak the truth❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽12 dislikes really 😑😑😑
@alberpajares4792
3 жыл бұрын
Cause Mary Poppins lives in supercalifragilisticexpialidocious fantasy-world,..
@CiaoColeG
3 жыл бұрын
There are young people that can be committed for life, but they better be strong in the Lord (like literally a close walk, not just going to church) have godly mentors, and not easily influenced by this promiscuous and me-centered society. It's also better if they haven't had many sex partners before.
@Jacque-de-Jacque
3 жыл бұрын
You cannot genderize the subject of lying. It is all about the upbringing. We all lie in some degree, because that is sometime socially required of us, for example not to hurt other peoples feelings.
@ModelMommyMonologues
3 жыл бұрын
This right here...a man I knew had approached me to date and what you said about professions is so accurate, I told my dad about him and he warned me not to date him. I am glad that I took his warning, because this man didn't know that his girlfriend had friended me on FB because we networked in the same industry at the time. I didn't think anything of it at first, however as some time went on, not much I started to notice, the pictures he posted "solo" she posted the entire picture with her included. They had a serious relationship too🤦🏾♀️ I never said anything, but I thank God that fell in my lap...social media will tell a lot and whether or not he's on it, it is a good idea to hire a Private Investigator check him out along with a background check to verify what he says.
@OG_Bap
3 жыл бұрын
Great video. It's true, even so called "good" men lie.. about stupid stuff
@pinkishdiamondz
3 жыл бұрын
It seems like the only verifiably single men without excess baggage... ARE BUMS 🤷🏾♀️
@cinematv7370
3 жыл бұрын
29:50 party/city people are just one group of society. Most people just want the best for their spouse. I think its when money is used a message of mistrust is when peoples character is preempively questioned. It sends a message that people arent trustworthy including you. It also says that you were always just a wallet when it came to a relationship. You were never a human being. Then to be called bitter for having common sense anger against an insulting action is even worse. Its like rubbing salt on the wound. Adding insult to injury.
@floridaroadways
3 жыл бұрын
If men lie some have a reason to lie especially if he’s being used by a woman
@Arizona_lilly
3 жыл бұрын
Either they r good treaters r bad bad addicts they don't have social media or lose their phones or don't have access to internet
@ladyofspa
3 жыл бұрын
Men create exactly what they are trying not to with women snot yelling and tears. Check people's family pathology.
@chudianrowe7881
3 жыл бұрын
True
@truthseeker44
3 жыл бұрын
The Bible says pastors should be at least 30 for a reason.
@Passion84GodAlways
3 жыл бұрын
I don't recall coming across that. Which Scripture is that please because now I'm intrigued!
@childofgodskingdom8403
3 жыл бұрын
Maturity..
@childofgodskingdom8403
3 жыл бұрын
Jesus was 33 when HE started the ministry
@Passion84GodAlways
3 жыл бұрын
@@childofgodskingdom8403 - Respectfully, I know Jesus was about 30 years old (Luke 3:23) when HE began his ministry but the OC stated the Bible said Pastors (a general statement applied to a group of people) - that's what piqued my curiosity about her statement.
@The-Mediator
3 жыл бұрын
@@Passion84GodAlways Jesus was preaching to crowds when he was a child.
@itarah1
3 жыл бұрын
#truth
@cinematv7370
3 жыл бұрын
30:40 having a father and a husband. Is that a bad thing? it is assumed that they love you. Even modern women today have sugar daddies and desperately need to have a boyfriend to feel covered. She could be a millionaire living in a pent house. Its still nature. Guys have their dad too as support. But they have to do all the tough work and responsibility. Testosterone and estrogen are different drivers.
@LukeDavisAuthor
3 жыл бұрын
Lol you gals can't even leave the house without lying about your looks
@keithflemister9343
3 жыл бұрын
You're off on this one, Sister.
@cinematv7370
3 жыл бұрын
29:00 what about multiple wives? Thats biblical and some people want to ignore that.
@RebeccaLynnPope
3 жыл бұрын
Slavery, genocide, and sexism is also biblical.
@cinematv7370
3 жыл бұрын
Abraham had multiple wives. He was not a bad man. Israel having female judges like deborah is not sexism. Genocide was done by israel to an army of hybrid man eating giants and lizards. That wasnt bad. King herid and pharoah genociding a generation. That was bad. Some people were sold into slavery, but others were just endentured servants. So it depends who was doing what and why.
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