I would sign up for the book club thing, but I'm a peasant soo :(
@littlestbiche7618
9 жыл бұрын
I know how you feel
@saran476
9 жыл бұрын
#relatable.
@AbbieElizabeth13
9 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@animehouse223
9 жыл бұрын
Umm yes
@yoloers
9 жыл бұрын
slytherin sass master dat username tho >:3
@Annie-pz5cr
9 жыл бұрын
It's a bit strange that you've uploaded this because just today I was thinking about how my heart physically hurts so often. I took the mbti test and it turns out I'm an INFJ. I'm an empath. If one of my friends says they're sad or upset about something, I hurt for them. But the problem with being an INFJ is that the F (feeling) is extraverted. I'm better at helping others than helping myself and I sit there in my sadness and I can't tell why I'm sad or why I'm so sad about something. Sometimes my heart hurts for seemingly no reason apparent to me. But that's just an INFJ life because we're so complex and we feel alone a bit because there are so few of us and we don't perfectly click with anyone at all.
@OffTheAverageWall
9 жыл бұрын
INFJ club! I can totally relate.
@heatheredgcombe3156
9 жыл бұрын
I love meeting my fellow INFJ's don't worry your not alone :)
@just-a-little-bit-of-rando1579
9 жыл бұрын
that is so true though- and at the moment a few (9) of my friends are going through a mental illness of some kind and I hurt for them, I feel like I'm spending so much time helping them that I don't support myself you know? it is quite lonely but I guess that the reason I am hurting so much is because I care for my friends a great deal:)
@mblabezza
9 жыл бұрын
So was I!!
@meganwong5915
9 жыл бұрын
It's true :)
@Chouetterargentee
9 жыл бұрын
You're such a Gryffindor, Carrie. I'm not convinced that the "victory" is worth it. Not always, anyway.
@leak5392
9 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the exact same thing :D
@fletcherxox
9 жыл бұрын
Maybe you need to be putting your efforts into something else then? If the victory doesn't seem worth the effort you put into it, maybe it's time to channel your energy into something that does seem worth it in the end.
@JoeDurobot
9 жыл бұрын
I still dont get the whole "book club box".Basically it's a box that has everything but a book in it? I imagined it came with a book.
@Carrie
9 жыл бұрын
It's a box that contains fun things all themed around some of my favourite books and enhance your reading experience like bookmarks, bath bombs for those of us that read in the bath, tea, sweets and treats...etc! :) xxx
@25missjojo
9 жыл бұрын
It's a great idea but very expensive!
@25missjojo
9 жыл бұрын
ofcourse she wont.
@emmarisby
8 жыл бұрын
On the website it said that she didn't include the book because the box went to different countries - she couldn't get the translations of the books all the time.
@JoeDurobot
8 жыл бұрын
Emma Banana Her channel is in English, I assume her subscribers read in English as well even if they are non-native speakers. It shouldn't be a problem including a book in English no matter where the box is shipped. But I guess the box is already too damn expensive without the book anyway.
@MegSays
9 жыл бұрын
Did anyone else absolutely *love* the part when the guitar ripped the wallpaper to reveal Sam's dad quote in 'A Cinderella Story' when they were younger, and then feel all nostalgic again hearing Carrie say the quote? P.S. I talk about beauty, style and living with a disabling chronic illness at a young age. Filming is difficult but I give it my all and enjoy it SO much, I'd really love any support! Thanks
@CallumMcPherson
9 жыл бұрын
I always thumbs-up your videos, but KZitem needs a "pinkies-up" button!
@EmilyJMarshall
9 жыл бұрын
This is lovely Carrie
@BlueMorphSuit
9 жыл бұрын
love your videos Em, you're like Carrie & Emma Blackery mixed into one :D
@samimoss1619
9 жыл бұрын
I don't know how often you read your comments Carrie, but I have to say that this video had me in tears. Just yesterday, my boyfriend of over a year broke up with me. He is in the airforce and is stationed in England, and I'm still in the states. I know it's going to be a very long time until I'm okay, but this video touched on so many of the things i'm feeling right now. I have always felt bad that I'm such an emotional person and I feel like I love too much or I care too much. But I loved everything you had to say in this, and I agree with it all. Having my heart broken is one of the worst feelings in the world, but being in love was the greatest. I know that to put so much of myself into something may end in me being heartbroken, or I may end up getting as much out of it as I'm putting in. I'm not sure if I'm making any sense, but I just wanted to say thank you so much, I love this video and you so much ❤️
@twiligh4trinitya
9 жыл бұрын
I can relate to what you said! And I feel for you! My boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me a week before Valentine's Day, so it's hard to lose that kind of love! I wish you the best!
@yvettewilson2119
9 жыл бұрын
Lazuli My bf of 4 years broke up with me a few days ago so I'm feeling pretty bad too. I came back from England to Aus last week to be with him only for this to happen. Carrie timed this video well :( Hugs to both of you
@twiligh4trinitya
9 жыл бұрын
Hugs to you Yvette Wilson
@yvettewilson2119
9 жыл бұрын
Thanks Lazuli :) hope you're doing ok xxx
@twiligh4trinitya
9 жыл бұрын
I am doing so much better, thanks for asking. :) I hope you are, too!
@garyc
9 жыл бұрын
i'm an all or nothing person in most cases. i can only imagine how much of a nightmare boyfriend i'll be one day! ps i love the phrase 'in a nutshell.' x
@lperry101
9 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video, Carrie. I never comment on or "like" videos, but today you inspired me to do both. I've been feeling particularly heartbroken recently, both over work stuff and lost love stuff, and I can't tell you how comforting it is to hear your wise words. Though this level of pain is a kind I never thought I'd feel over a job or a man, it helps to know that the pain comes from caring. Does anyone ever call you "Caring Carrie?" I feel like they should. *Raises mug in affectionate salute to Caring Carrie.*
@caitlin1053
9 жыл бұрын
Caring Carrie: Our Honorary Big Sister :) I like the ring to that :) haha. Carrie is such an inspiration though
@To0oneyy15
9 жыл бұрын
i see looking for alaska on your bookshelf, how did you find it?
@laurenbates9454
9 жыл бұрын
Is that a pun? 😂
@To0oneyy15
9 жыл бұрын
no, it could be though! :D I was only interested in her opinion on that book ;)
@daisybarrellshearer4160
9 жыл бұрын
My younger brother recently passed away and I am saying my final goodbyes to him on Thursday. I haven't really found a way of dealing with it yet apart from ignoring that it has happened. Do you have any suggestions on how to confront it without completely falling to pieces???
@ellie5636
9 жыл бұрын
Oh God I can't even imagine how awful you must feel, how terrible this is for you and for your family...There is nothing I can say apart from the fact that I am genuinely so sorry! :'( I think people find different ways of dealing/healing, and I reckon you will eventually figure out a way to be able to breathe easier. I would recommend talking to a professional, or if that's not an option, at least family or friends. You will get through this. I firmly believe you can. Best wishes, lots of hopeful hugs xxx
@pannellee
9 жыл бұрын
I can't imagine how awful the situation is right now for you and your family, you will all move forward in time. There is no easy way to deal with grief but by far the worst way is to ignore it and keep your feelings locked away. Talk to people about what you're feeling, whether that's family or friends or even just writing your feelings down. Just honestly, don't bottle it up. Confronting the situation may make you fall apart a bit but that's only normal given the circumstances, you will be able to put yourself back together again i promise you that Sorry for the long comment! I really hope you can get through this. My thoughts are with you xxx
@Rakgir
9 жыл бұрын
I don't have anything to say except sorry for your loss. I know you'll hear that alot - I know I am as my mother passed last week and I attended her funeral this morning. - just try and take some time for yourself and don't close yourself off from the people around you.
@arbubbles876
9 жыл бұрын
My condolences to you and your family.
@venusplease6501
9 жыл бұрын
I have nothing much else to say than I'm sorry for your loss. Give it time, you will make it through. Don't forget, but you'll move along in time.
@wintergrace6683
9 жыл бұрын
Love you Carrie. You're such an inspirational person,and you care so much about everyone. xxx
@cas9437
9 жыл бұрын
I like your profile pic :)
@wanderlust119
9 жыл бұрын
Me too ;)
@wintergrace6683
9 жыл бұрын
Thanks:)
@Sean-jl6dc
9 жыл бұрын
Dat profile pic tho
@KatherineAmber
9 жыл бұрын
This reminds me of 'The 100' Clarke would've needed this video yesterday (I'm not going to put any spoilers) You should watch it, it's so good :)
@Carrie
9 жыл бұрын
I actually auditioned for the part of Clarke...:) xxx
@KatherineAmber
9 жыл бұрын
Really?! That's so cool, but then you would've had to go to America/Canada (don't know where it's filmed) There should be a British version, so you can be in it :) xxx
@sophiemhardy
9 жыл бұрын
Katherine Amber It was filmed near Vancouver! Love that show!:D
@tubaforeva
9 жыл бұрын
I can't find a link for yesterday's episode anywhere! Like normally I watch it on couchtuner.eu but it's not there so I thought there wasn't an episode this week. :( do you know anywhere I can watch it?
@KatherineAmber
9 жыл бұрын
It was on E4 yesterday, try channel 4 on demand?
@StuckInTheClouds22
9 жыл бұрын
I love having you as my "older sister." You are so thoughtful and fabulous.
@annacnbrg
9 жыл бұрын
"Caring about something is never a bad thing. Unless you care about murder.. or drugs.. or illegal stuff. Then that's not so great." ❤ you're my queen Your videos always brighten my day. I hope you're having a great time with Pete at Disney World and make sure to say hi to Mickey for me cause I miss my favorite pal! xxx
@Pexzee
9 жыл бұрын
There should be a pinky up button
@Novkii
9 жыл бұрын
Thinking about where you were this time last year versus where you are now gives me so much hope, you don't even know. I remember how sad you seemed (online, of course), and I remember hurting so much for you; but look at you now!! You're so happy and lovely and you're in Disney again and this time it's for celebration and not for comfort! That makes me really happy and truly makes me hopeful (duh-duhn-dish) for my own future! Thanks for making videos, Carrie. :)
@kieramcc7920
9 жыл бұрын
I love this! I'm really struggling with anxiety and depression atm, and it's causing relationships and friends troubles, this actually made me feel lots better!
@josilver2690
9 жыл бұрын
There can be no deep disappointment where there is not deep love. Martin Luther King, Jr.
@PWNED5805
9 жыл бұрын
I think the worst part about your breakup was that you never finished pokémon
@GoliGirlGlam
9 жыл бұрын
Carrie this is exactly the video I needed at this moment. My boyfriend of two years and I just split up, and its not because of anything either one of us did wrong, but just because it wasn't working anymore. Its heartbreaking, and I'm beyond heartbroken, but I know it was worth it because when it was good, it sparkled.
@amyamyamy17
9 жыл бұрын
"Well yeah, I'm sad. But at the same time I'm really happy that something can make me feel that sad. It's like... it makes me feel alive, you know? It makes me feel human. The only way I can feel this sad now is if I felt something really good before. So I have to take the bad with the good. So I guess what I'm feeling is like a beautiful sadness." Butters, South Park.
@roanna2912
9 жыл бұрын
This is really relevant right now. It's not because of a romantic relationship, but it is because of a friend that I thought was a friend. I cared about her loads, and I tried to be there for her 110%. It hurts. :/
@youwillneverknow7165
9 жыл бұрын
You know, I kinda always liked the fact that Carrie never asked for a Like/Thumbs up before. I know she puts effort in her videos, and she deserves to be rewarded (if that is a right word to use) for them, but it was nice that she never brought it up and people would Like just because they wanted to. There is nothing outright wrond with this approach, but some people still might feel obligated to do so, and the number of Likes isn't necessarily the number of people who liked it anyway. It just felt more natural the other way around, I guess? This doesn't change my opinions about Carrie, though, I just wanted to say how I feel.
@ninimeggie4771
9 жыл бұрын
I think people experience heartbreak in different ways. Feeling little doesn't mean you did not care or put your heart into it. I find that for the things I cared about the most a felt almost nothing when they ended, I just went numb for a while until my normal feeling came back. No crying, to frustration, no anger, no pain...
@chynarussell9595
9 жыл бұрын
Thank you Carrie. Over the past year heart break has destroyed me and it still is but this video said exactly what I've been trying to tell my friend. Her boyfriend broke up with her the other day because he didn't love her. But my friend? When she falls in love she falls hard. Just so she can still be near him they've agreed to be friends with benefits but she is definitely getting this video in her inbox!
@Ixdontxknowxanything
9 жыл бұрын
Carrie, your attempt at self promotion was adorable hahaha
@amathist1998
9 жыл бұрын
I don't know how often you read your comments Carrie, but I have to admit you are very right, I feel heartbroken as my younger brother is all the time studying and so everytime I ask for help or If I wanted a chat with my brother he'd tell me to shut up and go away and so I ended up fighting and once I wanted my younger brother to help me he was so angry at me that I ended up with a big fight and I am not friends with him anymore so what do I do?
@ItsFairytaleWishes
9 жыл бұрын
Wow, Carrie! Your maturity is far beyond your years and I'm so glad you're passing this info and advice onto all of us here on KZitem. Enjoy Disney!
@SignalsOverTheAir
9 жыл бұрын
I swear every time I watch your videos I learn more about myself and the world around me. You are one of the best vloggers on the Tubes, you are the younger/older sister we all wished we had, as your advice is always great and you explain everything so easily without confusing me. FYI in the book, Dorothy's shoes aren't ruby, but instead they are silver, they're ruby in the film because of MGM wanting to take full advantage of the then new Technicolor process back in 1939.
@xTilTomorrowx
9 жыл бұрын
Thank you Carrie! I'd forgot the quote "never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game." It used to be my favourite quote ever and I need to re apply it. I stop myself from talking because I'm scared and I need to stop.
@amazingaya
8 жыл бұрын
This video is so inspiring and therapeutic☺️
@baileysloan4276
9 жыл бұрын
this helped me a lot today. thank you
@OcyTaviAh
9 жыл бұрын
This video is great. Made me think of the Tuck Everlasting quote "Do not fear death, Winnie. Fear the life not lived." Even though it's not really the same point it's what I thought of. Not sure if you'll see this, but I wasn't sure if you knew about the Tuck Everlasting musical that has recently started its run? I am super excited about this. The songs are amazing!
@phoebe3428
8 жыл бұрын
And finally, a chunk of the yellow brick road. Aaaaaaaaaah
@Azofmymentalhead
9 жыл бұрын
I love the fact that the people who comment on your videos actually genuinely comment something with thought and heart as opposed to spam or something meaningless like so many other KZitem videos you see. It shows that the people who watch your videos are watching with thought and are genuinely engaging with you. Sorry if this sounds really random it's just something I've noticed and I think it's great sand a true testament to the quality of your videos x
@kiana1495
9 жыл бұрын
Hi Carrie! You are actually so beautiful and amazing and you inspire me so much! Keep being awesome!! :)
@ThoseTwoBrits1
9 жыл бұрын
Please do more of this sort of video! You're so inspiring and this was just what I needed to hear. J x
@gracedavies4024
8 жыл бұрын
I just had two break up with my boyfriend of two years and I'm so heartbroken. This video made me feel better. Thank you so much Carrie I feel so much happier now xx
@JayBayBay68
9 жыл бұрын
Hey Carrie! What eyeliner are you currently using? I absolutely adore the finish!
@ursilaclancy
9 жыл бұрын
I liked when you didn't asks for thumbs up...don't know why
@DeepsPotterGomez
9 жыл бұрын
Nothing sounds cheesy out of your mouth, Carrie. You have the incredible gift of making everyone believe wholeheartedly what you are saying.
@nadhilahs
9 жыл бұрын
Woww.. that was so inspiring!! Here in Malaysia we just got our SPM results (equivalent to GCSE.. kinda) and I did get good grades! And it's good to know that heart aches show how we care about stuff in the first place. Thanks soooo much!! Double thumbs up :)
@TARDIStraveller96
9 жыл бұрын
Hey Carrie. I just wanted to say hi and I think you're an incredible, talented and influential young woman. You've certainly helped e through tough times, so thank you :-) lots of love from me xx
@graceb5204
9 жыл бұрын
I'm reading this book at the moment called Young Elites, in which there's a quote from some sort of fictional source at the beginning of each chapter. There was one a couple of chapters back which really stuck out to me, and when I watched this I immediately thought of the quote. The relationship between fear and love is certainly a strange one. Here it is!: "To love is to be afraid. You are frightened, deathly terrified, that something will happen to those you love. Think of the possibilities. Does your heart clench with each thought? That, my friend, is love. And love enslaves us all, for you cannot have love without fear'." -A Private Thesis on the Romancing of Three Kings, by Baroness Sammarco
@PATDluvr2011
9 жыл бұрын
It's odd (perfect) timing that you've uploaded this video. As I'm typing this, I'm literally waiting for the moment I get the call that my Grammy has passed away. I'm glad that I've never felt that I would prefer to not feel as much when something wrong or bad happens, but it's nice to have it reaffirmed through someone else. Although, you obviously have no clue about my life, I'm really grateful that you posted this video, especially today. I hope you're having a wonderful, well deserved vacation, Carrie (and Pete, as well) XOXO
@murgy54
9 жыл бұрын
Love this video. Love your perspective. Love this channel.
@maeleahhartmann7234
9 жыл бұрын
What I've learned from all the years of hearing quotes or stupid sayings, is that, the more cheesy or naive most sayings are, the more that it's true(I really truly thought that while watching this video). Also, I very much agree with your point on heartbreak. It could last a week, a month, or 5 months or more....but sooner or later, you will eventually get over it. Just saying.
@AndresLancheroskafata
9 жыл бұрын
I'm going through a really tough time with my best friend (I'm a bit scared it's the end of our friendship...) so this was good to hear. I'm not sure why, but it was a bit comforting to think the pain is equivalent to how much someone matters to me. Thank you for posting! :)
@basaksezgin5519
9 жыл бұрын
Dear Carrie, Thank you for making and sharing this video because, for me, it was just at the right time. I got teary eyes watching it and I was at my school's cafeteria so I tried not to cry. In the past few months I have started just not caring about anything because I got heart broken very deeply by friends about very tiny things and it really sucks so I stop caring. But living life without caring sucks too and it is the reason why I didn't feel like I was living the past few months. Thank you Carrie your videos always helps me put a smile on my face and we love you very very much (even though I don't know you :D )
@Shalina111
9 жыл бұрын
That's a really lovely theory, Carrie! I'll definitely keep it close to me in case I ever go through heartbreak later on in my life. :) Also, I don't think you need to do the end bit with the like and share stuff. I love the way your videos are. Ending without a specific saying makes each one special! 💜
@lougert
9 жыл бұрын
I'm a music student, and the other day, my private teacher advised me (again) to take the risk of loving, because understanding the feelings involved with love can enhance my ability to express music a great deal. I'm currently working out how to put that advice into practice.
@TheHomeAloneProject
9 жыл бұрын
I AGREE ! I find every person who is willing to go into a relationship very courageous ! I've yet to go into one myself and I think subconsciously it's for fear of it not turning out ! It's not the most positive of mentalities and although it's a "good" defense mechanism, it's held me back from potentially life changing decisions ! I want to slowly start putting myself out there and believing I deserve affection from others. Another great video Carrie :) I know someone who would love this months Book Club Box !!!
@DarkMoltres
9 жыл бұрын
but what if you're unemployed in the long-term and life is minuscule? all too often i see generic videos with uplifting music and it's just like what are we doing. never is there silence, we all just delve into foreign ground just trying to implement to someone else we're happy? (or it's sponsored and oh boy thumbs up for profit) (not aiming this at you just. i've tried 7 cups of tea. i've tried reading and being unable to decide if i'm intp or infj. i'm 21 and feel i'm out of time. like everyone is ahead i just have to admit that these days. and fear brings me down, bullying puts me down, but mostly fear in my own head. it feels all very simple yet complex when i have to think about everything thoroughly to try and suggest i can get out of this pit. ahhh you always seem to make me have deep thoughts. just sharing it for a first. lol.
@TatianaRox96
9 жыл бұрын
I know this is really cheesy, but this actually made me cry a little bit. Okay, I've never been through a traditional 'break-up' so to speak, but I am currently living at college and after I came back from Winter Break, I realized that my one good friend that I had at the time never came back from break. She couldn't afford tuition and had to move back home. I was heartbroken. I had shared so much with her, and lost so much when I realized that we most likely wouldn't ever see each other again. I've made a multitude of friends this semester, but I've closed up my gates to my heart and have spread myself so thin amongst so many new people so that I haven't had to share myself. But I see the error in my ways, and I think it's time to start caring again.
@takemymug
9 жыл бұрын
My favourite book and film ever since I was younger is the wizard of oz, 100%. I used to watch it every week with my mum so definitely ordered myself one of those boxes
@trinity3272
9 жыл бұрын
My heart was broken once. I know so many people will say but I'm 13 it's ridiculous but it absolutely isn't. There was a boy called chai who was my best friend ever since we were around 6 years old. I looked up to him (he was 2 and a half years older then me) and cared about him and loved him with so much of myself that when he died I literally felt it. I felt a painful cold hard knife touch my heart and stab it and twist and hurt. I felt my stomach tense and I felt so SAD. I haven't realised the severity of what was happening to me. I still miss him soooooo much and I still feel that knife and that knot whenever I hear his name or think about him. He was such a good person, too good for this world. He would smile and the world would feel warmer, he would hug me and I would be so happy, his whispered conversations with me gave me tremendous chills. Do you know when your talking or texting or whatever with someone and you know the perfect thing for them to say, the RIGHT thing, the FUNNY thing the thing you have in your head that is the perfect conversation? He did that. So many times he would say just the right thing or make just the right move to make me happy. Heartbreak hurts so much, physically mentally and emotionally. The thing is I believe in your theory and at the time (pretty much the whole 6 years I knew him) he was the person I spent all my time with, he was the person I loved most in the world, he was th eversion I cared about the most. So my heartbreak was so immense I'm surprised a 12 year old could handle it.
@MadDirectionerGirl
8 жыл бұрын
I would sign up for the book club, but it doesn't come with a book! And I think it'd be more worth it if it came with the book, AND some things themed around it!
@SaruStuff124
9 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree, the only thing that I'd like to add is that you should treat the situation with the quality or importance that it has. Sometimes, no matter what we think or feel, a situation has a large weight to it whether we realize it or not. Let's say a bad relationship that ended after a long time, why is it hard after the breakup? Because of how much of yourself you put into it, but despite the dysfunction, it's also hard because a relationship itself is heavy enough thing to hold up when it's healthy. I just want the hopefuls and everyone else to learn how to appreciate the weight of a situation after it comes because it's not automatic. That's why aging exists, and it's where understanding begins to shape out and come full circle. We get there eventually when we fight for what's right and true, that's my hope at least... see what I did there? ;) But I think I just gave a whole new meaning to the name "Hopeful" to myself though, kind of a "what's my happy thought" type deal, eh?
@amazingaya
9 жыл бұрын
You give the best advices ever! I'm so happy I'm here!:)
@savfox40
9 жыл бұрын
I needed this right now. Thank you for making my heart ache something to be proud of.
@pocketfullofjoy3192
9 жыл бұрын
You put me to tears with this video--not sad tears, but good tears. Someone very close to my heart deals with a longstanding mental illness and I put so much in trying to make them feel better, to get them to the point where they don't have to worry about it, every day. Whenever it seems to take only one step forward and two steps back, I always feel so defeated and upset, and now I understand why. Thank you, honorary big sister.
@IanRichards88
9 жыл бұрын
Heartbreak isn't a terrible thing at all in the long run. Obviously it's a hard thing to go through, but like you say, the amount of pain is usually equivocal to the amount we put into it, and if we can feel so strongly about something then we can be sure we can feel it again someday. A comforting thought in my opinion.
@3LuckyHorseshoes
9 жыл бұрын
Ok. Somebody does understand thank god xx. I had an argument with my bff last year that lasted for 8months and she was my best friend for 4 years before that. There is more to it than that and now what I said is coming true though. I predicted this would happen and now we are both fine. Maybe not as close as we used to be but its good. During that 8 months of sadness, let down, betrayal I always had this one or two friends who stuck by me and she is absolutely amazing and I don't know where I would be with out her xx
@Just_jessie_3
9 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh I really needed to hear this, thank you. ❤️❤️❤️
@thundersbarnes
9 жыл бұрын
One thing that broke my heart the most was seeking my horse.. Yeah it may just be a horse but he was more a bestfriend. It's been nearly a year and I'm only just getting over it.
@KatieKat-mp5ew
9 жыл бұрын
My theory is that heart ache is a psychosomatic reaction to losing something or someone to the extent that your brain is literally telling your body that you want to die without it, that you can't go on without that thing in your life. And when you've spent a great amount of time on something, it's as if you wasted that whole length of your life even though you really didn't. So the greater the amount of time, the more you are going to feel like you've wasted your life away and then it's like 'what's the point'
@katielunton4
9 жыл бұрын
I recently ended a friendship, well a best friendship that had to be ended due to her friends making me feel bad and changing her attitude towards me even though she was someone I considered a sister. It hurt so much I didn't understand because only relationshippy things had made me feel that way but I loved her just as much as those boys. Not in the way but in the same amount. I am getting over it and moving on but this video has really made me feel less pathetic and better. :) thank you carrie
@LittleDreamer3
9 жыл бұрын
I agree that the more you hurt over something the more you cared, that idea is a huge part of my theory about heartbreak/pain. I've experienced a lot of it in my life, more than I really care to admit. But I believe that each of those experiences while they chipped away at me (Though sometimes it felt like they took to me with a jackhammer), they, at the sam time, helped shape me into who I am today.
@mizzi42
9 жыл бұрын
This reminded me of the JKRowling quote - "It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all - in which case, you fail by default." Loved the video btw Carrie! :D
@samantham997
9 жыл бұрын
Carrie, thank you so much for this. Love you!
@harryryan1632
9 жыл бұрын
Can you put your covers onto iTunes????????!!!!!!!
@georgie3979
9 жыл бұрын
Is that one piece of hair that's on the wrong side annoying anyone else?
@Findmeinfantasyland
8 жыл бұрын
I've just come out of a 9 month relationship and my god this is the best video to watch. Thank you so much Carrie this really helped me
@Joyce-qg7ub
8 жыл бұрын
I hope your heart has healed, at least some! :)
@Findmeinfantasyland
8 жыл бұрын
Joyce De Portabitque definitely :) I am much happier than I was with him for the majority of the relationship!
@justcogitating
9 жыл бұрын
It's true that it takes a really long time to get over heartbreak, and I feel like our culture fails to be cognizant or sympathetic to that. There's such a pressure to say, "I'm over it," and for the longest time I would say, "It's okay, I'm over it." But it's okay to not be over it that quickly, and we should be able to feel comfortable saying, "I'm not over it yet. One day I will be. But not yet," without feeling judged or pathetic for not moving on fast enough.
@kateb5381
9 жыл бұрын
About three or four years ago I decided I wanted to be a doctor, and I've put my heart and soul into making it happen ever since. I researched and planned everything I possibly could and sent off my application this October. Then I waited. Slowly but surely I heard back from each university and every single one turned me down. It was like literally being stabbed in the chest with the constant flow of emails telling you aren't good enough. I have had offers for biomedical science and recently I've been thinking maybe its just meant to be, maybe I'm not good enough and I should just go do this instead... but you changed my mind. Thanks Carrie for reminding me that I just care too much to give up on my dream :)
@isisvitoria3246
9 жыл бұрын
Thank you. That's all I needed to hear.
@emmawaffleson
9 жыл бұрын
me and my ex broke up because he went to uni about 6 months ago and it still kinda hurts, but I know I miss the person he was and not the guy hes turned into since leaving so that helps ... sorta haha
@megannash2079
9 жыл бұрын
I alway say fear has to meanings A- forget everything and run B- face everything and rise And it you choice which one you choose
@yagmanx
9 жыл бұрын
I love how you're so pure hearted that you struggle to even say the dreaded word... "murder" ha! Great video and a lovely way to look at heart ache :)
@snow.flower
9 жыл бұрын
these types of talks seriously open my eyes to something greater and better. this is why you're the "big sister" here on youtube~ i love you carrie!
@LearningtheHarp
9 жыл бұрын
Really great positive message, Carrie. Thanks! The only caution I would give is that we shouldn't dwell on our heartache for a long time to try to justify to ourselves that we cared a lot about it. At some point we do also need to move on - moving on after a heartbreak doesn't mean you cared any less. Thanks for talking about important things! :)
@Ch4rl13CFC
9 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with this, and not even with relationships. I'm a boxer, and for every fight I have to mentally and physically prepare myself. And after all that training, if I lose I do feel completely heart broken, like i don't want to face it again, but your right it's only because I put my heart and soul in to it, and when I win, it is like the greatest feeling in the world.
@Ch4rl13CFC
9 жыл бұрын
But I can't let the fear of the that heart break stop me from putting everything in to what I love.
@evilmento
9 жыл бұрын
First time I've cried in like a year
@marinachaves1865
9 жыл бұрын
I just had my heart broken like two days ago and it still hurts a lot. My crush just start dating a girl. The problem is that i can't even blame the guy because he had no idea that i was in love with him. How can I stop thinking about him if he's always so nice to me? How am I gonna find someone like him ?
@marinachaves1865
7 жыл бұрын
Hi,past Marina. Don't worry. You're gonna be okay.
@MissPrincetongirl112
9 жыл бұрын
Your eyeliner is on fleek👌
@Jaclyn_Lizzi
9 жыл бұрын
For your definition, I think 'disheartened' might be better than 'heartbreak,' but that may just be me. Love your face, Carrie!
@PixieLabrador
9 жыл бұрын
Wow, this video got me really inspired! This is such a great concept and something that everyone should know as well! I completely agree with you, Carrie. I will always keep this advice in mind! Love you so much. :)
@RoseyCale
9 жыл бұрын
Carrie, I just want to say thank you for this video. Ive been trying to come to terms with a break up for a while and this is just what I needed to hear and I am so grateful to you for that. You're right, heart ache lasts a long time! But this explains so much. I admire you tremendously. Keep being you, you're beautiful. Loads of love xxx
@warmteacup
9 жыл бұрын
I'm so frustrated that Hadn't found your channel a year ago, I feel like videos like this would have helped me an awful lot! keep up the good work Carrie I can't wait to read your book! :D
@sammionne239
9 жыл бұрын
I love the book club idea, but it's too expensive! Sorry Carrie love you but I can't afford it! xx
@0104emmapalmer
9 жыл бұрын
Well, I certainly agree with you theory Carrie. A little reminder that sometimes( and sometimes, not), what you give is what you get. It's so easy to just be like "oh it'll be fine, I'll just do a little bit to get this" and then you get that little bit back. I definitely feel more satisfied and happy if I put my everything into something xx
@clarisa5277
9 жыл бұрын
Lol *specially imported from over the rainbow...(drum rolls)..A CHUNK OF THE YELLOW BRICK ROAD...aaaaaaAAAAHHH*
@elena_youknow
9 жыл бұрын
So true, Carrie! Thanks for sharing this. It gave me some more motivation to do something I'm working really hard on but don't know if it's going to work out :)
@GayAstray
9 жыл бұрын
This was beautiful and inspiring Carrie. So true. You are a wonderful lady, so wise! Ahhh I might be a tiny bit in love with you haha
@taylorherbertson2004
9 жыл бұрын
Oh carrie, i love you so much and i think you are 1000% right about all this
@natalieloves13
9 жыл бұрын
Carrie I love you I love you I love you for this video ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you so much.
@EmilySmith-yr5us
9 жыл бұрын
"Unless you care about murder. Or drugs" I ACTUALLY PISSED MY PANTS, YOUR EXPRESSION WAS PRICELESS
@AbbieElizabeth13
9 жыл бұрын
Very good advice for those of us who tend to put our all into everything and are often left heart broken.
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