I can just imagine being in an awkward panic after saying "so let me ask you this..." if I had no follow up😂
@MandaMindyMoo
8 жыл бұрын
+Juline Moose Oh my god, same lol!
@elisefyhrie6256
8 жыл бұрын
Haha I was thinking the same thing! So much pressure!
@chcolatte92
7 жыл бұрын
Currently😐
@ladyinthelocker
7 жыл бұрын
I have one. "So let me ask you this... Do you have any question for me?" lol, awkwardness just get doubled!
@SJ-kw9sk
7 жыл бұрын
Well done ;-) you have a knack for this.
@aliahrodriguez4336
8 жыл бұрын
Matt is like that one best friend you call before you respond to a text
@Butterflywarrior214
8 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 right
@adnomahad5992
8 жыл бұрын
this comment suits him only he is amazing person
@maryamhalwani8480
7 жыл бұрын
And he is a great one!!
@swiftieforever6549
7 жыл бұрын
Aliah Valdes damn trueeeeee
@charlotteeolsen8397
7 жыл бұрын
Aliah Valdes TRUE
@smileyourock
8 жыл бұрын
1. let me ask you a question 2. tease compliment 3. make someone the expert
@leachatee
8 жыл бұрын
Thx
@irfaankathrada499
6 жыл бұрын
Not all heroes wear capes
@LOLLYPOPPE
6 жыл бұрын
smileyourock thx... six minutes for something that should take 10 seconds
@cameodamaneo
6 жыл бұрын
Thx (2)
@codpieceofjustice4595
6 жыл бұрын
MVP
@BlackKettleRanch
8 жыл бұрын
You know what's even better than the pregnant pause? The abortion pause. So, you say, "Let me ask you this...". Then, you say, "Oh, wait a minute. Don't go anywhere". And you walk off acting like you saw someone you had to talk to or there was something you had to do, then you don't come back.
@laralee7841
8 жыл бұрын
i tried this ! it worked ! loved it because he followed me in the party 😂
@ArielSit
8 жыл бұрын
This is hilarious, I will try it. 😂
@KoolGaal
8 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@dwsmiles2
8 жыл бұрын
I could not stop laughing at this comment!
@chandrisene5332
7 жыл бұрын
I've been studying how to get any man you want and found a fantastic resource at Maras Magic Words (google it if you are interested)
@lordmock4819
6 жыл бұрын
Me: "So... let me ask you this" Them: "Ask me what" Me: "Ask who what"? Them: "what did you want to ask" Me: "what did who want to ask"
@casy6203
4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@cuteandfluffypikachu3405
4 жыл бұрын
I need to try this 😂🤣😂🤣😂
@carterjaason1864
7 жыл бұрын
Me flirting :"if you were a potato,you were a good potato "
@randomguy3080
7 жыл бұрын
Leyla Sentürk if u said that to me I would honestly respond with "do u like memes"
@ginevrakurow321
6 жыл бұрын
I'm not always a potato, but when I am, I'm a hot potato 😉
@sasykins3359
6 жыл бұрын
Ginevra Kurow WOW!!!!!😱
@anniemoses9478
6 жыл бұрын
I'd fall for that😂😂
@buck8266
6 жыл бұрын
Lol😂😂😂
@laurenjudd2782
8 жыл бұрын
That pause is used so much by teachers. xD
@assiatchabye567
7 жыл бұрын
Lauren Judd and it doesn't work cause they never get attention XD
@lucasdelhove1568
6 жыл бұрын
assia tchabye 😂😂😂
@denachtconducteur7070
6 жыл бұрын
Teachers are playaaaas
@leagueoflegendslol4121
5 жыл бұрын
*Approaches a girl* Me: So what do you do? Her: I am a management consultant Me: So let me ask you this, and *pauses* Brain cell 1: What does that mean? Brain cell 2: Do you like the job? Me: Doat like thob mean? Her: *Leaves quietly*
@Pedrosa2541
5 жыл бұрын
Do it more frequently until your brain cells get used to it.
@fonsam
5 жыл бұрын
Hahaha, that last one nearly killed me!!! Been laugh-crying for the last 40 seconds.
@aliyaaalmashhadi8053
5 жыл бұрын
Hahaha that made me laugh xD
@usernamenottaken2562
5 жыл бұрын
Lmao I've been laughing for a whole minute 😂
@lucialapina9273
5 жыл бұрын
HAHAHHA !!!!!!! I´m laughing so much at this comment. So true. So me.
@stjamesyouthministry
7 жыл бұрын
This guy would be so intimidating to date... feels like his been and done everything.
@beans9019
6 жыл бұрын
stjamesyouthministry word.
@Birdmanul2
6 жыл бұрын
Why? Do you feel compelled to prove yourself to every guy you meet?
@beans9019
6 жыл бұрын
Birdmanul2 why don’t you is the question
@Birdmanul2
6 жыл бұрын
why don't i feel compelled to prove myself?
@r3sianon975
6 жыл бұрын
Birdmanul2 Exactly.
@rohanjeetdas5707
6 жыл бұрын
"Hey" "Hi" "....."
@TT-pb9cf
6 жыл бұрын
Ron Jet reality
@Cheyruz
6 жыл бұрын
"... SO LET ME ASK YOU T H I S"
@fauzirahimpohan3130
6 жыл бұрын
*....*slowly walk away**
@davidc4322
5 жыл бұрын
@@Cheyruz I LAUGHED SO HARD LOL
@ReasonableRadio
5 жыл бұрын
CONVERSATION: 100
@avesraggiana
8 жыл бұрын
I did that first technique at a party not too long ago - "Let me ask you something." *Pregnant pause...* The guy looked right over my head and checked out the hot buxom, busty bimbo in the tight dress walking behind me...
@jaywhyte9746
8 жыл бұрын
+Aves Raggiana Maybe you shouldn't have said out loud .... "pregnant pause" whahaha.... I'm only teasing you a little :)
@avesraggiana
8 жыл бұрын
Jay Whyte Haha!
@bubbagene145
7 жыл бұрын
meh. fishy.
@XPrincess30
7 жыл бұрын
i DIED at your comment LOL
@katherinesmith2998
7 жыл бұрын
Aves Raggiana 😂😂 Girl you are hilarious!!
@Yusuf1187
5 жыл бұрын
"Oh, I just be myself." "Bullshit. There are things they do, consciously or unconsciously that makes them the most powerful person in that room." 100% nailed it. I've always had poor social skills including social anxiety disorder. Luckily I befriended someone in college (by luck of ending up in a shared suite) who had great interpersonal skills who actually was quite conscious of what he was doing and could explain instead of giving me the usual dismissive platitudes. It helped me a good deal. Your videos and some others on youtube I've since found have been even more useful, and I really appreciate that.
@nickthomas8409
6 жыл бұрын
If you have trouble meeting people, it also helps to own the space, I know this might sound ignorant or cocky but you have to feel you are higher then them, this doesn't mean you have to make fun of them or belittle them you just have to feel comfortable and feel as though they want to hear what you have to say
@maggyxchuu
8 жыл бұрын
Why is he the most eloquent speaker UGHHH. He takes small things that just opens my mind so much. I personally like his sit down videos more than this white background bc the white is just... so bright and white bahaha but that's just my preference! Great video regardless ^^
@forithall2417
8 жыл бұрын
+Sugar Chuu That's racist! Go eat your noodles!
@dare2bebrave905
8 жыл бұрын
I like it when he is sitting down too! I do not believe her comment was racist. :)
@elibjo01
7 жыл бұрын
I can't be the only one that finds him really attractive😂😍
@emilyhedges4483
7 жыл бұрын
He is gorgeous!
@CaroLizzette
7 жыл бұрын
Have a magical day Trust me, you're not.
@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
7 жыл бұрын
Have a magical day ya think??
@melodiemulher9469
5 жыл бұрын
You bet my dear! 🤔 www.mulherhumor.com.br
@wishd.6166
4 жыл бұрын
Love your KZitem name.
@ElNightmareYT
6 жыл бұрын
*Calls 911* Guy: I'm bleeding. Operator: Ok, let me ask you... *Pause*
@xx-rosie-xx9335
8 жыл бұрын
He went from resembling Danielle Radcliff to Adam Levine to McDreamy... Omg
@FutureXXD
8 жыл бұрын
More like Daniel Radcliff and Ryan Gosling 😂😍
@ykmin98
8 жыл бұрын
How about Richard Hammond?
@BlackKettleRanch
8 жыл бұрын
How's 'bout Hugh Jackman?
@hannahorellana6177
7 жыл бұрын
xx-rosie-xx ommmmg exactly my thoughts.
@Fifz00
7 жыл бұрын
xx-rosie-xx Eugenio siller
@marie-laurequayson6366
7 жыл бұрын
I'm a management consultant and no one knows what we do 😂
@TarotReaderASMR
6 жыл бұрын
so what do you do? honestly curious
@skytte71
6 жыл бұрын
The answer is in the title itself: you consult in management. So it's about giving advices on how to manage something in a better way.
@mxdylan271
6 жыл бұрын
@@skytte71 so a manager's manager?
@YOUPQRNISBETTER
6 жыл бұрын
So let me ask you this......................................wow please tell me David lied about how good you are!
@freedomofmind6877
7 жыл бұрын
how to win someone to engage with you in the conversation :- 1- the Suspense Opener by captivating them through ----> THE pregnant PAUSE . 2- The teasing Compliment - 3- Spotlight other people talents or things and make them the expert ..as they know better (giving others credits rather than yourself ) . 4- be honest about what you know and what you dont know during the conversation . and allow people to feel your true real self .
@morganamessina2183
8 жыл бұрын
More of this please.
@NFM977
6 жыл бұрын
“So lemme ask you this............” “...” “What’s your name?”
@ektasaikia7153
7 жыл бұрын
I never thought conversing was an art. My mom's an expert at this. She literally owns the situation she gets into! Thankfully I learned some tips from her😬
@MoojunWasTaken
3 жыл бұрын
hi kitten
@timmilgram
5 жыл бұрын
When your name is Tim, you know the Jameson he’s talking about, think this is about you, then you realize it’s a different Tim 💀
@Dr.NoorMoussawi
8 жыл бұрын
May I add, you are very thorough, genuine, smart, witty, and have a really good head on your shoulders. You are also refreshing. I enjoy all the analysis, tips and tricks and strategies. Thank you so kindly.
@GutsAndGall
8 жыл бұрын
I like this hair! Feels a little softer on you.
@tusenbensen334
8 жыл бұрын
Yup
@MoondustBones
8 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@goldfish1871
8 жыл бұрын
+MindOfHerOwn I was so confused when I first read this! LOOOOOL
@GutsAndGall
8 жыл бұрын
goldfish1871 Haha! Yeah, I can see that!
@asjeable
8 жыл бұрын
+MindOfHerOwn it's not about the hairstyle..this is about saving a life.
@TheUniverseKiss
8 жыл бұрын
Your brother's guide was a lovely read, but not very clear in what exact strategies we should adopt. It was more of a breakdown of what made Matthew sound so great.
@hanson4035
8 жыл бұрын
Hey I'm tim
@nn8103
8 жыл бұрын
Hhhiiiiiii, Timmmmm!
@nn8103
8 жыл бұрын
+Laurie Sinasac 😆
@terriesmith1981
8 жыл бұрын
Tim Hanson~The famous Tim! :)
@GutsAndGall
8 жыл бұрын
+Tim Hanson How much did you pay Jamison to say so many nice things about you? :)
@mairaraza189
8 жыл бұрын
+MindOfHerOwn I have the same question
@odessapotrove3008
8 жыл бұрын
my math teacher always pauses like that... literally he says, OK lemme ask u a question. and I'm just like asleep in the back slobbering😴
@rva496
4 жыл бұрын
I just asked my crush “do you come here often?” ...we were at school🤦🏽
@EagleGirl919
5 жыл бұрын
Hey Matt, I love your channel, kinda watch it about 7ish times a week and everything but right now I just want to ask you to please pass a message to your brother Steve: "Steve Hussey, you are my freakin' hero!!!!! Thank you so much for sharing this video and the belonging pdf about conversation tricks and how to win an entire audience over in a matter of seconds! This is HUGE!! And you are 100% right when you say people think Matt is Neo of the Media World!! I myself thought he was born this way and had already charmed his way out of trouble back in preschool with his smooth talking! It did not even cross my mind he was using communication techniques, so effortlessly did he start talking about a worse than average plane ride on that radio show. Becoming all excited, now I'm looking up Slight of Hand conversation techniques online and checking the "rainforest" shopping site for books written about the most effective communications tools known to man. Good job getting the OK from your bro! This is gonna be life-changing, I can see that already. In your debt for Eternity, Kriszti Kotka
@NoName-jz4lc
5 жыл бұрын
How to win someone over, 2018 edition: "Hey...-" "No u"
@beerboi55
8 жыл бұрын
This guy is totally on point with the assumption that the parties involved are pretty genuine and honest. Else you're dealing with someone who is just sucking up, playing games or just want something from you (not in a good way). I only say this cause in the real world ...too much of the latter (talking from experience, unfortunately). Great stuff!
@TheCitizenKane1
8 жыл бұрын
I never realised that people don't know these conversation techniques. I guess it comes naturally for some of us as we might be the ones genuinely interested in others.
@Sugarskulls_forever
8 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree!! That's why when people ask me how I am so sociable, I have to mentally take a step back & tell myself that others over complicate their lives with thinking too much about their next move. Matt makes it simple and straight to the point. The only thing anyone watching this has to have is: A.) Confidence B.) Be fine with messing up and picking themselves back up
@longawelt9639
5 жыл бұрын
First time I watched one of your videos I was like: yeah, this guy has learnt a lot about communication, conversations, selling and psychology. From time to time I find the similar ideas in the books of other authors: from Buddhists to famous western businesses leaders. I admire your growth. It’s really inspiring. And I’m thankful that one of the key idea of your activity is not to teach the seduction (pick up) hacks, but about mindfulness, self control, self-confidence, socializing and enjoyment of life.
@HeidyMargarita
8 жыл бұрын
He is soo handsome! haha I have to focus on what he is saying... lol
@ashimunir5601
8 жыл бұрын
Who is this Jamison that Mathew keeps talking to? Has Jamison actually ever been in front of the camera? IS there a Jamison??
@aryakk1314
8 жыл бұрын
Thats the big question
@laurenchafin2404
8 жыл бұрын
This is him instagram.com/jamiejordo/ Enjoy :)
@ashimunir5601
8 жыл бұрын
Thanks Lauren! Mystery solved...but he should come in at least ONE of Matthew's videos.
@livelylydia9766
7 жыл бұрын
Ashi Munir lmao
@nawalita77
8 жыл бұрын
I wonder how many women are in love with him? lol
@tatenda1735
8 жыл бұрын
I always ask myself the same question hahaha
@nawalita77
8 жыл бұрын
+Tatenda Madonna I'm sure that a lot of people just watch him without listening, i find myself getting distracted often haha
@arckocsog253
8 жыл бұрын
Not me.
@aminajay3707
8 жыл бұрын
i am... and its so sad because its not realistic...
@meloduple
8 жыл бұрын
+Noe Nazer I am in love with him too... but it is indeed unrealistic for me too.
@cathrinevans28
7 жыл бұрын
Matt you are so blessed you are so positive and always want to teach pple you are NEVER SELFISH Instead you are willing to walk us through and lead us to be the BEST WE EVER WANTED. Continue doing that bcoz u will always have more for US. I thank GOD i have discovered your Channel. God Bless You Matt.
@oscarsaavedra6962
7 жыл бұрын
How to Win Friends and Influence People, check this book out.
@embibby7170
8 жыл бұрын
Why is the video 6 minutes long if it only takes 5 seconds?
@nogat54
8 жыл бұрын
It takes more than 5 secs to explain you dumbass blonde
@naimabbb991
8 жыл бұрын
rude. not all blonds are dumb you ass
@2Bonita08
7 жыл бұрын
You're complaining? LOL!!!
@ricardoalves9605
6 жыл бұрын
Em Bibby You can do it in 5 seconds but he needs time to explain
@trevn__
6 жыл бұрын
Naima Bbb this one is
@edifysalim5359
7 жыл бұрын
the third one is very powerful. People will instantly like to talk to you because you boost their ego and positive emotion
@reynacornielle
8 жыл бұрын
dude, it's like you don't even have to talk..You just need to breath and already won me over 😂
@2Bonita08
7 жыл бұрын
Gr8 advice. I don't have a problem with coming up with questions in a conversation but to prepare for it with a pause, that's making it the "Art" that it should be!
@terriesmith1981
8 жыл бұрын
I love these types of videos, Matt! More please!
@rinopw4262
6 жыл бұрын
Usually when I speed up a video to 2x I can't catch up to what they're saying, but in this video he was talking so pleasantly that I could
@karapannell7617
8 жыл бұрын
doesn't anyone else realize he sounds exactly like Daniel Radcliffe? must be from the same region of England. 😏
@riaadytia
7 жыл бұрын
Kara Pannell yes, he's Daniel Redcliffe in better shape
@karapannell7617
7 жыл бұрын
+Ria Adytia Ahahaha yes
@karapannell7617
7 жыл бұрын
+Lady Ve oh I see!! thank you so much!! I love london. :)
@Tan87ful
7 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@aqibmalik5462
5 жыл бұрын
Hogwarts?
@thomasprehn268
6 жыл бұрын
The fact that he brings up the “pregnant pause” is impressive. Very important negotiating technique. And make no mistake... dating is a negotiation.
@bunssohawt4531
8 жыл бұрын
Yep, definitely used this in a bar. Now, apparently, i'm a successful stock broker at day and a volunteer at night. Took this conversation waaaaayyyyy too far. (Way too competitive with men)
@xyreyes
6 жыл бұрын
Listened to you for the first time, 45 seconds in I subscribed. Don't normally follow that quickly. Keep up the great work
@sophiexue8279
8 жыл бұрын
Nice video, Matthew. Thank you so much! But how I could learn to "tease" someone or be playful? Is there a book to read? Or it just needs to be practiced on?
@GreenStarMidoriBoshi
6 жыл бұрын
Matthew has a lot of content to create and a lot of knowledge to share (about confidence, charisma, conversation, healthy relationships and so on). One thing that is right now a huge -1 is the fact that after I shared my e-mail with the Mathew team, I got a lot of spam trying to sell things. Which could potentially be good, but it's very annoying. I wouldn't write this if I wasn't sure I'm not the only one who thinks this. I shared some links to content that you created with one of my friends, she also considered your content as highly valuable...and then, the very next day, she told me she already unsubscribed from your newsletter because of too much spam. I did the same thing. I think the commercial e-mails are way to aggressive to be productive
@shirleyjimenez29
8 жыл бұрын
This are great tips. Thank you so much for sharing....
@XBlockAcah
6 жыл бұрын
Giving the viewer something for free is also one of the charismatic way
@jovanacitic
7 жыл бұрын
Very good videos, but I guess I could never live with using that much techniques for every next action...
@sicparvismagna9110
6 жыл бұрын
When you said we don't need to give a penny for it. I went all out with full potential for download
@nataliabrand5182
7 жыл бұрын
That wasn't 5 seconds
@sarahquinn7385
6 жыл бұрын
Natalia Brand 5 minutes haha
@ruchikaahuja3077
7 жыл бұрын
I don't want to say that I love u... but I can't help it... you know what mat... you are amazing
@SJ-kw9sk
7 жыл бұрын
stop inspring me matt
@charinamoreno6012
6 жыл бұрын
Jackson Hex 😂😂
@carleflores9065
6 жыл бұрын
Hello Mat! Watching this video made me realize I'd actually love more content related with just human interaction and how to nail it (apart from the usual romantic advice) because the only reason I follow you is this... warm clear vibe of a communicator you carry. I admire you because I have a really hard time in social environments... help ?? btw, thanks for everything Mat, you rock!!
@nialauren1220
8 жыл бұрын
He kinda looks like Patrick Dempsey lol.
@soushimiketsukami4731
6 жыл бұрын
Ania Lauren Rudolph I was trying to remember his name (Patrick) thanks for reminding me
@mariab2808
8 жыл бұрын
omg thankyou very much!!!❤ i just needed this is my life. i completely lost my charisma.. and myself :( so this is something to that is going to help me to find my charisma and self-convidence, i hope. i think so because all your videos help me to be how i was. THANKYOU THANKYOU THANKYOU ❤
@_sustosotsus_9240
8 жыл бұрын
is there a dating guru for guys?? If not, I think there should be because as much I take all of this advice which is great by the way.... i find that it only goes so far with the guys who seem to start off being decent human beings and then slowly start to show that they are mean and rude.. so even if i play my cards right.. i still end up somehow being disrespected or harassed and i find that it is becoming more and more common and "normal" too (when i share my stories with my girl friends they seem to experience the same things) I am quick to cut them off and move on to another guy only to find out that he is the same way too.
@Roza-pz2gu
8 жыл бұрын
Of course there is a guru for guys! He is alpha m here on KZitem :)
@pinkaa17
8 жыл бұрын
coach corey wayne
@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
7 жыл бұрын
Susana Barrientos doubt it, as they think they know it all.
@victoriaathotmail
5 жыл бұрын
Matthew, thank you. You are so darn likeable.
@varun009
8 жыл бұрын
I hate to sound arrogant, but the people I hang out with (unless much older) don't know a damn thing. I then have to sit through an excruciatingly inaccurate delivery from a guy who's lying through his teeth. I also know people who ask me questions about my interests (knife-making) and immediately respond to every explanation I give them with "I know" and they're not even disinterested. I have to call them out at some point, indirectly and they just end up embarrassing themselves. People are fucking idiots and I'm not about to befriend an idiot.
@jdmmi
8 жыл бұрын
Maybe youre just boring
@varun009
8 жыл бұрын
***** Definitely. But it's who I am and changing isn't really an option.
@majasteinchen
8 жыл бұрын
There's a saying: If you're the smartest person in the group, you're in the wrong group. ;)
@sashaconnelly2832
8 жыл бұрын
The best of Otis of Martin Lawrence show
@varun009
8 жыл бұрын
majasteinchen Right.
@larrybethune3909
Жыл бұрын
Dear Mr. Huseey, Many thanks for sharing your insights, experience and expertise on this matter. Your you tube video where you talk about "offering to pay" was solid gold and quite revealing. While viewing your overall body of work it's immediately clear that 1/How to get the guy = How to get the girl. Too cool. Many thanks.
@caramelsandiego
8 жыл бұрын
The point about management consultants/letting them be the expert- you have to be careful if the career they are in is not common, because if you ask what they do, it might come off as intrusive. As if you are questioning the authenticity of their line of work.
@NoneOfYourBusinessBaby
8 жыл бұрын
not if you frame the comment properly.
@l8Os
6 жыл бұрын
Jen Since88 I’m a drug dealer. Or in my words I’m a self made pharmaceutical entrepreneur .
@hasnainraza8823
6 жыл бұрын
HAHAHHA
@alanti67920
6 жыл бұрын
You could just say "What's that like ? " And it won't come off as intrusive I think.
@BlondiiLein1000
8 жыл бұрын
I Could listen you for hours! You are such a good speaker!
@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
7 жыл бұрын
BlondiiLein1000 nothing to do with being hot, tho...lol
@blueyson
8 жыл бұрын
Well we haven't seen Jameson ! 😐😂
@mireille876
8 жыл бұрын
LOL - you know Jameson was in the Valentine's Day live event, right? :-)
@blueyson
8 жыл бұрын
shut up !! imma check it out now!!
@howstuffworks-productoverv4080
6 жыл бұрын
I actually use your conversation tips in my job.....Making people feel important is key to building good rapport and closing sales.
@jennywu8860
8 жыл бұрын
His voice reminds me of Harry potter
@beigelover95
8 жыл бұрын
absolutely love this. im already a good conversationalist naturally (but coming out of my shell more and being more authentic) and i found this so helpful!!!! will put into use. thanks matthew!
@mageshm2745
6 жыл бұрын
hi pewdiepie
@whatwho9595
6 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your videos..I'm 37 and beginning to start dating..I just lost weight and have new confidence and your videos have given me so many ways to respond to new stable and professional men...Thank u
@CoolThisIsMyUsername
8 жыл бұрын
So good conversation traps interest and builds egos? Just share yourself and do away with all the formulaic mind-games. Not only are those mind-games douchey, they're disingenuous and transparent. Also, he hasn't been secretly working on these techniques for years. His techniques are nothing new; they're part of rhetoric known for millennia. Sorry to break it to you, folks, but Hussey is a salesman.
@mathiasolsen5378
6 жыл бұрын
my friend, you went ahead and said it. was looking for a comment to find, like this 😅 "In the land of the blind, the one-eyed (wo)man is king"
@Tests
6 жыл бұрын
I genuinely would not trust someone who talked like he does. It felt exaggerated and inauthentic.
@ajlouis6038
5 жыл бұрын
Who cares.. If it works.. Just use it
@kyliesouthwick5904
8 жыл бұрын
4:53 XD LOL HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH Rollin on floor laughing my fucking ass off dis so fuckin funny!
@6969Nicole
7 жыл бұрын
Out of subject I'm really like really attracted to you! I've never been so attracted to man like this before haha I'm 22 btw
@katharinafust8816
6 жыл бұрын
haha and i am 15
@katharinafust8816
6 жыл бұрын
Just kidding
@abhishek0o7
6 жыл бұрын
I'm 24, by the way 😉
@Keys879
6 жыл бұрын
Bullshit. You've never even met the man haha
@brickblums
8 жыл бұрын
I do all of these, I guess that is why I make a good first impression… for some reason, it doesn't last. Hearing this helps me realize why I fail later… I loose that spark and confidence after the "get to know you" stage of any relationship
@PazuChill
8 жыл бұрын
See, whenever someone uses these tricks on me, I feel really uncomfortable, because 90% of the time, I know it's just superficial BS and they don't actually care.
@mirandataylor6385
6 жыл бұрын
ZGoten Dont lie, nobody actually talks to you.
@Johnny_mak
6 жыл бұрын
#same ZGoten
@grazzitdvram
6 жыл бұрын
People like to talk about themselves, casual questions that leave the door open for long replies like "oh tell me about your dog" are good and pay attention to the cues offered. If the cues aren't offered or the replies are continually curt that person has no interest in you. This works great and can be a good way to deeper conversations and a relationship. It also doesn't require you to be super witty or funny, just smile at them and pay attention for the prompts while they ramble on about their uninteresting trip to wherever. It can also be really bad as it can allow the other person to build a false image of you. They're sharing tons while you're sharing very little and this whole time they feel like they're getting to know you based off your interest in their interests... which causes them to start filling in building up who you are based off of absolutely nothing. Works great if you just want to take someone home from the bar but its also how you can find yourself in a relationship with someone for a year before you realize the person that you're with has a really fucking weird idea who you are.
@commonsense6257
7 жыл бұрын
The stubble makes you look like you have a double chin brah.
@HankiMaus
7 жыл бұрын
COMMON SENSE Fuck! You're right...🙊
@themaravilla7777
6 жыл бұрын
without the beard he would like like he has a vagina
@germannava4953
6 жыл бұрын
This makes me sad... I remember doing all this "tricks" unconscious, on a summer camp. Because I was in love with an 1 year older girl. For example I did the first trick with the pause, sometimes I even went to the toilet just to have an overview of what I should say next ( what to ask, and what to maybe say when I get an answer). Now I do totally the opposite of what you shouldn't do like not having this pause. or like be the guy that knows everything. This video made me realise what I did right befor vs what I do wrong now. In other words now I'm more conscious. I can say with confidence that this small tricks work!!!
@protein3266
6 жыл бұрын
You chat bungle. I gave you 5 minutes to reinforce your click bait title - you barely did it. Its very very individual, if you’re not confident, none of this will help, and if you are confident, you dont need this and you know it. This is a video aimed at those who wont be able to utilise it.
@14u2nvME1
5 жыл бұрын
I love how you're so candid and curse
@mauvemauve1
7 жыл бұрын
who else thinks he's the taller and better version of harry p..sorry Daniel Radcliff?😄
@JiminyHCriquet
6 жыл бұрын
SyedaTaslima Hussain bluddy ell mayt I fink yer right. He looks like bluddy arry potta dun he
@MuhammadAnwar-pv3zz
6 жыл бұрын
Your way to deliver so impressive
@danielladark6245
8 жыл бұрын
i just discovered your channel! and hell you just made my day especially words like this that are coming from a male. RESPECT!
@salmachi9836
8 жыл бұрын
I like how you give us hope that we can be greater persons
@juliaproshkov9195
8 жыл бұрын
Hi! I was going to leave a comment of facebook, but, couldn't find the post, I must be a little inept! Anyways, thank you Stephen, and of course, Matthew for this amazing list of Six Secrets. This is gold!!! I have been enthralled by many of your videos, Matt, and it has kept me searching for more. Thus, here. I downloaded it after planning on purchasing the "Super Scripts", and wanting to see more on you and your method, I really can't wait! Thanks again and have a great day!!!
@tess2082
6 жыл бұрын
I tried the 'tim' one with my friends' boyfriend. Turns out he didn't like it or something, and was very curious what she had told me about him. The two of them ended up having some pretty awkward conversations, and my friend wasn't happy about it. Thanks a lot.
@aidanmccann7482
8 жыл бұрын
great advice for guys and girls in all parts of their life
@Sugarskulls_forever
8 жыл бұрын
This is why you're awesome. You've given me the tools to be confident and be approachable. Thank you for continuously staying humble. I appreciate all that you do, Matt. You have no idea how much you have impacted my life in these past few years. Stay golden! :)
@MegaTrivial
6 жыл бұрын
I used to do these and more, naturally, the ground stone is perception and respect for the other's mood, as well as you have clear yourself what you want. But, what if you have been in a bad fight and are nervous to start a real and new conversation again ?!
@xPorkchops007x
6 жыл бұрын
This guy's an excellent salesman
@1129buttons
8 жыл бұрын
Oh the amount of times I have said I either didn't know what exactly their job or hobby entailed and if they could explain and they give me (for a management consultant for instance)..."I help people manage things". I'm actually shocked when people explain themselves. I see it as a sign as they are bored to tears with what they do with their career lives.
@auntlordy
8 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the download, Matt! Awesome read :)
@MochiColorsZanos
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Matt. Where was this last year when I didn't know how to act in front of him because he made me that nervous. I forgot to speak, I was so nervous. This would have been great to use then.
@robertcernea6510
5 жыл бұрын
Dude , you are an expert
@2011work2008
8 жыл бұрын
I do like this video.. I love interesting ppl.. Ppl that want to talk instead of just texting.. Texting is so boring.. Ppl need to get themselves off the dam phone.. I'm with you Matt.. Thanx
@maxmuller8580
5 жыл бұрын
Tbh i already used this a bunch of times. I tease ppl for fun but make sure they don't get upset about it. I'm honest all the time. Well not all the time but i try to be as honest as i can
@LifeCoachDazza
6 жыл бұрын
This is actually one of your best videos in my opinion 👌🏼
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