I had 2 kids from a man who had 3 kids by 3 women. I was a fool and it spoiled my chances in life and meant my kids lived with less than they deserved. Don't date men with kids.
@Chommikenya
7 күн бұрын
Sorry about that! And hey Thank you for watching ❤️
@KevonnieElaine
7 күн бұрын
@@user-rj1vj5wk9f thank you for being honest and sharing!
@T-Laydie
6 күн бұрын
Used to be married to a man with a child, I will never do that again. Also, my cousin, who never had any kids of her own, met & married a man with 3 kids. The mother wasn't around so she raised the kids as her own. When the youngest child grew up and left home, he asked for a divorce. Let that sink in.
@Chommikenya
6 күн бұрын
This is a reminder ladies!! Thank you for sharing 🫶
@vanessaroper3028
5 күн бұрын
He needed a baby sitter
@hs-qk9qf
2 күн бұрын
@@vanessaroper3028 and a maid. 😔
@Alixir1228
7 күн бұрын
I've briefly dated men with children or have talked to them and they are all still in love with their baby mamas. I'm a single parent myself so I thought trying to find a single parent was a good idea, but there is no other group of men with such emotional baggage.
@shadiamonforever21
2 күн бұрын
!!!
@islandpersuasion4690
7 күн бұрын
Just ended my fling with a father last week. Left me in the house to go watch his kid play football but just sprung it upon me, didn’t let me decide if I wanted to bother seeing him if that was the case. Then said “it’s a shame she (the baby mother) didn’t like me” WTAF, so why tf did you go after me?!!! I’ve already done that foolishness, I’m NOT doing it again. Go work it out with the mother. RIDICULOUS human. The older I get the more I strongly dislike the other sex 😂
@Chommikenya
7 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@Chommikenya
7 күн бұрын
Sending love ❣️
@Susan-fg3nv
7 күн бұрын
Baby mama is just a form of poly.
@Chommikenya
7 күн бұрын
💯 Thank you for watching ❤️
@Alixir1228
7 күн бұрын
As a single mother, no it isn't. Let's not disrespect other women
@Susan-fg3nv
6 күн бұрын
@@Alixir1228 in the context of the video it's exactly that. When a baby momma can sway a man in a relationship and still have sex with him its poly
@LovelyJordy
5 күн бұрын
Facts sexual access is always there.
@emmar7504
7 күн бұрын
I will NEVER date someone with kids.
@thrill102
7 күн бұрын
Definitely if you’re going to pursue something serious with someone with kids you have to be able to prioritize the kids. It takes a person who is very generous with their time and very empathetic to understand that if you want to be with that parent you have to treat the child as your own and prioritize them in your life as well. The child’s wellbeing will always come first.
@juicysmith38235
7 күн бұрын
That is a very interesting theory/perspective. I am religious & believe in the order of God, Spouse, Children. If a marriage puts kids first, then how can the marriage survive if the couple comes last ? 🤔
@Chommikenya
7 күн бұрын
Interesting question 🤔!
@michelledirelle
7 күн бұрын
That's very true but the man must be fair.
@vanessaroper3028
5 күн бұрын
@@michelledirelleexactly, my dad wasn’t fair at all with my mom
@Morgan24_7
6 күн бұрын
Depends on the situation, but if you are young, on the go, and have plans, DO NOT date someone with kids. In my 20s, one guy lied to me. He didn't tell me he had a child until months in. The second guy was a full-time father, and he was a loving and caring father, which left no time to court me. The third guy turned me off because he was a father, WHEN HE WANTED TO BE. I saw he was baby daddy material. They try to make you a babysitter. Nope. Now...at my age...it's almost inevitable, but the child is grown or grown enough.
@ZanilSingsToo
6 күн бұрын
Explain to me how a man with three kids and three baby mamas is good with kids and is responsible? She really lost me. And saddling herself down with that when she has none? Poor baby.
@shaysmitt7936
7 күн бұрын
I hope the young lady dating the 3x baby daddy wakes up.
@RebirthAura
6 күн бұрын
Gowl😂😂😂
@unicorn73212
7 күн бұрын
Yeah women with no kids should not be dating men with kids unless you feel like he's the man of your dreams don't do it he knows women without kids have more of an open schedule that's why you have to live alone and stay busy because you have to find out just how serious they are and you have to ask yourself would he date you if the situation were reversed? If the answer is no then politely tell him no and move along because I've seen some of these men leave women because she couldn't provide any kids for them. He wants to make you look like the crazy one because your single meanwhile he's got multiple kids blocking the shelf your trying to scan if your already annoyed with him imagine how annoying they would all be if you had to clean up after them for free with no pay.
@punkybrewstar83
7 күн бұрын
A women without kids has more availability? I contribute to society, I have work, I have meetings, I go to the gym, I have a dog, I make media, I do gardening, plumbing, housework, therapy... I end up babysitting some kids at least once a fortnight some way or another... single dads are doing what? Complaining about his baby momma in his backyard spa with other divorcee dads?
@celiashort6246
6 күн бұрын
Ladies after listening to this video. When the relationship is over. Let the daddy have those kids. If you choose to leave the relationship. You be the one to move out. Leave the kids in the home they feel safe and comfortable and let him take cars of them. So, as of yesterday, get your own money have that tucked away
@Chommikenya
6 күн бұрын
Why do I silently agree with you 😂😂😭!!!
@songbird8404
6 күн бұрын
Yea I quit dating men with kids a minute ago. Especially now that the Kevin Samuel’s Warriors are trying to make single mothers taboo. I give them hell for them 💅🏽
@imeldangadzania5212
5 күн бұрын
🤌🏿🤌🏿🤌🏿🤌🏿I’m tribal woman.
@faithstone4747
7 күн бұрын
I was a single mom and that was my #1 rule . Do Not date a man a kids .
@TheSunkissedmein2000
7 күн бұрын
It's ok for you to date a man with no kids? Doesn't it make more sense to date a man with kids?
@faithstone4747
7 күн бұрын
@@TheSunkissedmein2000 I understand the baby mom. I could never be okay feeling like I made another woman feel any kind of way . I
@thebarbieinvestor5428
5 күн бұрын
Very audacious. I have a friend who 3 kids like this🤕🤕🤕
@TheSunkissedmein2000
3 күн бұрын
@@faithstone4747 Every single dad isn't in a toxic relationship with his mother's kids. I'm saying you'd be better off finding one like this or just staying single, but your kids should have a father figure.
@andrealynetta3733
6 күн бұрын
Im never doing this to myself ever again, as a matter of fact i'll be keeping to myself and wont be entertaining any men ever again for anything. I dont want any of it, not interested
@Chommikenya
6 күн бұрын
Am Glad you enjoyed the video 😊
@LovelyJordy
5 күн бұрын
If a man had multiple kids/baby mommas he will NEVER prioritize you. Nothing will be special because he has done those things with other women. Not to mention him having to put you in his limited budget.leave the baby daddies to the baby mommas!
@Chommikenya
3 күн бұрын
Deep!!!
@tinalena
6 күн бұрын
10:20 so it doesn’t only have to be baby mama, if you are in a relationship and he starts fights out of nowhere yea he could be stressed from work, but a lot of times it’s another girl or ex or something and they’re in communication and yes, fighting. So they bring it into your relationship. Guys are so obvious with that
@KevonnieElaine
7 күн бұрын
14:51 I know you mf lyin😳!! He got 3 kids by 3 different women and you don’t even have none?!? Yikes! I hate to see my fellow sisters go out like this!
@Chommikenya
7 күн бұрын
People be on some delusional stuffs out here If you ask me
@KevonnieElaine
7 күн бұрын
@@Chommikenya they clearly see a pattern and still be with the man smh.
@punkybrewstar83
7 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂 The yt woman 😂😂😂😂 yeah- most of us who would date single dads would expect the child to come first & actually it isn't a problem 😂😂😂 and with women- it's hard to explain- if they let people in & the child has a good relationship with them, they actually respect that relationship, even if the romantic relationship breaks down. Men don't 😂😂😂😂😂😂 and single dads also prioritise their spare time over you & their male friends over you & are more often than not stingey as fuck towards you & will literally complain about their ex & child support as if all women caused this for them, but their place will be littered with stupid shit they bought themselves post-divorce... often a lot of motorcycles, sound systems, huge screens, surfboards, gaming systems, etc. Single mums are emotional rollercoasters, & not all are perfect & amazing, but ultimately, that is what I want to end up with- single mum & kids
@tonyawin2205
6 күн бұрын
It's deceitful not to tell someone if you have kids or not. That's like a trans person not telling a hetero person they're trans. The man may like you off of false pretenses of you not having kids & then you tell him you have kids & ends up leaving you alone. You ask people do they have kids in like the first conversation.
@BENZ_ASMR
7 күн бұрын
I disagree with the one girls “unpopular opinion” 13:37 because If you the third or fourth bbm then that alone is a problem, it’s not just about him loving his kids all that’s fine and good but DOES HE LOVE YOU that’s the point she missing🥴
@Chommikenya
7 күн бұрын
I hope she wakes up too Thank you for watching ☺️
@michelledirelle
7 күн бұрын
They decided for the woman before and their kids. Already nd of Story if they can't organize things fair and have not enough social common sense in their brain...
@thebarbieinvestor5428
5 күн бұрын
Chile you probably shouldn’t!!!
@imeldangadzania5212
5 күн бұрын
Great men don’t create broken homes ma’m. 3 at that. And I can see that you’ve made up your mind on becoming his 4th🤢🤢🤢🤢
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