I changed my character only to confirm that I do in fact need to find a new place to live. Good to double check though.
@colmrooney414
3 ай бұрын
you're not the only one. the environment shapes us as we partake in it. anyone who says "you don't need this, you need that" is already crossing boundaries for me and I hear it as their own need for validation.
@clapbombs
2 ай бұрын
advise my ad for vice. Yeah no, lol @@colmrooney414
@BeverageOfSorts
2 ай бұрын
The environment shapes us as much as we shape our environment, some scenarios are difficult to alter (like someone thinking negatively about you) but that's where you alter your environment by not interacting with it identically to previous experiences. Changing both drastically is best though of course
@MeganHylands
Ай бұрын
😂😂
@CosmologicalUnity-ds6tp
Ай бұрын
So you did need a change of character? If you hadn't changed character, the change of place may have been lost on you.
@angelglowstudios1454
3 ай бұрын
If I had not moved from my hometown I wouldn’t have built a new character. I was delusional thinking I was great and doing great but I was lacking in a lot of areas in my life and it took a change of environment to wake me up.
@tonygareth221
3 ай бұрын
Sometimes I think I should leave but I do t know where or why
@tequilachanel7312
3 ай бұрын
@@tonygareth221if you believe in God ask him to show you a specific sign or any sign of where he think would be best for you, where you’ll thrive and then pay attention to the repeat signs. You’ll know.
@XuLExcelsi
2 ай бұрын
So much this! I left my home town in my early twenties and only then began to become what I am. Curiosity and ambition bloomed in a new environment.
@XuLExcelsi
2 ай бұрын
That said, I agree with the spirit of this video. The desire to be more, though dormant in my original home environment, was a prerequisite for striving for the life I envision for myself.
@ThePoiMaster
Ай бұрын
The new environment prompts the ability of the brain to be neuroplastic, which means the stressors make it easier to activate some of the dormant genes and increases the ability to adapt to the new environment or circumstances. It’s a neat trick.
@colemorton9338
3 ай бұрын
Last month I moved to the other side of the planet to change who I was and realize my dreams. After a week or two of honeymoon period, I found myself right where I left off, there is no escape, no way around, only through.
@DanLetts97
2 ай бұрын
I agree. Wherever you go, there you are.
@sarahfaith6531
2 ай бұрын
Yes exactly how I find myself 🫶🏼
@sarkjoybi_379
2 ай бұрын
This is true . and untrue at the same time . Talking from someone who did it for 2 years. and not going to lie that have been the best years of my life and cured my existential crisis. You can benefit extremely from changing place . Doesn't matter where. metaphorically talking,the change of location allows you to change yourself too. is a net reset for your personality and from the character you've played for so long. you be whoever you want and do whatever you want. you've always dreamt of releasing the charismatic side of you . that's the time for it to shine. and trust me that will. is a fresh breeze of freedom ,and control over what's around you. Then you acquire control inside of you consequentially . and even if you don't . it does give you the fake perception of so . True ,because your fallacies and vices will follow you too and then there you understand what was really pulling you back . Work is needed either way . if you change place or not . One day or another you have to face your skeletons in the closet .
@paolamura3497
Ай бұрын
Only through. That's a great analysis!
@andrewosbaldeston3893
Ай бұрын
The inescapable status quo.
@mehhh7656
28 күн бұрын
“Trauma is not your fault, but healing is your responsibility.” My dad had explosive anger when I was a kid which made me run away from the situation. This behavior has made me run from anything uncomfortable into adulthood. I have been running for too long and want inner peace no matter where I live.
@courtneymorgan9621
27 күн бұрын
Ditto well said
@bibianar1493
17 күн бұрын
Dang same
@goseemekah
3 ай бұрын
This is the very hard lesson that I had to learn. My stepmother often said "Wherever you are, that's where you are at. You cannot ever escape yourself." Great video man ❤.
@Whatthellisthisthing
15 күн бұрын
My grandmother would say, •Wherever you go, there you are.
@playfulsteps9249
17 күн бұрын
Being able to spend time with yourself happily, immersed in what must be done, aware of life in every breath is truly bliss.
@renzo6490
3 ай бұрын
Growing up around my family, my self image was largely determined by their opinion of me. When I was with them, I became who they expected me to be. When I moved away, I had an opportunity to see myself afresh. True, some of my old perceptions came with me. But, in time, I was free to evaluate myself without constraints.
@AnomalyBelleza
Ай бұрын
This is it! Yes, completely agree. Having similar realizations myself.
@CDGbyGraziaCosta
3 ай бұрын
Trust me, I'm longing for a change of environment. I refuse to compromise my character to fit into the chaos of my current surroundings.
@Sinfulscents
Ай бұрын
I am too wanna be roommates lol
@kdot999
3 ай бұрын
A boy waits tor the right moment, a man makes the moment right
@waytoprogramming
Ай бұрын
Running away is never a solution. Working on the root cause is so much important! Otherwise you will repeat the same pattern in new place too. Great talk!!
@Bia-rx8wf
Ай бұрын
Look, I have a lot of pent up anger and nowhere I can scream and punch my pillows in peace without being judged. Sometimes we need our own space to heal.
@waytoprogramming
Ай бұрын
@@Bia-rx8wf Yes, I agree!
@Bogancharisma
28 күн бұрын
Problems don't run away if one runs away, problems remain in the self. Ditto, and iterated by variant syntax structuralist essayists.
@kirstenpilot2708
2 ай бұрын
As much as I agree with Seneca, that’s just partially true. Some humans have a nomadic soul. One can argue, there are psychological components to this status. Aside, I have moved 37 times in my life and it is correct that you always take yourself and your issues with you. BUT…every new place will give you new insights and new growth. We are not trees, humans should wander to develop their true self. Your issues are not solved, but mostly the way you look at them will significantly change. I’ve lived in 4 countries, moved 37 times and visited 79 countries. And yes, sometimes I was on the run from self, but with more insight and wisdom, the running away stopped and I knew when the lesson was learned and the time had come to move on. It is an amazing journey and the growth of my “self” is just incredible. Do I have no problems? Of course I do, some days more some days less. - Yet again, when a cycle of life is fulfilled, move on and find greener gras. And yes, when you have done the inner work, the gras is always greener somewhere else. Namaste and thank you for your wonderful insights.
@musashi542
Ай бұрын
nomadic soul like every white girl out there for sure for sure .
@Sinfulscents
Ай бұрын
Wow that’s so beautiful and that’s what I’m trying to do! My very first move away from family my very first place but it takes money and it’s taking too long lol I really want to grow!!! I can almost taste it haha I found peace in Oregon when I lived there years back and I want to move back. I don’t know a single soul, my ex has moved and married and the thing is, I don’t care if I know anyone there I just know I love the environment! It’ll be the first time I moved somewhere not for a relationship with a man but more importantly a relationship with myself ❤
@leporellothegoldfinch
28 күн бұрын
@@musashi542 Says the white dude LARPing as a Japanese guy...
@truechamp3404
28 күн бұрын
@@Sinfulscents where are you now?
@Sinfulscents
28 күн бұрын
@@truechamp3404 I’m in central Florida
@margaretbooth384
3 ай бұрын
We take ourselves with us wherever we go
@JGalegria
3 ай бұрын
Moving on physically can definitely change your mindset. You just need to follow through if you want to change some part of yourself, but a shift in your environment can absolutely be the catalyst. Don't sit in an awful situation trying to block the bad feelings and pretending it doesn't matter where you are.
@sakik1329
Ай бұрын
exactly.
@socratessuker8866
Ай бұрын
I agree ⁸
@Sinfulscents
Ай бұрын
Very well said!
@Jadiorliminals
2 ай бұрын
I can listen to this man’s voice for hours
@hannahrial2820
3 ай бұрын
I feel like that title just slapped me in the face
@ayushisingh2203
Ай бұрын
bro us
@erichooligan9329
16 күн бұрын
No matter where you go, there you are
@MsPersephone1469
Ай бұрын
Alchemy of mind is my largest life hurdle. I'm trying to self-actualize while functioning in survival mode, and it is rather challenging.
@SueChef100
8 күн бұрын
Sitting still is the beginning of discipline
@xxxs8309
2 ай бұрын
Being nice has destroyed my life
@morgangrant5180
2 ай бұрын
In what ways? People take advantage of you?
@user-zx4cp6kz4b
2 ай бұрын
Same.
@nasreenrehman2001
Ай бұрын
Being nice must come naturally. If one pushes oneself to be nice for whatever reason, it simply stresses you out. I find it better to be just and honest at all times. Just to myself and to others. This must be accompanied by good manners, by being gracious and kind, but firm. @morgangrant5180
@crystalriddick1968
Ай бұрын
Never get tired of doing what’s good. You will reap good fruits
@lindasaxty8567
Ай бұрын
It's hard to believe but I soo agree with you. I have been overly kind through my life. Now 66 and where did my life go. Why has my soul almost died because I gave so much of myself away. Now I have few people in my life. More me time to heal myself. I have made some solace now. In my garden, feeding the birds, hearing the sea and sitting still within the elements of the natural world.
@AmySimmss
Ай бұрын
A change of scenery might be good in order to start afresh and not get retraumatized by a place where hurtful things happened to us, of course always working on ourselves because we can carry our own demons wherever we may go though.
@BenjaminAbrahamShelahSchmidt
Ай бұрын
Yeah it is hard to decide. I’m sure we’ll end up getting it right though.
@Pondapple
3 ай бұрын
Wherever you go, there you are. Make peace with yourself.
@pocsibalintmate
3 ай бұрын
"I have been to paradise...but I've never been to me..." Randy Crawford, "I've Never Been To Me"
@ireneedmonds4712
Ай бұрын
Your environment definitely has an impact on your character but so does your inner dialogue
@emmanuelwolf6568
3 ай бұрын
Thankyou for this advice, at 43 i am experiencing a sober wake up, life doesnt seem real sometimes.
@Welshwildthing
2 ай бұрын
I get that
@weiwuxian5699
3 ай бұрын
For a long time I thought that the place where I lived was the problem, that it was the reason why I couldn't improve. I went to a trip to a different country for two weeks with my sister and nothing changed. My mindset was still the same, my bad habits didn't dissapear, I was still insecure and unmotivated to do anything. That trip helped me realize that I was the problem, that I needed to change myself in order to get a better life. And everyday I'm trying, it's not easy but I keep pushing myself to get out of bed and get dressed and go outside for a little bit. I'm pushing myself to meditate for five minutes morning and night, to stretch and exercise and to keep studying and reading. I'm trying to break from scrolling on my phone, playing video games and eating bad food. One of the hardest things was to stop maladaptive daydreaming, which is something I've been doing since I was a kid. So yeah, some days I fail but I still keep trying to be better. I don't want go give up on myself.
@Pondapple
3 ай бұрын
Walk a little further (farther?) every day.
@dsstudio76
3 ай бұрын
Please don’t give up. I went through this and after a similar battle I’m in peace and happy. I counted on my faith in God as well. It made a whole difference to keep the faith. It was well worth it.❤
@tranquilitywithinllc2916
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. I've been running from myself but no matter where I go, there I am.
@indianagirl500
3 ай бұрын
In 1991 I closed my eyes and opened the map put my finger on it. I moved there the very next day . 17 years living with opportunity and made many friends . I moved back because I needed family I am now leaving for a summer job In a totally different state. You are who you hang with there are many, many people in this world.❤
@Sometimesiwanttoread
2 ай бұрын
I love your story. Thank you for sharing
@rustyshackleford6637
3 ай бұрын
I am 30 and I have lived on the road as an OTR truck driver since 21. I am quitting this year, believing that there are things in life and within myself that I will have to leave this lifestyle to unlock.
@traciemchugh3114
Ай бұрын
As Bob Marley said 'U cant runaway from Yourself' Also the more u reject the harder it gets. Acceptance is k🔑y !
@Sportsmaxx
3 ай бұрын
I am always the one that ruins my relationships with people cuz I always isolate myself and neglect the other person that’s why I need to work on myself more
@monicaramirez51015
3 ай бұрын
😮oh my 😮me too 😊
@idratherstayanonimous7020
3 ай бұрын
Same. Yet i can't bear my loneliness.
@heartofhathor
3 ай бұрын
If you haven't already, it might be worth looking into attachment styles and strategies.
@Pondapple
3 ай бұрын
Don't give up. Seek out other quiet souls. Get out of the house. Learn about Taoism and Zen Bhuddism. Do a kind deed for someone else. Give up alcohol, it's a depressant. @@idratherstayanonimous7020
@saradjordjevic1498
3 ай бұрын
Of topic, you are one attractive individual.
@goldbrick2563
3 ай бұрын
He has beautiful hair and luxury skin. He is healthy
@eilishadams7413
2 ай бұрын
LITERALLY ALSO UR SO BEAUTIFUL
@george53691
2 ай бұрын
Healthy mind healthy body
@JJH-jc1fg
2 ай бұрын
Off topic, so are yourself
@Mushroom321-
2 ай бұрын
I thought so too. 😊
@Alreadyforgiven77777
3 ай бұрын
This is so powerful!! I recently realized I can be peaceful and joyful no matter what just by not over identifying with my stressful thoughts. Just existing and being conscious is a gift no matter where we find ourselves in life.
@cca5tr0
2 ай бұрын
Thank you... I can see through this comment of yours too. So simple.... We are our thoughts and we determine their quality... It's being conscious to them.
@NPAnetwork963
3 ай бұрын
I recommend anyone who sees this to watch the anime series One Piece. It may seem silly at first but the main character really embodies what you’ve mentioned here in that he’s always happy with himself and what he is doing in the present. Is Always on an adventure striving towards a goal. He doesn’t care about the future or what obstacles he’ll face. Since watching the show I use him as a role model for what I’d like to be. This show has genuinely changed my life for the better. when you see his smile you’ll understand
@white6505
2 ай бұрын
for those unwilling to watch a thousand episodes, the "gear 5" scene with the drums of liberation pretty much sums up this feeling
@StephaniRoberts
2 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@fruitytarian
Ай бұрын
I watched a few episodes and loved that about him, initially I thought he seems like he had a few screws loose, but it grew on me. now I need to watch the full series.
@sdfg-gj9to
2 ай бұрын
I greatly enjoy your delivery. Your channel is one of the few that I subscribed based on the first video I watched.
@mabelogic
Ай бұрын
"A mind that is settled a character that it at pease with itself will alway be home wherever it is wherever it is both in location and in time." You have no idea how much i needed to hear this.
@soufwesthoustontx
Ай бұрын
Me personally I need a change of scenery. Staying complacent won't help you grow. Sure you'll know where everything is in your hometown, but not everything there will help you grow to who you need to be. I'm learning this the hard way. I've peaked in my current environment.
@courtneymorgan9621
27 күн бұрын
Agreed
@nadinefay1560
16 күн бұрын
The hometown become more foreign the longer I stay in it. It’s just the wrong environment.
@farahbilal3895
3 ай бұрын
I agree with most of what u said... U can't escape yourself and u shouldn't! U should face your problems and enjoy the company of yourself... However, problems have external and internal factors so sometimes no matter how much u work on it inside, the problem is still there... A change of place solves the problem for a lot of people and a change of mindset does that for a lot of people too... Both factors are important and it depends where your problem is not u being the problem all the time.. Great topic! Keep up!!
@user-xd7dr2zu4z
3 ай бұрын
I was just thinking about how I’m always happier when I’m travelling and it made me wonder if it’s my location that needs changing or if it’s me. tyy for the reminder that we are our home
@urigajinjawoyo
Ай бұрын
letter from stoic is indeed a really good book, it helps me cope with cronic depression
@TravellingKook
3 ай бұрын
I think ultimately everything always starts from within, yes it can be easy to blame our environment for our well-being and seeking an alternative place to gain peace of mind. However, a chaotic environment can be an incredibly difficult place to obtain the strength to realise that it was never the place or people and rather one’s perspective. A new environment can absolutely help build the strength to realise it was always you who held the ability to decide how you feel, regardless of your environment. Everyone is different, everyone has different sensitivities and reacts to things differently, a change in environment can completely change your perspective on life and your perspective is what gives the ability to think in a positive and loving way rather than a negative and fearful way. We don’t control what happens to us but we control how we respond, I feel different environments and people can help shift us into more beneficial responses to situations, but still, ultimately it always has to come from within. I appreciate the video and thought provoking message, much love to you 🙏❤️✌️
@moondive4ever
5 күн бұрын
massively respect these talks. Ty for your work.
@SueChef100
8 күн бұрын
People respond to stimuli with or without consciousness...it is a constant work of being...
@cibablea
Ай бұрын
I came to KZitem this evening in complete surrender that I'm generally stuck living in the state that I live in, one with no nature, in a city. The second video, which came after the first of yours I watched this evening, is this one. I'm so grateful to you. Keep it coming.
@dee.dsouza
3 ай бұрын
I’ll get back to this video after my tea break but I just wanted to put it out there- beautiful title. Almost tells me what I needed, Just waiting for the explanation
@Automobiliana
2 ай бұрын
Thank you. Thoughtful and clearly spoken. I’m glad I found this channel, you will have many more subscribers soon.
@torilea8104
3 ай бұрын
Pretty broad statement that does of course make sense but cannot be fitting for everyone. I live in the city and dream of moving away to the mountains or ocean far away from the hustle and bustle but I am not doing it to run away from myself . But to find the silence that nature brings that cannot be found in urban areas.
@Pondapple
3 ай бұрын
I like your delivery - calm, deliberate. It helps. Other KZitemrs get this wrong and I don't watch them.
@AniketKhanal2009
Ай бұрын
You're one of the most underrated channels on KZitem. This channel is going to blow up at some point
@dunja1486
Ай бұрын
A single drop in the ocean has value on its own...but no one knows about it...
@user-hm9yc3cf1y
3 ай бұрын
🧐 Atmosphere, locations, DEFINITELY make a difference. You can't grow in an environment that no longer serves your higher self.
@biggiesmalls3096
3 ай бұрын
Then get out or make the most of it. I agree but I can’t leave my town for 2-3 years so gonna make the most of where I’m at.
@socratessuker8866
Ай бұрын
Very true 💯
@Cozyrealmtube
16 күн бұрын
That can be right but again its like an excuse for not working hard I am certainly in the same position as you But I don't care I do what I must do eventhough its mostly weird for the ppl around me
@user-hm9yc3cf1y
16 күн бұрын
I just said it makes a difference 🤷🏻♀️
@fatchicken9497
2 ай бұрын
Crucial lesson to learn: don't ever escape the problems, face them. However, while projecting this approach onto social interactions, might find yourself as an elephant in the room, paradoxically. Most of the people don't cope well with dealing with any problems (especially relationship ones), like is said in the video. I guess most of us live in a smaller, or sometimes bigger, bubble.
@steve19811
3 ай бұрын
I live with my father and I'm scared of him... He physically, emotionally, and sexually abused me as a kid. I've become trapped living with him.... I don't want to live with him because he's truly the source of all my trauma. Why is it wrong to want to leave and live with new people? I don't have just simple average people wounds.. I'm living with someone who told me I need to rely on him... should I stay?
@lewiscampbell7888
3 ай бұрын
No, brother, you shouldn’t stay. What your father did to you isn’t your fault and it’s not a healthy situation for you to be in. I hope you find the strength to do right by yourself and move on. Just know that there is always someone out there who will be willing to extend a helping hand ❤
@-0mon
3 ай бұрын
Girl you do not need to stay with anyone, it's not wrong to move environments. Get the hell out of there :)
@medicscout3509
3 ай бұрын
Hey there, Please don't stay. I've been where you were, it was hell, until I rediscovered myself. Do not believe him, but believe in you! If you have anyone you can talk to, who can help you, please do so. You deserve to live a safe, happy life ❤
@jacoberwin4412
3 ай бұрын
Find anyway out other than suicide, im praying for you brother. Youll get through this
@samara4260
3 ай бұрын
RUNN
@caseysavant4527
3 ай бұрын
It is interesting that I came across your post today, I have been reading “Meditations of Marcus Aurelius “ and have been learning about Stoic philosophy. I also read and study Buddhism and it is very interesting how closely related the two are in the philosophy of life. On your recommendation the next book that I pick up will be Seneca. Thanks for introducing me and all your viewers to Seneca.
@JW-jn4if
Ай бұрын
Some places make you crazier. Like a small town in Louisiana 😊😊😊😊😊😊
@KennMsn
3 ай бұрын
It seems to me only so few people understand this nowadays. Everyone appears to just be running towards their next escape. Great message
@niaprice3267
3 ай бұрын
I ran away inside myself! Now I realize the changes I can make to heal and allow me to be my best in any location or around anyone.
@agnesfabiszewska6494
2 ай бұрын
If Viktor Frankl could find meaning in the worst of places I believe we all can. I believed for a long time places are not necessarily the drivers of inner contentment. I am currently feeling stuck where I am but I also have some forces keeping me exactly where I am bc I know I will Jist take me with me. I have not figured out how to reach this level of acceptance and contentment. The angst is probably from the dark night of the soul I have been in for some time. I find reading wise words helps me somewhat. Listening to others also helps. I still struggle a bit with actually experiencing these things I am reading about but I also feel this will come. I guess one can be on the right part and still feel be lost lol.
@backwardsyoga
3 ай бұрын
I've just returned from a "vacation" to Germany, Italy and Tanzania. Funny thing is I have been familiar with Seneca and this quote for years, I guess I really needed to live it again to hammer the truth of it home. You are 100% on point.
@ArthurSchoppenweghauer
21 күн бұрын
You dont need to move Out of an active war Zone, you need to Just BE positive. Much philosophY such intellexual
@michelebroughton6511
Ай бұрын
I really want to have peace in my life, in spite of what is going on with my neighbours...it's going to make me lose a lot of my savings to resolve the problem...so at this late date, I'm still learning about stoisism....thank you...
@SueChef100
8 күн бұрын
Sometimes breaking the cycle requires breaking away
@michelebroughton6511
Ай бұрын
I've been researching stoicism, to deal with everyday issues....thank you.
@michelebroughton6511
Ай бұрын
Thank you for your thoughts on how we can "outrun ourselves"....I've been there and and am there...thank you for your advise in helping me stay where I am....
@chriselliman
Ай бұрын
Well said and hopefully well lived.
@agnesfabiszewska6494
2 ай бұрын
I am in letter 11 I believe. I got the book. Can’t believe only now. Why Seneca. What draws you to his words. What has been your journey to arrive here? I always love listening to life stories and how others arrived at these deep waters makes me feel more determined and resolved in my path. I see myself in your words. I want to escape run away from where I am. I love my little home etc but I feel so restless in my mind. There is angst and a bit of chaos. My heart knows the situations are not out there but here. What if you are not sure what your issue is? I don’t know how to fix this bc I don’t know what exactly is broken. Just a sense of emptiness.
@GodsSouljaa
Ай бұрын
You can’t hide from yourself. Every where you go, there you are !
@somisomi62
3 ай бұрын
Sometimes you need a new scenery
@lizlizzy-fg3lw
3 ай бұрын
When I was 13, I was obsessed with reading Seneca every day. Thank you for reminding me how much I loved him. Great content, keep on going :)
@eashavazi40
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your calm demeanour and delivery of these thoughts. It has a profound impact on allowing us, your audience, to deeply understand the thought. It gives us time to ponder and reflect on the meaning of your ideas. There's another channel that I follow that talks about teachings from Marcus Aurelius. Obviously the guy puts a lot of time into editing his videos, but the sheer number of cuts to clips or images that fill up the time is so much and the transitions are so rapid that the audience loses focus! The fact that you are sitting next to your bookcase or a lake or somewhere peaceful, and are so accurate when uttering each sentence makes the video have a very meditative and introspective vibe... I feel that's what you are also aiming to achieve. Please keep this style, as you make videos. Your channel is, in essence, a refuge that we can come to in the ad/algorithm-crazy platform that KZitem has become.
@douadouard1009
3 ай бұрын
I partly disagree cause I feel like postponing fundamentally fixing minor inconveniences is alright as long as you're acting against your main ones. If Im mainly struggling with more-or-less-urgent problem A but problem B is an annoyance, I dont necessarily have the time or energy to deal with B while Im already dealing with A. Then I feel its alright to prioritize fixing A even if it means temporarily avoiding B. I agree that leaving is often times not a satisfying answer. But not all problems have the same importance or require to be solved at the same time. Focusing on the appropriate battles at the appropriate time is sometimes necessary
@douadouard1009
3 ай бұрын
(Although its best to try and deal at both at the same time if possible of course)
@perilsofpride
3 ай бұрын
Idk who you are but I needed this. Thank you
@velerina2017
3 ай бұрын
I am comfortable being by myself, but now confident enough. For confidence in the world filled with friends, partners and groups, I feel weird and foreign being by myself. So for confidence, I need a friend. I don't feel confident by myself, esp at crowded places and outside home, like streets, restaurants, parks and all
@mentalmadness9783
Ай бұрын
Unfortunately bad habits can be so hardly linked to a place or environment that the only way you can get out is to either change to environment or move yourself to another environment.
@Dylonysus
3 ай бұрын
I've cut off some friends recently and That was the right move , but a voice in my head wants me to go even further and to cut off some people closer to me, But honestly this is to far. its really good to have boundaries but, Its not going to solve all my problems I realized I was looking to much externally. Great video man, If we really have gained more inner strength and confidence we need to enter uncomfortable situations with our abundance mindset and put it to the test. If nothing REALLY bothers us as much as it use to we shouldn't have to be so rigid, we can become comfortable where we weren't before.
@rolandburks
3 ай бұрын
Beautiful! 🙏❤️
@jendrumm
29 күн бұрын
These have been so healing ty
@miuzzisan4098
3 ай бұрын
Thanks 4sharing ,pure wisdom bro ❤
@themoroccantraveller221
Ай бұрын
I'm glad I came upon this channel, it's like every video fixes one of my problems.
@del-marmare1646
2 ай бұрын
Ultimately and in the final analysis, you live in your head.
@PoetlaureateNFDL
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your amazing channel. I find your ideas refreshing and enlightening. 😊
@julzluvzdollz
3 ай бұрын
Wow this was right on time for me. Thank you so much for this video.
@LineswithSerena
3 ай бұрын
A clarifying contribution. Thank you.
@hindmhamdabouloudani9141
Ай бұрын
I love you man thank you for every word you just said it hit me so hard
@dalelight8340
3 ай бұрын
First time listening to you, appreciate your thoughtfulness , heartfelt, and ease of sharing what are often complex issues for many .
@era1vezoficial
Ай бұрын
I wish ppl could hear u, cause I’ve been saying that for so many years and ghosting and blocking “friends” that I don’t want anymore cause it is pushing me down. And ppl say I am mean . Well, I am not mean, I am just taking care of myself
@AsyaKerz
2 ай бұрын
This message came at the right time for me. It's like you held up a mirror and I could see patterns of my younger self that I see were made in an attempt to protect me, but if I keep moving forward with them they will only stunt me.
@LfunkeyA
3 ай бұрын
you need both honestly
@leahnotlea
2 ай бұрын
I love the part where you say that we can be a silent observer and find the situation interesting, and the situation passes anyway regardless of what it is. I feel like that sentence alone brings so much peace because of impermanence and it opens up a sense of curiosity in me which makes life so intriguing.
@sarahfaith6531
2 ай бұрын
I absolutely love this and you. I have trauma that I run from continually so I relate to this and find it so simple and helpful to hear. The one comment I would make is that yes absolutely we can be at ease in any situation if we come to find peace in ourselves but it’s also okay to realize that we are not at home here - this is not our final resting place. I heard a speaker describe the feeling as being “homeless and miserable” in this world. It does feel that way, even while we seek peace in it.
@narcisoanasui246
Ай бұрын
Thing is, I’m not exactly sure what my root problem is. Working on it, though. Great video.
@3mpti_n3ss
3 ай бұрын
Love you brother! Thank you for this friendly reminder!!❤😊
@bl1506
15 күн бұрын
Dear God please bring an intelligent man like this into my life 🙏🏻
@RawKnee1111
24 күн бұрын
Thank you for this wonderful insight.
@gemmadidit4118
3 ай бұрын
🥺Look...you and I both know this man is obviously a vampire in an alluring disguise😒. DO NOT FALL UNDER HIS SPELL😲! Just look into his eyes and enjoy the ride🤪.
@ayushisingh2203
Ай бұрын
i have found great admiration for you sir, you speak in such amusing ways, and somehow all of these things are what ive been avoiding addressing myself. I see you and your spoken words as greatly influential. I thank you from the bottom of my heart and hope whoever needs to hear you like i did, finds you in due time
@kindabent3275
3 ай бұрын
i needed this vid. been procrastinating so much recently. thank u for this reminder!!
@martineallen6637
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this! I’ve been making excuses with a friend and feeling bad because I don’t like hurting people. The dishonesty doesn’t sit well with me either 😂
@GoWithDaFlowMo
23 күн бұрын
Same here... 😅
@sylviamartin3445
Ай бұрын
you are a wonderful thank you for sharing your story ....amazing
@lifeandfaith
3 ай бұрын
Well done. I'm going to have to read me some Seneca. And, a reminder to me to get back to my moral inventories. Made me a happier person when I took the time to build my own character.
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