Hi Jenna, First I want to inform you that if you want a belly button they can create one. So I am a Scrub nurse & specialize in cardio/thoracic surgery. But when there are no heart or lung cases I scrub & assist in bariatric surgery. Weight loss surgery. So usually after 1-2 years after the patient loses so much weight the skin on their abdomen just hangs down. Sometimes so bad that they have to talk the skin into their pants. So they come back for reconstructive surgery. During this process, we have to cut all the excess skin off. So most of the time the belly button has to go. So we just create one. Just like the breast when a woman has reconstructive breast surgery the areola (nipple)Has to be realigned or in some cases there's cancer cancer in the areola (nipple) & we just create a new nipple and sometimes we have to tattoo the areola so it's the same color as it was before. I was one without a belly button as well. I also was premature three months early and weighed 1 1/2 pounds. I received my belly button when I became an operating room nurse, and seeing what they could do, I was amazed. So I asked the surgeon to put a belly button on me and he did.
@jeans.5756
6 сағат бұрын
I would keep listening to your story but your cus words are not something I care to hear
@mostlypeacefulcerealkiller2145
15 сағат бұрын
The algorythm brought me here 4 years after this video was posted. Sometimes people are just too difficult & we don't have the strength/coping skills/whatever, to deal with them without serious damage. We don't hate them, we just think we're not ready & will deal with them later. Sometimes we run out of time. Regret for paths not taken is horrible. You just weren't ready. Be kind to yourself.
@tammykrogh2249
Күн бұрын
Choices. Not “mistakes”. You are brave. Keep working on becoming healthy!!!
@dustinsanford4896
Күн бұрын
Never had a dad, or “dude” I felt I can be myself with, still feel like I’m alone! 2003. ❤ thanks 4 talking
@dustinsanford4896
Күн бұрын
Same B day as my dad so it’s hard but him and his mom did it in the same spot a few years apart.
@jessicaolivo2181
2 күн бұрын
My mom committed suicide 2 days prior to my birthday...we can talk
@brendaleiphart8934
3 күн бұрын
You are a beautiful intelligent young lady you are blessed 🙌
@selfesteem3447
3 күн бұрын
Gripping Testimony. Bless your heart. Going to rock your other videos to see how you're doing today, Four years since you posted this🙏🏼
@prettypinklady5145
4 күн бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss! I am happy to hear that you are working through the trauma that has occurred in your life at a young age. I am also happy to hear that you have a wonderful mom and dad that raised you with love & a husband that is by your side! God bless you & your family!
@TheStarflight41
4 күн бұрын
So sorry for your loss and pain.
@shirleywong9428
5 күн бұрын
With me I like to choose my childrens birthdays but for good reasons
@MariaOSullivan42
6 күн бұрын
Be careful and aware of subconscious self destruction. I'm speaking from experience. You are beautiful and your entire life ahead of you
@MariaOSullivan42
6 күн бұрын
You never said how she died or did I miss it??
@jennareaver
5 күн бұрын
Liver failure, she combined a lot of alcohol with a lot of over the counter drugs
@MariaOSullivan42
6 күн бұрын
My mom did something similar except she was older and obviously I was too, I begged her not to do it. She wasn't speaking to me for over a year and I begged her not to let herself die without speaking to me . With my brother's assistance she did what I begged her not to do. My brother called me after she was dead. This was ten years ago . We were close all my life up until a fall out we had when my dad died and she moved to another state with my brother and refused to speak to me for a year and that's when my brother called me and told me she was dead. I asked if she said anything about me , or to tell me anything before she died, and he said "uhhh no".
@annmarieschantz9724
7 күн бұрын
Good for you helping to heal so many. I get people who try suicide, I have learned it can be better. You will never know what your life can become! Sometimes good, or bad. It is a thing you need to try for a little while. Thanks for sharing this!!
@Alex-fu7ku
7 күн бұрын
Thank you soo fucking much! You told soo much of my story. We have a lot of similarities. I was born 2 months early with a birth defect and I was born addicted to opioids. My mom got a DUI with me and my siblings in the car at 5. My mom came in and out of my life and in high school tried to get custody of me and I had to convince courts, therapist, etc that i didn’t want to live with my mom. My mom wasn’t a stranger to me but she was never my mom. She took her life in November when I was 25. Thank you so much for sharing.
@jennareaver
7 күн бұрын
Wow, such similar stories!! Wishing you all the best
@Alex-fu7ku
7 күн бұрын
My mom took her life in November. Thank you so much for sharing
@KayLeeHoward-vc2ph
7 күн бұрын
My half brothers dad was my didn’t know it til I was like 11 my mom didn’t encourage me to speak to my dad he’s a great guy but my brothers dad passed away and my step dad now is my dad my mom and me don’t speak anymore so family trauma I get
@KayLeeHoward-vc2ph
7 күн бұрын
I was born early and had a hole in my heart every time I got out in public u don’t look 27 like ya I know it lol annoying I look twelve too
@pattieaton
7 күн бұрын
It is totally not your fault that you have been placed in such a heart breaking situation, but I feel your mother deserved to be a part of your life and to have had the opportunity to share her side of the story. I feel this is a classic case of parental alienation of which your mother could not cope or accept. I feel your father would only have been a ' hero' if he had a paved a path for you to still be in touch with your mother. You needed both of your parents in your life and were sadly denied it. Best wishes in your life❤
@jennareaver
7 күн бұрын
My dad and step mom never told me I couldn't speak with my mother, they gave me many opportunities to and said they would always support that but I never wanted to.
@tanjaharmse5517
8 күн бұрын
Oh my goodness... I am so so sorry 😞 My son was born 1st March 1993... I just can not imagine...😢
@anitarose7915
8 күн бұрын
My birthday is Jan. 8th, too, but I am 56. It's Elvis Presley birthday.
@rebeccaokeefe5041
10 күн бұрын
You look just like your mom. Beautiful!
@anitapilliter3954
10 күн бұрын
My heart and prayers go out to you Jenna and much love to you also ❤❤🙏🙏
@donnahugo1247
11 күн бұрын
What a nasty vindictive person
@m.warhaftig8651
11 күн бұрын
😢 I'm so sorry. Your sre values and will find love for the life you want to lead. She was sick. But of a kind that a family member can't give or even understand. Thank you for sharing your story. God's blessings to you! 🙏
@melaniedaly4321
11 күн бұрын
U r a pretty young lady but the ugly words coming out of ur mouth make makes u ugly there's no reason to use fowl language
@michelerenem
11 күн бұрын
You should have given her a chance.......................... I've been through a lot of things similar... But you seem to be entitled and bratty. She was a stranger to you bc you made it so. But it was your choice..... This is literally coming from someone who grew up with a mother who was addicted to crack, but my mother was a good person, and I miss her still, even though she has been gone for 10 years now... I would give anything to go back in time, but I can't... I at first thought this story of yours would make me feel some kind of kindred way with you, but I absolutely do not.
@jennareaver
11 күн бұрын
@@michelerenem 👍
@marymiller9870
7 күн бұрын
I hope you feel better now and believe you were having quite a talk with yourself as well as expressing your displeasure. It certainly brought out my defense mechanism. I feel better now. Thanks for judging this little circle you created.
@jennareaver
6 күн бұрын
@@marymiller9870 Are you talking to me?
@LouiseMoreau-dk3ox
11 күн бұрын
I was born the 8 of january 1960. Pardon my english, my first language is french ( I live in Montréal , Québec ).My mom died when I was 2 years and 10 month old.She was a drunk and a Pill Popper and I'm happy I didnt get to know her.young Lady, I am more than twice your age.Trust me the feeling of guilt will leave.You are Gorgeous and very Smart,me too I quit Drugs and alcool (41 years ago ). You're gonna make IT, but, never touch that shit gain.You deserve better,You deserve the best.All my toughts and prayers are with you.
@simplelove513
12 күн бұрын
I hope you’re doing great. Your page popped up today and I listened to your story. I am a 65 year old woman who had a very traumatic relationship with my father. I have spent my whole life wanting him to treat me like a daughter. I let it define me. I’m a very sad person who’s getting older and wondering where my life went. I made bad choices in my life. The mental issues. On and on. Now at 65 I am realizing how I let this man’s treatment of me define me all of these years. I’m sad. Just now I’m learning to let it go. If I could suggest anything to you it would be to let it go. I know it’s not easy and you may have by now. All of the unanswered questions and self doubt just isn’t worth not honoring the real you. And from what I see you’re a beautiful, self aware, intelligent woman. Build positive off of all your blessings. You’re story matters and you can help others, but never let it define you. Regrets are just life killers in my mind. Too bad I found out too late.
@lisabradyusa
13 күн бұрын
May I ask if your ex got his sperm count checked? You two could have been a mismatch, genetically. It’s not your fault!
@lisabradyusa
13 күн бұрын
You don’t have to explain yourself about not being ready to see your mom. Her using your birthday as a reason to poison herself was a very selfish act, like now you have to process that, it was wicked covertly f.cked up, and not your fault.
@GodisInYourJobSearch
14 күн бұрын
You strong girl. dont know if anyone’s ever shared the gospel with you but Jesus loves u and has been with u thru all of this. And will continue u provide u comfort. He has a great plan for ur life and u will be a testimony to many. Jeremiah 29:11. 💟✝️✝️
@lisabradyusa
14 күн бұрын
Hi. I’m only 3 mins in but my youngest son was born on Jan 8 and was a premie as well. I’m sending love ❤️
@tyreebruce
14 күн бұрын
I love my kids and I’m not perfect. I made huge mistakes. I married an abusive son of a gun and sent my boys to safety for a time My daughter ( his only ) was stuck with us and I left everything behind to keep her safe I have my family my back now He never changed. They’ve been estranged since she was 12, she’s now 20. She is welcome and always was welcome to have him in her life and she chooses not to. He never apologizes or even admits to the things he’s done. To this day he gaslights when he messages her. He actually sent a message to her a few months back about how his heart is failing and that a neurologist said he’s been having seizures that may have been there for YEARS without him knowing what he does during them. Crazy stuff. I could totally see him doing something like that to her. We’ve had talks, I’ve let her know one day her grandparents and he will pass. She’s going to have to really think about that and decide if keeping them out of her life is ok. I would NEVER want any of my children to be burdened that way.
@milzijex7340
14 күн бұрын
You were not close to your birth mother, nor knew her, not wanted her. I'm afraid its not helpful for those grieving a mother they loved dearly who took her life. You did not know her except for her dark side. Your reaction is to the inconvenient events around your mother 'bitch'. You may have driven her to suicide by telling her to stop talking to you. Its not all about you. Sorry.
@carolinebutler6268
15 күн бұрын
I’m so sorry you went through this pain! It’s so hard to carry this kind of burden. My sister committed suicide on my 13th birthday so I have some understanding of your pain. God bless you I pray you can heal from this in time 🙏❤️
@beckielairson8145
15 күн бұрын
Im so sorry you had to go through so much. I'm glad you went to her apartment and got to realize she really did love you. That has to be somewhat healing in itself. Hope this outlet helps you, but have you ever had counseling?
@jennareaver
15 күн бұрын
I have seen many therapists, psychologists, and psychiatrists throughout my life yes
@Peak_a_Boomer1963
17 күн бұрын
What happened to MJ?
@jennareaver
17 күн бұрын
Her childhood best friend has him
@Peak_a_Boomer1963
17 күн бұрын
@jennareaver Thank you. I pray that she found peace from her troubled life. I also hope your journey through life brings you only the best.
@gachalife_queen2816
17 күн бұрын
You are one, amazing human being!!!!! Just extremely, inspirational and impressive! You will make an awesome mother, one day and you are one of those cool people that breaks a negative cycle. You freaking rock, at life! It really is inspiring how life kept knocking you down and you were like, "nope not me, I got this! " So freaking cool ❤
@Tom-j9i
17 күн бұрын
Im so sorry, i lost my Dad about 1 and a half years ago, about 2 weeks after my 37th birthday
@amandawilson4716
17 күн бұрын
My kom and i have never really had a great relationship, just like you alot of younger childhood trauma. My aunts and grandparents helped raise me and ny brother. My mom and brother were veey close. When I would go to her house, she had it covered in pictures of me and ny husband. You would have thought we were best friends. I think its her way of coping with not being close to one of her kids. I dont think dying my suicide is selfish but i think doing it on that day was. I am glad you are telling your story and finding peace in yourself. ❤
@billieWood-k3v
18 күн бұрын
I would take u for my daughter. U are so brave and real. And a heCK of another stronger than u think 😊❤
@gabebannister8411
18 күн бұрын
I think our CPS and family court system is so far backwards. Shocking she tried to take custody at 16!!!!
@terrisparks311
19 күн бұрын
Keep these updates coming - most of us care enough to listen to you.
@terrisparks311
19 күн бұрын
What you had to go through was terrible, I cannot imagine. I myself did not have a good relationship with my mother either. Looking forward to more of your videos.
@kat8234
21 күн бұрын
💗💗💗💗💗
@debbieheath7838
22 күн бұрын
I'm so sorry!! You're a beautiful young lady, who is a fantastic storyteller! Take Care, Amanda Heath
@Jenna-Roo
22 күн бұрын
I'm so very sorry sweet girl. Give the pain and burden to God. Your momma had mental health issues obviously! She would want you to be happy and forgive her. God already did! 🙏🏼😘❤️✌🏻🎂🌈🌞🦋
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