Meh, I'll focus on becoming a millionaire. Much easier than finding a decent man🤷🏾♀️
@angelataylor7799
3 жыл бұрын
lol, right!! or winning the lottery...lol.
@sheypiglet
3 жыл бұрын
Perriioooddd
@toviankemakonam4986
3 жыл бұрын
This is absolutely right
@jayc5756
3 жыл бұрын
SMH! 🤦♂️
@thissunchild
3 жыл бұрын
@@jayc5756 Why, tho?
@jasmnethorpe8887
3 жыл бұрын
Keep your legs closed. That will weed out 90% of the bs. Sex is not an audition or a handshake.
@tkittrell9315
3 жыл бұрын
This comment should be pinned! And when it doesn’t work out you didn’t loose anything in the process 💯
@cynthiarossershay7077
3 жыл бұрын
Amen! Whew!!!
@tanitrarobinson7477
3 жыл бұрын
BINGO!
@tanitrarobinson7477
3 жыл бұрын
@@tkittrell9315 right. You've only invested a phone call or two...
@RealSkyBlue18
3 жыл бұрын
Facts 💯 I say this all the time. Take sex out of the equation and you’ll see who’s serious.
@ashleychemise
3 жыл бұрын
Sigh, I got ghosted this week after setting boundaries and asking deep questions , thank goodness this happened early on
@Rocanala
3 жыл бұрын
Ditto
@TynishaTalks
3 жыл бұрын
Isn’t it the best? Blessing in disguise
@misspriss2482
3 жыл бұрын
We were blessed, sis. At least men like that are honest. They don't fake it until your emotions get involved.
@aomfnm
3 жыл бұрын
He was a coward. Good riddance to him.
@ashleychemise
3 жыл бұрын
@@TynishaTalks Absolutely!
@Celti_
3 жыл бұрын
What I love about this is, eventually the emotionally unavailable person becomes emotionally available and karma will send them emotionally unavailable people that'll force them to feel how they made others suffer. I find comfort in that.
@Itsjustebele
3 жыл бұрын
😊
@francescaspencer1700
3 жыл бұрын
Yes ❤️
@StandupGirl-ym3ey
3 жыл бұрын
Truth!!!
@India423.
3 жыл бұрын
Sounds evil
@Stormy867
3 жыл бұрын
So true
@cokeke78
3 жыл бұрын
"If you become a guy's pastime but you don't become his real interest, he's emotionally unavailable to you. A guy should be willing to be bored with you" - Kev Hicks
@Servant_of_TMH
3 жыл бұрын
YES THIS!!!!
@germyw
3 жыл бұрын
I read this exactly as he said it.
@RuthBBrown
3 жыл бұрын
See....
@jayc5756
3 жыл бұрын
True Facts tho
@cokeke78
3 жыл бұрын
@@sovereign.spirit you're correct and I miss that so much
@sumeyanasher
3 жыл бұрын
Block him, he’ll learn about emotions then...
@musicmaker1311
3 жыл бұрын
👌🏾
@marciadawkins7731
3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha!...love it.
@sumeyanasher
3 жыл бұрын
@tameika cooper they make it seem like they don’t, but human is human........*evil laugh* 😫
@Iwish387
3 жыл бұрын
Yes ma’am
@jaceem4175
3 жыл бұрын
@tameika cooper Right!
@LuvMiwrite
3 жыл бұрын
It’s just gonna be me and Jesus cause I’m sick of these ninjas
@mdoingme
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I hear you, Kueen. They are definitely way too much lol
@kaylaburse6319
3 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!!!
@thissunchild
3 жыл бұрын
Love the way you put that😂
@nadinevenson5231
3 жыл бұрын
😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 He'll Take Care Of You Sis 😆😆😆😆💙💜
@kaoshi_kutie
3 жыл бұрын
Same 😭
@emuhu001
3 жыл бұрын
I would also add: If he doesn't ask questions about you to try to get to know you.
@LY-js7ff
3 жыл бұрын
no fuckboys will even do that and act like they care just to get what they want
@marah3298
3 жыл бұрын
They do that a lot though! They just refuse to answer those same questions themselves!
@angelataylor7799
3 жыл бұрын
yes. it should be obvious, but sadly its easy to waste your time and then only realize later - wait - he never asked anything and only talked about himself...
@marah3298
3 жыл бұрын
@@angelataylor7799 yes!!
@angelataylor7799
3 жыл бұрын
@@marah3298 yep!! I'm just mad I wasted my time and didnt kick that chump to the curb sooner lol. but at least now I know lol
@kiaraxo8487
3 жыл бұрын
1. Out of sight out of mind- he doesn’t think about you when you’re not together 2. Always “busy”- just an excuse to not talk to you, we all have some free time 3. Avoids non-sexual/non-entertainment time- only entertains you when he needs you for something, won’t be bored with you 4. Not clear on anything- “don’t know” what they’re looking for, ambiguous responses 5. Hates questions- doesn’t want to give certainty/honesty, his responses make you not wanna ask questions 6. Punish you with distance- gets distant to kill expectations of anything serious 7. Feeling quarantined- you only stay in one area of his life, only entertains you when he wants to
@lisahunter2953
3 жыл бұрын
This is a lot of work
@afinikiee4026
3 жыл бұрын
@@lisahunter2953 😂😂😂
@Iwish387
3 жыл бұрын
Wheeewww Child... you nailed it.
@Iwish387
3 жыл бұрын
Lol nvm... he just texted me 🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️😅😂
@veenessa2540
3 жыл бұрын
Yup everything resonates...I found out hes MARRIED !!! That's why he was acting the way he was ..last thing I told him he will never hear from me again...Im falling off the face of earth and do not contact me ... And he hasn't....
@TheAmaraHorton
3 жыл бұрын
This isn’t just romantic either ladies... someone who makes empty promises in business and friendship also needs to be examined for his purpose in your life.
@kitthecat6543
3 жыл бұрын
My ex was always at work... he'd make time for his friends though... still hit up his mama and replied to others just not me
@Viva_lapink_
3 жыл бұрын
You not the only one. My last guy swears he is ALWAYS BUSY. Wasting time. Not in 2021
@lexielovingu206
3 жыл бұрын
That’s dude probably dL.
@angelataylor7799
3 жыл бұрын
lame. why cant they just be a man and be honest....oh, cuz thats too hard...lol.
@zaida20902
3 жыл бұрын
Lol sounds like my ex.
@kitthecat6543
3 жыл бұрын
@@ladiuneeq9789 Yep, you hit the nail on the head! Lol He wanted me to chase him and do all the work. He told me I had to earn his respect and time 😂 The things we accept is unbelievable sometimes. Kevs been so helpful!
@j-tenn226
3 жыл бұрын
Why do men get in relationships when they're going to act like this? If you just want sex, there a lot of easy women out there who will give up the goods without a title.
@musicmaker1311
3 жыл бұрын
😩🙌🏾😞😞
@angelataylor7799
3 жыл бұрын
bc that would be too easy or logical. they have to make a game and power play out of everything so they can "win". and what's exciting about a girl that actually wants sex?? lol. theyd rather chase one that doesnt.
@Butterflii32
3 жыл бұрын
@@angelataylor7799 exactly! It’s “too easy” with those type of women. No fun in “conquering” them.
@Butterflii32
3 жыл бұрын
That last sign... I had one like that and he tried to convince me “my compartment” meant the most to him 🙄 he was a straight dub. I’m glad I got hip to him quick and moved on.
@misspriss2482
3 жыл бұрын
@@helenarichard Not always. Christian men will refrain from sex, but they will do "boyfriend stuff" to keep you around. Yet you can't get an official date because they enjoy you but don't want to actually date you. However, they will flirt just enough to keep you from getting a real boyfriend and will act jealous when you show interest in other men. They want to spend time with you, but you're not the one so they won't commit. They don't want you to know that though. They want you to think that they are interested in dating you so you will keep wasting your time and emotions on them.
@NaturallyWit
3 жыл бұрын
This was my situation a few months ago. I cut him off as soon as I felt some of this behavior. I don't have time for games 😌
@faceofglam
3 жыл бұрын
Going thru this now, I’m trying to read him but it’s kinda hard, but my bet is he’s hung up on a ain’t shit ex..moving on✌🏽
@skindippedingold
3 жыл бұрын
Yesss! I’ve learned the hard way to cut them off at the first sign of this behavior. No more trying to rationalize their foolery
@exoticlove-sherine1234
3 жыл бұрын
@@faceofglam lol. same sis. This is my current situation & he's definitely hung up on his ex. I tell him go be great! He refuses.smh🙈🤦🏾♀️
@angelataylor7799
3 жыл бұрын
@@exoticlove-sherine1234 ugh so many are. wish I had done the same and not wasted my time...too bad they dont have the self awareness to realize and keep tryna waste our time...
@exoticlove-sherine1234
3 жыл бұрын
@@angelataylor7799 So true! Which is why I'm going back to therapy. This can't be life at all.
@tinangwane8337
3 жыл бұрын
If he really loves you, you’ll know If he doesn’t, you’ll be looking for signs everywhere
@cindeed4422
3 жыл бұрын
He might be a work-a-holic but he’s not working too hard to be with you!
@potentialrizing1949
3 жыл бұрын
Analyzing previous relationships realizing 99.9% of them were emotionally unavailable 🤔😲😅
@Mayfloweralways
3 жыл бұрын
Same here 😒
@dueseason
3 жыл бұрын
The struggle
@iamaleo247
3 жыл бұрын
Same 😣😔
@thiacari
3 жыл бұрын
I had a flakey guy one too, made me crazy... after getting an emotionally available man, life has been super easy! He organizes dates, sometimes pays for things, calls, writes long emails, sends pics of his life, wants me to meet every gran and friend, tries hard answering my questions, avoids unnecessary fights. Our relationship has been easy for 8 years now :)
@angelataylor7799
3 жыл бұрын
@@thiacari then why you watchin the vid?? lol
@renewyourmind1815
3 жыл бұрын
"Have you been trained not to ask questions." 🤔😑
@germyw
3 жыл бұрын
That part was deep, right?
@LY-js7ff
3 жыл бұрын
funny thing is the fuckboy asked me all the questions all the time 😂
@marah3298
3 жыл бұрын
@@LY-js7ff yes! They want to know all of our personal business, but won’t even tell us their middle name
@secondchances8238
3 жыл бұрын
If i had Kev’s advice 15 yrs ago i would have saved myself much heartache and wasted time
@sjay19babybaybay93
2 жыл бұрын
I feel you...me too...
@IvanaGirl
Жыл бұрын
😩😩😩😩 tell me about it
@everlastinglovechild5073
3 жыл бұрын
Now ladies, Kevin has given the 7 signs of a man that basically does not care for you how you want him to. You have to hold yourself accountable for where you take it with these type of men if you observe any of these qualities. If a man is not treating you like you are worth his time, give his tail that same energy. If you are emotionally attached to that man, it’s going to hurt like hell but some times you have to do what’s best for you. Be unavailable when he comes talking about he has time, f him. When he see the switch up, he’s still going to try and fool with you basically because of the sexual chemistry you guys have, Starve his a**!!!
@angelataylor7799
3 жыл бұрын
its easy to ignore or block, but the problem is, a lot of these ones will just eventually come back w/a new profile or whatever and try the same S***, lol. so its easy to get rid of them, but then when they pop up again thats what creates stress bc youre reminded of them again and then have to remember and think and then realize oh yeah, hes a waste of time. if theyd just leave us alone then itd be easier to really get rid of them like we tried to in the first place...lol. :/
@everlastinglovechild5073
3 жыл бұрын
@@angelataylor7799 that’s why I said it’s going to hurt, trust, I’ve been through it. Once I realized that he didn’t give a damn about me and would come back to have sex with me as much as I allowed him to, him knowing that I cared for him deeply and he not give a damn, I had to build up enough strength to say enough was enough and cut all ties with him. Even after I would see him and he would come with the bullshit, I remember all the things he said and done to me. That man had hurt me so bad, I still struggle to this day in trusting men fully. But I’m on a healing path. I have finally accepted that I made a mistake and ignored the signs that said man had given me. Now to let go of that hurt is the next step. I have had men come into my life since this has happened and now at the slightest negative, I’m out. This is not a good thing because at the end of the day, no one is perfect, but I’m so scared to ever feel that pain again.
@angelataylor7799
3 жыл бұрын
@@everlastinglovechild5073 yes same now I just tell them off or block them before even meeting...yes kinda sad being alone and not really dated in years....but at least I havent been used in years either!! lol ;D
@everlastinglovechild5073
3 жыл бұрын
@@angelataylor7799 I don’t even waste my breath anymore. I learned from the players that you do more damage just ghosting a person. Soon as they do anything, I just drift off and not talk to them again. Arguing with a man that does wrong only shows them that you give a damn. I’m not saying anything. I tell guys at the gate things I don’t allow or will put up with, so if they do any of those things and they never hear from me again, they know why. I’m not going back and forth, you tried me🥴🤣
@angelataylor7799
3 жыл бұрын
@@everlastinglovechild5073 right on!! and the ones that ghosted and then wanna show up months or years later....lol. they get NOTHING. crickets!! ::chirp chirp:: lol :D
@yumyumeatemuppp
3 жыл бұрын
You’re the best brother EVER.
@karendavis1559
3 жыл бұрын
Yes He's a close brother who say what it is instead of trying to get his attention. He warns all sisters
@yumyumeatemuppp
3 жыл бұрын
@@karendavis1559 what?
@bijoumwaura3735
2 жыл бұрын
He really is❤❤❤🙌
@yumyumeatemuppp
2 жыл бұрын
Big Facts ♥️
@LizNeptune
2 жыл бұрын
Yessssss
@exoticlove-sherine1234
3 жыл бұрын
Wow! My whole situationship exposed in 7 steps. Lettuce pray. Lol 🙈🤦🏾♀️🙄🤣🤣🤣🤣
@kaoshi_kutie
3 жыл бұрын
😭😭😂😂😂
@musicmaker1311
3 жыл бұрын
😞🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😩
@mz_martina
3 жыл бұрын
😄😁😂
@juliawhite7152
3 жыл бұрын
That damn lettuce situationship 😂😂😂🤣😭
@exoticlove-sherine1234
3 жыл бұрын
@@juliawhite7152 😂😂😂😂😂
@tywanbrown3034
3 жыл бұрын
Emotionally unavailable me are NOT men that you want to build a relationship with. You might have fun with them but thats all it will be because they are not looking to be in a relationship they are only looking for the "FUN" factor
@faceofglam
3 жыл бұрын
Why you got to be so on point? The more I hear this video the more I get sad & ANGRY AF😩😢😤😡😕🙁☹️🤬🙄😲😑👿
@marah3298
3 жыл бұрын
I feel you and you’re not alone! We need to hear this!
@kayp9318
3 жыл бұрын
Same! And Steve Harvey has been saying a lot of this stuff for years. But we didn’t listen/trust him do to his failed marriages.
@marah3298
3 жыл бұрын
@@kayp9318 but like he said, it equals more experience on his part that he’s had multiple marriages! I used to dismiss him, but the guy really knows his stuff! He treats his wife like a Queen.. she needs to write a book lol
@kayp9318
3 жыл бұрын
@@marah3298 Yes she does! We need the blueprint out here 😂😂😂
@tybrone1110
3 жыл бұрын
Right?! BUT like we need to hear the truth and stop making these crazy behaviors romantic and meaningful. This stuff don’t mean and thang and we can be happy with ourselves.
@LifeisAisha
3 жыл бұрын
*sigh* sounds like my ex. Been there, NEVER will do that again!
@aminah761
3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@ashleyware82
3 жыл бұрын
You shouldn’t have to demand time!!! Yup!!!
@cutejaxngirl
3 жыл бұрын
I needed this! The guy I am currently seeing is ALL SEVEN . Time for me to say...NEXT!
@towandalake3492
3 жыл бұрын
Me too😦
@cutejaxngirl
3 жыл бұрын
@@towandalake3492 I am sorry. We deserve better.
@towandalake3492
3 жыл бұрын
@@cutejaxngirl am telling you 😒😒
@sipesihlenonxuba6187
3 жыл бұрын
NEXT!!!!
@msgodiva1000
3 жыл бұрын
What if you feel like he's the one, how do you walk away? 🙁
@twintwr2
3 жыл бұрын
If he has to tell you he’s Interested, but he doesn’t reach out... he’s not interested he’s about to bs you
@pynki08
3 жыл бұрын
This is literally the last guy I stopped talking to. Sooooo busy. The “for me” was silent and once I figured that out I cut him out my life.
@Fit_pharmacist
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! We always forget that silent “for me” or “with you.” Knowledge is power though! 🙌🏾
@karendavis1559
3 жыл бұрын
Great. That how to handle them. I did the same too
@pynki08
3 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!! Won’t make the same mistakes twice ❤️
@lovewins699
3 жыл бұрын
No woman should want to feel like an afterthought in a man's life. YOU have to know that you deserve better....YOU have to know what you want, and set boundaries. Don't allow a man to feed you the crumbs from the table. Know when to walk away from any situation that doesn't benefit you. I refuse to let a man make me feel lower than the dirt on the bottom of his shoe.....why? BECAUSE I KNOW MY WORTH, and you have to know yours. No man is worth all of that....✌️
@mursaleenshah7856
3 жыл бұрын
I think we all know that when a guy is unavailable. We just fool ourselves because we are either being too desperate to find love or just into their looks, status or some other shallow stuff.. And yeah we chase something harder when it is "unavailable" and try to win it because it feels good to our ego.
@angelataylor7799
3 жыл бұрын
that last part...lol.
@mursaleenshah7856
3 жыл бұрын
@@angelataylor7799 Lol.. I just noticed.
@dianababun260
3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@ambusched94
Жыл бұрын
yeah agreed, it's the ego boost and because we're bored or are too afraid to be vulnerable to real love
@kayp9318
3 жыл бұрын
Wish I had all of this information two years ago. The guy I was seeing exhibited ALL of these traits and more. Never wanted to talk on the phone, never introduced me to friends or family, would always shut down when I asked where this was going..talking about he’s been hurt before and he just wants to see where things go. All while we’re having sex. Totally my fault for giving up anything. Never again. Two yrs later I’m still beating myself up over it and I’m not even a thought in this persons mind.
@natasha2877
3 жыл бұрын
@Karen P sorry to hear this happened to you. He showed you who he was you just didn't see the do not enter sign. I've done it myself we can only learn from our mistakes and educate ourselves so we don't fall for the next joker.
@kayp9318
3 жыл бұрын
@@natasha2877 Thank you so much and you’re so right. As hurt as I still am, I’m so grateful at the same time for the lesson because it’s the slap in the face that I needed.
@Neeks6.6
3 жыл бұрын
Very true on the "busy" excuse. I use the "busy with work" excuse aaaalllll the time. Fact is, while I really do tend to be busy and have a lot going on, I can always find a way to re-arrange some things for the RIGHT person. It may not be easy, but I'll find a way to sneak in even a few hours depending on what's going on. If a dude (or woman in my case) is always "busy" they're simply not digging you ENOUGH to actually make an effort. I've been on both ends of this. Always remember that even WORLD LEADERS and CEOs of global corporations find time for love. Don't let these average joes with their average lives fool you with the excuses.
@Rovirgo22
3 жыл бұрын
This is the one for me, that’s right very successful people make the time so you know that an average joe is full of bs with the I’m busy excuse.
@freshmanjeans
2 жыл бұрын
This is deep
@ITSPURPLEPASSION
2 жыл бұрын
Iam Aneika I absolutely love and agree with your response. We all have played that "I'm too busy" card more than once with a person we don't want to be with You are telling the TRUTH men will make time for that person/lady that's important to them.
@MsMissme90
3 жыл бұрын
"They want a woman who can shut up and just be fkd!" 😱 that made me stop in my tracks and stare off inti a space a little lol....that sounded so harsh but im 100% that's the exact thought of some ppl
@chelsieromero4874
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😆
@suzanne4396
3 жыл бұрын
My current narcissist. 6 years and counting, waiting for that day when I see a spark in his eyes when he looks at me, and I'm not naked..
@MsMissme90
3 жыл бұрын
@@suzanne4396 😒 honest question...why are you with a person you know is a narcissist? [No judgement]
@suzanne4396
3 жыл бұрын
@@MsMissme90 I've just come to this realization, this week, by watching Kev and Dr Ramani. Because I was raised by a father(your first "love" interest as a child), who physically beat me since age 9, and regularly told me I am " useless, worthless and hopeless". He just attempted to physically attack me This Week-- he's 85, I'm 56. When you're used to being treated like dirt, that's where you gravitate toward...as unhealthy as it is. It's familiar.
@MsMissme90
3 жыл бұрын
@@suzanne4396 Oh wow. Well, im genuinely sorry you had to endure that but i pray you find peace and happiness in knowing your worth. You still have life to live and love so, be blessed and know that the world needs you, you are worth everything and NO one can/should be able to take away your hope.
@Pmatt1
3 жыл бұрын
Made it to #5 and it dawned on me...I’m getting played. Again. Whew. It’s the reactions and the blow ups that happen after the questions.
@BrooklynBaby-1
2 жыл бұрын
I just don’t understand what the reason behind all of that is, yknow? Like if a man wastes his own time, what does that say about him? It’s satanic. Hugs girl 💜
@gabyschel8334
3 жыл бұрын
The accuracy!!! He used to be doin all these things. Not anymore tho, I’m gone.
@Topself24
3 жыл бұрын
Damn. This is incredible. Everyone please watch this twice
@mimidagrizzli3494
3 жыл бұрын
i needed to hear this 😞
@cw6045
3 жыл бұрын
me, too
@NikNik0123
3 жыл бұрын
Take that “hard pill” and get well soon!
@pj2363
3 жыл бұрын
me too... it almost feels like I'm cursed or something. It's always the same 😞
@kiya467
3 жыл бұрын
Me too girl.. This hit the nail on the head but I knew it. On to the next. Good luck to us all!
@musicmaker1311
3 жыл бұрын
@@cw6045 😩😞😞😞😞🙌🏾
@christinaf2482
3 жыл бұрын
#6 is totally relatable. I opened up about some personal issues I’m going thru and have been left on read ever since. 😒
@emeraldeyes8688
3 жыл бұрын
Better off knowing that now about him, to save yourself from wasting more of your time opening up to him. I know it’s still disappointing. But trust me, it’s best to delete your message from your sent folder and move on.
@christinaf2482
3 жыл бұрын
@@emeraldeyes8688 you’re right. At least I know what I’m dealing with early on and can move on.
@suzanne4396
3 жыл бұрын
@@christinaf2482 Or, you can waste 6 years of your life as I have, because " he's going to wake up one day and realize he needs Me"... Smdh
@dreamscometrue246
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear about the disappointment better is out there
@LY-js7ff
3 жыл бұрын
but fuckboys also be opening up to make u feel „close” to them manipulation tricks
@Shylie_Irie
3 жыл бұрын
“They never know shit about shit” I HOLLERED🤣🤣🤣, I felt that😓
@lisahunter2953
3 жыл бұрын
Won't DM you or text you but you see him posting comments about relationships on social media
@Tinaburnerike
3 жыл бұрын
Lmao 😂
@joannhughes4992
3 жыл бұрын
Lmfao😅💀😭
@walkyria1
3 жыл бұрын
I was dating a guy for 9 months since March/ 2020. In the beginning everything was fine, but when the Football season started I could see the signs of him being emotionally unavailable. I felt abandoned and I had to compete on weekends with the games in order to get some of his time and attention. No plans was being made. Fridays night he would simply call me and never mentioned any plans for the weekend. I was the one asking "SOOO, ANY PLAN FOR US?" We got into a big argument 2 weeks ago, and it is over. We broke up. I can clearly see now that he is completely emotionally unavailable, when I thought it was because of the Football games.
@LY-js7ff
3 жыл бұрын
also when he talks abt his ex all the time and stalks her
@Chaptersaudio
3 жыл бұрын
5:49 So True! That is the #1 way I can tell if a guy is really into me. If I ask questions in the attempt to get to know him and he responds with "What is this...an interview?" That is an immediate, NOPE. I am really attracted to men that are great at conversation. I went out on a date recently with a guy that asked why I was asking so many questions, so I stopped. I sat there quiet waiting for him to speak. Just as I expected within a minute he said "Why so quiet? Don't tell me you're one of those drama women?" Spoiler alert - we never saw each other again. LOL!
@Anniemae1970
3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha I'm sorry... 🤗
@j-tenn226
3 жыл бұрын
He sounds like a straight up loser.
@TravelingDiva-vp1gt
3 жыл бұрын
He's hiding his true intentions. Men who have a problem with deep conversations and questions, usually have alot to hide.
@patriciaholloway
3 жыл бұрын
So, first he didn't like your questions, and then he didn't like your silence. What the actual......?! His ass sound bi-polar. I wouldn't have been able to contain my attitude with this fool. Good for you!!!🤗💪
@BrooklynBaby-1
2 жыл бұрын
Ladies, let’s make sure we ask those pressing questions early on and face to face! Someone I was seeing was VERY comfortable with answering questions over the phone because he was able to avoid my face but if you don’t ask him in real life, you’ll never know if he’s being 💯 honest.
@natakikambon
3 жыл бұрын
Best checklist on this topic I've heard! If he's super distant, he doesn't like you to ask questions, always busy with work, confused when talking about anything of substance about your situationship status, makes no effort, distracts you with fun, sex or shiny things, etc all = he's emotionally unavailable or he's just not that into you
@kimt0918
3 жыл бұрын
Another one too, when the guy is actually telling you he isn’t emotionally available. I think a lot of us think guys aren’t really serious when they say that.
@lisahunter2953
3 жыл бұрын
This happened to me last week someone I was crushing on for a while I asked him if he had time to hang out over the holidays He told me that he had a couple of get-togethers to go to but if I wanted to hang out after Christmas.....
@suzanne4396
3 жыл бұрын
Maya Angelou always said when someone tells you who they are, believe them.
@cyyrious
3 жыл бұрын
@@lisahunter2953 😒 lol guys can be so lame at times
@angelataylor7799
3 жыл бұрын
but then they 'find someone' right after you lol....so its really just you, but they dont wanna say that...
@kayp9318
3 жыл бұрын
@@lisahunter2953 Don’t go after a man that didn’t send for you my girl. Learned this the hard way. If they were interested we would know it and not have to go asking them to hang out on dates.
@fuckeries
3 жыл бұрын
The issue is no one likes me. I own the fact that I don;t go out enoughor belong to any groups where I'm SEEN. It's frustrating because I'm such an awesome person.
@patriciaholloway
3 жыл бұрын
First, love the name😭 Second, same. I can't work and so don't get exposure to as many people but I think I'm def marriage material, lol. Third, PANDEMIC.
@sharnelldavis1638
3 жыл бұрын
Wow this made me happy I cut off this one guy I use to talk to. I thought I was tripping. I’m glad I didn’t give my body to him. This video just confirmed my intuition was right.
@akhirastar9162
3 жыл бұрын
I just cut somebody off because of this..dealing with emotionally unavailable Men is toxic.
@dmiri0921
3 жыл бұрын
" They never know shit about shit." 😂🤣😂🤣 So true. Great video, Kev. Keep it up. You are an absolute GEM for us ladies. You give it to us straight and that's how we need to hear it.
@prettybrittany_
3 жыл бұрын
but a guy did this to me in october. when we first met, he was eager to take me on a date, be on the phone, let me know what he was up to THEN BOOM!! he because the busiest person in the world. he created distance, and then only hit me up for sex only. crazy how we live in a world full of he who play hella games.
@angelataylor7799
3 жыл бұрын
well they have to be great in the beginning right? or they wouldnt get us
@ultimatenopixelclips
3 жыл бұрын
Sis, do NOT have sex with any guy you really REALLY like unless they commit to you. Period!
@laurenlocd3180
2 жыл бұрын
Why did u give it up ?
@Servant_of_TMH
3 жыл бұрын
This is so true! When I experienced this, it was draining... ladies please pay attention to these red flags.
@barbarawalker499
3 жыл бұрын
I swear I should’ve been smarter then my last guy . You speak the truth and me myself I make to many excuses and I don’t know why. I don’t want anymore excuses I appreciate your honesty I really do Thankyou for being there to cut this shit down ;) .
@25mariec
3 жыл бұрын
Experienced most of these signs. I got the courage to walk a way 3 months ago. I’m now more at peace.💕
@juliawhite7152
3 жыл бұрын
Has he tried to contact you?
@25mariec
3 жыл бұрын
@@juliawhite7152 yes... and I ignored
@juliawhite7152
3 жыл бұрын
@@25mariec good for you!
@TynishaTalks
3 жыл бұрын
I will forever appreciate how he reads us for our life with the most serious expressions on his face 😂 Tough love! 💯
@sipesihlenonxuba6187
3 жыл бұрын
I always say no one is too busy for you, you choose who you want to make time for. I smell this behaviour bet you will never hear from me again. You can miss me on my voicemail.
@wendymendoza457
3 жыл бұрын
Wow! So good. After being married for 20 years and now single again the dating market is so different and this helps me know what the new dating world is like. I'm hearing you and will expect nothing less. Thank you!
@kiconcosuzan6634
Жыл бұрын
The best is never to expect much and be ready to forget the past
@ruthylopez1575
3 жыл бұрын
Ouch, truth hurts. I felt this 🙏💯
@cw6045
3 жыл бұрын
I'm on my third time watching this...the quarantine/compartmentalized sign is spot-on for someone who just wants entertainment without commitment.
@ibekristen
3 жыл бұрын
oooh you dropped this video at the right time. good advice as always!
@quettalogan3295
3 жыл бұрын
Know Your Worth! What You Allow Will Continue.
@luly2369
3 жыл бұрын
This is the most sensible guy advice I've seen in a very long time.
@emmaa4595
Жыл бұрын
Just happened to me, so I sent a text saying I understand you're really busy and your priority is at work, I'm supportive but it doesn't fit in to my priorities and so it's been really fun getting to know you and I wish you well. For a long time I was afraid of being a needy uncool girl. Then I realised it's not needy to have actual needs! Be gentle, respectful reasonable and polite (be cool) but be that girl who has needs. You actual do have them! Be that girl. He is not going to suddenly wake up and respect you. Men do not put themselves in a position to lose the thing they want. They just don't.
@quarantinelife.
3 жыл бұрын
Lesson of the day: Just be single. Tired of these clowns lmao
@CHiiQSpiritualGuide
3 жыл бұрын
I brace myself before every number and cringe when it fits. 😣 Do I even know what an emotionally available man looks like?? Tbh, This is really sad.
@kaoshi_kutie
3 жыл бұрын
Your not the only one Hun ☺️
@Mayfloweralways
3 жыл бұрын
I saw a comment that we all kind of know deep down, at some point, that something is wrong. And I know that’s true for me. He was always so busy but could go out with friends and make time for other things. I think we try to be too nice and not seem too needy. Like, if I say something, he’ll think I’m causing problems or being selfish.. And I think another part of it is that, because they acted great in the beginning, we think we must’ve done something wrong and can fix it. We put it on ourselves. When the greatest thing we can do, is realize that, if he ever actually cared, he would be the one asking us questions and trying to find time. Because that’s what real feelings looks like. If he isn’t trying, the beginning was an act and the neglectful guy is who he always was, we just didn’t know it. It sucks to wonder if you’ve ever been loved, when you know you loved them 😒 Listen to your gut. It doesn’t lie.
@naturalcurlyhair8331
3 жыл бұрын
Just block, move forward. Thank God you didn't waste anymore time.Learn from it and do better.
@TynishaTalks
3 жыл бұрын
Took the words out of my mouth!
@AllieMaggie4
3 жыл бұрын
BRUH!!!!!!!!!!! I am sooooooooo glad I was right in leaving this one man alone! ✨
@AllSeasonBodyFD
3 жыл бұрын
The third one!!! I just recently blocked a guy because of that! No dates or chill time, only call or text when they want sex. NO THANK YOU!!! I will not keep allowing any man to waste my damn time!!
@Cinder1987
3 жыл бұрын
This also applies to those group of married men that are always on the prowl trying to pick up a new person in bed and makes a ton of promises that have no intention of being delivered.
@breeschatz4921
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Kev for saving my life. It's been so hard for me to break from this low effort guy. I feel so free and am following every one of your videos. Thanks for saving my ass too!!
@nicole4779
3 жыл бұрын
When you know better, you do better. Thanks 🙏🏾 for posting this
@1Skorpia
3 жыл бұрын
If a man avoids questions and STARTS getting distant. Those are the biggest red flags. Theres no going back from that. Just get rid of him and block. Alot if that is emotional manipulation to trigger you to chase and give.
@melaniebrown1443
3 жыл бұрын
Yes the distance is a huge red flag! I’ve been talking to a guy since end of January that I met online, we were talking 3 weeks straight (he would text and call almost every day), he stopped talking to me for two weeks, then was talking on and off to me. & He didn’t gradually fade out like how dudes usually do when they’re not interested, it’s like things were going fine and he just abruptly stopped talking to me for two weeks without warning. I lowkey got tired of the inconsistency but couldn’t bring myself to block him, so I told him we couldn’t talk anymore in hopes that he would block me. Which is exactly what he did, he blocked me. Then 5 days later he unblocked and he told me he was in my neighborhood (he lives 40-50 mins away but he’s from the city I live in), we met for the first time and he kept hugging me, telling me that he didn’t want me to leave, he was super protective of me, etc. But he’s still hot n cold and displays the signs in the video. He’s 22 and I’m 22 as well. He says he likes me, and one day I asked him if I’m not enough and he said “you’re too much if anything”. It’s crazy this never happened to me before, I never had a dude be hot n cold, usually when they’re not interested theyll flat out say it or they’ll disappear forever. The hot n cold mess really confused me. And I’m not having sex with him (still a virgin), not giving him a place to stay, not sending him money, so what could he even be using me for, you know? Currently trying to heal but it’s hard, because I keep beating up on myself, asking myself if I’m not pretty enough, or if I’m too boring & nerdy, etc.
@spookykittty
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this. It all makes sense now.
@ButterflyBree
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this video!! This is right on time, especially for a chill night at home.
@YagirlM
3 жыл бұрын
#6 is some of the most accurate shit I’ve ever heard. Nice work 💯
@SqueakySassy
2 жыл бұрын
Your videos are filling the void my emotionally damaged/unavailable parents left in my life/relationship knowledge. THANK YOU SO MUCH OMG I'M ABOUT TO BINGE WATCH LITERALLY ALL OF YOUR VIDEOS!!!
@marshellsmith2224
3 жыл бұрын
Your videos are always blunt, true, and on time! Hallelujah! 🙌🏾🙏🏾✨
@newyorke172
3 жыл бұрын
Best video I’ve ever heard on emotional availability!!!!!!
@777SO
3 жыл бұрын
“He will punished you with distance”LMAO boy I’am the DISTANCE!My ex tried this once jokes on him that’s how he became an EX period 🤷🏾♀️ain’t got no time for this BS! I love and respect myself wayyyyyy too much to accept this kind of behaviors.
@litzymejia2041
3 жыл бұрын
Damn I came here finding info about if the person I like is emotionally unavailable but it turns out me who is emotionally unavailable. The tables have turned indeed. Lol
@mkay7255
3 жыл бұрын
I love how short and sweet your videos are. Packed with wisdom💙
@gwendolynoliphant8366
Жыл бұрын
I love how you break it down in common sense terms that make everything crystal clear: no sugar coating. Thanks so much Kev!
@kymaia33
3 жыл бұрын
Wow I so needed this video after struggling to understand the emotional rollercoaster with this man you have confirmed what I already know... Out of sight really is a fact... This video was on point💯Thank you❗
@Kat-lq8sp
3 жыл бұрын
I have learned so much from your videos. Dismissive Avoidant individuals are not tolerated anymore.
@tragicallyhoney
3 жыл бұрын
Sigh so by the looks of it at the rate I'm going I will find love in the year 2050 (: "(:" forever alone .imma focus on being rich
@freshdesign2026
3 жыл бұрын
Noooo!!! You will surely find your match!
@marylsanz
3 жыл бұрын
Beloved that is exactly what he wants you to think, focus on keeping friends who give you these things, after more than 6 months, then talk about it like you appreciate it and see what they think. They either solid friends or want more, best wishes.
@dreamscometrue246
3 жыл бұрын
I'm feeling the same.
@Pmatt1
3 жыл бұрын
No, the goal is not to give up on dating but to weed out and raise your standard so YOU learn how to protect your heart and body from men or women who mean you no good. Be accountable for you.
@marym4510
3 жыл бұрын
A man is not "The Prize".....YOU are the prize! Be you, don't worry about having a man. I like being single, I do what i want when I want! My 2 kids are my PRIZE. 💗💗💗
@ashleyware82
3 жыл бұрын
You just read my mind!!!! Omg this literally just happened to me!! I really needed this reminder!!
@dueseason
3 жыл бұрын
Why am I the first comment...God help me..lol😂😭
@VirginiaYankee2005
3 жыл бұрын
Wow nailed it. This confirms a lot. Im sure glad I ended it quick!!!!!💖💖💖💖
@justme1269
3 жыл бұрын
I wish I knew this 3 years ago. Always a pleasure Kev.
@alini_boomm
3 жыл бұрын
excellent video! last boy I spoke to checked all of these signs wow.
@faceofglam
3 жыл бұрын
“They never know shit about shit” THIS shit made too much sense & it’s so sad that I’ve been there before and believed it when they played that card! 😩 It’s like you accept the confusion to keep the peace😡
@taongakafunda560
3 жыл бұрын
Thank God i have watched this video... Exactly what i am going through. Now i know that the guy is not for me. I kiss goodbye to him right now
@laikad.1580
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I truly needed to hear these truths.
@cocoamamaindy
2 жыл бұрын
You are always so on point but this is my favorite video you have put out. I need to put this on repeat at least once a week to remind me that I’m not crazy with my expectations when dating or in a relationship.
@ComradeFromRhody401
3 жыл бұрын
Damn kid you did it again!! LOL great video! So on point
@sharonthomas6571
3 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately to me, i have been subjected to all 7 signs recently.😔 This person is still around me. However, like you said in your video. Only when he needs something or entertainment. Thats when i become important to him. I have now realised to stop entertaining it, for my own well being. Thank you for your videos, they have been such an insight for me and inspiring.🙏🏾
@amberbunz5444
3 жыл бұрын
Everything you said about 6 and 7 hit me like deja vu. When you described a man being emotionally unavailable and wanting to be entertained scenarios.. that resonated and helped me. Thank you for your wisdom!
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