I filmed a tutorial on this exact makeup tutorial before I sat down to film this video! It’s on my second channel: kzitem.info/news/bejne/0WOO2qOEbIuqkn4 ❤✨
@AFSALASANSER
Жыл бұрын
Hey Tam, Love from India. I have a question. What is your opinion on guy-girl friendship? Is it actually possible or is it just an excuse to flirt? Can you share your opinion?Thank you
@lilyonyoutube2991
Жыл бұрын
@tamkaur ❤ dear thank you so much for this video, I wish to be your female friend. Your words are wise n very helpful 🎉
@saikavitakumar222
Ай бұрын
Lklo
@ginger7055
Жыл бұрын
this is a small message for all the people watching this video or reading these comments: a breakup is not easy and although this video is super in depth and helpful not everyones healing journeys are going to be the same. I had a super messy breakup earlier this year in January from a guy I loved for 6 years and it took me SO so long to detach myself from him even though he was super toxic. 7 months after the breakup and many failed talking/dating stages later I met my current boyfriend, I can't even remember the pain I went through from that breakup because of him. Sometimes it takes another person to show you what love is actually like to get over the past. Wishing everyone lots of luck on moving forward and being happy !!
@aldena0598
11 ай бұрын
Oh my God 6 years?? I am so happy for you and I hope you are having a good time!!
@amritpreetkaur510
11 ай бұрын
i cant find any way
@ginger7055
11 ай бұрын
It definitely is a challenge, but its so worth it when you figure it out. Everyone's journeys and coping mechanisms are completely different. I wish all the best for you and hope everything works out! everything is a lesson to help you grow for whats next 💟@@amritpreetkaur510
@hugzy9
9 ай бұрын
Happy to hear that ❤ I hope I’ll be better soon .
@timeryd3r
8 ай бұрын
I got surprise breakup yesterday night and i'm blank I haven't laughed today and I spent my whole day on bed watching movies and youtube videos to distract myself I have cried many time today and don't know how my tomorrow will go because I'm scared that my friends will found it and they will stop talking to me and blame me not him I'm in a miserable situation right now 😭🥺 Please help me 🙏
@HurrairahMohammed
10 ай бұрын
“That mistreatment is your closure” absolutely 💯
@mea24palustre3
7 ай бұрын
Correct period
@sarahssharings6157
6 ай бұрын
Wow, I was waiting and asking and searching for a closure since months...and me reading this 💔💔😳😳
@atinyff3827
9 ай бұрын
He didn't even like me in the first place and im here getting over him
@rosh4908
3 ай бұрын
dude 😭😭
@JordanDT
2 ай бұрын
This lmfaooo
@JaiShreeram-nc6mm
2 ай бұрын
That's my girl 🎀
@CarolNdonye
2 ай бұрын
Lol same😭😂
@annapedersen3062
2 ай бұрын
so real
@cogaichamchi674
Жыл бұрын
2:24 the grieving stage 2:41 #1 feel your feelings 4:03 #2 write a letter 5:51 #3 the IT list 7:35 #4 move out 9:38 #5 have boundaries 10:16 #6 stop focusing on him/her 11:27 the healing stage 12:00 #1 realize your own toxic traits 13:43 #2 reassure yourself 14:26 #3 hold yourself accountable 15:38 #4 everything happens for a reason 17:13 #5 change the narrative 17:56 #6 create a new routine 18:34 #7 what is your purpose/mission? 20:02 #8 the glow up 21:39 living 22:16 #1 regular solo dating 22:48 #2 detach 23:31 #3 don't beat yourself up for having flashbacks 24:15 #4 focus on YOU 24:33 #5 practice self love 25:36 homework
@amnakhuu
Жыл бұрын
Thank you baby
@Naahh.imgood
Жыл бұрын
Thanksss!! 💘💘💘
@nadyalutfianalumakso1519
Жыл бұрын
Thank youuuu ❤❤
@candidshruti6057
Жыл бұрын
Thankssss!!😞
@rudrajeetchaudhuri3744
Жыл бұрын
I'm a dude but it helped me too😌 thanks mate
@Jaya-22
7 ай бұрын
the ick list works wonders. i read it everytime i miss him, and i nope tf out of whatever i was missing 😂😭
@sanyasachdeva923
8 ай бұрын
I freaking hate him for how much he has hurt me,left me cryinh and went to sleep and called me stupid for crying i freaking hate hate hate hate him
@Kuma-ct2vb
2 ай бұрын
Me fucking to, fuck them
@no-uv8nh
Ай бұрын
Going through same
@musewounded
Жыл бұрын
This is spiritual alignment because I needed this right at this exact moment ❤😂
@nightowl334
Жыл бұрын
SAME HERE AHHHH❤
@14fourthDimension
Жыл бұрын
For me as well
@ritzy5870
Жыл бұрын
Same here .
@sanjana9974
Жыл бұрын
Yes I have manifested this video❤
@saadakuttayeontan7430
Жыл бұрын
Same guys same
@jacquelynlauren97
Жыл бұрын
You know, I wrote out my dream man qualities, when me and my toxic ex broke up back in March 2021. January 2022 I met a guy and he checked everything off my list. Literally everything. We dated for a year and a half and I thought we were soulmates. Long stories short we broke up 11 or 12 days ago and I’ve realized so much. And the list I had for my “dream man” back in 2021 is still my list, I’m just adding things to that list that I didn’t know I wanted in a man, until after my most current ex. It was a learning experience and I suggest that to anyone I talk to going through a break up. I love this video. Thank you 💞
@hitishasharma6014
Ай бұрын
So good to hear that! How are you doing now ?
@forevergodly167
Жыл бұрын
"Why are they not blocked?" that was so loud Tam. But thanks for calling me out.😂
@tamkaur
Жыл бұрын
❤️😂
@nosihlemasemabanga9408
Жыл бұрын
The timing of this video is too perfect😭 I am currently going through a break-up after my relationship of 5 years ended. It has only been two days but to say I am going through it would be an understatement. Thank you Tam!
@mm11115
Жыл бұрын
be strong, love! everything is going to be okay
@idk-el5vr
Жыл бұрын
Good luck girl! It gets better!! We've got this💪
@heavenbcharmer
Жыл бұрын
Yes....7 for me
@Cookie-wt4uz
Жыл бұрын
All the best !!! Just hold on to it and you would be out of the ruts sooner
@qazalhematy
Жыл бұрын
6 for me haha Wish u all the best
@DavisMalone-m2q
2 ай бұрын
Great video! Unfortunately, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, and I still love him deeply. I can't stop thinking about him. I've done everything I can to get him back, but nothing has worked. I'm frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my best efforts, I can't get him out of my mind. I really miss him.
@lorischeiber
2 ай бұрын
It's incredibly hard to let go of someone you love. I was in a similar situation when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't let him go, so I did everything I could to get him back. I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who assisted me in reuniting with him.
@DavisMalone-m2q
2 ай бұрын
That's amazing! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I reach him?
@lorischeiber
2 ай бұрын
His name is Father Abulu, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can help bring your ex back.
@DavisMalone-m2q
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information! I just looked him up online, and he seems impressive.
@sadeem6630
Ай бұрын
Sweetie stop trying to get him back and get yourself a life and focus on yourself, please please know that there are SO many other guys out there that are so good and will make you laugh at yourself for accepting the bad treatment from your past relationships. Him leaving says enough, when you just let it go, so many bigger opportunities will come your way.@@DavisMalone-m2q
@xxutauh0shinaxx
Жыл бұрын
Three months into my breakup and watching / reading everything i can to process my feelings. So happy you touched on this 😭 THANK YOU TAM
@Oztroza
Жыл бұрын
Hey sis , writing this from an alt to protect myself . But I’ve slept with your boyfriend on many occasions and he always said he was single . Dump his toxic ass sis , sorry for finding out this way
@ch3rrybl0ss0m3ev
Жыл бұрын
Six months in. Keep going, you deserve to feel loved! 💜
@chipl336
Жыл бұрын
It’s been three months this week for me and I’ve just been binge watching Tam’s videos literally all day!!! I feel so motivated 🥹
@xxutauh0shinaxx
Жыл бұрын
@@ch3rrybl0ss0m3evThank you 😢
@xxutauh0shinaxx
Жыл бұрын
@@chipl336You’ve got this!!!
@KM.0709
Жыл бұрын
How badly I needed this video as my boyfriend of 4.5 yrs just left me a few months ago for no solid reason & I've been switching between being fine & literally having a mental breakdown, ur vids always give me a new outlook towards a situation 🩷🩷
@letholo
Жыл бұрын
i hope u get better sweetheart
@prajjwalika
Жыл бұрын
Sending strength and serenity your wayyy💗💗
@ishikahussain1651
Жыл бұрын
Omg same my bf of 4 years left me yesterday
@prajjwalika
Жыл бұрын
@@ishikahussain1651 left you? God took him away from you to make way for your actual soulmate to come...ik you won't feel like it now but when you feel really sad try to give yourself this reason...and then cry and grieve maybe?😀
@mahtabn.b5230
Жыл бұрын
Wishing you the very best, you're doing amazing❤️
@prajjwalika
Жыл бұрын
Me who's not even going through a breakup rn but when Tam posted? I've to watch it coz ik there'll be something that I'll be able to learn from this and apply it in my life someday. And we don't say 'No' to knowledge, do we queens??
@mahtabn.b5230
Жыл бұрын
I love the vibes u give me
@oyinkansolaadekoya4927
Жыл бұрын
hi tam, I’m a 14 year old girl and I love watching your videos. I know that your content is typically geared towards older people, but I just want to thank you for your videos and guidance. By following your strategies, I’ve made my life a little bit brighter. Much love for the US ❤️❤️
@sabyslay
Жыл бұрын
literally same !!
@PresDonaldTrump
Жыл бұрын
Omg I'm 12
@21hours24
Жыл бұрын
good luck 💗 everything is gonna work out for you! 🫶🏼
@PresDonaldTrump
Жыл бұрын
@@21hours24 Is this prophetic prediction? Is it you, God?
@mybrokenfingerz
Жыл бұрын
im 13 n i watch a bunch of self help content like this too! i feel like not all of it works bc a lot of its geared towards older ppl but i still try my best to apply what i can.
@bestiiejenn
Жыл бұрын
i recently went through a terrible breakup but you helped me move on from him & i realised he was so toxic for me. Thanks Tam! Enjoying this so far
@manyasharma7758
8 ай бұрын
I think that getting over a healthy relationship is just so much harder than a toxic one. I was in such an amazing relationship but for such a short time that it almost feels like a dream, and that he literally felt like THE one for me. I don't know why he broke up with me but maybe it is a sign that better things are to come. I might cry my eyes out for a couple of weeks (or months) but at the end, its over, i need to move on from that guy and maybe I do find someone even better.
@laktoez111
24 күн бұрын
THIS !!!!!
@karenfierro9308
Жыл бұрын
I needed this sooo bad Tam, Broke up with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago, feeling lost, sad, angry not knowing what to do, your videos make my life better, you are incredible ❤
@priyaa_2614
Жыл бұрын
To do list:- 1. Write what made u feel bad in that relationship/ guy. 2. Perks of not being with him eg, wear whatever u feel like, do whatever u feel, talk to whomsoever ( feel free) 3. Write your dream relationship 4. Write What value that relationship added in your life other than toxicity 😂 5. Write your dream relationship 6. Overthink what was so spl in them other than the energy u put in them
@ibrahimhalilbavli7221
10 ай бұрын
What is spl? Is it special
@PardeepAttwal
Жыл бұрын
How is a woman half my age have so much wisdom! You’re young enough to be my daughter but you have a lot more sense than I do! Keep these videos coming xx
@Musicislove83
9 ай бұрын
How tf are you 22 & so wise?! I'm about to turn 41 & it has taken me so many wasted years & broken hearts to gain even a fraction of the clarity, self-confidence, poise, and knowledge you have. I'm impressed, inspired, and a little 🤯 idk what else to say except thank you 💜 subbed & looking forward to watching more of your videos xo
@miunny
Жыл бұрын
it’s insane how tam knows what i’m going through! definitely needed this video after a messy breakup!
@rituparnade8193
9 ай бұрын
I was just on the verge of texting my ex who I broke up with 4 months ago..I started watching this video and was just 5 mins into it , paused it, blocked him and came back watching the video... I will keep coming back to the video whenever I feel low and think of texting him again... A guy who didn't value me the first time doesn't deserve any second chance in my life. I am much more valuable than the way he treated me... Thank you so much❤
@shradha-xp8mi
8 ай бұрын
So proud of you 🫶
@gwllybaxtiar6056
6 ай бұрын
i wanna give you the biggest hug you’re the big sister i never had.
@thebrowngirl5259
Жыл бұрын
I really needed this so much right now, I'm currently going through a situationship breakup.
@alexxandrag
Жыл бұрын
same here
@simxiiety
Жыл бұрын
been 10 months after the breakup and duh still haven't moved on but i know someday it wont hurt anymore and ima work hard for that. thankyou for this ❤️ ps - will come and edit this comment when i feel like i have moved on fr
@maryamjalilzade8302
10 ай бұрын
Its same here sis! Keep going
@simxiiety
10 ай бұрын
@@maryamjalilzade8302 trying..its hard and sometimes i wish i could throw him out of my heart and mind at once but thats not possible right? it's tough but slowing getting there. how is it going for you?
@DREAM_CATCHER.
7 ай бұрын
Hey ????? Are u still there??? Have u tried all she said ? I am also lost I was addicted to him . I don't know what to say or not but I am like I would beg him plz don't go , I would cry like an idiot but he Did not stay . I am suffering so much I can't even explain , at work I start crying . How r u know please tell????
@simxiiety
7 ай бұрын
@@DREAM_CATCHER. hello. im doing better now, obviously arent move him because he was my first love but honestly it doesnt hurt anymore like it used to earlier. i've accepted the reality that some things arent in our hands, we must go on no matter what. things which are meant for us will find us so never beg someone to stay in your life. i miss him sometimes tho but ik i deserve better. it takes time but promise you'll get there 🙌🏻
@tangyrnts
7 ай бұрын
@@DREAM_CATCHER. im going through the same thing rn, just got broken up with yesterday n it hurts so much to have someone one day and then they leave you later on the same day. I know things will be better for me in the future but rn all I can do is cry and grieve. You have to let time heal you. Don't suppress your feelings.
@Elevenbravo_ABN
Жыл бұрын
Even as a man, I’m benefiting a lot from this. I’m even more prone towards nostalgia than the average person, and that’s always been a huge roadblock in getting over my ex. I finally learned and deleted every trace of her, including emails and texts. I should have done that from the beginning. Don’t make the mistakes I made.
@mehakpreet1202
Жыл бұрын
i do have their number and i do stalk their wsp whether they came online or not. You made me realise that i should let it all go in order for me to actual move on:)
@hsinf9
Жыл бұрын
I’ve never had a ex bf but multiple failed talking stages 😭 I find myself becoming so desperate to be romantically desired that the other person consumes all my thoughts and I become delusional and miss all their red flags SMDH. I definitely need to prioritize my self-love and not let a man’s validation control my life.
@valerie-gh5ew
9 ай бұрын
ypu go girl!
@anjumqureshi9042
4 ай бұрын
Same
@nerdzel185
Жыл бұрын
im over my ex but am gon still watch your video queen , you literallly got me through it 😌
@tamkaur
Жыл бұрын
🥹🥹
@nusaibahtotinee1007
Жыл бұрын
HOW SHE KNOWS WHAT WE NEED AT THIS VERY MOMENT!?
@sree4367
8 ай бұрын
she a secret spy
@irenerebecca9706
Жыл бұрын
I feel like Tam is the only girl out there who's keeping it real. Her videos are amazing and another great thing is she creates a safe space for all of us without judgement. A true Queen❤❤❤
@tamkaur
Жыл бұрын
🥹✨💕
@plata3032
Жыл бұрын
YOU MADE A BREAKUP PLAYLIST FOR US???!! LIKE WHATTTTT, can't tell you how grateful iam omg what would i have done without you, you literally make so many lives better, im so grateful to have found you Im 20 and im rn like your older version and you inspire me to love myself and become the best version of myself and keep a man as last priority, omg i feel so much better after this, thankyou so much
@plata3032
Жыл бұрын
@@Star_Butterfly_7 in the description, check it out
@cherryshoda4910
Жыл бұрын
This video came to me at the perfect time. I've recently completely cut off my ex because they were awful to me, and while I'm slowly moving on by myself, I definitely needed this advice and push to continue to heal and never, ever go back. Everyone who's reading this, you've got this too
@LadyActressRoblox
Жыл бұрын
Omg! You're awesome!! Spent the whole day crying because my ex randomly blocked me on Instagram last night. But after this video, my tears have dried and I'm feeling Great!!!!!
@hereisacookiepri
Жыл бұрын
even though I'm not really good through a breakup i just know she definitely delivered something that's worth learning & remembering a lifetime in this video, so this is what I'll be watching while having my breakfast 💗
@no-name1025
Жыл бұрын
"loving someone is never a waste." thanks a lot! i was thinking that i have been wasting my time so much at those days, that what i was sad about was the time that i wasted, due to it being online dating and we never met IRL. but i did in fact really loved and enjoyed talking with this person! so, i feel like now, at least my feelings were valid, and that i can treasured those memories instead of feeling ashamed about it. i wonder if anyone has the experience of online dating? i would love to listen to anybody stories❤
@Abby-jb6zk
11 ай бұрын
I just want you to know that its been a few days over a break up but I've been watching your videos for months now and the first thing I did after my break up is TAM is gonna save me and my mental peace. You have taught me more than anyone ever has , I am truly grateful. Sending every female out there loads of love.
@LiamN407
11 ай бұрын
ARIANA SAID IT BEST !!!!! PAINTED A PICTURE . In love with a version painted in our heads!!!!!
@katherine7715
3 ай бұрын
Just going through my first major breakup. Cannot believe I have to actually learn how to get over someone who became a part of me. Step 3, at 14:30 really helped me. Thank you for mentioning these things!!
@chess6767
7 ай бұрын
I brokeup with my gf six months ago, still not fully recoverd yet. I'm so glad that I found this video and can't wait for my glow up journey in the next few months💜✨ thank you so much!
@lunafreya_11
2 сағат бұрын
He broke up with me a month ago and even called me unattractive anymore, that diminished my self-esteem and questioned my worth, but now I'm getting better and I'm done crying over him, he is not worth my time. Thank you for creating this kind of video
@AnnaSmokes-sw7hn
8 ай бұрын
I seen this video before my broke up and literally when you said to adopt the mindset of "everything happens for a reason." i was telling myself that before i click on this video. I feel like this year has me on the right path, doesn't matter where it'll end cause i know everything happens for a reason so i can achieve what i believe i can be and have.
@dolleene
7 ай бұрын
I just wrote what she said to, the letter, and it was looooong. Truly just get EVERYTHING you want out. Like everything you want to say, wish, wonder, hope, regret, dislike, hurt, anything and everything. Jeez I feel SO much better and that was a relationship I truly cherish and I feel like Im ready to move on.
@thelivingiseasy
Жыл бұрын
Tam, I just found your channel a couple of weeks ago after going through the worst breakup of my life. We have very similar experiences when it comes to relationships and your energy and outlook is contagious. I've already started making changes and can't believe your timing with this video. Thank you for not only pursuing your aspirations but also being the friend that we all need right now. You are impacting lives all over the world and helping people grow and build healthy relationships with themselves, so thank you for that.
@jannzmoss9466
7 ай бұрын
Hi ! How do you feel now ? Did you recover?
@thelivingiseasy
7 ай бұрын
@@jannzmoss9466 I feel great. All I can say is the power of acknowledging your self-worth and unconditionally loving yourself for who you are, on both the bad days and the good days, is the best thing I've ever done for myself.
@jannzmoss9466
7 ай бұрын
@@thelivingiseasy So you did get over it ? I'm really struggling rn ..
@jannzmoss9466
7 ай бұрын
@@thelivingiseasy its such reassuring to hear this ! keep going
@LoveFluffybums1
Жыл бұрын
I really like all of the advices, thank you! I just want to point out that for anxious preoccupied person is more difficult to move on than with a secure or avoidant attachment person.
@EvieBirds
9 ай бұрын
I love that this is different in not settling for villainising the other person, but rather focusing on yourself 😊
@JustAaryeah23
Жыл бұрын
OMG... Its like she knows what I need right now... I was struggling with few unsorted emotions and feelings and boom... Tam dropped the video. I LOVE HER SM ❤
@ridh-zt7kg
6 ай бұрын
"someboday else's love isn't yours to lose" ‼️
@chuucake
Жыл бұрын
this is divine timing. i cried so hard watching this. i love you sister tam
@AlyCyopeck
13 күн бұрын
Honestly love your videos they are really helping me get through my breakup with my narcissist ex of 4 years who abused me physically mentally and emotionally ❤️
@Jennifer.031
7 ай бұрын
Tam thank you so much, I watch your videos every time I want to text my ex and then I remind myself I deserve better , you are doing amazing work
@okayemily
Жыл бұрын
Girl my bf dumped me literally 2 days ago, this could not have come at a better time 😂😂😂
@perryhannahmatias4059
5 ай бұрын
Same
@Love-rex
27 күн бұрын
Hey girl are u doing better?
@aspirituallyblissedlife
Жыл бұрын
Tam you've helped me so much on my healing journey since 5 months forever grateful love from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
@shanayaagarwal8333
7 ай бұрын
Today i texted my bff and told her to come to my place for a sleepover just so i can cry and vent and let it all out , i really need that 💔
@읻일-x3x
Ай бұрын
im following you for two years now and last year i skipped this video, thinking i will never need that advice because i was so obsessed with myself, successful and happy. Everything changes, that is insane :)
@ajmpbangtanminyoongi
4 ай бұрын
So even after 8 months, i needed this video as i was dumped by ex bf and ghosted by a situationship. THANK YOU ❤
@manhaabdellah3474
11 ай бұрын
You're literally my future self. You told every single thing I'm going through right now. I'm 20 too lol I wanna get out of this phase asap! And I'll take all necessary steps. My great and successful life ahead isn't worth clinging on to someone. That is not what my parents took the hardships for to raise me. Thanks again!
@veduramkabir2888
7 ай бұрын
You posted this video in the month I fall apart from my ex !! Like the timing ❤❤❤
@sriya7640
3 ай бұрын
she’s the big sister i never thought i needed , thankyou so much 😭❤
@maisyax
Ай бұрын
crazy how from being 14-21(now) my life revolved around him so much that when you said “you are not his ex” and to become someone else it actually hit me that i am my own person. i’ve always felt that i was a side character in his life and not rlly cared about my own. it’s so scary to take control of my own life, but you’ve helped me to realise that it is possible, so thank you and sorry for this long ass comment lol
@MegaRedhead93
7 ай бұрын
This video was so powerful for me. I have watched sooo many KZitem videos and TikTok’s since my breakup and this was one of the best. Thank you❤
@LoveRue.
2 ай бұрын
I was here for my first break up and now I’m here for my second
@no-uv8nh
Ай бұрын
Hey going through breakup. Getting anxiety attacks. Can you help?
@MrRosegirl5
Жыл бұрын
i was so SHOCKED when i saw this come up. a little more than a week since the breakup. pretty fresh. your timing is perfect ❤
@rue2599
Жыл бұрын
It was at this moment in time I realized that Tam Kaur is the psychic guru all we girlies need. ♥️
@jimenavalle__
4 ай бұрын
took a pen and my journal and started taking notes the minute you started talking. you have no idea how much this has helped me. thank you for being who you are and doing this for us. you deserve the world
@themountainisyoulove
Жыл бұрын
OH MY GOD I LOVE YOU FOR THIS, ITS BEEN EXACTLY ONE MONTH SINCE MY BREAKUP AND I WAS ALMOST MOVING ON BUT I NEEDED THE BOOST AND I WAS PRAYING AND MANIFESTING A VIDEO FROM TAM ON THIS AND I GOT IT!!! THANK YOU TAM, THANK YOU UNIVERSEEE!!! (sorry for the caps, I'm so grateful and excited)
@IndiaAlice
6 ай бұрын
i cant put into words how grateful i am for tam. 3 months ago i came to this video but i only watched the first chapter. i kept coming back to rewatch it. now im at a place where i can follow through with the next two chapters. your videos ground me whenever i spiral and remind me that i am that girl. ilysm.
@already8use
6 ай бұрын
To be honest I SAID EVERYTHING I HAD TO SAY . In each every single one of my break up and it always made me feel so much better
@esmeraldaintent
7 ай бұрын
how can i like this video more than one time? 💗
@axley444
26 күн бұрын
Thank you, tam. I was kind of in a situationship with someone for 11-12 months and I had to let them go last October (so it's been around 11 months, again). Ofcourse, I'm doing everything I'm supposed to do but it feels like their shadow is always following me. I was so scared that I'll never get over them but then this vid got recommended and I remembered you! Even after doing all this, I'm going to still give myself 2-3 weeks more to completely get them out of my system (and it'll be over a year)... Gonna binge watch your vids everyday. Thanks for existing ❤
@YvonneOuma-p3g
Жыл бұрын
Your videos are such a breath of fresh air; I’m not even going through a breakup but I listened all through❤️
@tamkaur
Жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you!!
@sabyslay
Жыл бұрын
girlie we NEED a make-up routine !!
@tamkaur
Жыл бұрын
It’s on my vlog channel! Linked in the description x
@sharchannel1836
10 ай бұрын
The best get over ex video I've seen
@Ritikaaa_57
Жыл бұрын
Ok breakup is okay but how to get over from one sided love ??? 😭 How to unlove him how to avoid having feelings for them when you saw their face everyday and memories hit you back How to move on from person whom you love with your whole heart but didn't love you back and see you just as a friend:(
@prettyliltang1264
7 ай бұрын
Current situation and that’s the worst, just know they always come back once the greener grass is fake and doesn’t fulfill them anymore. Know that all the love and energy you have them impacted them one way or another and you did all you could, let the future and God teach them lessons ❤
@Ritikaaa_57
7 ай бұрын
@@prettyliltang1264 hahaha God teaches me lesson after this comment maybe after 2-3 months later god teaches me the biggest lesson ( friendship,love,etc) now yeah I'm healing and moved on (trying) and feel so happy after that :)))
@Arianayancey
9 ай бұрын
i really needed this. listening to this whole video made me actually realize that he’s a lesson and i’m going to grow from it. can’t wait for this new era of my life
@Shree-e5t
11 ай бұрын
Honestly, this video just saved my life...
@musicheals266
2 ай бұрын
Tam thanks so much I am currently going through a break up a bad one it has been 2 months now I do cry sometimes because of the fact that he was so handsome but now I am realising that a handsome man in my life does not complete me I am beautiful and attractive I don't need a man I am going to become the dream girl I wanted to be in 3 years prolly come back and write how I am completely over him and over the fact that I don't need a handsome man
@Charlie-rm8de
Жыл бұрын
Literally just broke up with my other half, I needed to hear this so much ❤❤❤
@reighanrosette
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I was in a mentally and emotionally abusive relationship for 5 years. They have said the most disgusting things to me, threatened me and my family, and would mock me and get annoyed when I cried. He would even talk bad on my mom who has terminal cancer… I was walking on egg shells and tried my best to make him happy and he never was. He is leaving tomorrow and the messed up thing is, is that I still love him. I’m really fragile and I know I feel too much sometimes.. I will follow what you say and hopefully it won’t be as painful one day..
@nicoledumani
Жыл бұрын
Gosh I LOVED this video, I Was literally crying all days for my ex and then this video appeared thanks Tam
@Julia-dj7kp
9 ай бұрын
My boyfriend and I broke up a week ago because of our long distance relationship. It hurts so much not having him there everyday, but deep down i know it was the best decision for both of us... thanks for the homework tasks❤ they sure will help ms out
@trupthijc
Жыл бұрын
can we take a second to appreciate tam's makeup???? like girl SLAYYYYY
@lalafl200
Жыл бұрын
Watching your subscribers grow makes me happy. Been with you for a while and I'm loving the growth
@tamkaur
Жыл бұрын
You're the best😭💕
@nadiarh9937
Жыл бұрын
actually hesitant to click this video bc the "fast" word makes it seems like a clickbait, i don't believe break up could be done fast and the idea want to make it quick will just rush the process, but i watched your detachment video before and i really love that one so finally decided to give this a shot, i'm not finish yet but i didn't expect this video would be as good as your other videos 😭😭 thank you so much tamm, also for the subtitle bc it does really help, you're changing lot of people's lives ❤ keep going queen 👑
@lynnmayorga
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tam! I love this and will be following these steps for my life right now❤️ You’re truly doing amazing work to help young women like me💕
@sushmitanaik1577
2 күн бұрын
It's actually true...that we don't miss the person,we miss the emtional state we experienced with them...which we never got nor we gave that to ourselves...I remember i literally murdered my self respect, just to be loved by him ,even i wasn't liking the person he was...
@kyliestone588
Жыл бұрын
this came at the right moment. it’s interesting that i suddenly thought of him after three months of feeling good and joyful without him. thanks tam❤
@melinaberthiaume1497
11 ай бұрын
Needed this, you’re honest, authentic and valuable thx for the advice, the nostalgia part hit hard
@sunshine-sn5jr
Жыл бұрын
Hey tam 💜I'm 18 right now and i want to improve myself ✨️❤️through your videos i learn so many thing i don't even know thank you and i am greatful for ur help 🤞🏻💯
@smolbilli607
Жыл бұрын
It's been 4 months and I'm still grieving. It's hard because I have no one to lean on. No one knows about our relationship and I can't even talk to anyone about it. Life with her was hell and left without her is hell.
@Sadhrita2002
10 ай бұрын
Exactly it's really hard because I can't open up to anyone because it was a private relationship 😢
@SageYourSolace
4 ай бұрын
a person who truly values you would never put themselves in a position to lose you
@Jane_1994
11 ай бұрын
"Their treatment of you is your closure" 👏👏👏
@MsLaFashionista
Жыл бұрын
Best post breakup video I’ve ever seen! With practical steps too. Thank you 🙏🏾
@YellowDG
Жыл бұрын
My bf of 2 years broke up with me today and didn’t know what to do. I’ve been aware that he was not my dream man and the man I fell in love with was long gone but still held on very tightly. Your video helped me realise that doing so pushes the opportunity of finding someone better even further away. Made the first step of making a breakup playlist, still unable to fully cut contact as of now.
@jannzmoss9466
7 ай бұрын
Hi how do you feel now ? did you get over it ?
@patiencethepashe7358
Жыл бұрын
This is a blessing I literally just ended my relationship with this boy two days ago
@ingkarina822
Жыл бұрын
i dont know if you're going to see this Tam, but i had a really tough breakup a week ago and it was my first time feeling such unbearable pain in my chest where i didn't know what i was feeling, or what i could do to fix it. i found you in my youtube recommendations and I'm so glad i did because after listening to your videos throughout my day has helped me realize a lot of things, I've learnt a lot by just watching your content for the past week and I'm so grateful there is a creator like you on this platform. you have no idea how much u have helped me mature emotionally over something so tragic, and i hope you can keep on helping more people to cope with similar situations
@PrangyaprabhaNayak
Жыл бұрын
It will be fine over time.I was in the same boat ❤
@ingkarina822
Жыл бұрын
@@PrangyaprabhaNayak thank u, first heartbreaks hurt so bad
@daslama3144
11 ай бұрын
This Video helped me so much after my first breakup, it helped me to realise that its ok. Thank you so much for making it
@ericaaputri
Жыл бұрын
I just broke up within this month, and this is definitely what I needed to hear. Thank you Tam 😭 you’re a godsend
@viralvictoria3538
8 ай бұрын
Watching this heartbroken on Valentine’s Day. Just what I needed❤️
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