This is what an introvert actually is not the antisocial people in today’s time have deemed it to be 🤝 great video
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
FACTS
@Jojo-mc7ku
2 ай бұрын
It can be both
@Jojo-mc7ku
2 ай бұрын
@@raider394 my point is you can be both.
@emeeeeyy
2 ай бұрын
@@Jojo-mc7ku You can be both and you can be one or the other. The original commenter is just talking about how people use introverted and anti social interchangeably when they're not the same thing :)
@Jojo-mc7ku
2 ай бұрын
@@emeeeeyy alright got it. My bad I guess I was being defensive
@zamcorcuera
2 ай бұрын
i automatically subscribed 10 mins in, girl u just described my problem rn😭
@defnelivass
2 ай бұрын
I found your channel 2 minutes ago and it's so good!! These are actually helpful videos
@chichi-ew3ts
10 күн бұрын
you said like so many times 😩😅
@phs15
2 ай бұрын
I saw this quote that's something along the lines of, "Fools speak because they feel like they have to say something, wise people speak because they have something to say."
@ellouisebadger849
2 ай бұрын
This video! I've grown up to feel I'm not enough. Not funny enough, not loud enough, not interesting enough. I'm tired of it because quiet people do bring value to the table
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
literally me, it's exhuasting
@princess_zulica
2 ай бұрын
i personally love quiet ppl. used to dislike them but thats only cus i hated my iwn quietness. now i love them the mostttt.
@dannyadvice
Ай бұрын
Yes they bring the greatest value that everyone.
@jaquelinezelaznog355
Ай бұрын
Sometimes I feel like I'm not funny enough because I don't show myself as I am to my coworkers but honestly, I'm so much fun when I'm with my family, so the thing is, it's not that I'm not funny, it's just that I don't wanna be me with the wrong people, they mostly are just not my cup of tea and I think that could be your case too, it's not you, it's the wrong people
@catherine.rezzuto
2 ай бұрын
i've found with quiet confidence comes this subtle leadership skill. once you do a certain action people will notice and follow your example. sometimes being the observer, whether that's at work or in your friend group, can help build up natural leadership qualities because you will know when to speak up, when to advocate for others, and have a firm grasp on how others communicate and in turn that helps you communicate better with that individual.
@trapicheena726
2 ай бұрын
I still have trouble with the “act like you’re correct” because even though I know something I say is right, I still add “I think” at the end. I honestly hate that I do this, but ig I’m just scared to be seen like an arrogant person. I’m an indecisive person and have low self confidence, so I tend to act submissive to the other person I’m talking too. This was a bad choice to do because when I do better than a coworker, they become competitive and try to bring me down. Watching this video made me realized that I’m not forced to talk to my coworkers when work is slow.
@annekrusova
Ай бұрын
yeeeess me too
@jasmine-mi1mh
Ай бұрын
I personally like to use the phrase "I believe" rather than "I think", just a small change that makes me feel a lot more confident while still basically saying the same thing
@stella.thursday
2 ай бұрын
literally found ur channel 5mins ago and I FEEL SO SEEEENNNN w this vid 😭 omg
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
when my channel finds the right ppl >>>
@Delulu_Charm
2 ай бұрын
I love throwing stuff away too, I feel much cleaner when my room is like empty, someone gets me😭😍❤
@AmiMistry
2 ай бұрын
me too right now i am cleaning and throwing stuffs 😭
@crow1628
Ай бұрын
@@AmiMistry me three haha :D
@Sxyin
2 ай бұрын
this video resonated with me so much omg every single point ESPECIALLY THE ENCYCLOPEDIA i will literally be scared to say anything if i’m not confident in being 10000% correct also i have a deeper monotone voice sometimes and i’m scared if i don’t sound bubbly and high pitched that people are gonna think i’m uninterested or being mean 😭😭
@97hanabi
2 ай бұрын
omg same and heavy on the second paragraph !! i feel you
@myrtila
11 күн бұрын
Deep voice makes someone be respected. I would prefer to have deep voice
@Clxxdyyyyyyy
2 ай бұрын
You kinda remind me of a cartoon character. Same outfit everyday, almost empty room, ridiculously pretty. You just are a cartoon character
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
this made me laugh idk why 🤣🤣 thank you 😭
@Tapy0ka545
2 ай бұрын
You’re growing so fast :o!! I only subbed a few weeks ago and you were around 16k and now you’re already over 25k, keep it up
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
ikr!! it's crazy 😭 i didn't realise this sort of stuff resonated with so many ppl
@ellouisebadger849
2 ай бұрын
You're just a minimalist if you like an empty space. I love having a clear out too 😊
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
that's the word! i just love the aesthetic
@TiaraClarese
28 күн бұрын
Hate to be seen and love to be known is a beautiful way to say that. Double tap.
@evazts1379
2 ай бұрын
I relate so much to your quirk about throwing things away. I'm always on a quest to chuck things out of my room even though it's almost empty, and I've done a declutterung on my clothes like 10 times there's literally no more thigs that i can throw away😂😂
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
FINALLY someone who gets me 😭😭
@lessthangraceful
2 ай бұрын
Me too 😂🥰
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
what do we think of the new set up!!
@sofiachahbounia.
2 ай бұрын
strangeee but cozy❤
@Abroadgirl915
2 ай бұрын
Without the mic it looks like I am having a conversation with my close friend / older sister and they are giving me advice lol ❤
@mutiahnoorm.j.1143
Ай бұрын
I just started uni in a very differrent part of the country from my family. I dont have any family members here, just some friends of my parents. I've been pressured by my family to make friends, and I'm really trying to. When actually, I'm really comfortable with myself. But because of their pressure, I have been trying really hard. I've been watching videos of how to socialize, how to make convorsations, and pretty much every social skill video. I've been hard on myself because I cant keep a conversation with people, because I feel that I'm not interesting. But this video made me realize that I could just be myself again, my quiet self with imperfections that needs improvement. Thank you very much for making this video, it helped me through this difficult time🥰
@thesecretsheholds
2 ай бұрын
HERE IN 30 SECS AND TSYMM NEEDED THIS ILYSMM
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
you were quicker than me lmaoo
@nellajoensalo2316
2 ай бұрын
As an autistic person I find your friends comment super funny, because I totally wear ”the same” outfits all the time, lol.
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
haha it's just so reassuring to know i don't have to worry about what i'm gonna wear
@moonchild5799
2 ай бұрын
I love this ❤ I have the feeling that a lot of people think that you can only be confidence when you're extreme loud, extravert and talkative, but I think most confident people are in fact more on the quite side because they know that they are worthy and don't feel the need to impress anyone. Confidence is a feeling of accepting yourself just the way you are
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
that last line >>> 'confidence is a feeling of accepting yourself just the way you are' i couldn't agree more!
@hungrychat7304
2 ай бұрын
Nah those girls were weird asf
@SuperMathsBeaver
Ай бұрын
They sounded so rude! You don't owe anyone a friendship but small talk 2 weeks into uni wouldn't have killed them.
@chayenn607
Ай бұрын
I have one friend like this her aura is go beyond.
@Jiminsboost
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video and also as an introvert myself i feel like it’s not so hard for us to be confident when we are with the right people but than when we are around people we don’t know it’s like we shut down because we don’t know what to say or we feel that we won’t fit it. And sometimes we don’t and it’s okay to remove yourself from the situation or the group. But when I was in middle school I was antisocial and shy but then when I was around my friends I would be talkative so I think the older I got the more introverted I became and the less talkative I became as well. And by the way I love your accent 💕
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
exactly!! we become so animated and bubbly around the right people, and then the opposite around other people. imo all that matters is you keep those people close, bc it doesn't matter what acquaintances or strangers think, only what you think and the ppl close to you! 💕
@Jiminsboost
2 ай бұрын
@@ChristinaAaliyah thank you and so true 🥹💕
@binggo3740
Ай бұрын
I think it’s because my manager called me out for saying “like” so much so I’m more aware that you’re saying too many “like” also 😅
@samtheham1280
2 ай бұрын
LOLLLL having 9 of the same shirt is giving a bit of the tism ngl😭
@jadedpotato1574
2 ай бұрын
nothing wrong with that 🙏
@SleepySabASMR
2 ай бұрын
I love throwing stuff away and I love wearing the same things everyday 😭twinsies
@myrtila
11 күн бұрын
This is random but a great synchronicity happened. You mentioned that the background changed because you moved in back to your mom’s place after finishing uni, and I’m literally finishing uni and moving back to my parents’ house in a few days
@asapbaby9275
2 ай бұрын
Its insane you pinpointed EVERYTHING in my life. I am in utter shock. Thank you for this video.
@ChristinaAaliyah
Ай бұрын
You're so welcome!
@mgdancecovers8055
16 күн бұрын
Thank you for great advices and for your hardwork❤
@kennedisuniah7119
2 ай бұрын
a good example of this is mimi vs. Samatha on love island, mimi has a lot of the quite confidence and sam is a bit louder and extroverted but not necessarily as confident.
@Викуся-н7з
2 ай бұрын
i love your advices please don’t die
@millysmanifestations
2 ай бұрын
congratulations on getting your degree! So proud of you miss doctor!!! ahh that’s so big👩⚕️💚💚
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
thank you!! i can't believe it's all done, officially an adult now
@lolade6687
2 ай бұрын
I know right! Congratulations girl! The fact that Christina mentioned it so casually. I mean, being a doctor is a big deal.
@SabrinaRizandya-ek6vs
2 ай бұрын
The problem that u expound in this video resonates with me, I manifest I could be like u in university! I just graduated highschool and wish to get into medical school and be a doctor just like u, it will be a long and life-changing journey pls root for me so that the experience would be positive, life changing, and does not go south....❤
@Strwberr1e
2 ай бұрын
I love ur content
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
i love u 2
@Leah_mrie
28 күн бұрын
Thank you for this!
@Jd1156
2 ай бұрын
Wow dope content keep growing🔥🔥🔥
@Briianswrld
2 ай бұрын
The fact that I scrolled to see ur thumbnails is hilarious
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
hehe
@HoneyduckXD
2 ай бұрын
Tysm I needed this 😭
@Mary-f5f8p
2 ай бұрын
Your face and your speech is sooooooooo beautifulllll wow 🫂🦋
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
you're so kind, thank you 🦋
@kylie0110
2 ай бұрын
why tf did u EXACTLY describe me at the begginning
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
bc i know u hehe
@catharsis3083
Ай бұрын
I so get the wanting to wear the same thing every day lol but yeah, the one of throwing things away is giving major sk vibes 😭 but perhaps it's because I'm the opposite and I always save things "because it could be useful later". my own sk trait (as my friend called it) is my bed placement, in the middle of my room or right next to the stairs LMAOOO
@jesuislechat__
Ай бұрын
I totally get the "uniform" you wear every day ... even if everything around you changes, your clothing stays the same, so your reflection grounds you. Hope that makes sense 😅 Wearing he same thing every day doesn't necessarily make you autistic, tbh
@w7spg
Ай бұрын
thank youuu! It's so useful and cheerful. Your advices are really good and you're very beautiful💛
@carolinlovelifecoach
Ай бұрын
We need to accept others the way they are
@jessicajovel5674
Ай бұрын
13:55 I'm having an identity crisis because in 1 year (I hope) I'll graduate, and I feel so lost with the idea of not studying anymore, but I'm also starting to see all the things I can do besides studying
@RitulKarwa-o5m
2 ай бұрын
You speek in 1.75x speed 😭 But your videos are great , as a introvert i can feel each and every word u told
@jessicajovel5674
Ай бұрын
Oh my god, THANK YOU, I literally always think "I need to say something interesting/funny and smile"
@lincolnmcloud8460
2 ай бұрын
Hey I really liked this video. I know I learned a lot of confidence and how to build it up. Ideally I would like to implement all of these different exercises to better improve my confidence; but the one I want to focus on the most is just saying no.
@nicoledlugopolski4621
Ай бұрын
ive been reflecting on it lately but watching this video definitely brought to the forefront of my mind just how truly scared i am when it comes to social interactions and relationships. i honestly think im the type where when i feel very confident im more on the loud side so i dont thknk quiet confidence is exactly something i strive for but i appreciate this video to look into the mindset of a person who is confident.
@JhatemClaasen
Ай бұрын
I like u because u are from England 🎉 10:36
@uiohfiuszohda
2 ай бұрын
i needed this, i can't be social even if my life depends on it, love you queen
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
here for u 🦋
@uiohfiuszohda
2 ай бұрын
@@ChristinaAaliyah 🤍
@chrisaguilar2681
2 ай бұрын
Imma shoot my shot here. Does anyone want to go out on a date soon lol? Los angeles local here
@sfmmmo7599
2 ай бұрын
Thank u for ur videos girl! 🫶✨️
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
ofc
@taiyodesu9554
Ай бұрын
Thank you, I am not feeling lonely now 🎉
@shalomchika5004
2 ай бұрын
I appreciate your vulnerability. It's relatable, and i've done the needful(subscribed).
@allysonwalker2084
Ай бұрын
Excellent points all!
@TrinityHopkins-bn2df
2 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness, I just discovered your channel and I'm in uni right now in nursing and I'm obsesseddd
@userfum
2 ай бұрын
this is literally what i've been looking for
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
we're made for each other
@doveslizleskiss2956
2 ай бұрын
literally was taking notes from that video, thanks so much for the advice. little question here: any tips on being respected by everyone? can i just delulu into it, and go in conversations with the mindset of ''i'm already respected''? xoxo
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
omg i'm literally planning a video on this. it's gonna be called something like 'don't aim to be liked, aim to be respected' or something like that. i've come to realise people respect you A LOT when you care more about approving of yourself vs seeking approval. but i'll elaborate more in the video. but yeah, like you said, defo walk in the room, confident af, you approve of yourself, you don't need anyone to validate you, win or lose, you always have your own back, you don't need anyone's validation 🙌
@Sxyin
2 ай бұрын
omg i feel like we’re so similar, i’m also only child parents divorced and likes to yap only when i want to 😭
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
hey twin
@LeticiaPessoaa
2 ай бұрын
great content, watching your videos makes me more aware and less emotional about the phase I'm going through and motivates me to continue!! I only ask that the next videos have subtitles, as English is not my native language and sometimes the lines are too fast, I still love your videos!!
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
thank you Leticia! i can definitely upload subtitles in my next ones :)
@CYBER_FunkER
2 ай бұрын
Stoicism
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
amazing philosophy
@electriss5111
2 ай бұрын
You just described me in the first 40 seconds🤩
@2909XX
2 ай бұрын
I thought your "throwing away things" quirk was funny but why do you do that do you think? 🤔 I understand the clothes thing I identify with that it makes sense. Great video as always, glad you started a KZitem channel.. valuable content 💪🏆🫡
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
i think i get scared having too much stuff, like my worst nightmare is being a hoarder 😭🤣
@2909XX
2 ай бұрын
@ChristinaAaliyah This is very interesting 🤔
@eijustwannabehappy
Ай бұрын
❤
@acb3246
Ай бұрын
🍇
@paomichibeadles
2 ай бұрын
🍇🍇
@angelapina
2 ай бұрын
this video was amazing
@katherine5340
2 ай бұрын
I love your videos, they are very helpful!
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
than you katherine, this means more than u know
@Babygirl758
2 ай бұрын
steve jobs wears the same thing everyday
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
right ?? if it's good enough for steve it's good enough for me
@Babygirl758
2 ай бұрын
@@ChristinaAaliyah i read somewhere intelligent people do that to save time in the morning trying to figure out what to wear
@specsinmotion
2 ай бұрын
i feel like we would be such good friends, i love your energy
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
we would for sure 😎
@Duck_cheese-FOR-YOU
2 ай бұрын
Your content is amazing!
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
this means so much
@christinaregi3546
2 ай бұрын
Another fab videoooo!!!
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
my bestie !! thank you 💘
@lids1189
15 күн бұрын
I struggle a lot with being myself around people, just because I feel like there is this unspoken standard that they have of what a person should be like. It's almost as if I subconsciously attached myself to their identity and like I'm trying to keep up with those standards and with their changes and it's so exhausting. When I am around these people, I feel stressed out, in all honesty, and when I am away from them, I feel lost. It's this constant switch between being stressed and feeling lost. It's overwhelming and I definitely need to work harder to find myself again.
@lifeisthisway
2 ай бұрын
you give me so much hope, you can’t imagine… it’s like i’m listening to a future, wiser version of myself. I’m in med school right now, and throughout first three years of it all my personality was literally studying. Only recently I discovered that i also have other things i like to do 😆 Great video, as per usual 🩷
@ChristinaAaliyah
2 ай бұрын
aw girl 🥹 you've got this !! med school has that affect on a lot of us 🥲 it's a slow process to unlearn but you can absoluelty thrive in your exams and irl too!
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