Long story short. Hold men accountable regardless of race
@mimiwallen
4 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@luulips
4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@ebonyessence2838
4 жыл бұрын
I agree! A man is a man no matter the color
@thecosmicbug
4 жыл бұрын
I ex-husband is white, he wanted to married right away. He was determined, but he had a lot of learning to do and still doesn't get the black culture in America and the struggles. Unless they are willing to learn and be open to the experience of a black woman, the relationship will struggle.
@GoodGrief101
4 жыл бұрын
Briana G truth!
@howlingwolf8057
4 жыл бұрын
I agree with you I don't care what nobody says being in a relationship with a white man isn't the same for him being in a relationship with a white women, and with that being said if we really and truly can't break ground about how we choose to deal with each other on many different levels the relationship won't survive that's just my personal opinion andi I'm a black woman but if I can't relate to how your living your life and you can't relate to how I'm living mines even though we could be from different backgrounds that speaks volumes to me. Good comment.
@ericabostwick4033
4 жыл бұрын
That’s a good point sis! All relationships are difficult. I can’t even imagine the added pressure you went through. Keep pushing God has someone amazing for you!
@pinkybliss6215
4 жыл бұрын
Same. My ex-husband is white, and not only the issues you spoke of were similar in my marriage, also some of his family was lowkey or outright racists. Imagine having children with someone like that, and they want their family to babysit your kids? No thanks.
@pinkybliss6215
4 жыл бұрын
@pink girl I definitely didn't know the severity of the situation as a whole before marrying him. It was like being in a Lifetime movie, where the first half of the movie shows how perfect everything is, then it gets real, then it's fight or flight. I personally won't even date white men anymore because it poses such a huge risk while raising my black son, in my opinion.
@lilpinkbubbles6592
4 жыл бұрын
I have always been treated better by white men. So I go where I am celebrated. I accept that I pick the wrong black man every time. I will no longer fight for men who rather fight with me than for me. Listen black women, black men have spoken and the majority have said they don’t want us.
@blkqueen7
4 жыл бұрын
Sis where do you live and date?
@lilpinkbubbles6592
4 жыл бұрын
blkqueen7 White men celebrate black women where I am from.
@lilpinkbubbles6592
4 жыл бұрын
Ashley B. The number of black men who choose white women.....We build them then when they get up they choose white women and that’s okay. So I would rather build with a white man.
@clarkclarke
4 жыл бұрын
@@lilpinkbubbles6592 and you are saying that the WM will not get up and leave ????? I'm just asking ...
@morbiddom9587
4 жыл бұрын
I get what you are trying to say. Don’t let others gaslight you. Black men have been getting away with disrespecting black women for a long time and other black people will deny or turn a blind eye. White men are NOT saviors but they can be a dating & marriage option for black women if they treat you right.
@derabrown7901
4 жыл бұрын
What a bold and courageous truth. This is such a real perspective that a lot of people just can’t admit to. Great video Tony!
@toriyt2714
4 жыл бұрын
Yep. This video further proves just how honest Tony really is.
@je39981
4 жыл бұрын
I'm open to different options but I'm not into dealing with families who want to create drama because the color of my skin.
@ladennayoung2939
4 жыл бұрын
Right
@larenzapious502
4 жыл бұрын
I get that. I'm open to interracial dating but if the family does more than I can handle and the guy can't/won't check them, then I got to go. Interracial or not
@MT-hk9cp
4 жыл бұрын
I feel you but you got black families who are colorist and to me that's even worse.
@tracyb2291
4 жыл бұрын
I'm open to interracial dating and have dated white men to open my dating pool of available eligible men. In my opinion, true love is worth the hassle as long as you know your worth, have values and standards. It's especially important to keep your legs closed!
@Metaphysicalmindspace777
4 жыл бұрын
Restored Hope This is the ONLY issue I disagree with Tony on. And honestly black women must do what feels right to them. These black guys are not valuing themselves. That is a FACT!
@ClaraCouturexo
4 жыл бұрын
Like Tony would say! STAY OFF YO BACK 😂 LOL
@heyyashleyyy2669
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly I agree. I’ve dated white and black and there is really not much difference in my opinion. A guy is a guy lol. It’s truly about how the male is raised and if he has values as you said.
@coachnatishamommatish185
4 жыл бұрын
@@ClaraCouturexo 🤣👏👏👏
@itsliveagain5360
4 жыл бұрын
@@Metaphysicalmindspace777 You got your feelings hurt
@ebonymahogany4682
4 жыл бұрын
Bottom line, women should love who is loving them whether it be black or otherwise. I do believe black women should diversify their dating pool and not in spite of a black man which is a ridiculous notion anyway. Level up ladies (mind, body, spirit and financial) and you can have the type of man you want.
@ebonymahogany4682
4 жыл бұрын
Jamilla Dobson That’s very sweet of you to say, thank you😊
@jamesmitchell866
4 жыл бұрын
Black women been dating interracial since the MAYFLOWER why do black women think that dont nobody no that, can u imagine a blue black man WALKING around with a blonde in the 1960, we make it a big deal I been seeing black women with especially white Latin Asian men an I grew up in Atlanta an all black city.....one thing I cam say is at least black men getting better at interracial dating cause the obese white woman ain't it. Man I saw a brother with a Arab woman the other day this had to be the prettiest woman in the world an a black man had her an I did feel like yeah brothers get em....
@gayle2020
4 жыл бұрын
@@jamesmitchell866 oh now its since the Mayflower? smh
@shereses.3298
4 жыл бұрын
@@jamesmitchell866 what??? You clearly said that cuz you can't get her, or clearly any other woman for the matter, which is why your ignorant self is.sitting here making a comment such as that under a Tony Gaskins video created to empower us black women who have been berated for decades. Save it. Thats why you are where you aren't.
@Petitemuslimah215
4 жыл бұрын
Blue, black, orange, yellow or peach. I’m going to date the one that treats me like a queen 👑 period. It is sad to say, so far the interracial relationship I’ve had are way better. For many years I’ve been sitting here looking for my chocolate man only. 👀Child I’m now truly enjoying getting to know human being period. Asian, Indian, Jamaican, African , Hispanic, Caucasian. Listen, don’t chase away your blessings and you can still keep your legs close while doing so. Don’t get it twisted. 😆😆🤗
@t.l1357
4 жыл бұрын
I've heard from a black man complaining about raising his biracial son. He's not black enough because of his mom. It's so weird to me. I don't understand...he chose that woman. 🤷🏾♀️
@kirchenmaus1086
4 жыл бұрын
Biracial kids are very beautiful actually
@ericabostwick4033
4 жыл бұрын
That’s ridiculous... he had a child with someone of another race and then tells his child he’s not black enough??? What a fool! 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
@adoringgalore5636
4 жыл бұрын
T. L now what the world lol
@patrickbolz9950
2 ай бұрын
I can do one better my daughter is mixed and hates me her father cuz I'm white and hates all white ppl and would rather her father be Mexican
@RubyRoxxie
4 жыл бұрын
I’m here for this one! Interracial dating is NOT easy!
@palmtreemrs
4 жыл бұрын
Black men don’t want to believe that BW have interests from other groups of men. The truth is we do! I have so many white men try to talk to me since I’ve been single I’ve lost count. But I’ve chosen not to date them because I didn’t feel comfortable in this current political climate of our country. I may have been wrong and may eventually change my mind but that is my truth. But believe the options are there. Most BW are race loyal unlike BM who are the least race loyal of any group on the planet.?
@palmtreemrs
4 жыл бұрын
popa213 I don’t think I had any comments but not sure.
@palmtreemrs
4 жыл бұрын
popa213 I can agree with those reasons....
@divineexpressions144
4 жыл бұрын
They reason white men want BW is because their race is declining and they want us to have their children just to mix our strong blood line with thier weaker genetics to keep their blood lineage going don't be fool its a set up. Yes they know who we are, because they studies us, and They know the black man anit stepping up to the plate nor are they strong enough to protect and provide. So here comes johnny hollering hero. Now Felicia got 2 mixed babies and his race lives on forever. Girl you gotta look deeper.
@palmtreemrs
4 жыл бұрын
SK I don’t know why they want BM
@palmtreemrs
4 жыл бұрын
Ki ki Winstead I hardly ever trust the motives of anyone trying to look for an interracial relationship. But I definitely believe that’s why they promote the WW/BM relationships.
@nijaelinflorida
4 жыл бұрын
I always felt a white man couldn’t fully understand me as a black woman or our history. Our relationship with our natural hair, weave, mixed girls being the face of beauty for the full black woman and other complicated subjects. Also I always worried about having mixed kids and seeing how they’re treated better than full black children I don’t want people to idolize my child’s beauty and In my mind I know it’s because of her white features . I need someone who can understand me from a place of experience. That will feel more authentic I believe. But I’m not attracted to most black men. I think it’s because past experiences with father figures and being abandoned. My emotions don’t click. Still working on healing.
@eyanasglow8163
3 ай бұрын
Black children can go through the same identity crisis if they're not whats considered "black", if they're different or not ghetto, hood stereotypes, it's all in parenting. I think the issue is more so on putting value on outsiders perception. If you're in a interracial relationship with no issues it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks. Also, black men don't often try to understand black women, they're no different.
@patrickbolz9950
2 ай бұрын
I don't know you but find yourself first before you go with anybody
@mimiwallen
4 жыл бұрын
I’m not using the hue of any skin to date men! I’m guided by values, God-fearing qualities, fiscal responsibility, emotional intelligence and many other critical factors that will lead to a healthy relationship. I’m approached by men of all races, as beauty and intelligence are recognized regardless of race. This black woman dates across all racial or ethnic groups. I’m especially not loyal to any one group. I’m loyal to my happiness to choose the right wholesome man to go on this life journey!
@evaj3259
4 жыл бұрын
I agree with you 💯
@meekmeek8198
Жыл бұрын
Same!
@lilkathytaylor
4 жыл бұрын
Wow! Interracial couples have a whole nother level of obstacles. Gotta be sure it's God because you gonna need a whole lot of GRACE!
@lilkathytaylor
4 жыл бұрын
@Kim B Awesome! It must be grace by God then and/or y'all motive of being with each other comes from a pure place. My child father (black) is married to a white women. I never dated outside my race. I heard horror story's of a women find out her white guys she's been dating sending racist txt message about her to his friend. Every story is different.
@lilkathytaylor
4 жыл бұрын
@Kim BYour welcome 😊♥️
@morbiddom9587
4 жыл бұрын
Katherine Taylor is your child’s father your ex-husband?
@ireneramirez4251
4 жыл бұрын
Interracial couples definitely have obstacles. I was in one for 18 yrs. We have 3 kids but never married because every time we went out there were stare downs from many black women. I believe he just got tired of all of the stares, rolling eyes etc. That wasn't the only reason for the split. He was talking to other females. Those female didn't care that kids were part of the equation. He just didn't value family like I did.
@morbiddom9587
4 жыл бұрын
@@_theerealnono_7694 this is what I'm trying to understand. Tony is not even with a full black woman himself. And from what Katherine is saying, her black man put a baby in her and then went on to MARRY a white woman. So why is she so afraid of non black men?
@pinklotus2716
4 жыл бұрын
I’m an African American Licensed Professional Counselor in Alabama! I agree we have to be the catalyst of change!
@ebonymahogany4682
4 жыл бұрын
I’m kinda confused with this message. Tony you stated that you dated white women and ALL types of women since your teenage years. You even have a video stated that you approached your wife because she looked ambiguous and you hadn’t seen anyone like her, she ended up being your wife. How are men able to date whomever and it’s considered “their preference” but black women can’t go looking for a white man because it’s hers. I think that’s hypocritical to be honest. Statistically WM/BW relationships last longer than the later. I am highly attracted to black men but I wouldn’t shun other races because I don’t belong to black men and they don’t belong to me. I know that I’m a high value woman and that’s based on my character so I am approached by all races of men. Women need to heal their wounds, invest in themselves and any race of man will genuinely pursue them with purpose.
@ebonymahogany4682
4 жыл бұрын
Rosemary Terra I just can’t understand his view when that’s exactly why he started dating his wife. Also, most black women aren’t motivated to date outside our race out of spite or because black men hurt them. Let’s be real a lot of black women do it to expand dating options as they should and there is nothing wrong with that. Black women are taught to be race loyal from birth and men are taught to taste the rainbow. Maybe it’s not seeking out but rather not excluding men that are seeking us. Anyone who is dating another human being for the wrong reasons are going to experience a failed relationship eventually.
@LaniElevate
4 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with you. And when he goes out with his wife, who is beautiful by the way, he has even said himself he thought she was of another race. So people who don’t know her background may assume she’s not black but Hispanic/other. So how is he telling us about the “struggle” of being in an interracial relationship and how it’s not all unicorns and roses when he himself is viewed as the same? I just confused myself talking about it. And God isn’t the author of confusion so let’s just say he was in “the flesh” when he did this video 😂😂
@marilynking527
4 жыл бұрын
He stated that he thought his wife was Hispanic and didn’t realize she was Jamaican I can’t remember him saying he dated her because she was ambiguous. Correct me if I’m wrong
@9188jenni
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. When Tony was seeking the girls of other races, it was for superficial reasons.
@9188jenni
4 жыл бұрын
Black men want black women to be loyal to them, meanwhile we sitting here single and they didnt take advantage of the opportunity to pursue us until we are with someone of another race. Then they have a lot to say. I think black love is special because due to the obstacles present in the black community its not as prevalent, so if you can have a healthy black love, its special and revolutionary. But its not the only love available. Love is love. If im dating a white man, who loves and values me, and meets my standards, I will not pass him up in hopes of finding a black love instead.
@javon8082
4 жыл бұрын
Great video Brother Tony. And u were 100% right. The truth hurts. U cant date someone as a novelty and also u have to understand the struggles and stereotypes that come with a particular race. U struck a nerve for ppl that ddnt want to hear the truth. For me I was raised not like most white children. I was adopted at birth. My mom and dad were an interracial couple. My dad white and my mom was Filipino but alot of ppl thought she was black or Caribbean. My dad loved my mom. I was raised to embrace color. As I got older my dad was scarred for me to date interracial because of the backlash he took from society and family. Part of my family who helped raise me were from Jamaica. And I gravitated to that culture. Our motto is "Out of many we are one people." So we embrace difference and color. That's why it's been common for me to date outside my race. It was never about a black issue. I primarily dated Caribbean women. Because we have a different view in life. But the black American women I have dated were because not just a physical attraction but personality, faith, morals, and internal components. So yes the majority of women I dated were black. But i have always allowed myself to be open in dating all colors and races. But it has to be beyond just color. But the color of their heart, mind, and personality. I dont know if my comment helps. But just stating my life. I never asked to be raised the way I was in a multi cultural and interracial family. But I was. I guess God had a special path in my life. To see the beauty in everyone😇❤
@TeraChantelle
4 жыл бұрын
"Do you love your skin LaTosha?" LOL Tony is the realest!!!!
@GoodGrief101
4 жыл бұрын
Clicked on this one so fast. Now I’m 👀👂🏾 and taking notes✍🏾
@clarkclarke
4 жыл бұрын
I remember when one of my friends was getting married to her white boyfriend ..she kept telling us "you can't help who you love" ...for all the years they were married ..she was the one who always made the money ...bought the houses ...the travel etc ...and I guess everyone always thought it was him .....now they are divorced...I didn't ask for details ....she just said "i'm tired of being unhappy" As a Black woman I really don't care who people want to be with ...just don't disrespect me ...go do you and be happy ..when I ask my male friends why they date WM ....they can't say ...they can never articulate ...
@MT-hk9cp
4 жыл бұрын
They didn't want to answer you because either 1. They know you won't like the answer or 2. They don't want to face their "truth".
@nikkyshamz2696
4 жыл бұрын
As long as it makes sense to them that's fine.
@juju7530
4 жыл бұрын
That's because those black men are sleep walking through life and have been oppressed. They may even have hidden anger towards black women... Mommy issues perhaps. My brother tried to hide his real thoughts & feelings about his white wife for years. I knew there was no way he loved her. I over heard him talking to his friends one day saying " I can't stand that white b**ch and I made the biggest mistake having a child by her." He told us the complete opposite because he didn't want to look dumb. He's obviously stuck now. His wife has admitted to me that he has slept with 100s of other women and he has 2 kids by other women, but she refuses to let him go. It's like she's determined to keep him as a pet/slave and take his money, because fr fr no else attractive wants her. The way she even got him his by preying on his weakness... Love deprivation. He told her how emotionally unavailable our mom was growing up. She knew then exactly what to say to him in high school to lock him in. Everything our mother neglected to say to him growing up. Everything black girls in our area never knew to say to keep a black man. She's also able to remain completely logical during an argument with my brother. She doesn't try to scare off the black women who are always after my brother. She simply resorts back to her original tactics... Fake love and adoration. It has worked for 20 years.
@schoolwork232
4 жыл бұрын
@@juju7530 Wow! Just wow!
@PrettyReddTheDoula
4 жыл бұрын
15 min in. Me: 😂😂 Tony, I'm not dealing with your shenanigans today.
@mandymckeown8625
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂he talking chit !!! I've watched a few of his videos and this man talks complete chit .
@MariyahB_94
4 жыл бұрын
In light of this video, can you do one addressing colorism in the black community?
@zachaazakah
4 жыл бұрын
Yes please
@SoundMind.
4 жыл бұрын
Colorism is in every community not just black for example dark skin latinos/latinas get hate from the more european/spaniard looking ones same for mexicans and asians
@morbiddom9587
4 жыл бұрын
SoundMind what’s your point
@SoundMind.
4 жыл бұрын
morbid dom the point is that the “colorism” argument is a copout/excuse because every group everybody likes lighter skin and nice features sadly due to european colonization and them setting the standard of beauty
@morbiddom9587
4 жыл бұрын
SoundMind she asked him to make a video on colorism and you responded that it exists in all communities. What is the point of stating that as if it negates anything? Colorism in each community is going to be different for men and women.
@christineporter9914
4 жыл бұрын
Great topic tonight Bro Tony , this message is needed for what we going through today.
@lediawhiteside9964
4 жыл бұрын
I have my book, enjoying it! Bought 4more for gifts 🎁 Thanks to you an family! God Pour out in his life 🙏
@IshanaeS
4 жыл бұрын
Whew tony you have been stepping on toes with these videos in the last few days👏🏾
@willowrhonda1
4 жыл бұрын
Omg, was just contemplating this.... great timing!
@robertagg7191
4 жыл бұрын
I agree with you 100%!!! Thank you for being so real! Your honesty is so hard to find in the world that we live in.
@nikitatbain
4 жыл бұрын
I liked it before I even watched it God bless you Tony 👍🏾
@mybrwnisbeautifulhin1165
4 жыл бұрын
I see fine white man all the time. But look here, ain’t nobody got time to be going through all the extra challenges that an interracial relationship brings.
@sisterinchrist4698
4 жыл бұрын
Preacchhhhhhhh!!😂‼️‼️‼️
@mommyme6073
4 жыл бұрын
White men have issues too! The difference between a white woman and a black woman is we date differently if a White woman finds an issue she steps back , but some of us Black women we think some how we think "God bless us with fixing power" smh. If God send you a white man God will give him Knowledge how to deal with you and you with him ! The biggest challenge is to stay to the end , so let's not talk bad about our black men , but know that what is for you no one can take it...... Your will Lord! Not my will! Amen!
@patrickbolz9950
2 ай бұрын
That's your opinion
@shereses.3298
4 жыл бұрын
This message needs to be heard by BLACK MEN🙏🏾
@itsliveagain5360
4 жыл бұрын
And black women need to hear a message as well. But people don't want to hurt your feelings.
@shereses.3298
4 жыл бұрын
@@itsliveagain5360 I feel great, I have always had my pick and choose on either side....but i want my black king.
@shereses.3298
4 жыл бұрын
@Jamilla Dobson precisely why the comment was made. Thanks 😉
@palmtreemrs
4 жыл бұрын
BM are the main ones who need to hear it! They do this more than anyone but who teaches them??
@mandymckeown8625
4 жыл бұрын
Bollox . Get a life s .
@jmatthews5685
4 жыл бұрын
A lot of black women refuse to date outside of their race because they feel white and/or other men can't relate to them but do black men honestly understand the "black woman's struggle" any better than white/other men🤔 If so, why do they leave? And why do they themselves date other instead of black?? Just curious
@ashleybeverly7328
4 жыл бұрын
Here and ready to listen 🙏🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
@ivankak.7763
4 жыл бұрын
You have so much wisdom and insight and are very good at breaking it down and making complicated topics understandable.
@lenmitch8337
4 жыл бұрын
WHEN MR. TG SAID “LISTENNNNNNNNN”, I FELT THAT. FUNNYYYY BUT TRUTH!!!
@GoodGrief101
4 жыл бұрын
I finished the video. I hope that nobody comes for Tony because he said the truth! I’m in a very loving interracial relationship and my kids are biracial. It’s not easy when people are so ignorant. Anyway, Men are going to be men regardless of their race. So, if you’re looking for a come up or special treatment 🤷🏾♀️ Thank you again, Tony and you and your family stay blessed!
@coachnatishamommatish185
4 жыл бұрын
The Almighty Lord Has BigBro& His Family Sheild In The Blood as he continues to be a Real SERVANT of The Most High. God bless sis.🙏🙏🙏
@GoodGrief101
4 жыл бұрын
COACH Natisha Momma Tish1 May God continue to bless you too.
@ericabostwick4033
4 жыл бұрын
COACH Natisha Momma Tish1 yes and amen Coach Momma Tish!!! God will protect Tony and his family because he is doing the work of God!
@ericabostwick4033
4 жыл бұрын
LaVette thank you for saying this. You have person experience with this and admit that there is additional pressure placed on interracial couples and biracial children. It bothers me that people turn a blind eye and act like this is not a real issue.
@coachnatishamommatish185
4 жыл бұрын
@@GoodGrief101 Amen APTTMH🙌🙋♀️ thank you
@MoufAll-Mighty
4 жыл бұрын
Wheeew, you made my day with that, "I say, liiisteeen..." That is so real. Thank you, keep doing what you do.👍
@queenlovek
4 жыл бұрын
Excellent post Tony Gaskins!! This is the most TRUTHFUL perspective. I've heard a few over the years but you nailed it. Thank you for sharing this real raw TRUTH 💯🙏🙏 Keep sharing
@KrystleLaughter
4 жыл бұрын
Glad to see a video today.
@tdukes1966
4 жыл бұрын
I listened to your entire video, so that my comments add organic substance to this sensitive topic and makes sense!. You handled this taboo subject matter with, honesty, compassion, while noting your life experiences with it along the way, and style!! You did a phenomenal job, bringing the real truth, healing, hope and understanding for anyone open, willing to accept it in contrast to anyone who is not willing to see truth but buy into filling themselves and many along the way. (POWER TO THOSE PEOPLE). Yes this is a large, major that needs more attention. Maybe parts 2 and or 3 are forthcoming?
@iloveangelmonroe4864
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!!! I was thinking about this 🙏🏾💕
@annapendleton9500
4 жыл бұрын
I love listening to you Tony G. You’re telling the truth this is the world we’re living in and people don’t realize this is still going on and this world needs to really change their ways of thinking. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
@MR-cr7yc
4 жыл бұрын
Been refreshing KZitem all day waiting on my daily dose.. thanks cousin tony 😂
@coachingwithp
4 жыл бұрын
You were not alone
@Cassidy8864
4 жыл бұрын
Well said, that was very informative. Love versus the reality of the the society. Amen, thank you.
@dametrahames3297
4 жыл бұрын
Omg I was laughing the whole time because you were definitely calling me out in this video Tony. 🤣🤣🤣 I tried to date outside my race for all the wrong reasons. And you're right, I didn't have any better results in the end. It did seem like the men in other cultures did communicate with me better though. They were more upfront about not being into me anymore or only wanting me for sex, etc. And the black men I dated seem to not want to be as upfront. But again in the end the common denominator is me. I will take your advice and continue to work on my personal growth and emotional intelligence and love myself more so I will be my authentic self and that is something a man can fall inlove with and want to be serious with me. Thank you for your advice. I always enjoy watching your videos. You make me laugh and shed a lot of light on things I need to hear and you say it in a way I can receive it and I don't feel like its an attack. You're just honest. Keep being great. I am grateful for your videos. Have a blessed day.
@dietdrpepper3763
3 жыл бұрын
This is so real!! I can definitely relate and say that I agree with this due to my own experience! Great video
@ebonyflowers7599
4 жыл бұрын
Tony said what he said lol 😂 nothing but the truth.
@ladennayoung2939
4 жыл бұрын
Right
@Metaphysicalmindspace777
4 жыл бұрын
Tony’s “Tom voice” is hilarious!
@brit9134
4 жыл бұрын
Keep the real coming for those of us who can be honest with ourselves and take the heat. Thank you for putting the real out there.
@tracyb2291
4 жыл бұрын
Great video Tony G!
@jjmac5712
4 жыл бұрын
Noted, plain and simple. Thanks Bro. Tony👌🏾!
@Th3lite
4 жыл бұрын
I want a God fearing, gentle, warm hearted, loving, kind, hardworking man. Period.
@sadelynn2235
4 жыл бұрын
Be blessed, pahaha white chocolate made me spit my water out. Keep em coming!
@freckledfacedbeauty151
4 жыл бұрын
Was just thinking about this! I’m all ears.
@eloisegre507
4 жыл бұрын
Hey I'm new to your channel, and from watching some of your videos, you are real. I love how you break it down. I hear for the truth. TFS
@DrRaeLoveCoach
4 жыл бұрын
Great topic Tony! ❤
@LadyAngela678
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for finally doing a video on this. 😊
@lisag5046
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr. Gaskins, great video🙏🏼
@Carolina480
10 ай бұрын
This why I love yuor channel yu say it so blunt so honestly thanks keep up the great work
@amaka1
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video!! 🙏🏾
@mbayangbadjan3925
4 жыл бұрын
Wow man I like the way you think. Thank you for your originality on this matter.
@howlingwolf8057
4 жыл бұрын
Very good video Tony I appreciate you.
@tarahbruno3793
4 жыл бұрын
This is The realest video I have ever seen on this topic! This was a breathe of fresh air from a wise perspective
@macavelli8905
4 жыл бұрын
Good video,my experience in an interracial marriage of 18 years. Didn't start with intention of even being a couple her father has told his friends that I am the son he always wanted,being that his daughter is a only child. I have had women walk by and speak words unrepeatable here,when in stores. It doesn't happen all the time and I never offer negative energy back when approached like that,love is a power energy that has no boundaries. I was not looking for a relationship when we met,and the racial make up would not have mattered , my hope for women in general is that she attracts someone on the same vibration period. Now my wife is threatened by black women,even though we have made it for 18 years and we have had no cheating situations.Again good video, One Love!
@brendaolivares2168
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony for being so real about this topic! As an American Hispanic woman that can pass as European, I realized early in my life the benefits and positive sides of the white culture and I disliked my own race. Because my race left a weird taste in my mouth and the white culture seemed to have it together, I wanted to use my appearance to win the benefits of being with a white man and white family. I’ve never dated a Hispanic man but have had multiple failed relationships with white men. God is speaking to me through you and I realize I’ve got work to do. Thank you for your message! It was Recieved.
@cher361
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr Umpire😂Excellent points, Good video💯
@rosalynnelson7764
4 жыл бұрын
I think black woman should definitely date outside their race if they are attracted to other races. I know many black men who arent checking for black women. The women they be checking for that are "black" are the women who are light skin or biracial. Tony Gaskin is married to a biracial woman. There's nothing against the Gaskins but in reality for darker skinned black women we are at the bottom of the barrel to some black men. Growing up I loved black men and they didnt like me at all. So that's why I started dating outside my race and found a lot more white guys who were attracted to me than my own people. And I have more things in common with white guys than I do my own people. So that's why I think darker skinned black women like me shouldn't be confined to dating a group of men who clearly disown us and arent loyal to us. Also, just because yall the same race doesnt mean yall share similar cultures. Or just because yall different races doesnt mean yall have different cultures. Me and my bf had similar upbringings and we are different races.
@WISHBONEL7
3 жыл бұрын
What is a race ?.
@peach8142
Жыл бұрын
There’s someone for everyone.
@brandytucker4024
4 жыл бұрын
Great video Mr TG!! I do agree the interacial can work for all the right authentic reasons. 💕🇬🇧
@keyshiam2891
4 жыл бұрын
Reporting for class!
@peaceful_and_blessed2879
4 жыл бұрын
Great video Tony! And your boys are beautiful 🙏🏻🙌
@juiceitup7915
4 жыл бұрын
I was wondering the same of black men. Are they content in being black because as soon as they become successful they feel like they need to get a white, puerto rican, asian or mixed woman because they are a trophy along with their wealth. This conversation can really go deeper on both sides.
@0687charisma
4 жыл бұрын
Let me get my notebook 📒 out!! I was like Lord I’m open but...👀
@0687charisma
4 жыл бұрын
bigjayking24 you’re right it’s definitely not about race and I’m not seeking another race for escape at all.
@scooby1970m
4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful points Tony. People are people and have their problems, prejudices and beliefs. I opened my heart to meeting a wonderful man while doing the work to be the best me and a white man came along. I totally agree that interracial dating is not solution but just 2 people of different races showing interest in each other. It boils down to character, intention and willingness to learn about and from each other and do the love and heart and God work. And I got the whole eye thing all my life. My eyes are Hazel-Green and I got the cat eyes all my eyes and people still ask where I got my eyes from with that what are you tone. Nope, Black, mom from Alabama and dad from Georgia
@adesewarenee7680
4 жыл бұрын
I absolutely AGREE with your sentiments.💯 Thank you and be blessed King. 👑
@scooterjones8808
4 жыл бұрын
Here in the UK there is a high rate of mixed relationships but they never go to the end. The majority are between working class blackmen and working class white women who are usually fat. You don't need a degree to know why these fat women are going with blackmen. White men don' t want them. What ive seen from my friends who have been with white women, is that seemed to have comprised themselves to be in the relationship and forgetten who they were for bottom of the shelf women who oly bring thier white skin. There was a white woman who i worked with who always spoke badly about black women and always reffered to them as that blackwoman, that black woman over there and said with such contempt. Yet her boyfriend is black! Does that sound like a woman who was genuine in a mixed relationship? The grass is not always greener on the other side.
@scooterjones8808
4 жыл бұрын
The AGENT has left the building What slim and rough.
@scooterjones8808
4 жыл бұрын
AB C and not forgetting African men seeking British passports.
@Maggs3
4 жыл бұрын
This is so true. I see this in my own country. The men bring women from overseas and i know they are the least desirable just to say that they have a wyt woman.
@durbansaladyinaccra2173
4 жыл бұрын
You are so right. I have heard of interracial couple using racial insults against each other when they quarrel and I said now the truth about how they really feel about each others race is coming out.
@Mel-vo5yr
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂ffs definitely facts , bare of them Up north leeds , Newcastle etc and in London Clapham junction , Battersea etc .
@ninasky3275
4 жыл бұрын
God bless you Tony🙏 Your existence,your words are blessings🙏🙏 I see God through you
@manoniemoments
9 ай бұрын
Keep it up, Tony! You’re out here saving lives.🙌🏾
@starbright523
4 жыл бұрын
So on point as always!
@Dr.Elaine1
4 жыл бұрын
"It's going to take work on either side of the aisle. ...but it's going to be more work in an interracial relationship because we live in a prejudice society." TG
@StephaniesWorld7
4 жыл бұрын
Be Blessed 🙏🏽 “When you are looking for love, you got to look within, you got to heal you"
@brittneysworld6886
4 жыл бұрын
Tony I agree with u 💯 percent I fill the same way!!!
@valenciawalker6498
4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been interracial dating for six years now . We value and love one another . My boyfriend is white and I’m black . Glad to see a video . It doesn’t matter what race you are .
@Wallie_World
4 жыл бұрын
I’m in an interracial relationship and trust me folks, humans are humans. It’s actually more work. Everything he’s saying is truth... Listen
@WISHBONEL7
3 жыл бұрын
Technically , what is a race ?.
@valeriebryant5903
4 жыл бұрын
Hi tony love the book women influence it really help me also I enjoy all of your videos god bless you and your wife 🙏
@lenasmith3563
4 жыл бұрын
God bless you Tony⭐
@girlwakeuppodcast4622
4 жыл бұрын
Tony pushed a few Wigs back w/this one, nothing but TRUTH!!
@luulips
4 жыл бұрын
Great message. I had a white guy trying to get to know me but kept saying “I like the chocolate girls.” That wasn’t a compliment as far as I was concerned. Every time he said it I was turned off because I wanted to get to know him just for him. Not because he was white. Thank you for the truth Tony.
@specialjaiharris3387
4 жыл бұрын
Yes! I experienced the same thing. They just wanna know if our juice is sweeter...
@luulips
4 жыл бұрын
Specialjai Harris exactly
@aisha_lovely
4 жыл бұрын
Great video as usual!
@poppysunshine3228
4 жыл бұрын
LOL! Latasha! You were so funny in this video. But you were giving straight facts. I know so many black men who will not date black women because they say they there's too much drama with black women. Or they date Asian women because they're intrigued by their culture. You hit the nail on the head with this video.
@MarloShaVonne
4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful Topic. 💯Real Talk.
@coachnatishamommatish185
4 жыл бұрын
Evening Blessed Tribe family 🙏🙌🙏
@coachingwithp
4 жыл бұрын
Heeeyyy
@coachnatishamommatish185
4 жыл бұрын
@@coachingwithp Heya Tribe fam's 🙏🙏🙏
@ericabostwick4033
4 жыл бұрын
This is very good! I personally never dated interracially but I definitely can’t imagine the backlash that would come from our families, friends, communities. Honestly I personally think it’s It’s hard enough for males and females to understand each other when you are the same race. I can’t imagine that pressure that interracial couples face.
@coachnatishamommatish185
4 жыл бұрын
Very Well Said Sis @ Coach Erica
@9188jenni
4 жыл бұрын
Its mostly from society/ ignorant people you dont know. If those ignorant people ARE the people you know and consider friends, then thats another convo.
@missy3505
4 жыл бұрын
I'm 51 and have dated interracially for over 20 years and race was never an issue!
@ericabostwick4033
4 жыл бұрын
Miss Y that is definitely a blessing. I’m sure not everyone has that same experience but it’s a blessing that you have.
@ericabostwick4033
4 жыл бұрын
Tracy G unfortunately people have biases that they have to overcome if they choose to. I think the biases exist with people you know and people you bump into. The reality is racial bias is real and if we’re honest with ourselves we see it daily. This racial climate right now is just forcing people to face it whether it’s a black person who has an issue with seeing a black man with a woman of another race or vice verse. Racism and bias is real and always have been. People can no longer pretend it doesn’t exist because this racial climate has forced us to open our eyes to its reality.
@jjmac5712
4 жыл бұрын
Lol, "lis-san (listen) lis-san get yo volleyball scholarship", Tony u crackin me up with that!🤣😂 woohoo🤣😂
@audreyderrick4972
4 жыл бұрын
i've dated white men, what i now realize is the attraction i have to a black man has to do with our immediate comfortably of both being black.
@julianacheriza1575
3 жыл бұрын
Yea
@radjabhussein8810
Жыл бұрын
💩💩💩💩💩💩💩🤥🤥🤥🤥🤥
@sweetpea5253
4 жыл бұрын
I am white, my husband is black. We live in the South. We have had challenges, but have been together almost 20 years. Collectively we have 10 children. I am his 2nd wife and he also has children by another woman. All the children get along and I have a good relationship with both of the mothers of his children. I attend parties and such for both families. It's different for each person. I, nor him, ever tolerated any nonsense with our kids or otherwise. We never had any concerns for anyone's negative feelings about our marriage. But like I said, each person is different. People stare but we smile, wave and move on. Racism will always exist on both sides of the isle, it's all in how we respond to it.
@nunurbizness06
Жыл бұрын
100% Thank You and God bless you and your family. 🙏
@sassytraveler5378
4 жыл бұрын
I have dated out of my race for the past 12 years. I don't agree with society when they say . The stereotype is that black men have temper problems. I don't agree! But my experience white men have really bad temper problems. Because they are spoiled. Not all but most. I also dated Hispanic. My best was with a PUERTO RICAN man. And that was because we were both in church. Sisters are like to share with you , allow God to chose that man for you. It doesn't matter the race. We all have problems and issues when God chose the right one he doesn't discremenate. Its not about being with the person who can deal with your positive it's about finding the person that can deal with the negative part of you. Whether he's black white hispanic or whatever race. He loves you with good and bad....
@sassytraveler5378
4 жыл бұрын
Because GOD makes NO mistakes we do.
@amariseshalina776
4 жыл бұрын
Race does matter have y'all forgot about the hanging of bm.
@sassytraveler5378
4 жыл бұрын
There a lot of good men it's about finding the right man. I'm speaking from experience ladies.
@sharingbeauty5063
4 жыл бұрын
I’m a white European woman and my man is Jamaican. The chemistry between us is out of this world. We now have a little princess and our families are supportive of our relationship. ❤️
@womanofgod2948
4 жыл бұрын
Hmmm....my, my, my. Did you go to Jamaica to get him? Jamaicans love to prey on persons on the internet, because life is hard in Jamaica, they are looking for a way out, but to each their own, glad its working out for you.
@lyndapeoples8127
4 жыл бұрын
Sharing Beauty...you're saying all of that to say what?
@lynnettelassiter4931
4 жыл бұрын
Yall came at this women for no reason like she was saying shes an interracial relationship and shes in love. Yall are mad and miserable
@sunnatural1272
4 жыл бұрын
Wtf! You sound like an obsessed witch with a bag of magic spells. Phallus worship.
@shereses.3298
4 жыл бұрын
Good luck🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Iamdmgartrell
4 жыл бұрын
Tony is a pure comedian and speaks nothing but truth!
@tracyb2291
4 жыл бұрын
You are right Tony G. There is a set of issues and challenges you have to really consider when you decide to date outside of your race. So far, I've had good experiences dating white men. I love black men but open to other races too.
@itsliveagain5360
4 жыл бұрын
Girl they don't want you
@beowulf5106
4 жыл бұрын
I like your photo.
@itsliveagain5360
4 жыл бұрын
@@beowulf5106 Thanks I'm taken
@lsl3182
4 жыл бұрын
Respect the realness!!!! Truth spoken🔥
@veelove2226
4 жыл бұрын
I didn’t hear anything but the absolute truth, it may be some people upset or offended with this message and that’s ok because it’s factual on all accounts, we run when things get hard, or we are hurt and disappointed but that doesn’t mean run to something unfamiliar, let it be organic and many people know when it is we just have to walk in our truth and it’s not always easy. Thank you Tony! Great message!🙏🏾
@yahairacope1726
4 жыл бұрын
He brought up some really great points. Don’t purposely look outside your race because it’s not guarantee for success.
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