Why are women expected to be the mature adult in these relationships? Why can’t men govern themselves from acting like small children, and when they see a valuable woman, treat her as such? Why is that too much to ask? Why do we have to babysit a man’s behavior? Why can’t he do that???
@steffiekensley8743
Жыл бұрын
He can unless it's the wrong he and there are a lot of wrong ones out there. I've learned to ask myself: Why would I tolerate this? What am I trying to get from this manboy that I can't give to myself or find in someone who's done the inner work like I have? Usually, I've allowed inexplicable, incongruent, hypocritical, disrespectful or disloyal behavior because I'm subconsciously trying to correct a relationship from childhood. When I recognize that was never my problem to fix because I was just a child and I can now meet my own needs or find safe people to meet them, there's no longer a perceived need for the manboy. Then, I'm free and he's stuck with himself.
@danyelleorr-mcneil4711
Жыл бұрын
@@steffiekensley8743exactly 💯
@lbar9720
Жыл бұрын
I blame their Mother's for that! Seriously! Mothers teach their Sons how to treat women, and Fathers too, but a lot of Mothers coddle their Sons and let them act like fools when they're little, and grow up into bigger fools!
@julierobinson8173
Жыл бұрын
If he can't grow with you, then you will grow away from him 😉
@Realness4sho
Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@curtisdrummerellerbe9544
Жыл бұрын
Fact and vice versa
@Realness4sho
Жыл бұрын
@@curtisdrummerellerbe9544 Right on buddy! 💜
@ElsieAryee-bf8hl
Жыл бұрын
Derrick you are spot on. I love your truthfulness
@sharmawade5498
Жыл бұрын
The best decision I ever made was telling him that I’m no longer an option in Jesus’ mighty name, Amen! 🙌🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥
@veganvocalist4782
Жыл бұрын
;D))) heeee , good
@crystallynnmcphail5254
Жыл бұрын
True GOD warns us when enough is enough
@Realness4sho
Жыл бұрын
✅💜
@jenihunt2001
Жыл бұрын
So true!
@ka8155
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@lbar9720
Жыл бұрын
BEST line I've ever heard "God designed you to start reserving power whenever someone is draining you of yours" Thank you so much, I needed to hear this today. God Bless you.
@scorpiored3871
Жыл бұрын
Yes! I withdrew for my peace of mind and to protect my heart ❤️! Thanks Derrick 😊 ♥️
@Realness4sho
Жыл бұрын
Amen 💜
@sophiawilliams4235
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@veganvocalist4782
Жыл бұрын
if we don't value our own time and energy , why would anybody else
@melissajohnson3719
Жыл бұрын
True. I pull back and I am not playing games. I just can’t waste my time or my affections. You nailed it.
@blackwidow2679
Жыл бұрын
His last words were, "You didn't really love me anyway".
@dezyriquez5764
Жыл бұрын
Manipulative!!
@carolynmurphy3697
Жыл бұрын
Emotional Blackmail
@kTorres007
Жыл бұрын
His last words were " I didn't love you from the get go"
@susanparker9877
Жыл бұрын
Definitely pull back to: evaluate the situation; gather my thoughts and feelings; and decide whether I back out or not.
@KB-rp7nr
Жыл бұрын
Lord knows you are telling the truth. God truly has given you a gift of knowledge to help others. We all fall short and we’re not perfect. But that doesn’t take away the gift that God has placed within us. You don’t know how your messages have helped heal broken hearts❤
@Realness4sho
Жыл бұрын
💯💯💜
@FB.RocksannROUW
Жыл бұрын
Put Christ first...without Christ, the relationship won't last...truth.
@tyhesheiaallen3774
Жыл бұрын
I had to make a tough decision that broke my heart but fixed my vision...fall way back to like dissappear
@denisemosby6262
Жыл бұрын
Protect your peace
@lataciajackson6574
Жыл бұрын
🙌👏👏👏💪😁❤️💯‼️ DON'T HAVE TIME TO WASTE!!!!
@Realness4sho
Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯🥰
@shellsfitnessjourney400
Жыл бұрын
Yessss so correct. If I feel off, if my intuition is alarming me about something I withdraw.
@tanyalprince3955
Жыл бұрын
“Avoid that type of person to begin with”… 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 evolved men Do Exist!
@lsalovesNcelebrates
Жыл бұрын
Truth you tell ❤ safety is a priority and not just physical
@Positiveenergyevy
Жыл бұрын
Amen brorher 🙏🏻
@Realness4sho
Жыл бұрын
✅💜
@kimberleymcdonald9235
Жыл бұрын
Exactly what I teach my daughter. I'm also kinda mean, he has to earn my ...... they get envious of me and I don't even have a degree. They think I'm on a high horse. I have a bad picker. All in all "I know my self worth (now) , It's going to take more than good sex for me. Spark my intellect. Without communication, we have NOTHING!
@mmn5508
6 ай бұрын
periodt!!!
@Jarcano8
Жыл бұрын
Right on - your timing is perfect.
@sterneprinzessin
Жыл бұрын
Wow, amazing content!! Yes as a woman we are so often trained to give even more even if it does not feel good. I am finally seeing through this and stopping it.
@byebye967
Жыл бұрын
GODS DESIGN FORSURE!! Usually once I feel unsafe my body physically won’t let me be physical w that person☝️☝️✔️‼️
@jjmane7831
Жыл бұрын
God is not real stop lying to yourself
@yd4460
Жыл бұрын
Amen thank you for the truth Thank you for helping the ones that try to help others.🙏💯% and are literally being took for granted this destroys precious Souls of God if they don't have strong faith.💯% destroys good Heart and souls in people.🙏💯% this is why I always tell anyone never give unless you are truly given from the heart so it won't destroy you when they show you no love back.🙏💯% know that you should only do this for the love of God giving him all the glory.🙏💯% not to give yourself the glory for the gift you've given from your heart for the heart of us is from God.🙏💯 may God always surround you with his precious Guardian Angels you and yours.🙏💯% All love and respect for speaking and teaching others in Jesus name amen.💯%💗🤍💗💯%
@joannculligan3612
Жыл бұрын
It’s not playing games, it’s respecting yourself.
@GreeneChakra
Жыл бұрын
Thank You Derek ❤ Yess AMEN 🙏🏽 You have a Ton of Haters on the Tube Derek, but you are serving your Purpose! Your Personal life is “Personal” Thanks So Much for This Video! I’ll watch it a few times!
@Keana43
Жыл бұрын
Been through this I know exactly what you talking about 😌
@Realness4sho
Жыл бұрын
💜4SHO!🥰
@roxannepacheco5299
3 ай бұрын
I agree.
@loniwatson8110
Жыл бұрын
Amen New lessons. Thank the Lord.
@byebye967
Жыл бұрын
Loving men to a fault‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ whew you on point💅
@dbentley1307
Жыл бұрын
You are so correct!!! Once they slow down and pull back. Ungrateful persons get the boot. We are not doing nuthin if he has not contributed anything to value me. This has to stop!!! Walk out!! Value yourselves.
@jyothiramjathan9054
Жыл бұрын
Where were you all my life. . I wish you were my father .
@OrchidTingz
Жыл бұрын
I love & value Derrick's content my gosh.....! I can barely listen to this & sit still!!! This applies to people in general! 100%
@Iman-ve3il
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your wisdom, knowledge, and understanding ❤️
@katarzyna2901
Ай бұрын
Thank You❤
@tinaschultz1976
Жыл бұрын
I needed this and leave them broken now so much 😢
@MaryWomack-j5e
Жыл бұрын
I, after time i pulled back n i know what i must do n its been long enough now i know my worth n my growth has been reality check in me, myself, and I bless u thank u keep doing truth
@vivianmolina6302
Жыл бұрын
So true. This person drained me and then categorized me under a group of women that he will never support her or stated his standards have changed. He sure had access to several woman and playing games
@SulePodrinjka
7 күн бұрын
Thank you for this
@fpitts8025
Жыл бұрын
Derrick you are EVERYTHING for this video!!!! Thanks a million❤❤❤
@michelleisaac5439
10 ай бұрын
Thank you for this information
@iraselmapanezo7632
Жыл бұрын
You are so right, wow!! God continue blessing you all the days of your life in Jesus Christ name amen.
@CarlethaHenderson
3 ай бұрын
I definitely agree 💯💯💯 I. With draw back .from him
@peeperfrog3547
9 ай бұрын
You're so right- and I like the analogy for power saving! Women often give and give and give without saving any of that energy for themselves. Self love, self respect and spiritual awareness are so important for healthy relationships. Thank you!
@Linky100
Жыл бұрын
All I can say is amen! This is truth inspired talk. Thank you
@Realness4sho
Жыл бұрын
💯✅🥰💜
@marilynlee5093
Жыл бұрын
Yes,that's how I am feeling,and yes I pull back
@makenziepolston1220
11 ай бұрын
Great message praise the lord Jesus blessed 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@sylviavaldez1279
Жыл бұрын
True Im that person I attract the wrong person
@eddyca915
Жыл бұрын
Perfect timing! Ty.
@MayMay-gd9ge
Жыл бұрын
Amen Derreck Im going through something like this now.
@rightright5500
Жыл бұрын
Me too queen
@catalinanunez8014
Жыл бұрын
Yes‼ Thank you well spoken‼ GOD IS GREAT 🙏‼
@wonderfullymade0737
Жыл бұрын
If Nothing Else I'm Matching Energy!
@grayisthenewblonde
Жыл бұрын
So much truth!!!❤❤❤
@denisecraps
9 ай бұрын
Wow this the 100% truth
@l.a.7034
Жыл бұрын
OMG...you so on point. That's what's going on now!!! WOW
@MichelleJessup-l4i
11 ай бұрын
I've watched several of his videos....They are Spot on!!! I don't know where he got his Training, but I highly recommend it to Single women!
@christinephilcox3872
Жыл бұрын
You are always 💯 right on! Thank youuuuu!
@julierobinson8173
Жыл бұрын
True 👍🏾 it's like pouring water into a sieve...🤦🏽♀️
@naomikulindwa7681
15 күн бұрын
More appreciated ❤
@lilaclavender1989
Жыл бұрын
Absolute wisdom!
@innappropriateamy7178
Жыл бұрын
So happy to have found this channel. Going into low power mode now
@ivyfrimodig7118
Жыл бұрын
Thank you derrick for telling women what men are too p*ssy to say
@kimberlymay9497
Жыл бұрын
I approve this message!
@taminutall6241
Жыл бұрын
This applies so much to me and my 30 yr old daughter right now. Snh
@babydii3487
10 ай бұрын
He fine as hell 💔
@orianeasmore8941
2 ай бұрын
Damn sure is😊😊😊
@QueenSugar1
11 ай бұрын
Being ungrateful make 🚶 😢 But I will not turn into a stone❤ 📖 the word...thanks Derek much love need conformation....
@devinnlynette6045
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the message 🙏🏾 ☺️
@faithjohnson6218
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Derrick you keep me going
@ellishajones5842
Жыл бұрын
Yes!! Once you start acting funny, I definitely back off. I won't be mentally and physically messed up.
@manyifieelizabeth5892
Жыл бұрын
Damn Right❤❤❤👌
@QueenTsopowerful
Жыл бұрын
Great point! 👍
@sharonreeves1237
Жыл бұрын
So True
@empressbeeb
Жыл бұрын
Very true💯
@lalamaria1751
Жыл бұрын
He doesn’t text or call me but trying to holler at me in public…. I don’t get that. However I just walk pass…head straight.
@staceyc7068
Жыл бұрын
True 👍
@jaishreepandey1031
9 ай бұрын
Only mistake I made was i used to judge him unconsciously on mind level but I was someone very good person for everyone though I always tried to release unwanted negative thoughts about him but still got hurted.everyone has flaws but only the one who truly wants you will stick around .
@barbaraharris1162
Жыл бұрын
Very True..... Blessing 🙏
@Realness4sho
Жыл бұрын
Great message here!🥰Regardless, of what the haters/Perfect folks say behind Your back, Mr. Jaxn.💯 You speak the Truth…Periodtt my darling.✅✅&✅💜
@evelynfields4612
Жыл бұрын
I fail back because I felt I was used and he was one sided. When things went wrong and he wants me to do something and I questioned it. He said I was wrong and I was hard headed. So I came in out and told the truth about what was going on and I told him all you do is take take take. He said he was tied because I won't do right. That was the last text I got from him. That's the last text I left behind. Derrick I seen the red flags and didn't want to see and I stayed in the relationship for several years. Lesson learned.
@OrchidTingz
Жыл бұрын
Damn.....💎⚓️ Painstakingly True! 🤍
@whileflower5543
Жыл бұрын
Oh being good for nothing or making them handicap......thank you.......I
@sagibaby7897
Жыл бұрын
Love your message
@johnsonkassie720
Жыл бұрын
I can apologize cuz I obviously feel I commented on da wrong post ...This is real true facts like 💯
@CoachMarcia
Жыл бұрын
ReImagining Her!!! Thank you
@IvanaGirl
Жыл бұрын
Wow this was great to hear. Thank you so much!!
@tguillory6457
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@rduncan8678
Жыл бұрын
Looking for a new love. Kick rocks
@dawnhandelman308
Жыл бұрын
Decrementos a gift 🙏🎯
@Mona-mr1cd
Жыл бұрын
👁 u on point!!!! 🙌🏽💪🏾
@QueenSugar1
Жыл бұрын
TRUe both sides of the story. But love yourself let them chase you you don't chase anything but your 💰
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