Who do we all lock our doors against at night??? MEN
@abor1males
8 ай бұрын
Who commits most violent crime worldwide MEN
@LadyAstarionAncunin
8 ай бұрын
While I agree, nowadays a lot of women are helping them spring the traps or run the lick outright. They're even using kids and animals too. Can't trust anyone. But, foundationally, yes, it's true, because most women are NOT going to break into our houses without a man being in the mix somewhere down the line. It's generally just not going to happen.
@crestfire8008
8 ай бұрын
Who makes up majority of the murderers in the world? MEN
@abor1males
8 ай бұрын
Which gender offs women the most but always taking about lesbian relationships having high domestic violence but fail to mention women dying at the hands of men is a high rate MEN
@naediggs4816
8 ай бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾
@e.6322
8 ай бұрын
When the woman said WOMEN are the natural protectors and providers, I almost threw my computer. She was talking too real and too right.
@tiahnarodriguez3809
8 ай бұрын
We really are. Men will sometimes provide financially, but guess who cares for the man, children, house, dog, etc. while also working, providing, and protecting… I never understood while women still state that they want a provider when we’ve already been providing and everything else that comes with it.
@Mani-period
8 ай бұрын
A whole freakin word! Never thought about it like that but she’s dang sure right!!
@sg5720
8 ай бұрын
If you think about it, think back at all the time men ALWAYS Aran to women for help when things go seriously wrong. What does that say?! They depend on women while expecting women to praise them for nothing and give them all the credit for the world to see. They love being in charge but don’t like what comes with it, so they expect the woman to do what she can to uphold him. Women are amazing leaders and survivors men just keep getting in the way.🤷🏽♀️😞
@biblethumper8088
8 ай бұрын
But do we like protecting and providing? Are we good at protecting and providing? The answer to both is No.
@Apellus_the_Ship
8 ай бұрын
@@biblethumper8088 "We"? We who? 🤨 Please, speak for yourself, dear. I love to protect and provide for my community. Sorry, if you don't.
@txspacemom765
8 ай бұрын
My dad, my brother and my soon to be ex..all do and did bare minimum and gaslight people into believing they are hard workers, because they go to work and mow a lawn once a week. I have caught all 3 of them trashing women around other men and laughing about their wives and the females in their lives. The first lady is the bomb! WOOT!
@robertpinckney333
8 ай бұрын
@@Trailblazers323I thought I knew some of the World's worst men. But Wow, the men in your lives are some pretty callous males, as well.❤️🙏🏽🙏🏿
@mnkwazi
8 ай бұрын
@txspacemom it sounds like you are the common denominator in these no good guys.
@veganbutterfly3652
8 ай бұрын
@@mnkwazi be honest! men only care about the people in their own lives IF they care about them. I can't tell you the multitude of men who abandoned their children...natural protectors and providers don't abandon their own children.
@TheNinjapancake14
8 ай бұрын
I can’t tag but what is the point of this? She mentioned her family and one ex; thousands of other people not being mentioned. So if you talk about how you were treated by your mom and dad, you blame yourself because you are the common denominator?
@txspacemom765
8 ай бұрын
Yes It's all my fault. Thank you! May you have the day you deserve! @@mnkwazi
@Nwakaego_
8 ай бұрын
The last guy basically proved the lady’s point. He missed what she said entirely and thought he ate.😂
@justinebailey5333
8 ай бұрын
THANK YOU just looking dumb like always🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
@justinebailey5333
8 ай бұрын
He was just talking in circles 😭
@jayogee913
8 ай бұрын
Right? Women aren't even looking for men to "protect" us. We'll be happy if they just stop abusing and attacking us!
@themysticwarriorgal9465
8 ай бұрын
If u also listen carefully he contradicted himself alot. He also answered alot if his questions.
@winning3329
8 ай бұрын
I also want to add that women are always the ones who start charities and donate to charity. I rarely see any men doing these things.
@chocolateprincess8543
8 ай бұрын
Because they don’t care.
@fantym1633
8 ай бұрын
Men don't?, didn't the former president start a charity? Ofc, he pocketed such a good bit of it.
@yawnsoften
8 ай бұрын
Unless it funnels their business or protects them from taxes
@yawnsoften
8 ай бұрын
@@fantym1633he stole from it along with his kids and as punishment is not allowed to have/start a charity ever again.
@pynklady11
8 ай бұрын
Cuz they dgaf 😂😂😂
@SynamonSugar
8 ай бұрын
I’m not tired of these conversations, I’m tired of men missing the point and hearing what they wanna hear. And the one guy talking about he’d use a woman he doesn’t know personally to shield the woman he does know personally was terrifying. The mentality/pathology of these people makes me retreat deeper into celibacy and singleness every time I hear them speak.
@yawnsoften
8 ай бұрын
Amen! Celibacy is our only protection at this time.
@IGot7RevtinyArmyStayOnceBlink
8 ай бұрын
Thank you!! The amount of men who stitched that video and couldn’t get the point is infuriating. But look at the rates of pregnancy… it’s going down across the globe. We are al sick of them and won’t keep bringing children into this horrible world.
@diamondheart11
8 ай бұрын
He proved her point though. He is not a natural provider or protector since he will harm someone else to protect himself or his companion. What a real provider and protector would do is try to save all three people in that scenario or just try to protect who he cares about without harming someone else in the process. He felt threaten by what she said and openly threaten her. He got triggered and his ego and emotion is showing. These males are crazy, unintelligent, emotional and irrational.
@tiahnarodriguez3809
8 ай бұрын
@@diamondheart11 Intelligent is debatable, but manipulative and selfish fits the bill. It’s a more specific type of intelligence that gets them what they want, but doesn’t allow them to see the bigger picture which makes them look stupid, and that’s exactly what we saw in the video with the men who came for the women who spoke, but weren’t able to see the bigger picture and come correct. That would have shown that they were intelligent.
@ana-nim
8 ай бұрын
@@diamondheart11 natural protector would use his own body to protect, not the body of some random woman. Imagine thinking that you're a protector because you harmed someone else. Male logic should be studied, it's something unbelievable. 100% confidence, 0% sence. "Yeah girl give us nothing" fits that man perfectly.
@julie1393
8 ай бұрын
Most of the males miss the "natural" part. If you have to be taught and told to do something, it's not naturally in you. If you start wars, you're not protecting. If you only protect your own family, you're not a natural protector. Most of these guys don't understand how they contradicted themselves because they just like to hear themselves talk. 😂
@neetea2
8 ай бұрын
And what is supposed to come out of this
@justinebailey5333
8 ай бұрын
Right
@jadibdraws
8 ай бұрын
*Hear themselves, talk & disagree with women even when they actually agree
@MissRayneNerdiiChicK
8 ай бұрын
@@jadibdraws *largely because they're peacocking for other men 👀
@elizabethcartagena-vp5tp
8 ай бұрын
A lot of them miss that part.
@tynaangelici3023
8 ай бұрын
My dad never protected me as a child he was the abuser. He resented raising us as children.
@3amDayDreamer
8 ай бұрын
Same with my dad! My mom worked two jobs for 25 years, and my dad hasn’t worked for 25 years. He did below the bare minimum as a stay at home dad.
@kated3165
8 ай бұрын
Same. Mine thought it was his right to do nothing more than work his job because he had the bigger pay. Nevermind that his pay was not that high, that my mom also worked full time, and that she was being super under-paid as a teacher. Mowing the lawn and groceries was all he did at home.
@wisdomdantecourt8179
8 ай бұрын
This is rampant and not acknowledged hardly enough. Lots of folks have kids and don’t want them but love making them tho!
@Spokentruths725
8 ай бұрын
I have the same. The first woman spoke to me. I finally opened my eyes to the fact that i was treated so differently because i was his child before his marriage. I was seen as not worthy of protection because it was always his family who came first. I was acknowledged during special occasions. He definitely resented having to be a father to me.
@Summer_Sunset15
8 ай бұрын
It’s funny too, because Who do men protect us from? It’s other men, right. They always say men role the world but yet they complain that they do the hardest jobs that they created to justify why woman can’t be equal to them. I’m happy to see women wake up to the truth.
@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066
8 ай бұрын
That's true. Biologically they're not. They've just been conditioned to believe they are.
@ladybug3380
8 ай бұрын
The elites made it this way so they can use men in their wars.
@RedRoseSeptember22
8 ай бұрын
I would go as far as to say they're *SUPPOSED* to be, but the men of today really aren't.
@jadibdraws
8 ай бұрын
@RedRoseSeptember22 nah they not even suppose to be. You have to be hip to esoterical knowledge but the world is pretty much the way it is because men have been trying to take the place of women they desperately want to feel more important than women and nature doesn't support this. So they've used brainwashing methods like patriarchal religions making themselves into the image of god (what the woman natural is on the physical realm being the creator of life itself) and also getting women to believe their own subjugation is something natural.
@themysticwarriorgal9465
8 ай бұрын
@@RedRoseSeptember22they aren't even supposed to be. It's women that r supposed to be ruling and leaders. Men r the ones supposed to follow, carry out and ensure the plans of the woman. That's y they were built. It's why women have been put under subjugation for centuries and still are. Men of today subconsciously know this but like men of the past don't want to admit it.
@dianaprince3176
6 ай бұрын
No, WOMEN have been conditioned to believe that.
@paulatobler8354
8 ай бұрын
I had two older brothers. They never protected me from anything. They were my first terrorizers and abusers.
@KT_767
8 ай бұрын
I've always found myself protecting myself from other men,protecting men from other men, or protecting a man from himself. I'm tired, and men wonder why women don't want to be bothered. Why were men created again because I forgot 🤔.
@robertpinckney333
8 ай бұрын
Wow
@humbleheart2650
8 ай бұрын
To go against rules! Adam disobeyed Yah so he HAD create a woman to correct Adam’s disobedient behavior so they’ve been this way from Jump!
@FreeBirdee
8 ай бұрын
@@humbleheart2650 The Adam and Eve story should not be taken literally, as scientific evidence does not support it. Mitochondrial DNA, traced back to a single woman, is passed exclusively from mother to offspring. The X chromosome, with over 800 genes, plays a crucial role in embryo development, while the Y chromosome has fewer than 80. Biology tells us that the Y chromosome traces back only 60-70k years, while the X chromosome goes back 200,000 years. Additionally, all embryos start as female (XX), with the Y chromosome having to "fight" for survival. This challenges the biblical narrative and indicates the degenerative nature of the Y chromosome, which may be why the story was shifted to suit certain needs. The reality is that women play a crucial role in genetic and biological development, and their absence could lead to male "devolution." This has already been observed in some parts of the world, including the U.S.
@nikkilong7377
8 ай бұрын
@humbleheart2650 I love how no matter which way this is told, the principle ends up being the same. They will forever disagree and argue.
@tassys
8 ай бұрын
I have no idea why God created them while being against evil. They are the main source of evil and sin, look at the news. They bring suffering and death to this world,even to animals and plants
@crestfire8008
8 ай бұрын
When you see a lost little child, you always ask the child "where is your mother", not "where is your father". We tell kids to be aware of strange MEN and not strange women (but we should do both regardless). This is because men are not protectors
@creativeideator
8 ай бұрын
Facts
@worldof2ndfluteclarinet353
8 ай бұрын
Most of the men who responded to this stitch got defensive because they took what she said personally. She never said ALL MEN, all she did was describe a very evident statistical trend
@moremiaj4786
8 ай бұрын
Men are the most emotionally labile beings ever. They let their emotions get in the way of their logic all the time. In fact, were it not for their emotions, this world would be a safer place. But we all have to deal with men's anger and psychosis.
@hekatejayne2238
8 ай бұрын
But it IS all men.
@justinebailey5333
8 ай бұрын
Right
@crestfire8008
8 ай бұрын
It's always a telling sign when a male gets defensive or offended when you criticise rapists, murderers, and domestic abusers. I'm like, why are you getting offended for rapists, murderers, and domestic abusers??? She was not talking about you unless you are one of them
@TheMidwestPrincess
8 ай бұрын
A hit dig will holla.
@MIAKIM-d3j
8 ай бұрын
This talking point was originally said by The Queen Maker: Princella, and she went in depth about why they never were unless it benefits them, and its so true
@mysticmoves999
8 ай бұрын
Facts the queenmaker is the only one that has literally taught this talking point. I gotta give it her and she exposes the males nature constantly
@HolisticManifesting
8 ай бұрын
I heard this in a college psychology course over a decade ago. ❤
@NamasteInYourLane
8 ай бұрын
Yeah I can't stand when people take talking points and don't give credit to where it came from. It makes them look like frauds and grifters.
@cosmosadorabilis7677
8 ай бұрын
I have come to this conclusion way before ever hearing from Princella, she might have too.
@cosmosadorabilis7677
8 ай бұрын
@@mysticmoves999some of us have been aware for a long time.
@xoeyeam
8 ай бұрын
ladies, lets just accept that most, majority, close to all men will never comprehend or try to understand. it’s okay. i’m just thankful for the truth. now i am free from them. no more talking, asking, begging, or making presentation points to get the point across lol. lets free ourselves ❤. love ourselves abundantly ✨ #childfree #celibacy :)
@xoeyeam
8 ай бұрын
@carlabellbg5724 thank you💜✨
@vkat9762
8 ай бұрын
Child free and single as well; so thankful for it. Once the veil lifts, it's repulsive to give these idiots the privilege anymore. Am out, and staying out.
@heavenly894
8 ай бұрын
I love your comment...acceptance is really key❤
@justinebailey5333
8 ай бұрын
Right
@Sharifay.
8 ай бұрын
the fact that women need to do all of that to be seen let’s us know who the higher educated sex is. they are low grade, and we’ve been gaslit into believing they are high grade (via religion). Just think about how abrahamic religions refer to the creator. 😵💫
@cosmosadorabilis7677
8 ай бұрын
Black men missing the point again, but who's surprised? 🙄😒
@Tyana-g6x
8 ай бұрын
They don't care. They never have and never will. DIVEST
@mizzpoetrics
8 ай бұрын
I'm not! Look at Blackistan! We clearly can see that they don't Build, Protect & Provide!
@asiad7175
8 ай бұрын
Not I said the cat 😂😂
@veganbutterfly3652
8 ай бұрын
I noticed that...they kept talking about relationships and the women were not talking about relationships.
@veganbutterfly3652
8 ай бұрын
The Y chromosomes has about 50 genes the X chromosomes has about 900 genes... maybe this is why these men are having comprehension problems.
@lewid019
8 ай бұрын
Sadly in the black community..men have shown they are not the protector provider etc. how many homes have been left fatherless in the US. It speaks for itself
@charlotteschnook1351
8 ай бұрын
Yep! It's not just the black community. Let's not forget how white dudes burned their women alive as witches for hundreds of years, as asian men hobbled their women's feet. Patriarchy is ALL over, and men of all colors abuse women
@imacoolmom4893
8 ай бұрын
Which is ironic bc they were the only ones replying , getting defensive 🤦🏽♀️😂
@JSmooth89
8 ай бұрын
Most black women today never had a "home" in the first place. She never had a ring on her finger but have multiple children by multiple men, and somehow it's the mens fault. You can't have the AUTHORITY of "my body my choice", then not take the RESPONSIBILITY for being a baby mama. Most men don't leave marriages, and the men who leave baby mamas typical show through actions, or words that didn't want to be fathers in the first place.
@chayo4537
8 ай бұрын
Baby that's international. All males ain't shit. What world do you live in? Like which one is it. This is universal?- but then a specific group of men are the number ones in that arena of behavior?
@Egh0127
8 ай бұрын
@@JSmooth89most women leave marriages because they aren't getting the protection and not being provided for. Their feelings and bodies and emotions and minds aren't protected from their own husband BY their husband, but go off🙄they weren't being provided for by their own husband "NoBoDy cAN SuRviVe oFf OnE iNcOme AnyMorE" says the "men". Says the "providers". Either step up and be a real man and listen to what your wife needs and listen to Gods instructions on how to love and protect and provide for her, or sit down and be quiet.
@veganbutterfly3652
8 ай бұрын
Most of these guys are talking about relationships. Natural protectors don't have to be in a relationship with the person they are helping. Protecting , assisting and helping is a natural instincts if you don't naturally do this you're not a natural protector.
@tiahnarodriguez3809
8 ай бұрын
It’s the same with being an alpha. I had a roommate who went on and on about how she’s alpha and everyone is beta. People who actually are alpha don’t go around saying they are alpha, and instead focus on their actions which stem from their mindset. I’ve met alpha men and women and it’s amazing how diferente they were from my roommate, they didn’t have ego, conducted themselves in a respectful manner, and never acted like anyone or anything was inferior to them.
@neetea2
8 ай бұрын
We live in a society where nobody really has to protect anyone. If somebody does it or not is their choice largely thats just the freedom of america and the trade off for equal rights being instated. Nobody has to be endebted to anybody the end.
@themysticwarriorgal9465
8 ай бұрын
@@neetea2then don't call urself a protector
@BENZ_ASMR
8 ай бұрын
Why is their excuse “we keep choosing bad men” some of us don’t even have to be with them to see how they are, and I just want to know what a good man looks like and why they think they on that list🤣🤣, and them taking what they want out the conversation pissed me off😒
@NamasteInYourLane
8 ай бұрын
This is why they're not even worth talking to in the first place. We have to learn how to walk away from these kinds of males or block them when they start spinning this rhetoric. Silence speaks louder than words.
@BENZ_ASMR
8 ай бұрын
@@Trailblazers323 exactly💯😂
@JSmooth89
8 ай бұрын
Because it's always the women who are ran through by Pookies and Tyrones making these jaded man hating videos, and other ran through women cheering them on. To say that a man is not a protector or provider because he's picky about who he gives his protection and resources to is a sad attempt at gaslighting. Why go out of your way to protect a woman who "dont need a man"?. Goofy
@yawnsoften
8 ай бұрын
There were Indian tribes that were ran based upon matriarchy. Women owned the land. They raised the children. They held war councils. More often they married off/into other clans to avoid war and forge a blood bond. Men had a right to the tools of their trade and when splitting from women were allowed to take those things when leaving but not the land not her children nothing else. There was no taking his name..no need to wonder about paternity. We know who the mother is and traced lineage that way.
@TransmutedLiving
8 ай бұрын
Yep!
@nikkilong7377
8 ай бұрын
Sounds like that was definitely embedded into their DNA. Explains them leaving their children now.
@rainbeauxunicorn5237
8 ай бұрын
They still exist. Never went away.
@biblethumper8088
8 ай бұрын
And how did they know if they reproduced with their sibling if they didn't know the fathers last name?
@rainbeauxunicorn5237
8 ай бұрын
@@biblethumper8088… 😩 How stupid can you be?
@kimberly8695
8 ай бұрын
In the animal kingdom, it is often the female of the species that is the most vicious protector.
@hubabaloop
8 ай бұрын
He said “y’all need to your research”. Same one who said men go off to war, but missed the part about THEM CAUSING THE WARS. Once again wanting a pat on the back for managing their own responsibilities.
@Egh0127
8 ай бұрын
Exactly😂😂😂when I was at the zoo as a child and I heard that the lionesses are the ones who goes out to hunt the meat for the family that they go out as women and mothers of the group to hunt the food and I heard that the lions "fAtHerS" stay and sit on their bums i gasped 💀💀I said what are they there for then like what.... so lazy it's like the equivalent as a dad sitting on the couch drinking beer while his wife has a job and also is the one who goes to the store for the food and also cooks the food💀💀💀Lord we need help
@sreyanandhini3944
6 ай бұрын
Because they have different roles that s why and moreover women are better than men .. lioness have more speed than lions lol 😂😂 nature has assigned them like that
@ashaduplessis2772
8 ай бұрын
She said NATURAL and every single man just about said that they were or had to be TAUGHT OR LEARN to love, protect and provide
@stephkais5613
8 ай бұрын
Even non violent men benefit from the violence of other men. When a man offers protection as a benefit in a relationship what he's realy doing is low key threatening women with the violence from other men. Men be like "other men will hurt you so you better be with me! Serve me! And be grateful for my protection." Isnt that like saying "you better be mine or I will let other men hurt you". I dont know about you, but I'm seeing a low key threat.
@TARAdubbleyuu
8 ай бұрын
Such an insightful observation!! Spot on.
@jadibdraws
8 ай бұрын
Yes thats exactly what they are doing but so many women brains are messed up from these patriarchal religions that shit on their existence along with many other posions to the mind that comes along with living in a patriarchy they don't even notice thats exactly what they are saying. Or they notice and try to somehow spin it into something positive
@a.c.4465
8 ай бұрын
Wow. Great thought on this!
@VeeKayGreenerGrass
8 ай бұрын
I am African. One of the things African women learn before they get married is how to be clever in guiding the husband to make the right decisions, in a way that will make it seem like it's his idea. For the guy who says that men fight the wars, that sounds about right because men start wars anyway with their competitive and flight or fight nature. Men are larger so that they can survive their nature.
@tiffnym
8 ай бұрын
What are some ways that women can "guide" men into decision-making that is perceived as his idea? I was taught nothing about relationships and/or men as a young woman so most of my experiences with men have been trial and error. I am currently seriously dating a Kenyan.
@VeeKayGreenerGrass
8 ай бұрын
@@tiffnym you need to have a chat with his aunties.
@skarbuskreska
8 ай бұрын
Not only in Africa. I'm born in Poland, Slavic country. I always laugh when men say shit like they leave the western woman behind and want a Russian, Ukrainian or otherwise Slavic woman, at least they are submissive. And I'm here thinking you'll be torn through the arena like a bull by his nosering and not even get it.
@T_Cup
8 ай бұрын
Here's a talking point I consider tired: That women simply sharing their universal experiences need to shut up because we're hurting fragile men’s feelings and that, if we don’t, we’ll never find a male partner - as if that’s every woman’s goal, when it’s not even on the to-do list for a lot of us. It’s pretty telling that so many of the men rattled by these women’s stories are in love with their own mothers, like I wonder why that is? Could it be because she was the main leader and protector in their lives against a lot of unsafe men? Or worse, is it that their mother is just like most married women who did everything without her partner's input and never got a to have a voice or an escape route, and he can't even sympathize with the woman he most loves? Yet they’re out here defending a “truth” they’ve never experienced because it might mean confronting the fact that they’re not “one of the good ones” and then making men’s behaviour women’s responsibility as always. Kinda ironic that it’s forever on women to “choose better” aka take lead in relationships, yet they can’t see women as leaders
@I.am.hooked
8 ай бұрын
Mam, you are spot on
@hubabaloop
8 ай бұрын
Left nothing
@nikkilong7377
8 ай бұрын
Ladies, if you listen closely to these males, it tells you everything.
@kated3165
8 ай бұрын
Yup! Saw a post recently where this guy was complaining that his gf wanted him to help more around the house while she only worked 25h a week (out of home) while he worked 70. Everyone in the comments were pitying him and how much he worked and how dare she ask this, and saying "dump this B and leave her with nothing"!! Not realizing that yes... he totally could dump her tomorrow and leave her with nothing, because this was always HIS money. He chose to work that much to maximize HIS earnings. Meanwhile she was doing all the housework and cooking which allowed him to work overtime!! Years of unpaid labor for HIS benefit, and now he could toss her on the street on a whim (house was entirely his), and she would be back to square one...
@tiahnarodriguez3809
8 ай бұрын
This is why I urge women to have their own even if it’s a part time job, or saving whatever allowance their husband gives them in a secret account. Men do not value women’s labor even though as you said, the gf’s labor in the home is what allowed the bf to work extra hours. My opinion on the matter is whoever lives in the house needs to contribute to its upkeep. So working 25 or 70 hours is irrelevant to me. When a man or woman comes home, they are allowed to decompress for a bit, but once that decompression time is over it’s time to get into house mode. Every couple should do what’s best for them, but it’s telling when the relationship is imbalanced which is why the bf was able to make a public post about his private relationship for people to tell him to dump his gf. It shows me the bf does not value his gf, their relationship, or understand how much work up-keeping a home is. Another point is the men who crate this dynamic and tell their gf/wives that they don’t have to work or don’t have to work much have no right to complain about the unfair dynamic they created. Men always say they don’t care about a woman’s finances till the reality of being the main or only provider sets in. In short, don’t fall for it ladies, and don’t be with a man who doesn’t value you in every aspect.
@unicorn73212
8 ай бұрын
@@tiahnarodriguez3809exactly it's actually the only way out of the relationship if you have a job because if he pisses you off at least you can go get a hotel in the meantime and start looking for a new place to stay. This is why they want women to be pregnant and powerless so that he can lock you down so that you can no longer enjoy life. He probably feels like if he doesn't have a job why should you? There very manipulative when they don't get sex too if you ever noticed some of them are terrible at getting women off too but they want to keep having sex knowing damn well he's not going to last for more then five minutes so why even bother if it's not even going to be good sex? If it was good sex I'd be having sex all night not just for a few minutes. It's like beating a dead horse and some of them don't want to accept that they have a wall too not just women.
@rainbeauxunicorn5237
8 ай бұрын
Proving the lady’s entire point.
@LadyAstarionAncunin
8 ай бұрын
So, basically, they're telling him to do her a favor. Bet.
@kated3165
8 ай бұрын
@@LadyAstarionAncunin Honestly yes it's probably better for her to cut her losses now rather than have kids with that guy. He expected her to be a STAHM and also was pushing her to homeschool their future kids (which she did not want to do). Complaining that she wanted some time to herself and hobbies...
@khokoOO7
8 ай бұрын
I guess the jail, prison and crime statistics choosing the wrong men too.
@TARAdubbleyuu
8 ай бұрын
Well said.
@kalimbaayinde25
8 ай бұрын
Exactly 😂
@heneverforesakesme4038
8 ай бұрын
Men are the emotional ones. Reject a man and tell him no and see what he does. He gets violent....sigh...unreal...I didnt know that a woman's choice of freedom and how she chose to live her life was going to give men such spasms.
@ny_cruz
8 ай бұрын
The one guy who said check nature for examples seems like he hasn’t done enough research
@TARAdubbleyuu
8 ай бұрын
Or any. Lol
@anikanalohamin1077
8 ай бұрын
Did my bro actually use NARUTO as a reference....good night and happy new year😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉
@TARAdubbleyuu
8 ай бұрын
And super seian Goku 😂 I about died laughing. These menz are delulu 🤪
@lailataluminousnight8064
8 ай бұрын
And on top of that, speaking of naruto they even disregard the female characters contribution lol they had a whole vicious mysoginistic hate train for the female lead cuz she didn't chose the rude sexist main character they could relate to.....
@tynaangelici3023
8 ай бұрын
These men misrepresent themselves in the beginning. Until we are emotionally invested. Men lie. so how do women choose “better “ men?
@idreadFell365
8 ай бұрын
As a man, I agree. I look out for myself. I only provide and protect myself and I believe more women should do the same.
@magsbayou
8 ай бұрын
There was a book called "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus". It talks about how men and women comprehend differently and that is highlighted here. Most of the men became defensive, blamed women for their choices and felt a sense of being attacked by feminism. In a sense they reinforced her point because it was all about how they feel and none truly took on a leadership role that listened to the points raised and contributed to a conversation that allowed people to move forward in better alignment. Example, "men are not natural providers". As a leader, learn and steer how we can improve our understandings and unions. IMHO the main points women are highlighting is in contradiction to what men want to believe and feel entitled to. Women are their own, feeling, thinking human beings who do not require a man. Religion, nature or other beliefs dictate her role in this world. As a society we made it up. Men, like racists have been given entitlements by society they don't want to easily relinquish. This makes it challenging to accept that it is not always that women choose poorly but there are many poor choices that often don't make itself evident until after some time in a relationship. Sometimes women choose based on beliefs of indoctrination, trauma or what's available to her. She wants steak but all that is available is a cheap hamburger. Most importantly accepting, men are not a requirement for a relationship. The one point I do agree is as mothers, especially single moms, we have to do better raising all our children to be responsible, productive and collaborative when required. Often times, we coddle our sons and harsh on our daughters and that contributes to the challenges.
@biblethumper8088
8 ай бұрын
Even if women chose poorly or end up deceived, that does not mean she is liable for suffering the effects of that bad relationship. It is society's responsibility to punish all wrong doers, even in a relationship. If a marriage ends bc of the male's actions, it is society's responsibility to force him to provide or face deletion. Just like we punish the thief who trespasses in someone's home regardless if the owner locked the door or gated their home. At this point they are teaching men to be bad, so women must teach other women and their daughters that they are bad and to stay away from them.
@jadibdraws
8 ай бұрын
Its so many older women who can not acknowledge the last thing you said but being harder on daughters and coddling sons very much contribute to the problem its very tiring.
@JSmooth89
8 ай бұрын
Maybe im from Mars, because im confused. To say that a man isn't a leader, protector, or provider because he wont step out on a ledge to do those things for a random woman is gaslighting, and disingenuous. Just because a man is a protector doesn't mean that self preservation or common sense goes out of the window. What senses would it make for a man to lose his life and ability to provide for the people who actually love him, to defend a woman who "dont need a man", and probably wouldn't look his way if he said good morning? Make it make sense
@biblethumper8088
8 ай бұрын
@@JSmooth89 by definition a leader is the person who leads or commands a group, organization, or country. Your family is not a group, organization or a country. So as an individual the most you can be defined as is a husband or father. Being that we know men can not be trusted to be good fathers or husbands, there is no reason for women to be with men. And by definition, men are not leaders of women. So you really have no business getting involved or being upset at our conversation.
@themysticwarriorgal9465
8 ай бұрын
@@JSmooth89then don't call urself a protector. Alot of women would take care of children that aren't there's, would protect children that aren't there's too. So what's the difference here? Stop calling urself a protector if it isn't natural to u.
@pinksegasaturn
8 ай бұрын
Every single time this topic comes up, men always try to "logically" break down these talking points while avoiding the real issue. They get offended when they hear "strong independent women don't need men" when the phrase was used to break away from men's abusive hold on women. Women wouldn't have to try and be independent if men were more caring, empathetic, and kind, and they hardly are. By now, when women bring up these points, it's always to try and PROTECT themselves from men. But, when men bring these points up, they're just complaining about how women don't want to be abused and mistreated. If they're blatantly ignoring the abusive parts, they're not trustworthy, period. You genuinely cannot trust a majority of men. :/
@thegazetteyt
8 ай бұрын
Nope. Dude at 11:50 needs to get off the "women are picking bad men" train. Its tired. Women pick men who tell them what they will do then LIE to them. Saying most men are just bad picks is suck a scapegoat to blame women and NOT the men who are doing the bad things. It's tire and lacks any accountability for the actions of men who are men until they are bad.
@robertpinckney333
8 ай бұрын
There are too many bad men who are liars, deceivers, manipulators, etc. Yes, They trick women into believing the lies.
@Tyana-g6x
8 ай бұрын
It's always going to be BW'S fault anyway.. The black community expects BW to find that needle in a haystack but there's no needle. DIVEST
@tynaangelici3023
8 ай бұрын
I agree saying that women need to pick better is gaslighting. These men don’t want to be held accountable for their actions. These men are holding on to patriarchy for dear life while it is crumbling.
@T_Cup
8 ай бұрын
It's always "women need to pick better" and never "men need to do better" - but who's doing the wrong thing here? It's the men, so why are women being told to change? And even if they do change, the bad men they picked never have to, they get to go on and treat other women like crap and then those women get blamed for his actions
@vkat9762
8 ай бұрын
Hard to "pick better" when the pool is poisoned and septic at this point. The wise women today know, the best pick is staying single and child free so you can avoid these idiots all together. They are dangerous and hopeless.
@asiad7175
8 ай бұрын
I just had a similar conversation on youtube about this on a page where the woman posted a pic of simone biles and her husband saying dont let no one tell you you dont need a man. I offered no, women dont need to have a man to have fulfilling lives and gave some personal experiences to give examples of how when my life was male centered it was a disaster i eas literally dying from sadness and when i decided not to subscribe to that idea of needing a man because they do not provide or protect they instead lie and manipulate for selfish gain and disregard u, that my life became significantly better and more abundant...so many ppl commented blaming me for "choosing wrong" and assumed i had a type. Just no accountability for the men at all its just all my fault 😂 smh some women are just lost causes and the men will always try to convince u that its a you problem and not them so they can continue to benefit from having a woman. They need us because we in fact provide and protect they just benefit from it by taking the credit for her work
@theetherealmuse.2209
8 ай бұрын
wheew a word! you might tell a joke but never a lie!!! i hope u have a good 2024 cause you definitely typed my exact thoughts ❤❤
@vanaphill2454
8 ай бұрын
If a homeless woman comes to me and asks for 5 dollars. I give it to her. I ignore men who beg. Let other men give him money.
@mmason9836
8 ай бұрын
I do the same. I also don't give or buy things from fundraisers for male organizations like the boy scouts and little league baseball.
@borsalino8743
8 ай бұрын
😂😂 I hope you don’t claim to be a protector or provider
@fabricehategekimana5350
8 ай бұрын
As a man I find this question interesting because I don't see men as "natural" providers. It's more an attributed role. Men are naturally physically stronger than women and it was really useful in an age where physical abilities where key for survival. Nowadays we live in an environment that favor other skills that can empower man/women that can adapt. Thanks a lot for your videos! I am always happy and stimulated to see different opinions (especially when I see that men and women have different definitions for leadership, providing, friendship, etc.). It help me change my perspective and broaden my understanding
@realbrat40
8 ай бұрын
They do not LISTEN or seem to be unable or willing to COMPREHEND just what is being said by these or any women who speak on these topics. I'm not surprised.
@ST-rj8iu
8 ай бұрын
I have 3 brothers, none of them were my protector. They were my worst abusers.
@veganbutterfly3652
8 ай бұрын
The guy with the baseball cap on... was so wrong. In the animal kingdom and in the hunter, gather societies it's the female that are the protectors.
@lewid019
8 ай бұрын
They keep overlooking the fact that it's the lioness that goes on the hunt
@VeeKayGreenerGrass
8 ай бұрын
...and the providers. Wait till you learn that Even was Adam's ezer/saviour per original scripture in the original language it was written. Adam is the helper. 😌
@LadyAstarionAncunin
8 ай бұрын
So many men are lying around like lions with a bunch of mates while their mates are out hunting. Humanity reflects nature. SMH
@biblethumper8088
8 ай бұрын
Men don't fight wars or build for free. That is a job, not leadership.
@TARAdubbleyuu
8 ай бұрын
Such a solid point!
@sabrinaestrada3590
8 ай бұрын
I think that women who feel this way have a good reason to. They've had bad experiences. Not every man is like this but a LOT of them ARE!
@tajr.2650
8 ай бұрын
The ONLY reason they would be “natural” protectors is because they are physically STRONGER. That’s it. It’s pretty damn basic. These guys just got all butt ass hurt and took it personal. This is another reason why we’re sick of messing with them. THEY DON’T LISTEN.
@TARAdubbleyuu
8 ай бұрын
Facts.
@masixchell
8 ай бұрын
Ladies - when you do vids like this - PLZ use stats, data, and research. They did a study on the by-standard effect. It has been PROVEN that women are the ones who come to ppls rescue, are the ones who put themselves in between arguments, and come to kids rescue NOT men. When we debunk these myths (men are Not protectors and providers) we needs the data and logic otherwise it goes over ppls heads as an “opinion”. This isn’t an opinion and this has been proven. Let’s step our game up ladies in order to break these conditions that plague society. Cite your research from Credible sources.
@alexpark108
8 ай бұрын
this video is accurate I feel like men are the ones who put others in danger like my ex sent my address to it's friend (i still dont know why it did that)
@tarshaledwards7468
8 ай бұрын
Myn are contradictory. Conceal and carry the great equilizer
@madeinkanada6871
8 ай бұрын
I discovered this, this year when the chick got hit with the brick… sad I didn’t see it earlier.
@TimelesssSpacess-jw9xf
8 ай бұрын
Princella The Queen Maker, talks about this and breaks it down to a tee. Men never were natural providers or protectors.
@biblethumper8088
8 ай бұрын
The fact that all the guys used the same excuse of blaming the women for her individual choice in a man only proves the point that men are not natural leaders or protectors and that they are only interested in their own self interest. A leader and protector cares about the collective, not just themselves. If they cared to protect women, they would lead other men into treating all women correctly. But they won't because it is in their self interest to abuse women so they can take advantage of all women.
@jayogee913
8 ай бұрын
As evidenced by their constant crying and whining, and even fighting against having to pay child support! They've pretty much already gotten rid of palimony for women who stopped working to raise the kids. Now they don't even want to provide for their own kids! Shameful.
@TamTam9-15
8 ай бұрын
The lady that quoted charlotte Perkins Gilman is my type of chick. I implore everyone to read “the yellow wallpaper” by her. It’s free on audible too and it’s like 30 mins long it’s symbolic for the patriarchy, gender roles and women suffering. Literally sent chills down my spine when I read it. Most of the men responding to the original video remind me of the husband in that story.
@biblethumper8088
8 ай бұрын
The last guy almost had it right, but then he fumbled HIS CONCLUSION. You see, if it's not ALL men's self interest to protect ALL women, then it's definitely not in the self interest of ALL women to have children. Nor is in the self interest of ALL women to help ALL women raise, provide, or care for all women's children. If that man leaves you with his child, then that is only your responsibility, not ALL women's. If it's not in all men's self interest to protect ALL women, then it's ALL women's self interest to tell women not to deal with the threat of ALL male's.
@kieshame888
8 ай бұрын
Did dude just say that the father is the earth?!! I cannot!! He need some milk...🤦🏾♀️
@megdelaney3677
8 ай бұрын
It doesn't matter if we choose to be with a man or not, we still have to live under mostly man-made rules & patriarchy. That will not change drastically in my lifetime.
@jayjellobean
8 ай бұрын
Men have provided me head/body/heart ache and have protected me from living my best life.
@jadesimone_
6 ай бұрын
my dad gave me to my grandmother & auntie. they raised me, provided & protected for me. not my own father. he was too busy focusing on himself & building his empire for the family wife & other kids he has now.
@nicorriesanders
8 ай бұрын
Now this is a conversation to be had!
@Luckimee
8 ай бұрын
Go watch episodes of What Would you do. Its ALWAYS women stepping up
@rainbeauxunicorn5237
8 ай бұрын
😂I’ve been saying this for YEARS! It’s what got me banned from YT. The menz didn’t like it.
@tynaangelici3023
4 ай бұрын
I never had a man protect or provide for me. If anything, they abused me and shamed me for not making enough money.
@dekalbgarealtor
8 ай бұрын
My dad dang sure did not protect me as HIS (ownership) daughter, and that’s really where it all starts. Very enlightening video
@nicolevt1646
8 ай бұрын
Everything flew over the last guys head 🤣
@chastitylampkin6028
7 ай бұрын
I am generation x here : i am 45 years old !!! I waz born march 6,1979. I wished i had a real dad like what u see like : George Jefferson from the Jefferson comedy show, the dad on little house on the Prarie, pops on sandford and son, the dad on good timez jamez Evans, carl winslow on family matters, unckel phil from fresh prince of bel air, even i wished i could have had a sweet nerd that had a good heart like steve urkel !!!! I even admired archie bunker from all in the family, and i loved save by the bell show as well !!!! Christine chastity lampkin t.v.
@bunneywolf
8 ай бұрын
15:58 These men don't listen. She did not say it was wrong to provide or protect. She said if you weren't trained and conditioned (or forced) to do it, you wouldn't because it isn't within your nature to do so. You don't need to be taught what comes naturally. It just happens. Women are not taught to protect, but we do it without question or even being asked to even for perfect strangers. We don't need to be getting anything from it, but to know we helped someone. It's in our nature. But it is not in men's nature. You must be trained, and yall still have a hard time doing this. You all think of every excuse not to do it. Because you don't want to because it is not in your nature. Period.
@cdubya752
8 ай бұрын
The guy with the patch! Is he high? Wtf??😂
@TARAdubbleyuu
8 ай бұрын
The purple pirate. Dude looked like a cartoon lol
@marethahoneyb1541
8 ай бұрын
Sis spoke the truth the women are the natural protectors n providers n the men that do this has disciplined themselves to do so
@imabosssorta1923
8 ай бұрын
All these men, but especially the last one, are just further proof of what's being said on this topic. To the last guy, first off, why are you referencing tomi Lauren to make your points? You going to use "justpearlythings" next to justify any thoughts you have? 😂 also you're proving again that men aren't leaders, protectors and providers. You admitted you only care to protect YOUR women in your life (and also use this womans body as a shield because of course you would). That's not what a natural leader, protector or provider would do. Natural leaders and protectors protect EVERYONE even the ones they might not agree with or even like. Which is exactly why men only protect and provide for their own selfish reasons.
@chastitylampkin6028
7 ай бұрын
I liked what the other girl has said about other men still not getting it, they r not supposed to abuse and treat something real bad , and she said other men still will never understand this !!!! Christine chastity lampkin t.v Yea i agree .
@michaelwatts2121
8 ай бұрын
I agree, but this is definately giving me Princella the Queen Maker vibes.
@rickastar
8 ай бұрын
The one thing I keep seeing is men responding with limited comprehension to what was said. Words mean things. That one guy said “So what my mama taught me was wrong”. Sir she said natural, you basically confirmed what she said. You had to be taught these things it’s not natural to you. Like listen to comprehend not to respond.
@mariposaflame4194
8 ай бұрын
Them hit dawgs sure did holler 😂
@TARAdubbleyuu
8 ай бұрын
😂
@the.masked.one.studio4899
7 ай бұрын
Wow, these men have SO MANY CONVINCING arguments. They’ve completely changed my perspective. NATURE is my primary argument (citation source = trust me bro).
@vashawnlove
8 ай бұрын
My son is six he already has a very protective demeanor he’s always offering me help he’s very giving AT 6. but that’s how I am with him he will grow to be this way as long as I am an example of that his father is none of that.
@Goddesskc11
8 ай бұрын
She must be with the High Powered podcast. 🙌🏾🙌🏾 This is so true sis 💖
@BlackMaven528
8 ай бұрын
To the dude with the “trinity” - guy what the????!!!
@kyaos_Meteor
8 ай бұрын
15:00 appreciate the honesty 😂😂😂😭😭😭
@kikilicious99
5 ай бұрын
Imo, men are better at providing more than protecting. My experience is that men have never protected me. I'm not just talking about men I've chosen, I'm talking about men who were set in my life like dad, uncle and brothers. I've gotten resources but not protection.
@stephaniebrooks8044
8 ай бұрын
Actually, in the wild,the female lions go out and hunt and kill for food.😊
@freshclean8649
8 ай бұрын
Those are the words of "The Queen Maker" 👑 . It is 💯 ture again from The Queen Maker".
@VisionOfThePhoenix
7 ай бұрын
I agree wholeheartedly! I have come to the same conclusion. They have lead the world to hell in a hand basket. we help all
@VisionOfThePhoenix
7 ай бұрын
guy @ 15:30 has me rolling!!!!! bouta go feed some ducks. Everyone needs protection from.....drumroll.... OTHER MEN!
@michelledavidson1781
7 ай бұрын
Men: you need us to lead you, protect you and provide for you What do women need to be protected from, provide for themselves because of, and lead the whole family because of??? Men!!!!!
@JSmooth89
8 ай бұрын
Kevin Samuels literally spoke about this type of gaslighting years ago. How do you say that you're an "independent, boss" who "dont need men" one moment, then complain that men aren't protectors anymore the next? A young lady told him that she didnt feel protected by black men in her community, then told him that she didnt feel that she should smile or small talk with those same random black men. Why should any man risk loosing his own life and ability to PROTECT/PROVIDE for the women who actually love him, to protect a woman who wouldn't even crack a smile or say goodmoring to him? This is ANOTHER example of women wanting their cake and eat it too.
@Jay-qu2bc
8 ай бұрын
Well put. Bw are just telling on themselves. They’re admitting that the pookies they’re choosing are hurting them, and instead of taking accountability for this stupidity and lack of foresight, they blame all men
@annaburns2865
4 ай бұрын
Yep. Learned this one the hard way.
@ashaduplessis2772
8 ай бұрын
First guy with the 5 year old ponytails is a bright red flag. Talk to the bad apples
@merryppoppins9489
8 ай бұрын
❤ Happy New year guys stay hopeful and strong see you next year 💪🏾 namaste 🎉😁
@dumpmail-xz2qp
8 ай бұрын
Notice how men who actually provide and protect are the first to be sent into danger when situations like wars occur
@TARAdubbleyuu
8 ай бұрын
Wars don’t just “occur”. They’re started by someone. Usually men.
@dumpmail-xz2qp
21 күн бұрын
@@TARAdubbleyuu I mean, that those that are capable husband material and raised well, we lose those to wars first and are left with deadbeats who run away from the wars
@biblethumper8088
8 ай бұрын
Oh my, I was not prepared for the pirate.
@TARAdubbleyuu
8 ай бұрын
I’m dying 😂
@joiceraiana
7 ай бұрын
I'm brazilian and here the government made a point of paying social support (money for poor families with kids) for the mother, fathers only receive the money if they're the sole caretaker. The reason? After some studies they find out that when the money goes to the mother the whole family benefits from it, the kids get better fed, they have clothes and shoes brought for them, their grades and school attendance gets better, but when the father is the one with the benefits more often the money is misused and the father drinks or waste the money in things like snacks or not the better purchase for the little money the government gives (is really little money to really poor families). So yeah, women protect and provide, statically speaking, men not ao much.
@hubabaloop
8 ай бұрын
Watch out the men learned the words “common denominator” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@HolisticManifesting
7 ай бұрын
They say "mama bear" for a reason ❤
@dianaprince3176
6 ай бұрын
Remind me, again…. Who is it that women and children need to be protected from? 🤔
@flutatious_music4
3 ай бұрын
🛎️
@MorganRimming
8 ай бұрын
Im mad that I low-key agree with the first 2 men.🤦🏾♀️
@wernstberger
8 ай бұрын
Okay, so if men want to have an example of how "nature" works in relationships, look to the birds. I have a pair of cardinals who feed on my balcony. They come together, and he keeps watch while she eats, and when she's done, she keeps watch while he eats. This is what we're talking about, men. Birds get it, why can't you?
@nicolevt1646
8 ай бұрын
MOST men like 80% (just to throw a random figure out there) are not providers or protectors. Most trauma that I have been through were from men. And that’s the same for most women I know.
@purpleflows5680
8 ай бұрын
It’s the same for most men too. Men commit violence against each other. Men are the human beings most natural predator.
@purpleflows5680
8 ай бұрын
It’s weird that none of these dudes got the point. Men, when they are not taught, are usually vile. Even men know this about each other.
@heneverforesakesme4038
8 ай бұрын
Its funny, when Queen Elizabeth the I was in power for 50 years it was considered the "the golden age" of England.
@wernstberger
7 ай бұрын
When a man finds out his child isn't biologically his, he'll stop providing for and protecting that child. Yes, the mother was unfaithful, but the father often cuts the kids off as well. Natural protectors would continue to provide and look after the kids because they are children, even if they are not his children.
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