As a married woman I can confirm that this video is 100% true. Main reason I still listen to Tony is because I’ve been taking his advice since before I was married and still get nuggets of wisdom that I can apply to my marriage and life in general.
@MayfairJones
7 ай бұрын
I'm Married. I take the Trash out More than my Husband. My husband does 90% of all the Cooking. Im a great cook & he has no problem with taking out the trash and he does. Do whatever is best for YOUR marriage.
@zero1188
7 ай бұрын
This. People think marriage is masculine and feminine BS. In reality people do what works
@Princessfrmalmighty
6 ай бұрын
That's the way it should be.
@LovelyOne0075
7 ай бұрын
Great video...the one thing I strongly believe at my core is that you can't do marriage without God. The world gives us the fantasy but God gives us the reality.
@MyMichellle
7 ай бұрын
As a child of God, especially & absolutely! 🙏🏾
@mslove2913
7 ай бұрын
Amen, When it's In you it's In you 🙏🏽
@dericaj
7 ай бұрын
I love how easily and willingly distracted you are when Mrs. Gaskins steps in the room 😂. I love how you give her your full attention and interest no matter what you’re fussing at us about! Go Mr. & Mrs. G!
@PCF09
7 ай бұрын
Yeah his face and tone changes and everything 🤣😆🙌
@Es_Elle
6 ай бұрын
A chilvarous man with Godly character and a good credit score (financial maturity) is wonderful! Seeing an elderly man still open the door for his elderly wife is heart-warming. These days, many men will let a door close in your face and not even look back. Women claim that they can talk like a man, be a man, a father, etc., and so REAL men are giving you the treatment as a man. No, thanks! Ladies, please be sure to thank a man for each act of chilvary. Let's not take it for granted!
@joycewatt800
7 ай бұрын
6:36 Too many relationships are built on sex and they fail as a result. Trust AND believe it takes MORE than sex to sustain and maintain a loving relationship.
@zero1188
7 ай бұрын
True
@jalisazari9387
7 ай бұрын
Facts.
@RITTAAREE
7 ай бұрын
Men aren't excepting flaws now days. You piss them off or confronting them about something you're uncomfortable with they ready to let you go...
@zero1188
7 ай бұрын
Funny because men say the same about women wanting them to be perfect. Both sides dont want to appreciate each other
@nzingahoney
7 ай бұрын
So let them go. Planet got too many humans anyways. Bad company is not better than no company.
@RITTAAREE
7 ай бұрын
@@zero1188 from what I'm seeing the men are still going for a certain look of a woman. And women are accepting and moving too fast with the wrong character of a guy. We're out here in relationships with strangers. My cousin told me the boyfriend stage ain't nothing when yal move in that's when it's serious and I don't believe that. He cheats all the time. At this point in my life I have to take several seat lbvs it's piss in the pool and nobody wants to get out smh
@zero1188
7 ай бұрын
@@RITTAAREE well when it comes to moving in, thing people don’t consider is, when going on dates your mainly meeting the exciting high energy version of the person. But when moving in, your seeing the person on their down time. When they moody or just not in the mood. Its not that people change, its that you never seen the person when they are just living without trying to impress you.
@breannn
7 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, this is why I feel like marriages will become less and less. Social media has gotten our heads messed up frfr
@cynthialewis9404
7 ай бұрын
Always was interested in knowing how your parents divorcing impacted you.
@ElonNicole
7 ай бұрын
What’s meant for people will find them, when they’re ready. Folks who are supposed to be married still will be.
@mike619
7 ай бұрын
Facts!
@purposedpatience6597
7 ай бұрын
🎯🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯💯
@prosperousnatasha8153
7 ай бұрын
Take your mind back
@krocker8112
7 ай бұрын
Man! Anybody else notice the "puppy dog" TG turns into when his wife enters the room? I just love their love! Lol! 🤣 But, good stuff, Tony. I love the sober reality check of marriage. It's not just about sex. For real! So many other caveats and nuances involved. Stay woke, folks! Keep pushing us forward, TG! 😊💯💪🏽
@LiftWithTam
7 ай бұрын
I was just going to say this as well! It’s so sweet, he gets so giddy when his wife enters the room, bless them!
@anayork3391
7 ай бұрын
Mr Gaskins, not sure if you’re aware but Balenciaga released an ad campaign featuring children holding teddy bears in bondage harnesses, alcoholic drinks, and other disturbing imagery. It was like a dog whistle to pedos. Most ppl have completely boycotted the brand (no longer buy or wear any of their clothing). Hopefully you’ll see this.
@dmariethomas
7 ай бұрын
I was just about to comment about this. Thanks for giving him a heads up.
@anayork3391
7 ай бұрын
@@dmariethomas 👍
@brittanyb5942
7 ай бұрын
Marriage is not for the weak!
@GreenestOne
7 ай бұрын
Too many people believe the idea that marriage should be “a sleepover with your best friend everyday.” It’s a childish mindset that people have not grown out of
@yy.unlimited
Ай бұрын
so real 🎯
@JWspoon7408
7 ай бұрын
Parents have been married 31 years and my mom takes the thrash out and dad cleans the house. These traditional roles are totally obsolete when it comes down to it. Keep teaching the real Tony
@uniquelondon1220
7 ай бұрын
I don't even know any healthy happy couples that are married. smh
@brieanaduckett-graves6234
7 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing…like Yeesh…am I up the creek without a paddle?
@TrishC5280
7 ай бұрын
Tony too kind 🤣🤣🤣 "she pretty to somebody" 😆😆😆
@ericbush6124
7 ай бұрын
Sex is overrated what's not overrated is a Love built on God's Standards Communication Understanding Empathy a Great Marriage sex is 10% and Mr Gaskins all the said above getting married for sex in for rude awakening
@brown_beauty7499
7 ай бұрын
Tell them again Tony!! Sex does not define a relationship! Some days you or your partner may be going through a stressful week. Yes and your partner could come down with a life threatening disease. Trust me sex will not be on your mind! And the relationship not based solely off sex can still be happy. Because the day your partner gets sick or pregnant and that relationship is based mainly ofd sex. Trust and believe they'll be looking for their fix elsewhere!
@ladykadiijha
7 ай бұрын
Thank you Tony A man I dated for while told me he only wanted head no sex, sex doesn't satisfy him but he would do it one time to get a child. Sounded suspect to me I am Glad I LEFT quick
@nzingahoney
7 ай бұрын
DL fo sho 😂🎉
@haleycamille
7 ай бұрын
That smack and eye roll 😂😭
@leesantana8205
7 ай бұрын
His face lights up when he sees his wife. I love it!!!
@lequishaferrell9731
7 ай бұрын
I love how when your wife comes into the room you just stop what you doing and give her all your attention and that smile that's on your face is priceless. That's how it's suppose to be
@estheri5944
7 ай бұрын
You are one of the few people I listen to about relationships. I have completely tuned out of all these social media relationship and dating hot takes. They are way too toxic and a bunch of petty and irreverent conversations
@AmericanDreamer
7 ай бұрын
same here..
@Social3633
7 ай бұрын
I am reminded of Eddie Murphy's character in Boomerang. He was so superficial that when he thought he'd found perfection based on his silly standards, he got played by a selfish, over-sexed, weave-wearing harlot.
@donnajeffreys8252
7 ай бұрын
🏆 Best marriage advice award goes to Mr Tony Gaskins Jr ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 👏🏽👏🏽HALLELUJAH ❤❤ how much is their character worth ? Y'all worried about the wrong things...
@anissa2361
7 ай бұрын
Yess! The conversation is so important because people put sex on a pedestal when that us the icing on the cake not the main point if marriage.
@nzingahoney
7 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@springchoyces4715
7 ай бұрын
Keep teaching us, Tony! Thank you. Naturally, everyone won’t listen but some are taking notes and will be the next generation of marriages that push the Kingdom forward!
@lavonnepatterson1327
7 ай бұрын
I’m laughing so hard trying to stay focused on the message! 😂😂😂😂
@SheemsOfficial
7 ай бұрын
Man when I say Tony keep it REAL!!!!!😂😮💨 please don’t change we need this !
@latoniasmith7164
7 ай бұрын
Good message Tony. People don’t seem to care about character anymore. It’s all superficial right down to the credit score. Things like credit score and cooking skills can be improved.
@nursesrock4264
7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 I felt so immature when the diarrhea caught me off guard..😂😂
@ellee.444
7 ай бұрын
The pee convo💀😅 Lol "I don't care if you do drink water all day it still stank, Absolutey not finna pee on me or my floor" 😂😂😂😂 EXACTLY quit being nasty
@ieshjust16
7 ай бұрын
right and all I drink is water, so I know that is disgusting
@nzingahoney
7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@chameljackson4512
7 ай бұрын
It's the facial expression change for me when Mrs. Gaskins walks in lol
@joycewatt800
7 ай бұрын
24:49 - 25:50 C’mon now. Amen Talk about it! Married 15 years and still going…….by the grace of God🙏🏾
@sidehustlevikki1066
7 ай бұрын
Your content is so practical and real. Most of us single ppl have absolutely no reliable or meaningful content to watch or healthy marriages to even look up to. Most of the content I see from married ppl only show the good fairytale side of marriage. Single ppl are sharing what they think works, and most of us don’t even have access to a healthy married couple in our day to day lives to seek counsel from. Keep doing the lord’s work 😊
@ElonNicole
7 ай бұрын
A lot of my family members are in happy, healthy marriages. Beautiful for them
@Sherri_Speaks
7 ай бұрын
🙋🏽♀️I learned a life lesson. Now single and hate taking out 🗑 the trash. I bought scented trash bags to help me take out 🗑 trash.😂 The next time I am married I will kiss my husband every time he takes out the trash. I will continue to take out the trash if needed. I hope he will appreciate my scented trash bags. 😂
@purpleprincess8998
7 ай бұрын
I just LOVE how you talked to your wife when she came into the room. You can SEE the love and adoration you have for her! Just beautiful! And everything you said is ON POINT! Also, PLEASE keep your Southern accent. It’s beautiful, down-to-earth, sometimes comical (when intended) and refreshing. God Bless You Tony Gaskins!
@jeweladiele4664
7 ай бұрын
I love taking out the trash. At least it is an accomplishment I can see done and makes a HUGE difference in my space.Done. take the task off the list...many times before my son gets up or gets to it (Hubbyof 40yrs deceasedRIP❤)
@starlash-a
7 ай бұрын
Wow. I’m 24 and this is helping me. I never knew this was wrong lol
@Val-vc7sk
7 ай бұрын
We need more relationship speakers that are dating and having positive experiences as well as married couples for us singles.
@joyariffic4217
7 ай бұрын
True. Ive noticed over the past few years when I was dating around and in friends of mine why most single people are still single. They look for the wrong things and don't know what values are important in a person that will equate to a successful relationship
@sherrynelson365
7 ай бұрын
Yes debunk the lies about marriage
@jwillsurvive05
7 ай бұрын
Your mannerisms and tone of voice, the smile n your eyes when you talk to your wife is beautiful
@mahoganybaptiste5491
7 ай бұрын
I am woman who have been preparing for marriage for the past two years. I do not know personally one couple or marriage that is healthy in my entire 40 years of living. However, due to my own personal growth of healing and growing my relationship with God, myself, and my kids I know that having a healthy marriage is in my future. I appreciate you Tony and thank you for this video because along with two other podcasts, sermons, therapy, and a multitude of books and audio books I am learning so much. I have been blessed to learn a great deal of information, knowledge, and with intimate conversations with God and prayers, God has blessed me with His wisdom ❣️this video is ☝🏾 for the books 🙏🏾
@Curiousmind7777
6 ай бұрын
Can you share what books podcasts channels have been helpful to you?
@travelnurseneenee
7 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 the side bar disclaimer
@mariahtolliver
7 ай бұрын
I should’ve passed away 6 yrs ago if sex was that important 😂
@njc9776
6 ай бұрын
😂
@deaudrey85
7 ай бұрын
This video deserves way more likes This is one of the most realest videos Tony has ever posted!! And I’m here for it
@mslove2913
7 ай бұрын
I feel if sex is like food in a marriage then your marriage is based off lust or self gratification. I believe people need to pray for Wisdom like Solomon. I prayed for it myself and trust me my mother call me for advice and I am not married. Nor is she, however, praryer is powerful! When I listen to TG it is either confirmation and or I am learning to see things from a different perspective. God Bless All🙏🏽 -May I add, I have chosen not to be married, I am believing in God for A "Real Man of God," nothing less🙏🏼
@Hot_PlateVegetarianMeals
7 ай бұрын
Thanks for your clarification...as a single, celibate person, I see people faking...
@lisac5683
7 ай бұрын
I just love how Tony lights up and get gitty when the queen walks in while he is teaching. Continue to glow and show the love she deserves.
@PreciousdaughterofChrist
7 ай бұрын
this is really true. Many people can’t think for themselves…they want to follow the opinions & the experiences that other people have. (I’ve been there before) until i built my own relationship with God & starting to read the Bible for myself. I’ve learned so much. I’m a 24 year old virgin who is waiting til marriage. People who don’t have the Holy Spirit don’t understand the wisdom of God & His character. But I really love your channel Mr. Tony! God bless you and your wife sir. 💗💗🥹
@doneshahastings9216
7 ай бұрын
Hello from the UK Mr Gaskins . I think people confuse sex with intimacy. that's what I think people confuse. thank you for your raw straight forward lessons it saved my life. God bless you , your beautiful wife and you amazing boys💛
@sylviagrant3429
7 ай бұрын
I'm single and all my close associates tell me that you will always be learning things that you will be dealing with and not try to define it one way and couples grow older and change
@universallove878
7 ай бұрын
So glad this conversation was provided. Thank you😊
@MJWife07
7 ай бұрын
I love how you look at your wife. You can tell that’s your “dream girl”❤
@camie0568
7 ай бұрын
Tony please don’t give up on us single individuals, we need to hear the truth, your opinion greatly appreciated ❤
@teresaroquemore670
7 ай бұрын
No fairytale it’s work
@tendaitalks
7 ай бұрын
@TG! As a married woman of 17 years I agree and appreciate this message! It is the 100% truth! We have to become sober and practical at how we relate to one another! Single people giving relationship advice is like someone outside the house trying to tell you what it looks like on the inside! Married life is not a Cosby Show episode! Its time to wake up and stay awake!!❤❤😊😊
@CrochetStudent36
7 ай бұрын
EVERYBODY NEEDS TO HEAR THIS!!! I'm sending this to my married Sister!!! You should change this title to include married folk too!!! ✊🏾❤️✊🏾❤️✊🏾❤️
@kokoalaska9888
7 ай бұрын
One of the realest videos you ever done… Not “ lock jaw”😂😂😂. But your right.😐 Most of the married men that try to holler always say” we only together for the kids” or “ we never have sex anymore”…. Dirty dogs
@itsb2968
7 ай бұрын
Good morning The dating scene is horrible, and I’m 39. I refused to settle. Tony can you just start a match group and hook me up with someone ?🤣 serious though, I live in GA
@itsb2968
7 ай бұрын
A lot of singles with no sense make it hard for singles with sense! 👏🏾
@2B-Steele
7 ай бұрын
What’s happening here😂🤣😂🤣🤣my jaws are hurting.
@rachelphillips5576
7 ай бұрын
I take out the trash a lot because I cook more than my husband. He takes it out in the morning before he goes to work. It depends on the two individuals and their situation
@gapeach7814
7 ай бұрын
Tony you are preaching as always. These people better stop sleeping on you & come get this wisdom.
@lchervilgilles1
7 ай бұрын
Yup, I truly didn't understand certain elements of marriage until I got married. Im truly not interested in anyone's advice unless they're married. Then, cut that rate in half lol
@2B-Steele
7 ай бұрын
🤣😂😂😂😂🤣she was talking crazy talk🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Loveprevails1111
7 ай бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Tony always says what needs to be said. We are getting terrible advice out here. It sounds wrong too so very grateful to have good married folks that share❤
@lisadear4400
7 ай бұрын
I have Hidrinitis and it’s incurable and causes scars lumps,bumps and is very painful. Mostly on inner thighs. Under and any closed body parts. It’s problematic an embarrassing. Love me from the inside out please 😢
@Diasmonds
7 ай бұрын
Thank you Tony for teaching marriage/relationship ❤❤is not a fairytale. Stay focused on who and what God has called you to. He is covering you & your family every step of the way and beyond. Blessings in Jesus Name! Amen!❤
@jessepera2457
7 ай бұрын
Uncle Tony you are refreshingly counter culture! I will not stray from this wisdom you take the time to give us! You are saving lives because you are saving our minds! Thank you! Sending you gratitude!
@EuphemaWallace
5 ай бұрын
So bad when he does nothing just like take your trash is just a quick clean it does nothing and the lady has anxiety over work so the trash is important when I go to someone’s on the seat outside the punk goes down the step leave their mother to come at it and rather
@2B-Steele
7 ай бұрын
🤣🤣😂😂😂that’s what she said 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂Lord help her
@Oneconservativechic
7 ай бұрын
That ain’t lust that’s debaucherous and nasty
@meiyaslaughter4944
7 ай бұрын
it’s funny how you was talkin about how you don’t respect a man until he’s been in a faithful marriage and then the way you just lit up when your wife walked in the room 🤣🤣 i love it 🙌
@joycewatt800
7 ай бұрын
10:32 Lol 😂but true. Time moves on and so does life and IF we live long enough our bodies WILL change.
@vanessareid163
7 ай бұрын
Amen Mr. Gaskins! I appreciate your transparency and willingness to speak the truth about marriage and what solid marriages and relationships are built on.
@shannonmonaallathat
7 ай бұрын
Listen to him y'all 💯💯💯💯✝️💙💪🏽
@Lisa-nt7wt
7 ай бұрын
I am very grateful for this video because he is telling the truth about marriage.
@damarish.torres145
7 ай бұрын
Listening 20 minutes in and this is the best coaching session I’ve listened to in a while. Thank you Tony. Not everyone has your gift. Many are called but only a few have been chosen
@2B-Steele
7 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣There’s days has taken me out🤣🤣🤣😂🤣
@BlancaRosa79
7 ай бұрын
Facts on Facts on Facts 🎯🎯🎯
@mrs.patricewhyte5024
7 ай бұрын
I always say marriage is not for the faint hearted it takes works… communication… communication… communication… love and marriage NOT sex and marriage.. we both have the 🔑 to the🔒 on our marriage
@Stxttiee
7 ай бұрын
This man is funny on accident 😂
@karenbailey921
7 ай бұрын
🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ Tony, Tony, say it, Louder 📢 love your messages. 💙🙏🏼
@alexisagginie4574
7 ай бұрын
Are you a good Communicator? Are you interested in the state of your being at all times? How are you managing and directing your life every day?
@Raneenyouyou
7 ай бұрын
This was so soothing. Thank you
@KOEKOEWITHASMILE
7 ай бұрын
25:49- 26:25 is truth marriage is beautiful to Imperfect people coming together under God's union I believe God is pruning us to love our spouse like Jesus loves us for his glory, then In between that life happens I could explain more
@Princessfrmalmighty
6 ай бұрын
I agree with you. That's my mindset on marriage
@mstiff7422
7 ай бұрын
I’m married and I don’t take out the trash …I’m a truck driver and we see each other every two weeks that space actually works.
@mstiff7422
7 ай бұрын
Yes I agree with everything he’s saying every marriage is different sorry that was my point
@flowers7951
7 ай бұрын
👍Yes speak Tony 🤺 fight against 👏 the nonsense and delusions 💯
@officialwatchamber
7 ай бұрын
This is some real teaching right here! I listened from start to finish! So much wisdom. So much transparency. Loving the content TG! From the short videos, to the talks with tony, to your more in-depth content! The word is going forth 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
@valerialgiangrande8579
7 ай бұрын
you are giving us a lots of biscuits😂
@GLeon-ov9yu
7 ай бұрын
This content is fantastic. Thank you so much for this anointed message. Much needed. 🙏🏼
@joycewatt800
7 ай бұрын
4:09 Yessssss get with, talk to, observe the married men and women in your life. Listen and Learn from those in the trenches and doing the work!
@2B-Steele
7 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣cook like Anna May this too much 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@s.johnson1772
7 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 “Lord Forgive Me” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I Fully understand 😩😩😩😩🤣🤣🤣🤣 Jesus be sick of me sometimes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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