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@benisturning30
3 жыл бұрын
Sharon’s age is no excuse. Being British isn’t either. Even if you don’t understand why some things are racist you should accept how they make others feel. The Jewish community is a big example of this. We just accept what they say is racist and apologize. We don’t explain.
@noone-mt9xm
3 жыл бұрын
I love Ada on Demand! 💖
@Anna-xh6fk
3 жыл бұрын
I didn’t know about what happened with ko so when u put the r-word in the title I thought u meant r*tarded n I was like damn, get into that ableist bs Khadija lol!! this is absolutely so important I just got such whiplash
@unoriginal1086
3 жыл бұрын
When I first red the title I thought Qualia was a bird
@SpringMoments
3 жыл бұрын
Definitely good ones. Ada on demand !!☺️ I already know her
@queenalchemist3601
3 жыл бұрын
the clip of her screaming “educate me” perfectly describes how the responsibility ALWAYS falls on the oppressed to relive their pain for the understanding of white people. Sharon is a millionare that could have all the education she wanted if she so pleased
@Audrey-eo2wm
3 жыл бұрын
I know! I'm currently getting educated by this video. 💕 Not the people job to do it for you 🙄
@PortraitofAsha
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Am I getting paid to educate, cuz last I checked, teaching is a billable job
@silkshakes
3 жыл бұрын
Some education you can't buy (read: most of it)
@lisarenee425
3 жыл бұрын
Grown a** woman need someone to "educate" her like Google aint free smh
@amanday3103
3 жыл бұрын
It’s even worse though because it doesn’t even seem like she’s genuinely looking for education. The way she says it has more of a “PROVE IT” vibe.
@keshanichele750
3 жыл бұрын
The way sharon tried to make herself a victim, no one even attacked her, she was just asked a question. "How can I be racist! " Easily Sharon
@KhadijaMbowe
3 жыл бұрын
easily
@phosphenevision
3 жыл бұрын
The way she got defensive about it literally the most suspicious thing she could do
@cannibalisticrequiem
3 жыл бұрын
That clip of her raising her voice at a black woman, demanding she "educate" Sharon (even though her hostile tone signals, at least to me, that if she hears something she doesn't like, she'll shut it down and ignore it) and telling her "You don't get to cry!" ... Big OOF.
@rayne333
3 жыл бұрын
and when she starts crying in the beginning then tells cheryl not to dare cry when she is screaming at her even though cheryl remained calm the whole time. i just ???
@dumfriesspearhead7398
3 жыл бұрын
@@rayne333 White women's tears.
@dualitarian
3 жыл бұрын
"If I say something racist, educate me" has the same energy as a youtuber saying "call me out when I'm wrong" then deactivating the comments.
@christinea.a.a
3 жыл бұрын
XD facts
@petrifiedbread5343
3 жыл бұрын
David Dobrik 👀👀👀
@dualitarian
3 жыл бұрын
@@petrifiedbread5343 And Jeffree Starr.. Many others. Why do people even like them?
@ShiftingFixations
3 жыл бұрын
This. This is a perfect take, 11/10.
@laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587
3 жыл бұрын
lmao David Dobrik "Let's Talk"
@carolinesimeon4361
3 жыл бұрын
not Sharon victimizing herself while racially charging her own cohost and than telling her she’s not allowed to be a victim because she is the victim... i-
@carolinesimeon4361
3 жыл бұрын
@JUDE0123 yeah gaslighting in itself is toxic asf but to do it to someone who you claim as friends or family is nutsss
@BellesView
3 жыл бұрын
Sheryl deserves two weeks of paid leave after that incident and an on-air apology from Sharon. I can only imagine the emotional distress she experienced.
@mekaylaarchives
3 жыл бұрын
right
@loyisog4795
3 жыл бұрын
Funny how I assumed you were talking about Sharon having the paid leave and having the emotional distress. I’m brainwashed into thinking black women don’t deserve all these things, and it’s normal for white women. Sad
@melaniesheldon8013
3 жыл бұрын
Milkshake for Sharon? 🥛
@malina28202
3 жыл бұрын
You got it all wrong. Sharon deserves an apology from ABC and Sheryl and be reinstated as a host.
@stephenhogg6154
2 жыл бұрын
@@malina28202 Sheryl: “What would you say to people who feel that you give validation to something that is racist?". Sharon: “GFY with your race baiting bullshit”.
@SpringMoments
3 жыл бұрын
The skin, the humour, the fluency, the intelligence, the beauty! Should I keep going on ??
@user-gt2bn5el2f
3 жыл бұрын
She's so astute and intelligent. 😔 Khadija is amazing.
@Aasmaa07
3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾👏🏾
@anyav.2057
3 жыл бұрын
Also the voice!
@Leukothea
3 жыл бұрын
@Emeka Uche "She's just one big superlative " that's it, that's the description. No more words needed imho. ❤️
@gilliansillustrations
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! The talented, empathic, just plain awesome.
@fishinspacey
3 жыл бұрын
“language has a history and a memory” holy shit that’s such an amazing line. honestly, putting that in context with conversation about race with white people, it makes so much more sense why they react the way they do.
@celinaastbury4619
3 жыл бұрын
ive given up talking abt race with white ppl pls TT
@jacintalong2478
3 жыл бұрын
I thought so too epic.
@kw2080
3 жыл бұрын
@@celinaastbury4619 that’s fine. Some people think too much focus on race is unhealthy, especially when everyone cares about you anyways; why put up fences to community.
@Hawkmoon1981
3 жыл бұрын
@@kw2080 why are you all over these comments with these sly little passive-aggressive, plausibly deniable remarks? You clearly think you're being slick but your dog-whistle is loud and clear.
@SisterKnight
3 жыл бұрын
@@kw2080 wtf are you talking about 🤨🤔
@triciaa7259
3 жыл бұрын
When Sharon told Cheryl not to cry and made it all about *her* and that she was all "oppressed" I just seriously wanted to slap her. It was SO abusive.
@jessicavictoriacarrillo7254
3 жыл бұрын
Karens used to be called Sharons
@anotherrandoontheinternet
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. That was straight up abuse on multiple levels.
@EH23831
3 жыл бұрын
Yes - that’s why I found it so disturbing... thanks- I couldn’t put my finger on it!
@TheMissMonie
3 жыл бұрын
Lol right she was the victim not the people oppressed for years on years. White women tears man
@kw2080
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I didn’t like or understand that comment. But I think crying is viewed differently by people. I personally don’t think anyone should have been crying in that exchange; but I don’t know the pressure of making millions of dollars to be on TV either so I can’t judge it too harshly.
@BeingBennetGreen
3 жыл бұрын
Language changes overtime, but the action+purpose doesn’t change. Also the History behind the word + and who has/is using it is important.
@vecarter569
3 жыл бұрын
👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾♥
@celondelon351
3 жыл бұрын
I wish I could like this comment a million times.
@BeingBennetGreen
3 жыл бұрын
@@celondelon351 The Words that we use are so important, and the language we speak shape our understanding of the world, and ourselves in it.
@yara1896
3 жыл бұрын
So true.
@stephenhogg6154
3 жыл бұрын
Yes. No-one is denying any of that. But is there no distinction between ‘being rejected’ and ‘experiencing racism’?
@neophyte8
3 жыл бұрын
When you said that white people are more likely to listen to someone who looks like them, I immediately felt defensive, and that's how I know you've hit on something that is more true than I want to admit. Love your channel, such interesting topics and I'm learning so much with every video.
@dumfriesspearhead7398
3 жыл бұрын
It's a power thing. Men are more likely to listen to other men than women.
@joy7367
3 жыл бұрын
I feel like it may be because when the person who's in a privileged position (i.e. a white person, a man, etc.) has to listen to the person who's part of the oppressed, they are afraid that they are going to be responsible or in the wrong and be recognised as the oppressor, hence why they would get defensive ("I can't be racist" "not all men") when it comes from someone who is on the same "side" as them and see that they are able to recognise the unfairness it's almost like they can elevate themselves and immediately differenciate themselves from the discriminatory system/people.
@oyabunnn
3 жыл бұрын
@@joy7367 Preach
@nikoatsume7406
3 жыл бұрын
@Sophie Anderson-Haynie Girl, you already know 🙄
@mschrisfrank2420
3 жыл бұрын
@@dawnerickson7199 It is possible to both treat people as individuals without assuming things and also recognize patterns and systemic problems. We need both to create a better world. And just because you haven’t noticed it in your experience also doesn’t mean it’s not happening in your life. Not being aware of something is not the same as it not existing. Part of the responsibility we have is doing the work to become more aware of our own privileges and biases so that we can intentionally do better. It’s a never ending process.
@nomadicnurture
3 жыл бұрын
I'd also like to point out that this situation happened at work. Too many times black women have to edit themselves while at work for fear of being labeled 'angry' or 'agressive' and yet our white co-workers can have an all out fit and they are just seen as being 'stressed' or having a 'bad day'. Office politics in white spaces is utterly emotionally draining to black women. That's why I left corporate life after 20 years...my emotional health couldn't take it anymore. Love your videos! Keep up the excellent work 🙂
@pxdden6664
3 жыл бұрын
The truth in this comment 👏👏👏
@miriamhavard7621
3 жыл бұрын
One of the reasons to have our OWN businesses and to SUPPORT THEM.💗💗💗🌺🌺🌺
@kathryngant837
3 жыл бұрын
I am so ready to get out of the corporate world and I haven't been there half as long as you. It's traumatic no matter what it is!
@celondelon351
3 жыл бұрын
I can so relate, I called someone out for doing this same thing and they didn’t like it. A hit dog hollers.
@andieebee
3 жыл бұрын
I will say that working from home has been a blessing despite the global pandemic. It has had its moments but overall enjoying not having to deal with that "in-person" stress.
@bpc3309
3 жыл бұрын
Sharon Osborne, like all people who come from oppressor cultures, has the responsibility to teach herself about her self-interest in being anti-racist. Osbourne has the resources to buy books, the access to Piers Morgan to ask him about his views and the internet connection to use Google. She has no right to demand that others who are the target of racism teach her anything.
@ms.x1669
3 жыл бұрын
I don't think she genuinely wants to be educated. Her tone displays her lack of accountability. She thinks she has done nothing wrong and is insisting on being racist.
@kw2080
3 жыл бұрын
I’ve heard this learn by google argument several times about this incident recently. I must say, I’m concerned about a society which considers googling as learning and especially so which it comes to such important matters. Google definitely provides access to large volumes of data, governed by an algorithm, that companies can pay to manipulate. I think people should consider better sources for learning. But learning does not then mean that someone has to agree with Sheryl Underwoods gut feeling she has about Piers or other things. I doubt she is an Oracle. I apologize if I’m wrong on that.
@sophiademure
3 жыл бұрын
Tbh I don’t think she was wrong. If you gonna accuse someone of something, the burden of proof is on you.
@anarcho-communist11
3 жыл бұрын
She seems like an abusive person from what I know about her. Abusive people are always more likely to be racist. In capitalist America, the most corrupt and abusive people rise to the very top, then influence our entire culture smdh.
@stephenhogg6154
3 жыл бұрын
‘She has no right to demand that others who are the target of racism teach her anything.’ Not even when the other is accusing her of racism?
@TheCstar07
3 жыл бұрын
It's very odd how she calmed down when what she perceived as an ally spoke. The white host was saying pretty much the same stuff that set her off, why was it enraging coming from someone who the issue actually affects everyday of her life?
@guy-sl3kr
3 жыл бұрын
Right? It really rubs me the wrong way when people treat race issues like they're a theoretical topic to discuss among peers instead of a reality that affects people constantly. Confronting their own biases is too much for these people and talking to someone who is directly impacted by their actions threatens their comfort.
@kw2080
3 жыл бұрын
My perception was different after viewing the interaction fully several times. That last person did not have questions written on a card, and did not insinuate Sharon was racist. This was set up by the producers so I guess they made the decision to only give the POCs the prepared questions. It would have been interesting to see the interaction if she had had prepared questions too.
@sup4744
3 жыл бұрын
@@kw2080 That’s not the issue here. The issue is that the white cohost asked what was basically the same questions, and that’s what immediately calmed her down. She had to put the Black woman in an uncomfortable position for nothing No one was saying she was racist and the Black woman was even trying to give her an escape before saying more ignorant shit
@LagrimaArdiente
3 жыл бұрын
"If anyone should cry, it should be me." Excuse me???
@nadineparis1
3 жыл бұрын
Sigh
@elleofhearts8471
3 жыл бұрын
when white tears get normalized
@Misstressofdons
3 жыл бұрын
I know.
@katom1544
3 жыл бұрын
An embarrassment. Ignorance and prejudice SHINED itself in her response.
@malina28202
2 жыл бұрын
Agree, Sharon is the one who should be crying.
@pseudotimestretch
3 жыл бұрын
I feel like older peoples perceptions of the r-word makes them very defensive. Because they are aware the definition has changed but they don’t know to what extent it has changed. So they get very aggressive with closing down any allegations of racist behaviour. What I’m trying to say is, they know its changed but they still think that they aren’t racist according to what the word was.
@bakergeetee
3 жыл бұрын
Very much so, but it still really hasn't changed that much. People still believe that as long as they aren't regularly calling people the big ticket racial or ethnic slurs and/or burning crosses on lawns that they aren't racist at all. This is why there's an uproar over the changing of pancake, rice, and ice cream brand names.
@rebeccassweetmusic4632
3 жыл бұрын
I agree! I also think it has everything to do with racism evolving over time. It went from Slavery-Reconstruction-Jim Crow-Red Lining-The War On Drugs-Mass Incarceration-and now Police Brutality. Plus, after the 60s, a lot of wyt people (especially "not racist" wyt people) thought that because of the March On Washington and MLK's I Have A Dream speech that racism was over, and everybody got along, therefore wyt people couldn't be racist anymore. We didn't realize that even though overt racism wasn't acceptable anymore, systems put into place benefit us yet harmed POC. I think older wyt people have such a hard time understanding why we play a part in racism still existing because it is so much easier for lawmakers to hide it behind systems and laws. So, I think that could be another reason why wyt people feel like they need proof of why someone or something is racist and problematic. I realize that might not be exactly what she's talking about. I'm just using that as one example to try and get a grasp of an understanding as to why white people get so fragile when the word racist shows up.
@pseudotimestretch
3 жыл бұрын
@@rebeccassweetmusic4632 Racism has “ended” so many times in history and white people who have witnessed the “end of racism” find it especially hard to believe that the evils of racism could live on in them. Great point!
@rebeccassweetmusic4632
3 жыл бұрын
@@pseudotimestretch Exactly! I think every white person (including myself) has to actively change the way we think and view others in order to actively partake in taking down white supremacy by its roots. Listening to POC share their stories and having difficult conversations with family members and using our privilege for the greater good like reading up on anti-racism books, calling out other white people for their racist bs, contacting/emailing reps about laws to pass, and ones to avoid, voting for the right person who wants to commit themselves by helping BIPOC communities, donating to bail bonds or signing petitions, etc. By doing these things, we are tearing down the roots of white supremacy. And I think the reason why other white people don't wanna do that is that it's "too much work" therefore, they figure that demanding a black person by saying "how am I racist?!? EDUCATE ME!!!," will give them the easy way out without having to do the work which is why we say Google, Wikipedia, and libraries are free 🤷🏻♀️
@jessicavictoriacarrillo7254
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I tell my parents they are unconsciously ableist to me and they flip even when I point out "We all learned prejudice that we have to unlearn, even me"
@daniv954
3 жыл бұрын
The part that always bothers me off rip is her saying a black women doesn’t deserve to cry but she does bc someone she considers a friend is called out on racism
@celondelon351
3 жыл бұрын
That enraged me because it suggested Sheryl wasn’t giving her the reaction she wanted, which was anger, had Sheryl been angry Karen sorry I mean Sharon would’ve weaponised that to portray herself as the victim, but when that didn’t happen she resorted to tears. She’s a talk show version of Amy Cooper behaviour.
@daniv954
3 жыл бұрын
@@celondelon351 facts. And also it was just another to center white voices on black issues. Like how dare you cry about black issues as a black woman like tf.
@frogsmith9578
3 жыл бұрын
Meghan biracial. Please let go of the one drop rule
@celondelon351
3 жыл бұрын
@@frogsmith9578 this is about Sheryl and how she was treated take that issue elsewhere
@kristineilochi4615
3 жыл бұрын
That had me HEATED. Sheryl is better than I am because that heifer would've been smooooooth cursed the hell all the way and entire OUT!😡😡😡
@lollopoloso
3 жыл бұрын
Ok like let’s just take a moment to really take in how GORGEOUS she is.!
@Vitaluv
3 жыл бұрын
Chile us lessers can only dream about looking like Aunty.
@sakara84
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely I always talk about how incredibly beautiful she is. Everything about her is stunning 😍 😍😍😍😍😍😍
@sofcarolq
3 жыл бұрын
Truly radiant I am always stunned
@vanessamarie_xo
3 жыл бұрын
literally. i fall for her more and more with every video i see of her's 🥺🥰
@xLAPPUINx
3 жыл бұрын
She's so lovely inside & out.
@rebeccassweetmusic4632
3 жыл бұрын
Sharon Osbourne is the living example of white fragility, while Cheryl is a perfect example of class. I agree with you about Cheryl because I can tell that she was trying to be as calm and respectful of Sharon as she could because if she stooped to her level, the media would've painted her as the "angry black woman," which would've contributed to the disrespect of black women. I commend Cheryl for keeping calm because if that was me, I would've gotten really annoyed
@elleofhearts8471
3 жыл бұрын
Im sure Cheryl was annoyed as well. But as mentioned before, its not socially acceptable for black women to express their annoyance openly.
@rebeccassweetmusic4632
3 жыл бұрын
@@elleofhearts8471 Exactly! That's the point! It's just so interesting to me to see the differences in body language and behavior in both Sharon AND Cheryl. How easily uncomfortable Sharon is (as she should be) when Piers Morgan and The Royals' racist history is brought up. I wouldn't be surprised if Cheryl was annoyed either but she knew how to try and handle the situation (so she doesn't become a stereotype) while Sharon just looked like a total buffoon.
@rebeccassweetmusic4632
3 жыл бұрын
@@elleofhearts8471 Cheryl taught us all something. When you have an open-mind to listen to someone's unpopular opinion, you start to see the people for who they truly are. Bigots!
@ymaysernameuay1113
3 жыл бұрын
The devil works hard but Khadija works harder. gurl is pushing out content like me when I have dairy
@KhadijaMbowe
3 жыл бұрын
Imma eventually take a couple weeks off though LOL cause this is a lot
@amanday3103
3 жыл бұрын
@@KhadijaMbowe we love us some good self care❤️
@EH23831
3 жыл бұрын
Ha! Now that’s a mental image! 😆
@liliebilie
3 жыл бұрын
@@KhadijaMbowe Please do!
@ZahraFajr
3 жыл бұрын
@@KhadijaMbowe Take your time and come back when you're ready!
@kaylag.5807
3 жыл бұрын
The fact that Sheryl tried her best to inform the audience in advance of her friendship with Sharon and approach the topic gracefully so they wouldn't attack her, but Sharon still managed to respond incorrectly. Sheryl did everything right, and she regards Sharon as her friend so I can't imagine how invalidating it felt to have someone you've called a friend for years blow up in your face about what personally affects you on a daily basis...
@luciidity_
3 жыл бұрын
had the path laid out for her brick by kind brick! and STILL played herself 🙄 i got nothing for her
@whatsinaname2706
3 жыл бұрын
@Maybelle Conrad Sharon is a Karen!
@stephenhogg6154
3 жыл бұрын
Does you’re supporting racism’ not imply ‘you are being racist’? Sheryl announced to the world that in her eyes, Sharon was supporting racism. No?
@stephenhogg6154
3 жыл бұрын
@Maybelle Conrad I agree, though we're splitting hairs. The problem, I think, for Sharon, is her fear of being labelled a 'racist' and the consequences of that. Mercifully, her fears were unfounded!???
@rosemichel7542
3 жыл бұрын
“Don’t try and cry” nahhh she needed to be slapped right then and there. OmyGod.
@AM-AnitaM
3 жыл бұрын
I wanted to leap into the video to slap her! The audacity. Smh
@synesthesia.aesthetic
3 жыл бұрын
The audassity
@EH23831
3 жыл бұрын
Did you see Cheryl’s face at that? She did so well to remain calm...
@liliebilie
3 жыл бұрын
THIS!!! Also was Cheryl even crying???
@cindychristian1700
3 жыл бұрын
@@liliebilie She had tears in her eyes because she was watching her work relationship and a friendship go up in smoke! Sharon hurt her feelings and actually shocked her with that crazy behavior!!
@Aasmaa07
3 жыл бұрын
Whenever I watch Khadija, I feel like I gained some knowledge that school doesn't teach.
@malina28202
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, why go to school if you can listen to Khadija..
@cynicismIncarnate
3 жыл бұрын
I've noticed it w/ a lot of fellow whities out there that they say they aren't racist but the moment someone else talks about racism and race, it's immediate defensiveness. A lot of people want to be purposely obtuse and I don't want to say that people do it for "X" reason because I can't speak for everyone but it reads as if people are just scared of admitting that they're part of the problem. It's a shame that they won't admit that they're part of the problem, that's how we can actually talk about these issues in a productive way. CBS saying that they're all in for diversity and inclusion is so obviously fake. Like if you really were all for diversity and inclusivity, then why was the white woman who (allegedly) was racist to many co-workers not fired earlier for creating an awful workplace? Why? If people and these massive corpos would just be honest that they're racist, that'd be nice. They're really not fooling anyone at this point. Thank you for another great video, Khadija.
@MelaninBae90
3 жыл бұрын
You should have way more likes. I wish more people were like you, You are a real allie and truly understand and choose not to be obtuse and gas light, Thank you very much.
@jaysim3253
3 жыл бұрын
If a black woman acted they Sharon did with all of the yelling and cursing on set she'd be fired, no need to put the show on hiatus. She was all the way outta pocket
@DieezahArts
3 жыл бұрын
Worse, maybe they'd be dragged off the set by security during the commercial break.
@jaysim3253
3 жыл бұрын
@@stephenhogg6154 come back to reality
@stephenhogg6154
3 жыл бұрын
@@jaysim3253 So, the reality is that Sheryl would be literally dragged out if she got angry like Sharon did? I don’t think so. If Sheryl spoke some sense, that people could understand, then it wouldn’t matter how angry she got. Sharon wasn't yelling and cussing. That's silly. She cussed, but not at Sheryl. She didn't say 'fck you'. She continued to be rational and to try to understand no matter how exasperated and angry she became. People respect that. Getting angry is not important. It’s what you say that is. You’re portraying black woman as helpless victims and then blaming others for that. Does Sharon have some rights that Sheryl doesn’t? is it Sharon's fault that Sheryl couldn't make herself understood? Twenty million other white guys couldn't understand her. You’re just not taking any responsibility for Sheryl’s failings in this situation. This victim control dynamic that you’re using is really destructive. It’s not just white people who can see this. Lots of smart black people do too. Of course, lots of silly white people have also bought into the victim narrative - especially after watching this conveniently edited hatchet job. Don’t you know partiality is a sin? There’s a reason for that. Blaming and vilifying makes differences greater.
@jaysim3253
3 жыл бұрын
@@stephenhogg6154 I didn't say that she would have been dragged off the set, that's a weak strawman. I said that she would have been fired with the quickness. And Sharon was not being rational, she was throwing her weight around and was not interested in hearing what Sheryl had to say. A black woman who reacted like Sharon would not be given such leeway.
@stephenhogg6154
3 жыл бұрын
@@jaysim3253 No, you didn’t say that. That’s the comment following yours. I argued against both together. I disagree that Sharon was not interested in hearing what Sheryl had to say. Didn’t Sharon keep asking questions? That seems to me to show she was trying to understand. Unfortunately, she couldn’t understand Sheryl, no matter how hard she tried. But neither could most people. What leeway did Sharon get that Sheryl didn’t? This narrative that black women are ‘not allowed to speak’ is just a way to blame others for not having an argument. Taking offence is the last resort for those that have nothing to offer that is rational. Does Sharon have rights that Sheryl doesn’t? I don’t think she does. You portray the black woman as a helpless victim, and then blame others for it. Sheryl comes out the unconditional winner, and yet, she’s still the victim.
@CornOnAKhob
3 жыл бұрын
Can I just say that I can listen to Khadija talk for hours. The way that she's just so well articulated and smart plus her beauty is just the cherry on top. KZitem is blessed to have such a creator. Keep posting queen👑🦋🧡
@XxVeexX19
3 жыл бұрын
For real. I learn so much from her and I get great reading material.
@heyitsalannaluv
3 жыл бұрын
Can yall imagine if sharrol acted the way sharon did they would be dragging her! And sharon is acting way to pressed about thos situation. She knows that she has been racist and thus is wayyytt to defensive about the situation..awesome job on the video sis!
@ngobassa
3 жыл бұрын
Exactely my thought. Sherryl would have been terminated immediately, if she acted like Sharon. The same with Piers Situation. White hosts can behave in outrageous ways whereas their black/POC counterparts have to keep composure when discussing racism.
@kw2080
3 жыл бұрын
I think Sharon was concerned people would view her as racist and she was being set up. Sheryl actually reassured Sharon that Sharon wasn’t being called racist. But it appears you gathered that Sharon is racist from the video, proving Sharon correct.
@ngobassa
3 жыл бұрын
@@kw2080 I was referring to "imagine if Sheryl behaved that, she would be dragged". That's exactely my thought. Sheryl can't act out like that or she'll cater to the stereotype of the angry black woman. Not only would she be dragged, she would have given a public apology on the show and/or most likely be terminated. Sheryl won't get away with that kind of unprofessionell behaviour in the industry. Sharon (and also Piers) will.
@hanah3401
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly 👍👍! Sharon and piers Morgan are two racist supporting each other so they can continue to be a racist.
@heyitsalannaluv
3 жыл бұрын
@@stephenhogg6154 I cant tell if you're being sarcastic or completely misunderstood what I was saying lol..from the sound of it seems as if you dont understand that if Sharrol acted in that manner how the angry black woman narrative would be applied. I really hope you're being sarcastic otherwise there is a whole other conversation that needs to be had
@guppy8073
3 жыл бұрын
I cannot wait for that video on white womanhood. This whole thing reminded me of the time during a socratic seminar I responded to a white girl asking why black people needed a black history month, since, to her, it was just “reliving slavery.” I told her that black history is about so much more than just slavery, and that’s precisely why we need a black history month. Later, I saw her crying about how everyone was going to see her as racist. I felt bad, sat down next to her, and told her I didn’t think she was racist. ME. comforting HER. The power of white woman tears.
@Hawkmoon1981
3 жыл бұрын
Had a similar experience during orientation freshman year of college - we were in a diversity session (which is somehow always already a fraught situation) and this white girl just started BAWLING and apologising for slavery to the few POC in the room, saying it was so terrible what our people had had to go through, and on and on. She eventually had to be taken out of the session because she was in actual hysterics and the rest of us were just sitting there looking at each other like... it's great that you know this was bad, but this reaction is odd and unproductive and doesn't actually do anything to forward diversity and inclusion. To this day I don't know what she expected us to do or say in response. It was like we were supposed to have a group cry, hug it out and then I guess live joyful harmonious post-racial lives together?
@alim.9801
Жыл бұрын
@@Hawkmoon1981 there's no way that reaction was genuine right?? Sorry I'm late I was just reading this and that's absolutely baffling, I also have no clue what she expected everyone to do. That sounds so uncomfortable...like why??
@is3472
3 жыл бұрын
'Show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are.' This says EVERYTHING about Sharon to me.
@miriamhavard7621
3 жыл бұрын
💗💗💗🌺🌺🌺
@sodabread7956
3 жыл бұрын
Yep. But why is she friends with him in the first place, is it the same reason the royal family placates the tabloids? There's probably tons she doesn't want to get out about her/ her family. Edit: it's no defense for how she acted tho
@YourMajesty143
3 жыл бұрын
Poignant. I have no friends, so I am nothing. Mmm, yeah. Yeah, no, that feels correct.
@fittomakeup9890
3 жыл бұрын
Boom!!! 💯💯
@fittomakeup9890
3 жыл бұрын
@@YourMajesty143 or you could be a loner
@imani0nline
3 жыл бұрын
I think self perception also plays a big part in it because whenever our self perception is challenged by other people, for some the response is always visceral because not only is how you see yourself being challenged by others but it forces you to look inward and sometimes you may not like what you see thus the response is so defensive and doesn’t allow for the opportunity of growth.
@AM-AnitaM
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, it’s protection of self identity. Awareness changes everything.
@hwchen39
3 жыл бұрын
Totally agree! Sharon Osbourne's defensiveness is also pretty much a textbook example of white fragility as well which is a term used to describe the behavior of a white person when their conception of racism is questioned. There's an interesting book written about the subject by Robin DiAngelo who is a white woman who has worked in providing diversity training for companies and noticed a lot of white defensiveness when it came to engaging with racial discourse.
@chai_lattes
3 жыл бұрын
This is a great point, very eloquently stated.
@twistysunshine
3 жыл бұрын
Bro... I can't get over her particular wording "for me, at 68 years old, to have to say I'm not racist" What does that mean? What is she trying to communicate? 68 year olds aren't racist? Or "im too old and infirm to be critiqued"? Like bro... It doesn't make sense. She's just saying words, and the fact that she didn't excuse herself to try to calm down or something is mindboggling... I don't get it
@clantis
3 жыл бұрын
She should have just kept quiet.
@hwchen39
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for standing in solidarity with the AAPI community. After this week, you have no idea how much I needed someone to even just acknowledge the situation. ❤ As for the Sharon Osborn situation, something about this white woman demanding to a black woman to "educate her" just made me feel exhausted. Most people of color are not race scholars we are just people who have our own experiences with racism and discrimination. We can try to connect our experiences to broader topics but the onus always falls on us to be educators instead of white people to educate themselves with the myriad of resources out there. Moreover, I think we often discount that when we ask BIPOC to share their racialized experiences to "humanize" what racism feels like we're asking them to relive that racial trauma no matter how small. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy to do that if someone genuinely wants to learn but when someone is being defensive and doesn't want to listen it just feels like a slap in the face.
@chai_lattes
3 жыл бұрын
This was wonderfully worded. I completely resonate with what you wrote about most bipoc just being people whose experiences have been intricately interwoven with racism and discrimination. We really aren't experts; we're all just learning how to navigate and heal from our trauma.
@chai_lattes
3 жыл бұрын
@Jane Hi Jane, thank you so much for your message. I'm so happy to hear that the Asian community has your support even though I'm sure it was a hard decision to make. I really appreciate you working through the conflict and tension to come to that choice. I'm not the OP, but as a fellow Asian American and bipoc, I just wanted to tell you I think you're already doing something brave by choosing compassion over division. Our communities do unfortunately have a long history of being pitted against one another, but we also have a rich and diverse history of working together: making great strides in the civil rights movement, building community, and forming personal relationships that transcend race or ethnicity or even language barriers. I know it must be a tough position to be in, feeling like you're caught in the middle and not knowing what to do. But I think you're really courageous because it takes courage to find your own voice and values in the midst of so many conflicting opinions. Keep doing what you're doing: keep figuring out what feels right to you and know that it's people like you who can make a difference🌼 (Edit: oh no, I think she deleted her comment! I hope she stills sees this. Jane, your message was so sweet. I hope my response gives you some encouragement. Know that you aren't alone❤)
@kkuudandere
3 жыл бұрын
Having to humanize the experience of racism really IS like re-living trauma! When situations like this arise and someone is looking for "proof" and starts demanding specific days, quotes, times when potentially racist things occurred... I honestly wish to tell them that it's not that I just don't care to explain, but half the time I've blocked those things out from memory because I don't wanna think about them all the time😢
@watsonmelon6575
3 жыл бұрын
And how many people saw her doing it and thought it was ok because she's famous? It's not right Also, you are 🎆glowing🎆
@chelsyshivemind
3 жыл бұрын
she was being very very very hostile. I wouldn’t even feel comfortable explaining myself
@elleofhearts8471
3 жыл бұрын
and then thats another layer to this. Its already burdensome to ask a black person to educate you on why youre a racist, but then they dont even create or cultivate an environment where its safe or comfortable to call them out. And why would they even know to do that? they dont even understand why what they said or did racist to begin with . They dont rally understand what they're saying when they ask to be called out.
@mammoneymelon
3 жыл бұрын
i can't imagine how hard it was for Sheryle to stay as calm as she did, much less even begin to try and explain her thoughts. anyone who's been berated like that knows how hard it is to keep it together, and when you add in things like the racial imbalance and the fact they were on *national television*, i really respect her for keeping it together
@Gtinker
3 жыл бұрын
I think we really have to have a conversation about Microaggressions because they often have macro consequences. Racism indeed has changed and our inability to address it allows a lot of injury and injustice to occur. Especially toward black people and black women.
@libertydensinger3583
3 жыл бұрын
One of the wisest things I every heard was from my psychology ethics professor: "We all have a relationship with race, and you should all ask yourself what yours is." I felt so bad for Sharon's cohosts in that clip, Cheryl (spelling?) looked so shocked and hurt and the other two looked soooo uncomfortable.
@zammymynakersnackstbmoth
3 жыл бұрын
Just curious why you feel so bad for the people who were not the object of Sharon's abuse?
@lelekoko8986
3 жыл бұрын
“Sharon and Piers have been friends for years” girls was that unintentional because I- bars
@adorkable7196
3 жыл бұрын
The reason Piers was so mad it's because he had drinks with Megan ONCE, and she never talked to him again. ONCE!
@YourMajesty143
3 жыл бұрын
It was that, and the fact that she picked a better Brit so soon after him to be with. And not just any Brit, a royal prince! His ego couldn't compete with that. Plus he felt slighted for her not breaking the story to him -- as if she owed him that?! His entitlement & male fragility is beyooonnnddd.
@zammymynakersnackstbmoth
3 жыл бұрын
The thing is, it was social drinks, not a date. He thought he had a chance and he never did and he cant take it.
@kishakataria1430
3 жыл бұрын
Incel, essentially.
@malina28202
2 жыл бұрын
That sure qualifies him to be called racist.
@DoseofD
3 жыл бұрын
The way you structure and articulate your videos while still being lighthearted and entertaining is amazing! Love your videos sis!
@derekwade4042
3 жыл бұрын
I'm white, privileged an queer. Stumbled about your channel a month ago. Your content is so good and important also to educate the people. Thanks for you just being here and share your knowledge. ❤ 🙂
@suziel7197
3 жыл бұрын
You're my new fave. A grown woman acting like a child. Cheryl gave her more than grace. Tantrum is right.
@alejandrovelasco1263
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for everything. I'm half Mexican and Half Puerto Rican but I have the luxury in life of passing Caucasian and the conversations I hear people have about my people in front of me only to see their change when I point out that I am 100% not white is so jarring. You're videos give my husband and I so many wonderful talking points and I just appreciate you so much.
@sams1982
3 жыл бұрын
As someone who majored in philosophy, I absolutely love that you used qualia in your explanation of how people respond differently to the use of the word ‘racist’. It shows how the word can have such different emotional connotations even while there are objective definitions
@lynnhettrick7588
3 жыл бұрын
This was a new term for me. I’m glad she discussed and defined it. Very helpful!
@inklingofadream
3 жыл бұрын
you can tell that she thinks Sheryl's stuttering because she's just so blown away by Sharon's point being so incredibly insightful she can't respond without looking hypocritical... she's stuttering because she's surprised you've decided to say all this, right now, at top volume
@alluneedislessthan3
3 жыл бұрын
I’m not even a person of color and this video triggered me. Any time a person of privilege and power gets viscerally upset like that by you trying to defend yourself or someone else, it’s really scary because you don’t know what that person is capable of or is going to do. It’s scary how Cheryl was so calm and polite and not attacking her at all and Sharon came out swinging like that. This channel has become my hub for getting the Hottest Takes. The way you post so often for the amount of research you do is amazing!!! 😍😍😍
@miriamhavard7621
3 жыл бұрын
Cheryl has had a lifetime of observing and receiving this sort of treatment, l mean like probably from early childhood. I could see the trauma in her eyes.💗🌺
@Limonenmixgetraenk
3 жыл бұрын
Had to stop the video twice just getting so mad. I can't imagine being there with her face to face.
@wadnold123
3 жыл бұрын
A white lady yelling at a black woman asking her how she could ever be racist. Hmmm how ironic 🤔 Also not her defending her spectacle on live tv by saying she was blindsided. That does not excuse her racist behavior and her trying to defend Piers.
@nousnesavonspas
3 жыл бұрын
sheryl's patience is enough to make me wonder if theres a god after all... all my respect and she deserves a long rest
@JuanitoEsBonito
3 жыл бұрын
sharon has always been problematic and thankgod someone is finally addressing it
@bratprivilege
3 жыл бұрын
Oh man, as a disabled person, I saw the video title and thought we were going to be talking about a very different R word for a second 😳 awesome video though
@emmaatkinson7379
3 жыл бұрын
Same dude. Like, I'm glad it's not, but it's weird to brace yourself for a hurtful term and it be something else. Hey, one less bad thing in our respective days.
@Audrey-eo2wm
3 жыл бұрын
I would have gotten angry at Sharon and would have started yelling. It F sucks that Cheryl knew she couldn't get angry or she would have gotten negative comments. She had every right! She is a very very patient person. We need to let people feel their emotions 😞
@bplbookstore3656
3 жыл бұрын
I'm white and I felt so bad for Sheryl. I was actually having flashbacks of something that happened into my past. I was living with this woman that had a pill problem and when she'd taken too many you had to walk around on eggshells around her verbally or you'd set her off. And that's what I felt Sheryl was doing. Walking on eggshells so she really didn't set Osborne off. I don't think she honestly ever thought bringing up Morgan would get that kind of reaction out of Osborne. I think she thought they could have a calm and rational conversation and when she saw that wasn't the case she did everything she could think of verbally to calm her down.
@victorysampson
3 жыл бұрын
I am loving these longer videos so much. I learn so much and they’re always so fun.
@KhadijaMbowe
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@trooptroopie8200
3 жыл бұрын
I swear I was so angry when Sharon spoke to Sheryl in that manner. I was confused as to why Sheryl didn't just go off on her, but I actually get it now...Sheryl thank you for not becoming the "angry black woman" even though sometimes, I can and do appreciate her(abw)😁
@whatsinaname2706
3 жыл бұрын
I am not black but do not understand this “angry black woman” thing as I have never met a black woman who is angry! Have lived in Australia & UK. Personally I think this is myth cooked up by the media.
@skottie222
3 жыл бұрын
Am i the only one that looks forward to what khadija's going to sing at the start of each video? 😂😂
@Carlyon100
3 жыл бұрын
That moment in the movie when the vampire, lycan or werewolf is finally outed by the superhero and can no longer walk among mere mortals unnoticed.
@mzgreenjeansapproves
3 жыл бұрын
Best. Comment. Ever.
@lemonsneezy2932
3 жыл бұрын
0:13 Come through Khadija with the rainbow Coalition! I have to get my snacks because Khadija's videos are an EVENT!
@KhadijaMbowe
3 жыл бұрын
Yesssss
@Sleipnirseight
3 жыл бұрын
Your point about feeling that white people are more likely to listen to critique from other white people about racism is a legit sociological phenomenon! Social majority groups are typically more likely to learn about -isms from fellow majority group members, regardless of what the social majority trait is (sex, gender, religion, physical ability, etc.). I forget if there's a term for it lol
@sarebear7777
3 жыл бұрын
'Language has a history and a memory.' That's so true.
@ss-hc7tb
3 жыл бұрын
hi pls could u talk about genzs romanticisation of mental health issues?
@lauraguthoff9692
3 жыл бұрын
Luke Alexander has a great video on it if you’re looking for one :)
@alphabettical1
3 жыл бұрын
@@lauraguthoff9692 ouuu thank you cause I was just about to comment 'but do we?'
@mcgovemj
3 жыл бұрын
It's not a new this. Just look at the Romantic poet, like Byron.
@ohia_lehua
3 жыл бұрын
@@alphabettical1 I don't think we necessarily romanticize it. I think the issue is that so many of us gen z have mental health issues that we kinda just deal with it together all out in the open to take the stigma out of it. Our gen is more likely to take the "severity" out of mental health issues because of all the jokes and whatnot we make to cope with it. I think a better video would be why gen z copes with mental health the way we do. Because if you look at the previous generations, they were all about hiding it and pretending you're OK. Only now is our gen actively pushing people into therapy, getting help, and coping with a lot of dark humor lol
@lauraguthoff9692
3 жыл бұрын
@@ohia_lehua well obviously not all of gen z does, that would be a massive generalization. But more and more influencers think it’s “cute” to print something like “my anxiety has anxiety” or stuff like that on their Merch to profit from it, while never actually speaking on the topic. Also it’s not just a gen z problem either of course, 2014 tumblr was chock full of pro Ana blogs where people were romanticizing their eating disorders by posting aesthetic photos of dangerously thin girls and giving each other tips on how to starve themselves. As I said, Luke Alexander’s video on the topic is great!
@caseyw.6550
3 жыл бұрын
Ok, girl, I need you to drop that album already. 🙌💰😃
@KhadijaMbowe
3 жыл бұрын
lol perhaps one day
@Oogway-go6np
3 жыл бұрын
Khadija’s videos are a masterpiece
@KhadijaMbowe
3 жыл бұрын
*cries* thank youuu
@ChewonThat
3 жыл бұрын
Just woke up, and instantly get a new Khadija video notification? It's going to be a good day😌
@KhadijaMbowe
3 жыл бұрын
🤓
@trybetrybe5725
3 жыл бұрын
WAIT NEW INTRO?!? I love it here
@michenry8
3 жыл бұрын
not me thinking you were gonna discuss the r-SLUR 💀 whoopsie
@louisbrasil4090
3 жыл бұрын
So did I.
@Limonenmixgetraenk
3 жыл бұрын
I feel weird about "racist" being called the r-word. No. Call it what it is.
@YourMajesty143
3 жыл бұрын
@@Limonenmixgetraenk - I think that's the point. "R word" is to reflect how white people react to the word Racist, which exposes their white fragility bc their response is so extreme & exaggerated that It's equivalent to the way REAL victims respond to slurs like the B word, C word, F word, etc. On this video, we're in on the joke. But outside of here & in the real world, I agree absolutely that we should call it what it is.
@dokessezeaka5159
3 жыл бұрын
@@Limonenmixgetraenk I also think its because if KZitem censorship, she can't use the the world in the title without it probably being a restricted video
@burneraccountforthewin
3 жыл бұрын
@@Limonenmixgetraenk I think it's because KZitem is weird and censors certain content so she has to be careful
@alexandertimms0.166
3 жыл бұрын
This is the best way to spend my birthday hands down,
@reneeyankah9102
3 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday 🥳
@evonnastrange1242
3 жыл бұрын
Happy happy birthday🖤💜💙💚
@KhadijaMbowe
3 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday Alexander!!!
@modathirzainalabdeen280
3 жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday 🎉🥳
@alexandertimms0.166
3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou!
@sarahshhb
3 жыл бұрын
Everything about this video is important 👏🏾
@ohia_lehua
3 жыл бұрын
I just found this channel a few days ago and I've already binge watched every video. This is the first channel I've found where I've agreed with everything you said and more. And as a mixed person of AAPI descent, I really wanna say thank you for the message in the beginning. I count myself lucky bc I've "grown out" of my Asian looks and mostly look mixed/Hawaiian. At first glance people would never know I was Asian unless I told them so I'm kinda "safe" from these recent attacks. However, my family isn't at that just breaks my heart. Thank you for always being honest and keep up the good work ♡
@DorothyDandridge
3 жыл бұрын
I watched the full episode of The Talk and there’s a few minutes with the other Black host Elaine was trying to articulate what Sheryl was saying. Elaine raised some really insightful points and had a deeper more critical perspective on the issues than Sheryl. I’d love for you to discuss your perspective on Elaine’s delivery to Sharon.
@Kelgore
3 жыл бұрын
Looking forward to next week’s “women women whatever video”
@KhadijaMbowe
3 жыл бұрын
LOOOL I get so tired of talking sometimes
@Grace_Zandile97
3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@chai_lattes
3 жыл бұрын
Haha me too! I was like- oohhh yes that's what I need! Sounds interesting!
@classical421
3 жыл бұрын
I was taking notes this whole time. You broke everything down so beautifully. I've been trying to articulate so much of this rage I'm feeling at how racism has become more covert and we keep getting gaslit when it's staring you right in the face- somehow we're living in a world where there is racism with no racists.
@benediction7517
3 жыл бұрын
I think the biggest obstacle when tackling racism in this age is that people are more offended by the idea that they are or might be perceived as a racist than racism itself. And that might be due to the definition of racism continuing to transform little by little? I never really thought about that, incredible insight yet again 🤧
@sseraphim2818
3 жыл бұрын
If they are multiple forms of racism now being acknowledged and created, then yes the meaning of racism will change.
@babym7484
3 жыл бұрын
The craziest part of it is Sharon who is much OLDER and ought to have more life experience/wisdom and who probably had access to better quality education is SCREAMING at Sheryl to EDUCATE her 👀 wow wooooow sis
@monstermcboo7282
3 жыл бұрын
Narcissists are born knowing everything. There’s no educating them. Sad but true.
@INTERESTEDINFORMEDINSPIRED
3 жыл бұрын
Your mind is beautiful. The way you analyzed that whole scenario. 🙌🏿👏🏿
@andycrenshaw2789
3 жыл бұрын
as a trans man, when you started talking about the body you have dictating which emotions will be well received, it felt really familiar, in the way men are expected to downplay emotional responses oftentimes. i’ll find myself trying to discipline myself and be more reserved in order to “pass” and be seen as a man, even though i know that expectation is bullshit. as always, stellar work.
@BlackDionysus
3 жыл бұрын
Especially when talking to white terfs, I recently had to educate a disabled white women about how poc are not privileged, how disabled people are not privileged, how women are not privileged (maybe some) and sis went off to tell me that the trans community have a certain level of privilege because we get the medical care that should be available to women 😤😭 Wild but besides the point, I definitely agree with you, I try not to get angry in public places, just be calm in the way I respond to aggravating comments, opinions etc.
@RileyEastman2.0
3 жыл бұрын
khadija's intros feeling like a mixtape, before even getting into the meat of the video I am involved! love it!
@RileyEastman2.0
3 жыл бұрын
to add in cause now I finished the video, I loved it! this is literally my favorite channel 2021! I support you so much! keep doing what you do! i will be back every week for a new video!
@thisismyinferno
3 жыл бұрын
I love that they have to stop production completely for EVERYONE on the show, because of Sharon. Let them carry the show during the investigation.
@tamarnisbett
3 жыл бұрын
I liveee for your videos!! They are so good. Wish we all learned to create video essays this informative and interesting in college. Keep doing you boo!
@alphabettical1
3 жыл бұрын
I thought this was about the ableist r-word and was like oh??? But I'm in for the ride anyways! Also, from an Asian-Canadian: right back at you ✊🏽
@TheEmcr14
3 жыл бұрын
me too
@princessyarkor730
3 жыл бұрын
It took me a moment too 🤦🏾♀️
@nthabiandherbooks
3 жыл бұрын
"How the body you're in dictates how you're able to express your emotions" *takes deep breath* those extra few seconds Black women have to take to compose themselves before they speak... it's a lot. I realized recently how stripped my voice was because I've been "toning" it down for 20 years (I'm 31). It's a lot. It's a lot.
@monstermcboo7282
3 жыл бұрын
I learned in group many years ago that the older, abused women who speak so quietly aren’t necessarily conditioned by abuse to speak softly, but they physically lose their projection and volume. Abuse changes them biologically so they can no longer speak much above a whisper. It’s appalling.
@amelianannette972
3 жыл бұрын
I just have one comment: holy shit, that video of Sharon Osbourne is very triggering. not in the weird way the internet defines that word, but in the way where it brings you back to horrible moments in your own life. I don't know a single marginalized person who hasn't been treated like that at least once in their lives, and it's awful and violent every time.
@vanessakennedy1420
3 жыл бұрын
Can I just say how happy I am for your sponsored video unsure if this is your first 😫 but for me to follow you from less than 5k to now thissssss I love this for you 😍 I’m so happy for you mamas
@KhadijaMbowe
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much sis!
@chai_lattes
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the AAPI support❤
@jazeolo
3 жыл бұрын
You articulate all of these incredibly complex topics so well and I really value your perspective, Khadija. So glad to have found your channel!
@merchantarthurn
3 жыл бұрын
For additional context - the complaints against Piers have now hit 57k, which means it's the Ofcom (our independent communications & broadcasts regulator here) complaints record. 41k was only 3k shy of the previous record from 2007.
@Mochalolo1928
3 жыл бұрын
On the topic of people listening to people who look like them... this is why Allies are soo important! When confronted with someone like Sharon, in this instance, having an ally explain from an additional perspective is key to shifting the mindset!! Sure, that person was open to listening, but they are not able to internalize the information for whatever reason until someone from their own demographic explains it... idk why this is a “thing” and it’s hella annoying, but if change is to happen, we all need to get on board
@Elena-rx5tl
3 жыл бұрын
I know that this is not the same topic, but this video made me remember one thing. In Spain we have this singing show where, a couple of years ago, some of the contestans had to sing a song from a spanish band from de 80s. In the song the f slur is use (the "spanish version") and the contestans, all people around 20 years old, wanted to change that one word and sing a different one because they didn´t want to hurt anyone. That was turn into this huge thing, everyone was mad at them, saying that they were rude and disrespectful (they weren´t). The singer of the song, who is straight, as everyone in the band was, is 61 years old and she was a judge in the show. She got awfully offended and kept talkin about how she is not homophobic, and how her band always stood by LGBT+ people back in the 80s, no one had call her homphobic, no one had said her band, or even the song was, they just didn´t want to sing a slur. Adults in the contest (judges and teachers) got mad at the contestans, somehow they were the ones in the wrong. Your video helped me see this event in a different way, when this woman and her bandmates were born Spain was a dictatorship with a sodomy law ( Ley de Vagos y Maleantes) and when her band started the LGBT+ movement was just starting to rise in the country, so probably, for them, the word has a different meaning and I had never look at it that way. Still, if you are a member of a privilege group you have to be open to criticism and the way things change, you can´t react like a child when someone calls you out on somethig (again, they were being respectful and understanding and never even call them homophobic), you should talk with them and let them explain why they think the way they do, have a conversation. Anyways, thank you so much for your videos, I always learn something from them. Love from Spain.
@transrightsdinosaur
3 жыл бұрын
Girl, you are so well spoken and thoughtful. Thank you for being you!!
@tragiclaila
3 жыл бұрын
I'm early so I'm just going to say...i love your videos and you are so underrated ❤
@tragiclaila
3 жыл бұрын
I'm going to have a heart attack she liked it 😳❤
@ljuvalivet
3 жыл бұрын
Agreed!!!
@sundawg911
3 жыл бұрын
I think there is this general impression that in order to be racist you have to say the "N-word" or any other derogatory word for it to count. People need to think beyond that and see how racism is not just words and how it has bled into our society and everyday thinking. Love the videos Khadija, they have helped me self reflect as a person of colour. Also can we talk about your tattoos? I really want to get some new ones and would love to see you talk about yours. I know it might be different than your usual stuff.
@sseraphim2818
3 жыл бұрын
Racism has many forms, but most are unwilling to unpack that.
@stephenhogg6154
2 жыл бұрын
@@sseraphim2818 Piers Morgan criticised a black person. That means he’s a racist. Sharon Osbourne got angry with a black person. That means she’s a racist. Unpack that.
@Fammangalover
3 жыл бұрын
I was waiting for this. THANK YOU AUNTY. Also you are so beautiful.
@timothyevo
3 жыл бұрын
Chile you're right on time with this. I needed your thoughts on this ENTIRE situation
@BeingBennetGreen
3 жыл бұрын
This is just such a bad look, how blind do you have to be not to see what Piers Morgan has been saying/doing. At this point you are co-signing his actions, since you don't see a problem with it. A white woman asking how she could be racist is extremely ignorant/problematic. come on now. Btw I love what you do on this channel. The conversation you bring to the table and how you go about it is so good!!! And thank you for giving me the push to create my channel.
@sinabonz8108
3 жыл бұрын
the way Sharon got so defensive made me so frustrated like girl nobody was even coming for you.
@abar612
3 жыл бұрын
As a culture changes, so does the language (and vice versa). In USA and the world when issues become more complex, more terms are necessary because it is then no longer one word fits all, thus needing more precise terms for more precise instances. I enjoyed this video, thank you.
@sonnetsaboutcheerios
3 жыл бұрын
I love this format!!! The « sociology injected » into pop culture commentary is the best genre of KZitem video ✨💚💐
@katiebailey3439
3 жыл бұрын
On the plus side, my bro and I have gotten our baby boomer parents to finally realize they are being racist at times cause we all have some internalized racism. I feel like I'm saying too much today. ^_^;; Your hair looks really beautiful and soft today btw!
@JediBunny
3 жыл бұрын
“Her fear outweighed her desire to learn.” Yes, exactly this. This is one of the biggest obstacles we’re now seeing and facing. This is why it’s so vitally important to be open to discourse, _wanting_ to *understand,* and _learning!_
@ciquwamae
3 жыл бұрын
Every time I see that SO clip, I am reminded of the book by Ruby Hamad, White Tears/Brown Scars and the you tube video of Jully Black facing the exact same thing on a panel. Also, new video YAY!!!
@AliceCappelle
3 жыл бұрын
It was clearly one of your best videos (at least to me), I hope you'll develop the points you made in this video in future ones, I'd love to see you elaborating on white as "default" and the consequences it has on our ability to challenge any discourse produced by that "default", thank you so much for enlightening me on those issues, always bringing nuances, and academic research into your videos!!
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