"Do not kill the part of you that is cringe, kill the part of you that cringes" - Albert Einstein
@varden3270
2 жыл бұрын
"Cringe is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results." - Albert Einstein
@hotdog5927
2 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@greyblob1101
2 жыл бұрын
"This newtonian gravity shit is pretty cringe." - Albert Einstein
@imissya54454
2 жыл бұрын
-micheal Scott
@alanrodriguez6915
2 жыл бұрын
"That dude Albert Einstein cringes out cringe" -Albert Einstein
@SpinningTurtle66
2 жыл бұрын
I really dislike how big ‘cringe’ is on the internet. It makes people feel bad for doing something they enjoy that others find weird, and it makes me feel so bad whenever I do something and get called cringe
@nudemanonbike
2 жыл бұрын
If it makes you feel better, literal children are usually the only people calling people cringe. Why do you give a shit about what a literal child thinks? In school it's a bit different, since you can't point this out to someone else and have it matter, but just block people on the internet and then they literally don't exist anymore
@SpinningTurtle66
2 жыл бұрын
@@nudemanonbike That’s a fair point, but I can’t shake the feeling that there are also actual adults who have this mindset
@nudibranch8659
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I stopped browsing cringe communities because I realized how awful the core message of making fun of cringe things (and communities centered around making fun of people in general) is.
@rll1236
2 жыл бұрын
@@nudemanonbike Really? I think it's the opposite. Kids on the internet do weird tiktok dances and then there are a lot of adults calling them cringe for just being kids. Adults tend to be way more judgemental than kids because kids don't overthink like they do
@nudemanonbike
2 жыл бұрын
@@rll1236 good point, there's typically a distinction between children and teenagers, but I was using the "anyone still in primary school" definition of children, so usually people under 18. If you yourself are under 18, I guess my advice to you is that shit that happens before 18 barely fucking matters and stressing about everything just makes your life shittier at the end of the day. Obviously don't hurt other people but like, who gives a shit if you get really passionate about model trains or whatever the fuck else. And again, if they do give a shit, why do you care about their opinions?
@VanillaBryce5
2 жыл бұрын
"This is going to be scary because a lot of y'all are cringe." Dr. K has said a lot of accurate things but this my be his most accurate statement to date. lol
@manuelcalavera7272
2 жыл бұрын
Must*
@manuelcalavera7272
2 жыл бұрын
@@pawshmel Because*
@icipher6730
2 жыл бұрын
@@manuelcalavera7272 cringe
@cupofjoe1788
2 жыл бұрын
Why do y'all all hate yourselves
@elvararchfeld9734
2 жыл бұрын
Okay. This is borderline taking something out of context.
@killaknight12
2 жыл бұрын
I had to laugh so hard at the "meditation" part. There was a club where you couldn't hear any music entering the building, you got a pair of headphones and sent off to the dancefloor. Aside from some people talking there still was dead silence, all you could see were people with headphones vibing, dancing and goof around with their friends. Basically, you could choose one of three channels on your wireless headphones all playing a certain playlist and dance to it, though whenever you wanted to talk to people and take a drink you could just take off your headphones, so no yelling into your faces. It was reeeaally cringe at first, but the more you got over that and experienced how awesome this concept was in practice the less it bothered you. Dancing to different music also turned out to be incredibly funny.
@chimerasofhafgufa
2 жыл бұрын
wow!! id love to visit a club like this! :O it feels like a great idea for people with audio sensitivity but still like, yknow, uh wanting that experience?
@burntchickennugget8142
2 жыл бұрын
Wow, kinda epic, you made this seem pretty epic wow
@dsdsdsds10101
2 жыл бұрын
It'd be nice to not have a sore throat after clubbing for once
@NiSE_Rafter
2 жыл бұрын
There's events like that called silent discos. I've been to one once as a part of a music festival and it was an absolute blast!
@AmberyTear
2 жыл бұрын
This could actually make me enjoy going to a club for once in my life.
@shadoll7856
2 жыл бұрын
I found this useful: Being judgmental is basically an effort to get rid of something we don't understand and probably don't want to understand. We see something we don't like and we try to dismiss it, to stamp it out without taking the time to understand it. We're impatient. Whatever we're being judgmental about, we just want to get rid of it quickly. Being judicious, however, requires patience together with understanding. A judicious choice is one you've made after understanding all the options, all the sides of a question. That way your choice is based on knowledge, not on greed, aversion, or delusion.
@CYXXYC
2 жыл бұрын
learning continues in the comment section, good stuff
@vizari9570
2 жыл бұрын
Damn, I guess I really do need to be more fair to zoophiles and MAPs and be more judicial.
@shadoll7856
2 жыл бұрын
@@vizari9570 I don't agree with that level of lassez fair approach imo. MAP is pedophilia imo.
@vizari9570
2 жыл бұрын
@@shadoll7856 Then specify that bruh. I'm going to be honest I thought your comment was dumb because I myself am admittedly pretty judgemental. I just don't care to try and be judicial to some random ass stranger online defending gore porn. Edit: Also I don't think you're comment is dumb anymore
@johnreedy9098
2 жыл бұрын
@@vizari9570 You can try to understand something that is evil while still recognising that it's evil.
@michelangeloxiv2172
2 жыл бұрын
a quote i read on youtube, "A cringe man will always think he is based, but a based man will always know that he is cringe."
@SorenReaper7339
2 жыл бұрын
I think that was by a guy called tun sze
@hung-upear2659
2 жыл бұрын
or Tora the Sroll
@f4rt989
2 жыл бұрын
Based
@sonicbackrooms897
2 жыл бұрын
Based
@tommihalonen6471
2 жыл бұрын
I'm pretty sure that's an Albert Einstein quote
@Kain59242
2 жыл бұрын
Do the "fear mantra" from Dune but replace the word fear for cringe. "I must not cringe. Cringe is the mind-killer. Cringe is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my cringe. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past, I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the cringe has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain."
@willigmgallego1502
2 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna use it
@iantaakalla8180
2 жыл бұрын
When Paul Atreides has overcome cringe so much he does not give second thought of co-opting religion to inadvertently become a messiah (of which using a religion for nefarious purposes can be cringe because it’s a cliché trick)
@cerridianempire1653
2 жыл бұрын
This is unironically amazing
@lucienderthel338
Ай бұрын
@@cerridianempire1653 honestly now that i'm considering it, you could replace fear with any feeling that you find overwhelming and it would probably work.
@Sho_Intho
2 жыл бұрын
Its kinda funny. By seeing the world as cringe and strictly avoiding it, You, yourself, become cringe to the world.
@hehexd7459
2 жыл бұрын
You kinda missed the point
@b1nary_f1nary
2 жыл бұрын
@@hehexd7459 its a 30 minute video, its a lot more complex than 'a point'
@cloberlobster2276
2 жыл бұрын
@@hehexd7459 like Carl said, their isn't just one "point" it can obviously be dissected and made into multiple small sub-points, like the one op has made.
@hehexd7459
2 жыл бұрын
@@b1nary_f1nary I didn't say it isn't but what he said is contradictory to a lot of things said in the video
@MrShadowThief
2 жыл бұрын
More like the other way around but okay kiddo
@MmentoMori
2 жыл бұрын
"Those who were seen dancing were called 'cringe' by those who couldn't hear the music." - Friedrich Nietzsche
@howdadogdoin729
2 жыл бұрын
fax 💯
@jonaskoelker
Жыл бұрын
Whatever doesn't kill you makes you cringe -Freddie 5Head.
@Sussyphis
Жыл бұрын
Hits hard
@JediBunny
2 жыл бұрын
This is such an important and healthy conversation; A lot of us don’t realise how much of the judgment we project outwardly is a reflection of how we feel inwardly. The most judgmental folks I know all came from upbringings where they were harshly judged themselves and it becomes a way to protect the Ego. The cycle is infinite lest we cultivate self-awareness around it and make those healthy behavioural changes!
@someasiankid6323
2 жыл бұрын
true
@latteARCH
2 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@embrace7052
2 жыл бұрын
THIS
@cobalt1754
2 жыл бұрын
Me, with Asian parents: oh *NOOOOOOO-*
@good4gaby
2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Well said! I actually pay close attention to things that bother me. If I dig deep enough I almost always find myself in there…
@isaaccardin
2 жыл бұрын
It seems that everything you think you feel about what you see in the world is actually what you feel about yourself in relation to it.
@bobbywhite5319
2 жыл бұрын
Yep, consciousness despite being very advanced, has its limitations
@shirin8609
2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. A very wise observation.
@AnchorTea
2 жыл бұрын
You have literally described anti-vaxxers
@differentbutsimilar7893
2 жыл бұрын
I don't know about everything. Not every judgement a person makes is a simple projection. This statement just doesn't strike me as being entirely logical. Or... the logic is there, but it is insufficient for encapsulating the full motions of a human making a judgement. It's too reductive to be useful, as it winds up dismissing all judgements as projections or figments of people's insecurities in order to make simpler point about the subjective nature of judgements. I think that while there's some truth to what you're saying, truth that shouldn't be ignored, you are still getting ahead of yourself a little bit. If I judge someone who murders indiscriminately to be a murderous monster and say to myself "What cruel world is this, to have such killers in it?" am I then on some level feeling like a murderer myself and simply hiding this fact from myself in the judgement I make towards this person, who mind you has killed several people where I have killed zero? Would you extend the logic you used to make your point to assert that I wouldn't judge the murdering so negatively if I was indeed secure in the fact that I am not one? Or perhaps I would not judge at all if this was the case? I'm gonna go in because it's an interesting subject, but correct me if I'm wrong and I'll forget what I'm about to write. Your wording just leaves little room for a different read in my eyes. You can't say what you said without also implying that all judgements on other people are reducible to judgements on oneself, which is true in a 'big picture' sense, but probably not entirely true in the way you are implying - not in an 'on the ground' sense. How do I put it? I think that if this is how you size-up every person making a judgement, you will likely fail to learn quite a lot about them. While there is always that 'root' of self-assessment inherent to every judgement, it's just a starting point and a lot can happen between that point and that of getting to the actual choice being made. It's not a question of if the judgement is rooted in subjectivity, but rather how it is rooted, and how that plays out as the resulting vine sprawls outwards. That last part will tell you where the judgment really comes from. Bias is not the only factor, you know? The same bias in two different people can still lead to very different judgements of the same thing. And consequently, a judgement can ring similarly meaningfully across a disparate range of people with very different views of themselves and the world. I think you can make some genuine judgements without pot-and-kettle situations happening. This appears to be readily observable in any type of person you want to cast. You can make the argument that everything we know through experience is subjective, and that the 'vision' itself is a projection on the backdrop of the mind. I can't fault that. Essentially, the reality that you perceive is generated inside of your head, so your impression of it will be based on you. However, to take that to the absolute level where everything within that projection is born of your impression of how you relate to it, muddies the whole deal. If what you say is true, then we can make no meaningful judgements as conscious beings, as we would merely be judging ourselves. It would not be possible for one to form judgements that others could understand and accept. Obviously, it doesn't shake down this way in reality, as not everyone who makes an accusation can be seen to embody any of the traits of their targets. Sometimes a very outwardly cynical person makes an optimistic judgement. Sometimes a very optimistic person can make a cold judgement. This happens in spite of people's impressions of the world. People will frequently challenge their own built-up impressions of the world in light of evidence that steers their judgement elsewhere. But by the same logic used before, even that observation of 'outside evidence' exists WITHIN that subjective impression, which is inherently tinged by the observer housing it. Your idea of what that evidence is and means is a product of your past observations and culminating worldview, all of which is subjective - yes. It is literally a part of "how you feel about yourself in relation to it." And yet, these judgements can still be there, contrary to how the person making them would usually feel about things. We can hold observations about ourselves, the world, and other people that greatly contradict our usual framework. Now, how a person handles this is where your statement comes into play, I think. A person can hide away in their usual framework, turn inwards to find a spot where it fits. That judgement will then be a reflection of their own feelings. I think apathy plays in... the more apathetic a person is, the more likely their judgements are to be kite-shields for their own fears about themselves and their places in the world as they see it. But the second option presumes that person can assess their framework and adapt it... essentially say "Oh, I apparently DON'T know everything about myself and other people." Their capacity for judgement changes as a byproduct, and so too do they change a little as a person. They learn to form a different judgement. Their view of both the world AND themself changes as a product of forming that judgement, which is really just an observation with an overtly subjective spin as opposed to the default implied one. YOU are making that judgment. That is a choice that says something about you. But not only one thing, as you seem to suggest. What you're saying doesn't fully track for me. Your impression of the world is as much tinged by things that are 'you' as it is things that are not. There's no way around being discerning and sorting through it. Nor can you presume that everyone around you who passes judgements simply has a case of "Thou doth protest too much." Think about how silly and impractical that would be! Before every decision, there comes a value judgement. The subjectivity is unavoidable but I think we'd be looking at a very different world if every judgement people formed to back their decisions was simply a gut impression, born solely of how they felt about themselves. Again, you have the option to challenge that feeling. You can argue it's still the same, but the dynamic is definitely different. Other times, it's simply not relevant, such as with the sorts of judgements a person might make while comparing fruit. Again, not every judgement winds up tucking a statement about how someone feels about their place in the world. They may just want better bananas. I think the worst thing you can do is presume to know where all of your own judgements come from. They can be rooted in such a wide range of things that boiling it all down to this idea that we only judge the pieces of ourselves we see in things distances us all greatly from the nuance in the judgements and criticisms that people make. Sometimes there is more to someone's judgements than simply "This reminds me of something I don't like about myself, so I don't like it and will pretend to have any other reason for doing so." I'll put it this way. While there's a lot of truth in the statement "There is a little bit of you in everyone you judge." it does not mean that the 'you' in everyone you judge is always going to be directly related to the part you are judging. For instance, maybe the murderer in my first example loves all of the same music as me. That's not likely to affect my judgement of 'murderer' all that much because while I relate more to the music part, I have learned of the suffering that murder causes other people. So while what you said has truth, its relevance varies AFAICS. Listen... I think you are onto something good. I just hope you won't stop there!
@f4rt989
2 жыл бұрын
“Being cringey is having the courage to put yourself and your interests out there, no matter what others think” -idubbz
@gnatdagnat
2 жыл бұрын
if you can, what video of his is this from? thanks sir
@danielnizberg1754
2 жыл бұрын
@@gnatdagnat Full Force
@gnatdagnat
2 жыл бұрын
@@danielnizberg1754 ahh the pivotal documentary. thank you
@wahlawigi9572
2 жыл бұрын
finally, a video for me.
@InHellITrust
6 ай бұрын
Cringe.
@ZombiBunni_
2 жыл бұрын
This was honestly kinda similar to how I learned to be okay with myself as a child. I'm Autistic so I suuuuper did not understand social cues and being "normal", but by middle school I was just like.. y'know what, screw it? I'm gonna come to school wearing my favorite clothes, I'm gonna stim, I'm gonna talk about my favorite things excitedly and earnestly, and if someone wants to avoid me for it then go ahead. But interestingly, I got bullied a lot less, at least to my face. I sat at the "misfit table" at lunch, sure, but in my book we were all the most interesting kids, and if one of them got bullied I was able to use my new confidence to walk up and tell the bully off for it (which in retrospect wasn't the best thing, but my friends verbally thanked me for the support so I also sort of think it was worth going to detention if it made my friends feel better). I dunno, I still do plenty of "cringy" things in the typical online sense of the word, but I've found lots and lots of people who enjoy being "cringy" *with* me, and I wouldn't be as happy as I am right now if I was trying to seem "normal" to everyone all the time. Work is obviously different, but with my friends, I'm glad we have a place with each other to truly be ourselves.
@riki4644
2 жыл бұрын
Aye yo I am also autistic but I during the start of middle school to until relatively recently just literally just tried my best to stop communicating to try to prevent feeling bad and causing a scene I was insecure. I feel like it kind of worked but at what cost. Lucky had the internet to cope. Fortunately I was never really bullied just teased and trolled in hindsight small town perks I guess.
@tommyaguirre3479
2 жыл бұрын
That's so sweet, wish you the best, friend!
@ZombiBunni_
2 жыл бұрын
@@riki4644 Even just that teasing and trolling can be so rough though, especially when it happens a lot :( I know how it feels for sure. It's easy for anyone to say "just be yourself", but I know it's not that simple. Especially if you get harassed for just "being yourself". I just wanna say, even if it's hard to imagine or fully believe right now, you're 100% gonna find people who like you for who you are and who share similar interests. It might take time to find them or to even let your honest self show, but it's not unrealistic at all. I think the pieces of advice that helped me the most, personally, were "how can people who would like you even find you in the first place if they can't see who you are?" and "being your genuine self can inspire others to feel safe doing the same." I'm not saying you have to rush that of course, or even that this is 100% the type of advice or path that you should follow. I just want to offer some hope, because I know how hopeless and painful it felt when I had no "real friends" and was stifling my "true self".
@KD-ou2np
2 жыл бұрын
Damn I'm 20 and I have adhd and I still haven't been able to let go wondering what ppl think of my weird speaking patterns and fidgeting
@ZombiBunni_
2 жыл бұрын
@@KD-ou2np To be fair I totally still think about that stuff -- and I'm almost 25 now!! It still takes work to actively counter it, and it does upset me if I linger too long on that kind of thing. I have the double trouble diagnosis lol, Autistic and ADHD, so I have a lot of what might seem like "weird habits and quirks" to others that are actually just.. how my brain works. Being aware that people find me strange definitely helps me to build coping mechanisms (like acknowledging to myself that I don't wanna care about biased jerk's opinions anyway), and learning to be angry for what my childhood self had to endure helped a ton too. I get so mad when I think about how badly I got bullied just for existing as a "weird kid", and so I embrace being a weird adult as a way to both embrace my past self and "win" against the bullies. I guess that's a bit on spite, lol, but that's essentially how it works for me. I hope that insight into my life might help you find some insight on how to accept and embrace yourself some more too.
@e36blur
2 жыл бұрын
I can actually relate to this a lot. I went through this, looking at people wondering why they are so happy, why they make bad jokes, how are they so excited to do mundane things, how come they get drunk and have a great time... because I simply CANNOT RELATE to that feeling. this man is depressed. When the happiness disappears from your life, you cant even fathom its existence. So hard to explain.
@TheDhammaHub
2 жыл бұрын
More often than not it is just the "way" we go about things and the confidence we display while doing it - it is usually no the action in itself (which is good news)
@coolpfpbut9505
2 жыл бұрын
Its cringe because we make it seem that way? Thats a good perspective to have
@kantjokes895
2 жыл бұрын
@@coolpfpbut9505 Ive often times found that I find things I do 'cringe' if I'm already internally judging myself when I do the thing, so I do it in an unconfident and 'cringy' way
@elperronimo
2 жыл бұрын
Something can definitely be hella cringe especially if you are confident when you say it. That being said, people are quick to forgive cringe as long as the conversation keeps flowing
@oliverbeck6839
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah its whatever you see yourself as, you will portray to the outside. If you see yourself as a confident person then other will see that too, if you see yourself as really cringy every action will portay this and other will see you as cringy aswell
@synlion
2 жыл бұрын
@@coolpfpbut9505 Same goes for „awkward silences“ in conversations. Silence is only awkward if you allow it to make you feel that way or if you make other people feel that way.
@roejogan2585
2 жыл бұрын
I was literally thinking about this today. I don’t find anyone else that cringey, I mostly cringe at the thought of me saying common stuff IRL because i feel that people will think I’m trying to fit in too hard & it’ll be too forced. But nothing else I say makes me cringe lol
@mr.sophistication2461
2 жыл бұрын
Everyone tries to fit in way too hard.
@lololol924
2 жыл бұрын
Easier said than done, but confidence is key. My best friend is honestly the biggest dork I know, but he's super successful with making friends and women because he just owns it.
@roejogan2585
2 жыл бұрын
@@EggEnjoyer thanks for that man, I definitely have felt it fade away over the past couple of years my New Years resolution was to eradicate it entirely. When you look at twitch streamers, Will Neff is easily the most gifted & talented when it comes to interacting with others & since I’ve started watching him I’ve felt myself progress
@HOVNA
2 жыл бұрын
Unless you are changing yourself to fit in you are OK. We all make friends and we have to find common ground to do that
@petkofuchalski9809
2 жыл бұрын
@@EggEnjoyer Your comment is kinda cringe, not gonna lie.
@shmel3689
2 жыл бұрын
Redefining cringe is a great move to make people to not be embarrassed for innocent things they do. Great thinking.
@ZacErickson1906
2 жыл бұрын
Psychologist here. Just wanted to say I REALLY appreciate your frank and straightforward way of explaining things. “Dude, you’re cringe.” So good.
@charvisaur4184
2 жыл бұрын
Phase 2 is something that I learned to do because I used to spend all of my time in public places. Not out of choice, I had abusive parents who wouldn't let me back in the house between the hours of 9 a.m. and 9 p.m. so I was effectively homeless during the afternoon and had to make do in public. A side effect of that is that I learned to just vibe in the presence of other people. I'd put on music, play league of legends on the community college wifi (I didn't actually go there but I was there so often people thought I did), vibe to the music, eat my food and just forget that the outside world exists. I don't live like that anymore but sometimes when my roomate invites over company I'll just sit in my room with the door open and vibe to my music. People will walk in asking what I'm doing, I'll tell them I'm jamming out to anime, then they usually go about what they were doing. Maybe this is why I never really understood the appeal of cringe compliations. People cringe at fandoms like bronies or Sonic OCs. I salute these types of people. They can just be themselves without hurting anyone. I'm a furry so I'm not in any position to judge anyone else as weird. I think one of my favorite memes is "How do I sleep at night knowing I'm a furry degenerate?" ... "Pretty well actually"
@kokorochacarero8003
2 жыл бұрын
Hey, I think people that frown upon weird and cringy stuff and are obsessed with being "normal" often times are super boring and uninteresting People that aren't ashamed to like what they like are always more interesting. I want to be like you.
@tiryaclearsong421
2 жыл бұрын
@@kokorochacarero8003 I tend to assume they're children. Though I constantly cringe at myself I don't care about others. And I cringe at myself because I can monologue about shit no one cares about. Which at least is cringe unlike just enjoying something.
@yourbroskijack
2 жыл бұрын
DAS AMAZING!!!!!!! I am glad for you
@acharba
2 жыл бұрын
"Only then, when everybody is cringe, will nobody be." -Junior Egg.
@randowboosh6772
2 жыл бұрын
holy shit the collab that needs to happen
@accountrarysi2776
2 жыл бұрын
Wow, I didn't expect someone to mention Jreg on this channel. This will make an interesting collab
@eric.byrdeart
2 жыл бұрын
Unexpected jreg lol. Id love to see a video of these two together
@iantaakalla8180
2 жыл бұрын
His meta-meta-analyses combined with Dr. K holistic understanding of everything (even liars) would make for a great thing.
@omars365moments
2 жыл бұрын
Jreg collab is a w
@frogturtle
2 жыл бұрын
When I touched a soccer ball again for the first time in 14 years, I felt super cringe. Then I cringed my way into pickup soccer, a soccer league, and after months of trying, we finally held up the first place season champions trophy. And holding that trophy with my friends after all that effort and embarrassment was the least fucking cringe thing ever.
@dradenlol8667
2 жыл бұрын
“Do not avoid what you find cringe, remove the part of you which cringes” -a meme I saw once
@1Numbers1
2 жыл бұрын
I seriously can't think of the last time where that internal thought process wasn't in the forefront of my mental. I do not know hot to absorb myself into an experience anymore, this is a problem ive been going through for years. But i guess i lost the perspective that you can not be in your head. Will have to relearn how to do that. Ty for the video DrK
@WofWca
2 жыл бұрын
Tried getting drunk?
@wizzzer1337
2 жыл бұрын
the feeling when you try very hard not to cringe, you end up having a cringe PTSD about something truly cringe you did in your past.
@qwefn4550
2 жыл бұрын
True
@organizedmicrowave4414
2 жыл бұрын
Everyone experiences this, none left unscathed
@fionnualac4632
2 жыл бұрын
It is a cringe attack, as so named by Dan Howell
@fakename3208
2 жыл бұрын
I call those cringe bullets. You’ll just be sitting there and all of a sudden BAM, doubled over with cringe
@shadoll7856
2 жыл бұрын
That is a good point. Also as a potentially cringing side point. They should make something like the cringe force in marvel as a parallel to things like the phoniex force and odin force. Kill with the power of cringe. Only the truly cringy can access this force.
@Leetium1
2 жыл бұрын
28:47 Ouch, that hurt. That's exactly what I've been doing for the past few years, and why I've just felt completely stuck. I just have such a hard time actually *getting up* and putting any of the things I'm learning into *practice*. Instead I'm always *in my head* and don't know how to leave. It feels like a fucking prison and I'm my own jailer.
@remondx8880
2 жыл бұрын
Are you a daydreamer? Do you tend to set ridiculous expectations for yourself?
@Leetium1
2 жыл бұрын
@@remondx8880 I wouldn't really say I'm a daydreamer. But I am very judgmental/critical and therefore tend to have pretty high expectations of myself/others, yes.
@ubax7774
2 жыл бұрын
@@remondx8880 I am a daydreamer and put high expectations on myself. What does that mean?
@remondx8880
2 жыл бұрын
@@ubax7774 Probably that you are, in certain ways, not satisfied with your current life and fantasize about bigger and better things a lot to cope. High expectations can poison your mind. It encourages all-or-nothing actions. "If I can't be a professional musician, I'm better off not playing the guitar at all!". That sucks. It's self-sabotage and probably also due to a bit of a lack of love and respect towards yourself. If you eventually manage to get that under control - easier said than done, I know - there will be much more room in your life for realistic goal setting. You will start to enjoy the windy road towards whatever bigger ambition you have. It feels really good to be able to enjoy the small victories along the way. Mind you, the above is almost entirely based on my own experiences. i *cannot* fill in the blanks of your situation. I needed professional help for this and also a social worker. Take any help you can get if you need it. Allow yourself to be helped, even if it feels embarrassing or makes you feel like a loser. Seriously. Accepting help is a skill that some people need to train in just like any other skill. I know I had to.
@notarealperson1481
2 жыл бұрын
Another thing you guys gotta know is that actually mature adults don't find the same things to be cringe that most teens and children find to be cringe. I was bullied and teased in Highschool for being my eccentric self, and I believed that was inherently cringey. Now at age 21, in the working world surrounded by people 30 years old+, most people consider me very charismatic and overall genuinely fun to be around. Immature people are too concerned with appearances and about their judgments about themselves and others. My coworkers and everyone I meet in the "real world" really dgaf. "Don't be lazy, don't be mean and we're good to go" is the consensus in the post-school world.
@miapapayagirl
2 жыл бұрын
This is possibly my favorite meditation yet! I had a very critical/judgemental parent growing up, and so I internalized a lot of that judgement towards others and myself, but at the same time I was always a bit jealous when I would see other people just vibing and enjoying themselves freely and living life to the fullest even if other people might find it embarrassing. As I've gotten older I've been learning to just let myself just vibe and do the things I enjoy even if I feel like an idiot (or feel like I "should" feel like an idiot) while simultaneously giving myself permission to just not care, because I'm vibing and life's too short not to enjoy myself :)
@dudebro0481
2 жыл бұрын
Wow... I've been doing Cringy shit my entire life and didn't even realize it. It explains a lot actually. Great stuff as usual, Top Marks.
@berzerius
2 жыл бұрын
Good job! Do not forget and I wish you all the best.
@xXFlameFox64Xx
2 жыл бұрын
My ex was embarrassed often on my part because of how "cringe" I was. I care more for how I, and those important to me, view me than how randos might perceive me. I openly embraced the quirky and weird awkwardness of how I am as part of my unique charm and also my social challenge, to which each have their own. However, being reminded constantly by my ex and close friends that my obliviousness is cringe has sort of burned me. I can't help be overly conscious of how "cringe" I appear around those important to me. When it comes to matters I consider very important, that consciousness takes a back seat to the call for action. I don't know how to feel about intimately opening myself up to someone in another relationship. Perhaps I will be too conscious of how cringe I will be to let myself relax. I can, in reflection, realize many times when I am cringe, but I find it extremely difficult to realize it during the moment. Aspergers makes it difficult to read people and their boundaries. I tend to get on really well with everyone around me, but I am terrible at ending conversations and I'm too polite to cut people off, so it just dies out awkwardly. I am very conservative with how I interact, so I seem quiet until either I or someone else breaks the ice, then I am overly talkative and wordy (if this paragraph hasn't shown that already), but I still I give my full attention to the other people. I think I judge myself too much, but other times I judge myself too little; I want to find some sort of balance and center myself. So far, I've been working on my confidence in public and trying to let myself be expressed without shame or overthinking everything. I've managed to do things like sing my heart out in public (not in a crowded area and pretending I am alone), but I haven't done it while acknowledging the people that pass by.
@tommihalonen6471
2 жыл бұрын
I kinda leveled up as a person when I realised the actions I take when the cringe happens, matters. Examples: Somebody's attempting a funny dumb story that doesn't seem to land. I can prepare myself to fill in the awkward silence about to come with something even more dumb Or in the bad dancer scenario I can go and dance even worse than the dude Heard a bunch of bad karaoke from friends in my life and the best course of action seems to be wild cheering These aint easy for me and I'm often not brave enough to pull off this crap but I find these moments enormously good for my self esteem afterwards.
@bishsama3252
2 жыл бұрын
when he put on the music and just started vibin, i couldn't stop laughing. it wasn't cringe to me it was just wholesomely hilarious XD
@alexeonbel4304
2 жыл бұрын
For the past 4 years I've been living in a world of my own design. A world where everything I do is cringey, unlikeable, and unlovable. I hated myself so much for being such a terrible human being. I couldn't get past the feelings of self loathing. A lot of that had to do with a really terrible relationship I had with my ex. The things she had told me cut really deep. On top of that (and it's hard to say because I love them to death) my relationship between me and my parents is also toxic which only has emphasized the negativity in my mental state. But over december I met this girl, and she is the most amazing person I ever met. It was so weird to me that someone could so easily get along with me and want to spend time with me so much. We would just do nothing more than sit in my car and listen to music all night. I finally realized that I was in love with her on Christmas eve. I confessed to her on New Years and she said she felt the same. I felt amazing. Then we went on a date. And that didn't feel so amazing. I couldn't figure it out. What was wrong? And then I realized. Everything I was doing was for self-preservation. Even my confession was the most childish half-baked confession ever given. It was because I was so afraid of being cringey, and I let my anxiety overtake my thought process. I think that's when everything clicked. I wanted so hard to be accepted but was not willing to be true to myself. I wanted her to love this idealized version of me that just wasn't there. I realized that if I wanted to be truly accepted then I had to be true to myself and who I am. I shouldn't have to hide that. And so I worked up the courage yesterday to give her a real confession. A sincere one. And she didn't feel the same way ultimately and I was rejected. But it was weird, I felt so overwhelmed with joy in the aftermath. It actually drove me to tears. For years I had told myself that I was undeserving of love and to love. And I think to finally allow myself to was so relieving. I doubt she'll ever want to talk to me again. The confession was so out the blue and forward that even I would have ran away from myself. But it was something that was more for me than for her. But I'm still so grateful to her. Whether she realizes it or not she helped me learn to love again, and to be a little kinder to myself. Besides, despite how I feel for her I know it just wasn't meant to be and that's ok! I have no doubt that I still have a ways to go. I'm still a work in progress. But I suppose everyone is to a degree. All that to say, I'm really grateful to your videos Dr. K. Without my friends support, and your videos these past 2 yrs., and even to that girl I don't believe I'd ever be able to overcome any of this. I've finally taken that step forward. And I'm forever grateful for it. Thank you so much. And if for whatever reason that girl sees this (she watches these videos too lol). I want you to know that the past month we spent with each other was the best month ever. I haven't been that happy in a while. I wish you the best in whatever it is that you do. You're truly a wonderful person. :)
@Brodysseus113
2 жыл бұрын
It’s because they *feel* like doing that and you can’t empathize. You can’t *feel* how it’s not cringe
@weirdnerdygoat
Жыл бұрын
Becoming a furry freed me from cringe. Before that, I always felt really self conscious about stuff, and even stopped listening to some music because I thought it was cringe. Then I became a furry. And with so many people calling my new hobby cringe, and hearing some furrys talking about cringe since they get labelled it so often, made me realise it doesn't really matter. Cringe is literally just second hand embarassment. Why should I care if someone else would be embarassed in my place? Like I know that by human standards, I'm VERY cringe. I'm a furry, I listen to villain mode type songs, act very cringey. Basically, you have a limited amount of time in life, so why be bothered by what other people label as cringe? Be free, embrace the cringe
@thegildedspoon9234
2 жыл бұрын
The "elbow touch", as I vaguely remember from a video I watched long ago, is done when shaking hands as just an extra gesture that makes the shake firmer or engaging or something, or even just make it more respectful/polite (depends on the actual execution I guess) I just remember that it's how some political/influential/professional people shake hands with other important figures. From what I remember, it's usually done like a quick hold of the elbow or even just a light placement of the hand over it, but I guess if done firmer and/or longer than needed it does seem weird lol
@TheLadyBlerd
2 жыл бұрын
Some do this on purpose, tho... poor sense of physical boundaries and navigating socially without touching other people 😞
@CaptainElizaye
2 жыл бұрын
This made me realize I've been doing cringe meditation practices all my life.
@Brunwald_1410
2 жыл бұрын
One time I was walking to work, earphones on, vibin' to music and playing some air piano(even though i can't really play piano) along the way and at one point I passed a girl who was playing air drums. We noticed each other, smiled and moved on. That was the best interaction with a random person on the street ever, I still remember the exact spot it happend. So yeah when you learn how to overcome that feeling of cringe even by just vibin' to music out in public is a great thing
@JediBunny
2 жыл бұрын
“My ally is the Cringe, and a powerful ally it is... You must feel the Cringe flow around you. Here, between you, me, the tree, the rock, yes, even between the land and the ship.” - Yoda
@yoda5523
2 жыл бұрын
Learned well you have
@JediBunny
2 жыл бұрын
@@yoda5523 learned from the best, I have, Master Yoda!
@anyderrosek9272
2 жыл бұрын
Did Dr.K convince me to bully Maguire my way to the city?
@TheNeatwork
2 жыл бұрын
This is the most based
@patticakie5861
2 жыл бұрын
Ok that practice was actually spectacular lol. Really worked!
@AlexanderMartinez-kd7cz
2 жыл бұрын
The trick is to be so cringe and so confident that you become based. 1 dab is cringe, 3 dabs in qukck succession are based.
@Beefis99
2 жыл бұрын
Cringe is also a feeling you get, when a social norm/rule has been broken... It's like embarassment to the nth power. For e.g. a weeb acting like a Japanese samurai anime character in the elevator, hitting on a woman... It's weird on so many levels it will induce cringe on behalf of others.
@alexandersoice9573
2 жыл бұрын
Dr.k just now made me conjure up the most cringe moment in my life. All I felt was pure unadulterated cringe but know I feel great about it. Literally took one of the weirdest things I have ever done and made me feel good about it. This is awesome.
@The_Caledonian
2 жыл бұрын
Cringe is a word that has been used and abused during the later days of the internet especially in meme/gaming culture and amongst trolls. Often I find those who over-use it are losers anyway.
@tvao9010
2 жыл бұрын
When you’re a kid for example (or even older) you don’t know you or something you do is considered cringe, look dumb or whatever; You get older and notice it, and start limiting yourself and judging others because of that; You notice you are caring too much about it and stop judging others and limiting yourself. A lot of teenagers for example will be at stage 2, judging others for the way they are, thinking the cringe people are at stage 1 and something like “I’m at a superior level for noticing that’s cringe to do, or for noticing that’s not funny, etc” Not only this makes you too judgmental, it can also limit your happiness (dancing example: imagine everybody dancing at a party, the majority doesn’t know how to dance but they are doing it anyways and having fun. Is it better for you to stay in the corner judging everybody while you are the only person not being happy at the moment? Sure, you can not dance for other reasons but for thinking being happy like that is cringe to you?) When someone being happy is cringe to you, you should really analyze it, because that only means you are not able of being happy doing the same thing. About the stage 3, an adult may do something ”cringe” similar to a kid, while a teenager would be thinking they both don’t know they are being cringe, that may be true for the kid while the adult actually knows he looks dumb doing something (like playing with kids) but he’s been through that phase that the teenager is at were he would care about it.
@maggiepie8810
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I really needed this video today. I think you just validated the crap out of my day.
@SpinThatAgain
7 ай бұрын
Bro... I love that explanation of cringe it literally helped me realize why I feel cringe in situations and I might've uncovered my root problems all through knowing the definition of the feeling that's essentially ruining my life. Best video yet, for me at least.
@vizari9570
2 жыл бұрын
"Kill the part of you that cringes, keep the part of you that is cringe."
@trulygoatedd
2 жыл бұрын
Broo there's people in my school that just walk around with speakers on their back bumping their own music and it just makes me CRIIIINNGEE
@renanbo6562
2 жыл бұрын
When he said: “Is there a meditation for cringe” I lol’d so hard, but it actually really helped lol
@BabyMachine
2 жыл бұрын
16:28 This is a phenomenal example. I know for a fact i would be the kid at a wedding saying something like "holy shit, he looks like an idiot!". But at my age now, i would definitely applaud someone for having the balls to dance like an idiot in front of a group of people.
@FaizalKuntz
2 жыл бұрын
I just remembered something cringe, and KZitem notified me this.
@rinshotin2521
2 жыл бұрын
hi I like your pfp and banner it's really cute!
@cloberlobster2276
2 жыл бұрын
@@rinshotin2521 really, I feel the opposite. I think it's too, sexual.
@TheDavveponken
2 жыл бұрын
Cringe is such a weird word nowadays. It's defined as cowering to something dominant while at the same time it's also defined as a reaction of distaste/reproach toward "awkward" behaviour.
@MultiTripleRainbow
2 жыл бұрын
That thumbnail triggered my fight or flight response
@TheLadyBlerd
2 жыл бұрын
I literally just got off a teledoc appt with my therapist and made her Google Dr. K because of the brilliant meditative challenge of releasing cringe by embracing cringe from a place of genuine joy and contentment without forcing the interaction🙏🏿👀🙏🏿👀🙏🏿 I think my therapist was low key jealous while also impressed... these livestreams get deep while functionally helpful.
@vandibox
2 жыл бұрын
I needed this. I was cringing multiple times a day due to my new years antics
@blueso5351
2 жыл бұрын
Don’t remove the part of you that is cringe, remove the part that cringes
@hollowedboi5937
2 жыл бұрын
So cringe is forcing a situation on a person without an easy or graceful out, and is often used when not fully immersing in something when seen from afar. In order to get over it, just freaking enjoy crap more
@Arcadayo
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr. K for embracing the cringe! I did a similar activity to the music meditation except I walked around at a semi-formal public space in a COSTUME where nobody else was wearing a costume, it was incredibly cringe but I absolutely loved it. I felt free!
@_WeDontKnow_
2 жыл бұрын
An unfortunate side effect of Dr K getting more popular is this chat is becoming more and more insensitive to people's personal issues.
@MarieAvora
2 жыл бұрын
yeahhh his chat gets SOO bad at times
@Marqan
2 жыл бұрын
omg, that "meditation" had me wheezing for a solid 5 minutes :D Dr K just CatJamming to the music and shouting "FEEL THE CRINGE" 😂 great stuff!
@RenneVangr
2 жыл бұрын
14:20 Like when my girlfriend at the time said that me and my best friend of 20+ years were making her feel awkward and cringe, because we goof around and wrestle in the shops and streets while she is shopping for clothes. Bruh, she's just jealous of what we have.
@bb_Boofus
2 жыл бұрын
This feels like a Fight Club homework assignment, "you're gonna pick a fight with a stranger and lose" but instead it's "You're gonna be openly cringe in public and LOOK THEM IN THE EYE WHILE YOU DO IT."
@wincelet
2 жыл бұрын
Damn what could be more cringe than starting a fight and losing
@gamingdragon2361
2 жыл бұрын
I do that meditation on the daily as just being who I am. I've already mastered cringe meditation LMAO. Seeing everyone in chat crying about it then there's me like "that's just a normal Tuesday lmao"
@matheuswohl
2 жыл бұрын
like "you trying to tell me that vibin' with headphones at work isn't normal?" lol been doing that for too long to stop now
@GageHagen
2 жыл бұрын
Learning to love yourself and enjoy what makes you happy, even if you know people are judging you for it, is actually super empowering. Love what makes you unique.
@omanerasdu
2 жыл бұрын
i've actually found the same way to fight my cringe. Vibing in public totally works guys, just try it
@RacoonGreg
2 жыл бұрын
I love how someone in the comments pointed out the Spiderman 3 moment when Doctor K was explaining phase 3 of meditation, because that's exactly what came to my mind as well
@northpenguins
2 жыл бұрын
I usually cringe when I see either a part of myself I try to hide in other people or I imagine myself in their place and I get second hand embarrassment.
@plixplop
2 жыл бұрын
This is pretty amazing to hear - one big epiphany I had years ago as a VERY awkward young man was to "embrace" and revel in the cringe, somehow I got myself to almost enjoy the weirdness of awkward situations.
@aqwthetroop
2 жыл бұрын
One of the posts on the subreddit puts it best when it says "do not remove the part of yourself that is cringe, remove the part of yourself that cringes".
@dad2827
2 жыл бұрын
Dr. K. Can you make a video about forming good habits? Like I am struggling with this.
@johnnymonarco2073
2 жыл бұрын
Hey man, Andrew Huberman has a good video on this, you should check it out
@dad2827
2 жыл бұрын
@@johnnymonarco2073 Thanks man
@ChickenSandwich518
2 жыл бұрын
I used to be like this I thought anyone who had an passion or gave effort was cringe... I was just lazy I'm glad I'm not in that headspace anymore
@lalrintlau8404
2 жыл бұрын
Great video Dr K! I find the meme of Two people on a bus super relevant where one of them 'Fears cringe😞' while the other 'Is cringe😀'
@VinnieGer
2 жыл бұрын
“YOU’RE CRINGE” - SpongeBob
@hiro_444
6 ай бұрын
Damn I don't think I've been able to relate to a healthygamer post this much
@tomaspeixinho4447
2 жыл бұрын
I would have to disagree on the definition of cringe. Yes, being imposing/forceful in an interaction is cringe, however, not all cringe has to be imposing/forceful. I see cringe simply as a state of being uncomfortable. For example, I have approached women in bars/clubs and the interaction was super cringy. It wasn't forceful, either of us could have left (and in case someone says I might lack social awareness, there were times when I was the one who left because the cringe was too much for me to bear and the girl was the one who actually came after me), but it was still uncomfortable, awkward and, ultimately, cringe. As for this guy's problem, I would say: learn to embrace the cringe! Accept that certain things in life are cringe and try to have fun with them. Try viewing them in a positive light, instead of a negative. I have two examples of this. Number 1, I find all these terms that people use in twitch chat to be extremely cringy. And yet, I also find them funny. Like, it's pretty cool how this community has its own slang. It's interesting! Example number 2 is something I noticed when I started sexting with girls. The things I say are the most ridiculous things ever. They feel ridiculous as I'm writing them. And yet, women find them arousing. I had to accept that even though they seem preposterous, people enjoy reading these things. And now I find it funny. Yes, it's cringe, but it's funny cringe. It's how the world works. We have to try and relax. View things more light-heartedly.
@nbtwall7287
2 жыл бұрын
"It's cringe or _be_ cringe, Jack." -Monsoon
@allesarfint
2 жыл бұрын
"Those who fight against the cringe are destined to become cringe" - George Washington
@jessicapinto3817
6 ай бұрын
At the exact time Dr. K. said to take a deep breath in the meditation, my song said "let's go" 😂, cringe was over then and there, this timing was too cool
@gemmapeter7173
2 жыл бұрын
3 mins in and I've reached semantic satiation for the word "cringe"
@ihavevisionfearme
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly i didn't cringe at when Dr K was vibing to his music, i can see how people would, but so many people do it already, only difference being is he's doing it in public - well, to a viewerbase, which is open to judgement.
@DanielHernandez-xe8kx
2 жыл бұрын
Me too lol , it was alright
@sebs4156
Жыл бұрын
For the meditation part of dancing in public, I recommend doing it on the car and dance for the person on the other car, like look at them while dancing. I think it’s easier since then u can just drive away and there is no other possible interaction lol
@BenAstarb
2 жыл бұрын
I don't know what the odds are, but you were vibing in PERFECT time and tempo to the song I was listening to! This video was a huge help for me, personally. Thanks so much, my new friend!!!
@EviloveMetal
2 жыл бұрын
Lots of good points made, and I would like to add one: Sometimes, the people around you are quite fake and performative in their interactions. This can elicit a legit and justifiable cringe response. So in some cases the issue might be the people around you. It's like the saying “Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes.”
@leharvard3223
2 жыл бұрын
Dancing and singing like noboby is watching is so liberating. I was a little bit drunk (but who isn't during new year) and we got into a cloth store with a very 90s themed and it had a disco ball for some reason, that combo'd with rhythm of the night playing, you can't blame someone for dancing. People thought we were annoying but we didn't a fuck and at some point we got the sales lady to briefly dance with us in the middle of the store.
@anotherrandominternetguy404
2 жыл бұрын
Finally, my life will change forever
@mabblepabble
2 жыл бұрын
i absolutely needed this. holy shit. thank you so much.
@CYXXYC
2 жыл бұрын
i did not feel any cringe during the "meditation" section lol
@gummiken3338
2 жыл бұрын
lookin for a video to listen to while i edit two videos where i have to hear myself, wasnt what i was literally looking for but really glad i came across this cuz i never woulda found otherwise and it's real interesting. ty
@crispaynoodIes
4 ай бұрын
I'm working on singing and dancing down the aisles along to the muzak in the grocery store, and not stopping or quieting down when someone sees me 😅 Damn, Dr. K nails this stuff every time
@panlis6243
Жыл бұрын
"I'm cringe and that's based And I will never be based and that's not cringe But there's no one I'd rather be Than me"
@ShazyShaze
2 жыл бұрын
I never really liked the whole "cringe" thing. In my experience, it seems like kind of a veil to make fun of people with social issues or neurodivergencies, or just someone having a bad day.
@ThirdDimensionalBeing
2 жыл бұрын
One of the greatest things to do is to not give a shit (within reason) I don't have a strong cringe response because I hate fitting in. I like to break social boundaries, of course not physically. I just really don't want to be predictable and normal, but I'm do it if I have to, but typically I can't stay around people like that.
@bennyblubman9476
2 жыл бұрын
NGL thinking something is cringey is kinda cringe
@inafridge8573
2 жыл бұрын
The advice about paying attention to how the interaction actually goes instead of worrying about how it Could go is really good. However, I don't know if his definition of cringe encapsulates everything that is cringe or is perfectly described by cringe. It definitely was an interesting way of thinking about it.
@enrymion9681
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, the definition seemed lacking to me too, I'd maybe describe cringe as behaviour I'd find uncomfortable or embarrassing(with a dash of moral objectionability) to do myself.
@inafridge8573
2 жыл бұрын
@@enrymion9681 Thing is I think a lot of things we find cringe aren't morally objectionable. Things like singing or dancing (when youre not skilled at it) are cringe but they're also perfectly fine and good I'd say one of the things that makes those cringe is the emotional vulnerability which K touched on when he was talking about the dichotomy between cringe and cold
@dalekmasterblaster585
2 жыл бұрын
@@inafridge8573 Perfect desrciption. I don't dance simply because I find it cringey, because I suck at it. Why do I suck at it, cause I don't practice.
@WadeShoe
2 жыл бұрын
The cool thing about the meditation he made is that those things actually aren't cringe, like I would never mind someone just vibing to their music, or even waving hi while doing so, if anything it would make me smile to see someone so comfortable and happy (at least that's what it would look like to me).
@Asakedia
2 жыл бұрын
One of the best videos i've seen lately, especially the last part!
@dog-ez2nu
2 жыл бұрын
For most people, cringing is something you grow out of - saying that. Some people never grow up.
@sheepisfortheweak6164
2 жыл бұрын
Been surrounded by both family and friends who ridiculed everything I fucking did for years. The way I just sit still doing my business is weird, the way I breathe is stupid, my voice sounds dumb, my smile is stupid and so on. Looking back I despise everyone who was a source of my insecurity today. If I had known back then that it was okay to not allow yourself to be belittled I would have kicked the shit out of all of those 'friends' and antagonized the living shit out of my family until they stopped their nonsense. Don't ignore abuse folks. Lash out when people straight up disrespect your existence.
@dingus_maximus
2 жыл бұрын
The meditation reminded me of this middle-aged guy I used to see every morning on the way to school. He would walk down the street in full American flag garb. We’re talking shorts, tank top, bandanna, all with the flag pattern. He had a pretty strong gait too, a bit of a strut to it. He looked ridiculous, but he gave me something to look forward to every morning after having to getting up at 6:00 just to spend the rest of my day bored out of my mind. He may have been cringe, but he fully embraced it, and so did I.
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