You can find sources for all of my claims in my References document clickable through my main profile.
@franciscoacevedo3036
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for shedding light on this important topic
@louisacapell
Жыл бұрын
Half your links won't support what you say, but they don't have to because 99% of your viewers won't go look at them , they'll just believe you. This is just a propaganda channel. Lie again about gun violence being the leading cause of death in children. Go on lol Tell them that for children up to the teenage years that vehicle accidents far far surpass any gun deaths . It's only in teens between 13 and 21 that gun deaths surpass traffic accidents. And then, where do most of those gun deaths occur? In areas with heavy gun restrictions. Isn't that interesting. We have a crime problem. Because we have horrible schools and a corrupt government that orchestrates rioting to keep people in constant fear and anger , manipulating them through propaganda. Wow, just like you do!
@summersun6536
Жыл бұрын
I kindly would like to enhance that. In Germany it's forbidden to take a picture of a person *at all* without their consent, unless they are "a person of public interest". That includes all children, including your own ones. But as you correctly said parents can consent in the name of the child. Dignity is protected for all people by a seperate law. But parents are additionally obligated to parent their kids in a respectful way and neither harm them physically or mentally, what includes to not humiliate them.
@louisacapell
Жыл бұрын
@@summersun6536 so the state is the real parent, who just let the people care of the children for them. But if they do something the state hasn't authorized, they take them back.... Wow I remember another regime that happened under
@Angeee119
Жыл бұрын
I live in Washington state so yes 😊
@tfrankl4
Жыл бұрын
This would really help with abusive parents who think humiliating their child on social media is discipline.
@hiheidi9987
Жыл бұрын
Reminds me of that one dad who smashed his daughter’s laptop (or phone?) on camera for breaking his rules.
@Etianen7
Жыл бұрын
@@hiheidi9987 at least it will be ready to show to CPS.
@hiheidi9987
Жыл бұрын
Correction- he SHOT her laptop and filmed himself doing it.
@yelisserobles5371
Жыл бұрын
@@hiheidi9987 a borrowed laptop from school, poor girl
@Visitkarte
Жыл бұрын
@@yelisserobles5371 please tell me CPS took his kid away!
@rebekahbrown933
Жыл бұрын
The number of times I heard my sister as a teenager ask my mom not to post a picture on Facebook and then hear my mom argue with her and do it anyway was astounding. When I got pregnant, my mom acted like I was torturing her when I asked her not to post my personal news online for people I didn't know to read. And it's still hard to convince her that no one is going to be devastated that we don't want her posting pictures of my kids for strangers to see. I don't get on Facebook to check on this (probably should) but it would not surprise me to find out that she has in fact posted pictures of my children without my consent. And she just can't understand why it's a problem.
@Coco-hq6ns
Жыл бұрын
Hehe that’s my siblings and my mom to a T
@AD-jq7ow
Жыл бұрын
You should really tell her how you feel if she respects you she will respect your choice
@kristinehansen.
Жыл бұрын
That's so toxic.
@hiheidi9987
Жыл бұрын
I agree it is so toxic. She’s not seeing the larger picture about violating other peoples’ privacy. She doesn’t know who’s looking. And when she posts to Facebook she’s giving them ownership of her content. That’s so dumb just for what, attention? Clout?
@theheartofthestone
Жыл бұрын
My husband and I are trying for children and I really worry about this and as we don't have kids we have yet to have that conversation but I just know we're going to have problems with both my mom and grandma not posting our kids
@jordanmcgrory2171
Жыл бұрын
I'm glad someone is thinking about this. There are so many "family" KZitem channels and something needs to be done about kids essentially being forced to work to support their families.
@MyTimelord11
Жыл бұрын
So many of then are being abused behind the scenes or even on camera too. Probably because the parents just see them as a prop and not a person
@faerie5926
Жыл бұрын
Also, they need to consider that their online presence will follow them throughout their life if they do that. They might not want to have to deal with fans and all that stuff when they're older-
@MyTimelord11
Жыл бұрын
@Faerie I'd worry less about the fans and more about future employer and stuff. Once they grow older they probably won't be very recognizable by people who watched them as kids but future employers might look up their name and see that stuff. I'm thinking about that one kid (I can't remember the channel but it was/is a popular family blogging channel) who got sent to "wilderness therapy" (aka legalized child abuse camp) and he didn't even do anything that bad. But a future employer might see that he was considered a "troubled teen" and not hire him. The fact that he went to a camp intended for bad kids will follow him forever.
@gauravgameti3198
Жыл бұрын
@@faerie5926 many of those children who were popular on social media, loose their popularity as they grow older than that cause mental health issues in many people. many of those children even can't have their normal childhood..
@sadie1606
Жыл бұрын
Bro seriously! The parents need to stop being selfish and stop exploiting their children.
@Gloriomono
Жыл бұрын
I think it's important to mention, that people do this more out of conviction and personal preference and culturaly a high value on personal privacy. The laws are well supported by the public but rarely the main reason for people to hide their kids. Most parents I know hide their children online and usually do this without even knowing the specifics of the law.
@jennyh4025
Жыл бұрын
Exactly, all of my friends, who had children since 2005 already did this previous to the law to protect their children (but they are all working in IT, so they try to always remember that „the internet never forgets“).
@richlaue
Жыл бұрын
And I know several mother's that every day, since birth, have posted pictures of their babies
@blackforest_fairy
Жыл бұрын
@@richlaue which is quite rare In Germany.
@richlaue
Жыл бұрын
@@blackforest_fairy yes I'm aware of that, personally I, living in the States would not want to show the world what my child is doing
@jana731
Жыл бұрын
Yup especially since the Alicia Joe videos that really let the debate spark.
@phill234
Жыл бұрын
I honestly don't understand why so many parents even feel the need to post pictures of their children on social media for the whole world to see.
@Yasmin-cf4qm
Жыл бұрын
Agreed.
@zombiedeatheater
Жыл бұрын
I feel like it happens when some people make their kids their whole personality
@kristenradley4908
Жыл бұрын
If you have really low self esteem the only thing that makes you feel whole is praise from peers and how easier to get praise from peers than to post adorable pictures of offspring? Its not good for the child because they're being used, and it's not very good for the poster either because it perpetuates the cycle of being dependent on social media for self worth and being willing to sacrifice privacy and potentially their children's dignity to get it.
@VoidDragon82
Жыл бұрын
I worked with someone a few years ago that created accounts across multiple social media platforms for her (then) unborn child. I asked her why would she do this, and her answer was (verbatim) "so my daughter gets to the top of social media, and it'll be good for her future career in entertainment and being an influencer". I have no idea if the kids "career" kicked off, as the woman I worked with left before her maternity leave ended. Some people don't deserve the privilege of having children 🤦🏾♂️.
@phill234
Жыл бұрын
@@VoidDragon82 The concept of "child influencers" is probably one of the most disgusting results of social media. They are introduced into one of the most superficial and competitive industries at such a young age, I'm certain their development and (mental) health will suffer from it.
@tillie_brn
Жыл бұрын
Here in France it doesn't even only apply to the Internet. For example, it's customary for school children to get a class picture taken every year, and parents have to sign a waiver to say they consent to having their child in the photo, in order for the school to be able to distribute the photo to the families of the other children. If the parents of a child withhold consent, then the child's face is blurred, or they have to sit out of the picture.
@sisuguillam5109
Жыл бұрын
Same here in Germany!
@atherisGAY
Жыл бұрын
Germany too. You have to sign a waiver beforehand if daycare or school want to take pictures of the class.
@lelnel6242
Жыл бұрын
It's like that in most EU countries. This is one of the many things that annoyed me in show Emily in Paris, she just took photos of children in a park and used them commercially...
@chiarakyara
Жыл бұрын
Same in Italy!
@summersun6536
Жыл бұрын
It's the same in Germany and every other member of the EU since this is restricted by the European Data Protection Guidelines which are valid for the whole EU. Common European law always overrules national law. Additionally, common European laws always have to be transferred into national laws. The right related to your own picture is a national German right, I don't know about a common EU law. But it is rooted at first in the German Basic Constitutional Law (European Constitutions are usually very similar since the are similar values protected by them), and second in a special law restricting immaterial rights and artists' rights.
@finnmcool2
Жыл бұрын
We've got states trying to roll back child labor laws. I don't see anyone's dignity being legally protected any time soon.
@beastshawnee
Жыл бұрын
they’d love to bring back child labor completely-not that it ever truly stopped…
@decrulez
Жыл бұрын
Can’t get adults to work at the criminally underpaid jobs so do they raise the wage? No they hire younger instead. Insane how a minimum wage, something that was supposed to provide for a family, now can nearly support a single person.
@carriebrown679
Жыл бұрын
Right?! The US does not care about us keeping our dignity in the slightest. If anything, they'll make laws that strip us of it before they make laws that protect it.
@suziesharp5974
Жыл бұрын
@@decrulez Minimum wage was never meant to provide a wage to support a family. Trades, skilled professionals, and other qualifications pay more and will do that. A job that a high-school kid uses to earn money for extras and/or school is not meant to be that of a breadwinner. These jobs are low paying because they're meant to supplement an income not provide the main income. That's why they tell kids to stay in school.
@decrulez
Жыл бұрын
@@suziesharp5974 yes they were, that’s exactly what it was intended for when it was introduced. Thank you for demonstrating how far it has fallen. I would recommend you actually read my comment or even look up when and why the minimum wage was introduced instead of making things up next time.
@Izzy-cp8yt
Жыл бұрын
Gwenna from MommaCusses said it best, in my opinion: her littles aren't online because they don't have the ability to understand the potential consequences of having their image online as young children, both now and in the future. If they can't understand, they can't give true consent.
@AyaInspiredTarot
10 ай бұрын
I love her content.
@vintagemoss9578
Жыл бұрын
In the U. S they don’t protect their children from gun violence in schools. Do you really think they’ll protect them online?
@docholliday4546
Жыл бұрын
Just stop!
@magix3550
Жыл бұрын
@@docholliday4546stop what?
@GorgieClarissa
Жыл бұрын
@@docholliday4546 someone has to care about the kids
@georgplaz
Жыл бұрын
are you saying that putting police with guns in school does not protect them from guns? 😮 (this was sarcasm..)
@bluenomadbruh
Жыл бұрын
@@georgplazu know that is not what they mean. Quit playing games. If you really wanna go there, the cops in the Uvalde actually answer ur question.
@joergsonnenberger6836
Жыл бұрын
Let me give you a somewhat more nuanced perspective on this topic. I'm organizing chess tournaments for children up to young adults. We have a note in the by-laws of events that they are considered public events and that photographs are expected to be taken for publication, both in print and online. So far, I had one case where I was asked to not publish pictures with a certain individual in the foreground (as opposed to see the face somewhere swimming in the background). That case involved a lot of family drama, so quite understandable. What's the difference between publishing/posting pics from a sport event and posting a picture from the afternoon play time? The context and expectation of privacy. A sport event is by the very nature not only public, but also social. It's also something families often want to remember. They are also collecting other items after all, like participation certificates. When I'm at home, I do not expect pictures to be published. I also don't expect to look back to that moment years later. Even if I wanted to document a child growing up, that's what a picture album is for. You don't share those with random strangers, you share them to embarrass the kid in front of their first love ;)
@lisahenry20
Жыл бұрын
At school, if we had an event or there was a photographer taking pictures for around the school or on the website, we had to have our parents sign a form telling the school whether a student could be photographed. Then in sixth form (ages 16 and up), a member of staff would announce when a photographer was going to be taking pictures in that room so anyone who didn't want to be in one could step outside.
@tessaritter5339
Жыл бұрын
True. Also children behave different in public and in privat situations. They may not know the words but they know the differenz. It's not fair to take pictures of privat situations to public viewers.
@lelnel6242
Жыл бұрын
Not sure how it is in Germany but in my country you give written consent to the organisers about pictures. But you can not just go to public parks or grocery stores and take pictures of children or people. It doesn't matter if they are 'public'. Everybody has a right to their own privacy even in public places.
@PPfilmemacher
Жыл бұрын
@@lelnel6242 it’s literally the same here in Germany
@joergsonnenberger6836
Жыл бұрын
@@lelnel6242 It goes back to the expectation of privacy, even in a public setting. It is reasonable to expect that some forms of photography happen, e.g. a picture of the whole park without any specific individual in focus. It is also reasonable, but borderline, for more individual pictures to be taken in special situations. If you are participating in an event, even as an engaged watcher, the situation is quite different. For a school, it is easy and much safer to ask in writing in advance. For an event in a public space, it is not and often done as part of the ToS.
@theninja4137
Жыл бұрын
I think at a minimum, it should be forbidden to post: - unclothed children (including babies just in diapers, or half-naked toddlers covered in finger paint) - any child in distress, crying or a stressful situation - their medical info including allergies Also as a general rule, if you wouldn't be ok with a stranger filming your child in this scenario, don't film it yourself and post it online!
@msjkramey
Жыл бұрын
When they're that little, I don't think it really matters
@doodle_bug5707
Жыл бұрын
@@msjkramey, it matters to the creepers that can start stalking your kids…
@msjkramey
Жыл бұрын
@@doodle_bug5707 how would they stalk them through just a picture? Besides, abusers usually already know their victims. Stranger danger is a bit of a myth
@doodle_bug5707
Жыл бұрын
@@msjkramey, people can pay attention to photos and videos posted online. If they live near you, they can figure out where you shop, take your children, or live depending on details shown in the background of your pictures. Also, we live in a time where computer-educated individuals can hack into your Wi-Fi-connected security cameras, and spy on you other ways, to figure out things about you and your family. I’m not sure who told you not to be concerned about people you don’t know. You do know strangers have been caught on camera attempting to kidnap children, right? The only dangers to your, or your child’s, safety aren’t just relatives and family friends…
@theninja4137
Жыл бұрын
@@msjkramey people that little grow into people with opinions quite quickly. And no teen wants these things available online for everybody (including friends, classmates, ....)
@ayathiac5759
Жыл бұрын
This is so important! Parents often don't think about what might happen with those pictures of children - many don't understand privacy settings very well etc. But, there's an extra thing, too, with parents of children with various disabilities posting content of their child. The child cannot possibly consent to pictures and/or video of them being used either for education, or for other purposes online. And the parents have no way to know how this content might affect their children in the future.
@natsukiilluna6324
Жыл бұрын
I mostly agree with you. Though I have to say that if the parents of children with disabilities do it to inform others that that kind of illness does exist then it CAN be okay depending on how its handled. Also having a disability does not equal not being able to decide if you want your picture taken. There are kids/teenagers with disabilities who choose to become an internet presence for various reasons. Some like peer pressure I don't agree with. Some like trying to find a way to gain monetary income to one day become independent I can agree partly with. And some to be a support for others with similar sicknesses, I can totally agree with.
@theninja4137
Жыл бұрын
It's a difficult line to walk The first thing parents do when hearing about a condition of their child is google it, and seeing other families live fulfilled and good lives with a deaf, blind, autistic, downs syndrom or whatever the condition is child can make it seem much less daunting On the other hand, medical privacy is a right and the child needs to have it too.
@ayathiac5759
Жыл бұрын
@@natsukiilluna6324 Of course, but I'm saying that the child can't consent to having their picture or video of them online - and that is the issue. If a parent wants to talk to a camera, that's great, but putting videos of your child's meltdown or other symptoms online is not something they can consent to. If the child, when they grow up, want to educate others by making their own content, you can help them navigate that world, but don't force them into it.
@natsukiilluna6324
Жыл бұрын
@@ayathiac5759 Um... that's why I said it CAN be okay depending on how it's handled. In my opinion: A parent may take a photo/video for documentation of sickness/disability to show it to a doctor to help them describe a problematic situation. But posting that online should: Either after the child is old enough to decide and talking it over with them. Or done only after the the childs' face is filtered out (And in this case I think it would be prudent to avoid any potential embarrasing/unwanted kind of pictures; let's say rashs/sores on a childs bottom don't have to be published online=> not okay. But rashs on a childs' arm without showing said childs face or name would be okay for me as long as it's followed up with tips how to treat it.).
@ayathiac5759
Жыл бұрын
@@natsukiilluna6324 In such a case it might make sense, yes. And if posting online is not done until after a child becomes old enough to consent, then I agree. I was talking about posting online in the blog/vlog-type fashion that I've sometimes seen it done, especially with children with intellectual or developmental disabilities.
@folded_pizza
Жыл бұрын
As a professional ballet dancer, it's especially horrifying how common dance accounts of children are on Instagram. I'm talking 5 year olds, literal toddlers, who not only shouldn't be doing ballet (formal dance training begins at 8-9, that's when a child is mentally and physically ready), but also shouldn't be online. I never got the idea of having an Instagram account monitored by a parent, if the kid is young enough to need monitoring, they shouldn't have an account point blank.
@msjkramey
Жыл бұрын
That logic doesn't make sense. Should kids not have bikes because they have to be monitored, too? Let teens and middle schoolers have a life and friends online but keep them safe
@Joe35836
Жыл бұрын
I hate videos of like 5yo children EN POINTE!!! they're ruining their body
@folded_pizza
Жыл бұрын
@@msjkramey these kids accounts are promotional, not for friends and socialising. I can't find the account that triggered me into writing this, I'll give you the @ if I do, it was a public account that said the child was 5 years old, and the first post was from 2019. Clearly that's not for the kid to make friends. But you said let teens and middle schoolers, I'm not talking about that age, they can have Instagram from age 13 according to the terms of service. However I do think they shouldn't have promotional accounts, with sponsors and ads, not even at 13-14.
@crazydragy4233
Жыл бұрын
@@msjkramey Kids do not need to be monitored on a bike after learning to use it, and unlike social media it doesn't have any inherent dangers to it.
@msjkramey
Жыл бұрын
@@folded_pizza fair enough. 5 year olds shouldn't have social media, and in some countries parents aren't even allowed to show the kids' faces online. I'm not sure about going that far tho, since lots of family accounts are meant to be photo albums for relatives and friends that aren't local to the nuclear family. As far as kids working online, we need better child labor laws in place for that kind of thing
@andydavidson2793
Жыл бұрын
Hurray! More dignity for children! Why is this hard?
@urguidedsage
Жыл бұрын
because the US and other countries don’t seem to be interested in protecting children or any people in general
@ASweetShortCake
Жыл бұрын
Most likely because, unless you fall into the category that needs the protection, you typically won’t stand up for it because there’s no personal connection. We have to realize that social media is a recent thing. Whether the parents know the impacts or not, why would they care? They don’t know what it’s like to have every aspect of their life broadcasted without their informed consent, so why does it matter? Nothing bad will happen because I’m special, right? And why does consent matter when you can force them to do something? That’s how they think, subconsciously. Though, that’s a huge generalization.
@Bubaluve
Жыл бұрын
With my first son I was devastated when I woke up from surgery to realise that my husband has posted a picture of our new born online and I hadn't even seen him yet. This was in 2012 and I honestly didn't think I needed to tell him that as I was just generally not into posting on social media. So Iade my views clear and have only posted a handful of photos online of my children. Our second actually never even had a photo posted unti he was around 3 and you can count how many on 1 hand. I think kids should be allowed to grow up without their whole lives on line and strangers who recognize them.
@noelle8016
Жыл бұрын
Wow, bro didn't even consider maybe you wanted to see the kid before some random people online
@doggytheanarchist7876
Жыл бұрын
Children really need human rights protection.
@austinbrown5426
Жыл бұрын
They have the same protections that every other American has. Parents just need to be parents and protect their children.
@apathybronson
7 ай бұрын
@@austinbrown5426they don't though. Because there's no protection against parents that don't protect their children unless it's very very obvious abuse.
@austinbrown5426
7 ай бұрын
@@apathybronson The exception doesn't prove the rule. You can't use the small percentage of abusive parents to justify removing parents rights for the majority who've done nothing wrong and that's exactly what's happening.
@apathybronson
7 ай бұрын
@@austinbrown5426 parents rights is a far right dog whistle to mask child abuse and brainwashing.
@VoidDragon82
Жыл бұрын
I have the best social media security protections for myself; I have zero social media, except for KZitem lol.
@kateri17
Жыл бұрын
That's the way to go. I left all social media 7 years ago, best decision I've made. The people who count know how to reach me.
@riba2233
Жыл бұрын
Lol I almost read "sharting"
@usa.mom.in.germany
Жыл бұрын
💀💀💀
@swearimnotarobot3746
Жыл бұрын
Sharting #USA 🇺🇸 v. #Germany 🇩🇪 😂🤣
@abebuckingham8198
Жыл бұрын
You're not alone. I had to do a double take as well.
@BlueberryBumblebees
Жыл бұрын
I’ve always hated having my picture taken because my parents would bully me for how I looked, or faces I made. They would repeatedly try to take my picture when I wasn’t paying attention, then make fun of how stupid I looked, and now I have few pictures of me growing up. I hated it so much. After social media became a thing, they’ve started posting these pictures online, and refuse to take them down despite my pleas for them to do so. They, and many other parents in America have this idea that kids aren’t ALLOWED to consent or not consent, that they aren’t ALLOWED agency, that they CAN’T say no. I wasn’t allowed to refuse a hug, I wasn’t allowed to ask them to not stare me down, I wasn’t allowed to have my space. Now, it’s difficult for me to tell other people no. At 21, I was forced to go to the funeral of my great grandmother, someone I barely knew, who chose not to see me. Not only this, but I was dragged to the casket to stare at her. Most parents in America don’t care about their kids enough to NOT exploit them for attention. It’s sickening.
@onewayoranother1D
Жыл бұрын
That is absolutely horrible. I’m so sorry you went through that.
@adiuntesserande6893
8 ай бұрын
The American tradition of the open-casket funeral always confused the hell out of me.
@dimasakbar7668
Жыл бұрын
Well in more conservatives places, kids were more of property of the parents / patriach, rather than a separate person.
@qwertyuiopzxcvbnm9890
Жыл бұрын
But actually, liberals seem to be far more intensive social media users
@kelleym7504
Жыл бұрын
I think this really only applies if you post pictures of your kids on a public account. Most of my family only have private accounts and they post normal family pictures that you would find in a physical family album. If you are monetizing on pictures of your kids, they should definitely be protected in public accounts in all countries.
@TealJosh
Жыл бұрын
Private accounts are not as private as you think.
@summersun6536
Жыл бұрын
In Germany it applies to any source you share with others. So, technically even to family albums. But I don't think anybody would take it that far. The big difference between a family album and a public or private account is how many people have access to it and how much easier you can multiply (and share) electronic pictures in comparison to printed ones. Additionally, even if the online picture is protected from public by privacy settings, you don't even need hacker skills to dodge them. There will always be a member of that inner circle who will download the pic or screenshot it to be able to share it from their place/profile. Once uploaded by them you have no more control over it.
@jazihughey8161
Жыл бұрын
I have my profiles all set to the highest privacy settings possible; my friends are only people I actually know. I have a large extended family that we like to share pictures, events etc with. I try to keep my kids off the internet (social media) as much as possible 😊
@GorgieClarissa
Жыл бұрын
I don't even post my pictures online anymore. My fb photo is literally a tree. I became THAT person 🤣
@theknittinkitten2954
Жыл бұрын
Yep i deleted Fb to keep my kid off. If anyone wants pictures they can ask for them. However my family will still take pictures of my daughter and post them to all their friends without my consent. I deleted my Fb because when I did post pictures online my family would save those pictures to their photos and repost them on their own post so they can send them to their friends
@jennyh4025
Жыл бұрын
@@theknittinkitten2954 I hate to say it, but your families behaviour is disgusting. I wonder, if you could somehow „watermark“ the pictures in a way, that would make them visible in a „do not show online“-way for the social media safeguards… 🤔
@theknittinkitten2954
Жыл бұрын
@@jennyh4025 because if not they make my life hell. I tried to go no contact when I got home from the army, that resulted in a private investigator coming after me, my family messaging everyone on my old Facebook account and telling them how I "ran away" and they're very worried I was kidnapped (I texted and called everyone to say what was going on, they said they believed I was forced to say and text those things) resulting in me having to get new accounts and phone number, then when they found out my address they called the cops saying my friends dad had kidnapped me. They can and will make my life a living hell if I try to cut them out and now I have kids to lose. I've already had my (deceased) husbands toxic family make false CPS reports. My daughter isn't even 3 yet and she's had 3 false reports but every time I tell CPS that I want this investigated they say it has to be constant for them to do anything
@theknittinkitten2954
Жыл бұрын
@@jennyh4025 she will take them herself at this point and post them. She doesn't see an issue with it
@joflow1600
Жыл бұрын
I remember one time me and my wife had a suggested facebook friend where an arab profile had one of our children’s pictures as their profile picture. Since then we have restricted settings for any picture of our children and my German wife makes sure that each kid is fine with the picture going on social media before hand. I think a good law would be that any pictures of kids should automatically be restricted to friends and family. Since social media is a method that predators use to target children.
@TheDerpingDutchman
Жыл бұрын
Old fashioned photo albums with embarrassing pictures to show at the kid’s wedding 👌
@ICatheraTashaI
Жыл бұрын
I've had people almost mad at me that I don't post my kid online or allow anyone else to do so, and they act like I'm crazy for making that decision and like there's no call for it, like posting hundreds of pictures and videos of your kids online can't do any harm.
@drtaverner
Жыл бұрын
Children's Rights should always be greater than Parents' Rights.
@sgmii3060
Жыл бұрын
But never is…
@qwertyuiopzxcvbnm9890
Жыл бұрын
Yes but parents are necessary in the first place in order for children to exist
@drtaverner
Жыл бұрын
@@sgmii3060 Sadly.
@yeet1066
Жыл бұрын
@@qwertyuiopzxcvbnm9890 that literally doesn't matter
@kiriki4558
10 ай бұрын
Depends on the situation
@HT-zc6go
Жыл бұрын
My parents did it mostly for family because most of them are on Facebook but I never had a choice in the matter and I don't like cameras in my face now and they still insist on taking them. When i was approved for an interview i told my mom and when i woke up i got what felt like 12 people saying "Congratulations on your job" and i had told pretty much no one. I've had a camera in my face since before I can remember, my own sisters make collages of me and posts them to instagram. They post my face more than I do, it is unnerving how much they need to post online and not respect a child's privacy.
@drewzero1
Жыл бұрын
Even at 2 kids can recognize that they're being talked about and laughed at, and feel embarrassed about it. I've been a lot more careful even telling funny stories about my kid in person since I realized that. Kids deserve dignity!
@evercuriousmichelle
Жыл бұрын
This!! This is so important!
@deinfreund
Жыл бұрын
In Germany you do not _not_ post pictures of your kids because they could sue you later but just because of good manners and respect for your kids.
@Cel3ere5
Жыл бұрын
Imagine that? _Respect for your kids._ And that, folks, is why crap ain't gonna happen in the US. Not until after someone sues and wins.
@benny3188
Жыл бұрын
I tried to explain to someone why it is bad to post his little children on the Internet. I was able to determine the location based on the last 3 pictures. The street, the kindergarten, the preferred playground and the times when this child can be found there. I was insulted as a pedophile and banned from the group. People are so stupid!
@theknittinkitten2954
Жыл бұрын
Yep I tried my hardest to do this with my oldest but my grandmother refused. She instead made a post on Fb telling everyone how many kids I have, how old they are, and where we all live. Included my name and age as well. She also took a picture of my daughter and used it as her profile picture. Over a year later and it's still her profile picture regardless of my request for her to not post my child online at all
@sisuguillam5109
Жыл бұрын
Is there an option to contact FB and ask them to have the pics taken down? Sorry, I don't fo FB.
@jennyh4025
Жыл бұрын
May I ask why you still have contact with this person, who disregards your wishes for privacy?
@theknittinkitten2954
Жыл бұрын
@@sisuguillam5109 I don't either so I'm not sure. Last I knew Fb didn't care about pictures of kids online
@theknittinkitten2954
Жыл бұрын
@@jennyh4025 I responded to your other comment!
@sisuguillam5109
Жыл бұрын
@@theknittinkitten2954 Shameful.
@swearimnotarobot3746
Жыл бұрын
While I do think some of these laws can go a bit far, I don’t really know how to word a law that would be ideal to both protect kids and also not make people afraid to post pictures of simple things like your kid blowing out candles on a cake for their birthday.
@usa.mom.in.germany
Жыл бұрын
Maybe if we started with just protecting children on social media under child labor laws?
@GorgieClarissa
Жыл бұрын
Why do those photos need to be made public for everyone? No one is saying they can't be taken but is there a legit reason children's photos need to be made public for everyone?
@swearimnotarobot3746
Жыл бұрын
@@GorgieClarissa they don’t “need” to. But imo, photos like that are fairly inconsequential. And you know how many parents aren’t great with technology. They’ll just put a photo like this up on their facebook account where they only have family added. They don’t know differences between public and private posts.
@lisahenry20
Жыл бұрын
@@swearimnotarobot3746 while I'm sure some will genuinely struggle with things like that, I imagine for more would be simply due to ignorance, stubbornness, or not caring enough to learn. Technology like Facebook has been around for long enough that even older users should understand things like privacy. But to ensure against that, the default privacy setting for posts and accounts should be private.
@seresimarta4436
Жыл бұрын
@@swearimnotarobot3746 I don't think this kind of photo is inconsequential. Most of the rapes are committed by people you know in a superficial way (neighbours etc). By people you don't necessary know by name but to whom you would say hello in the street. You have plenty of them among your "FB friends". The potential predator sees the pic on your FB feed, and next time they see your kid they can say "oh your mum told me you just had your B-day... she also told me you loved caramel cake... do you want a caramel cake?" The predator knows from the pics what the kid like and also gets to be trusted by the kid because they know all these stuff " from mum" so it must be a friend of mum. Of course you can say that the solution for this is never letting the kid be alone and do errands without parental supervision, but in Europe kids are encouraged to come and go in the neighbourhood to develop useful life skills. And it's also more healthy and natural than taking them by car everywhere.
@ricardonunes3633
Жыл бұрын
And remember that some of those photos could possibly be found on a abuser's PC hard disk.. My nieces never had their photos online until they made 18.
@Vixin24
Жыл бұрын
I went to see my nephew in his school Christmas concert in the UK and you weren't allowed to take any photos or videos because you wouldn't just be taking it of your child/relative but others too who may not consent. It was a bit sad to not have any videos of the performances but kids'privacy is more important
@estherlee5881
Жыл бұрын
America needs this. Some parents need to be stopped from taking advantage of their kids
@fafnyrslair
Жыл бұрын
My youngest just turned 18 and there are virtually no pictures of my children or their names anywhere online. They can create their own online presence as adults. I've never heard a single mention by my state about protecting kids online identities
@LisaBeergutHolst
Жыл бұрын
Maybe next we can work on the whole legality of corporal punishment thing lol
@usa.mom.in.germany
Жыл бұрын
Already did a couple videos on it 💚
@MioNozomi
Жыл бұрын
As a parent, I don't understand why other parents would want to post pictures of their kids all the time? Yes they're cute, making a post about the cute things they do is fine, but there's SO MANY CREEPS. The only picture of my child online is from her birth that my husband's shitty mother posted for us.
@kiwimiwi5452
Жыл бұрын
my mom made a website for us when my sister and I were still very little. It was one of those with the flat bright colored backgrounds and the fun fonts, and it was locked behind a password wall! She had given that password out to close family and treated the website like a blog, giving them small updates and just having fun with it. It's a beautiful thing to look back on for us now that we are older, and it's safe and private. This is how it should be if a parent really wants to post their child online!
@somethingillregret
Жыл бұрын
I hope this is the sign of a cultural shift away from feeling entitled to the image of strangers. So much online content profits of filming people without their consent. A friend of mine was filmed sleeping on a plane and had the video sent to them by a friend on tiktok a few days later. When they asked the poster to take it down the response was "you were in public you have no right to privacy, deal with it". Many people I know are afraid of doing anything which could be seen as compromising or noteworthy (even wearing bold outfits etc) because they are sick of being worried some teenager will film them and put them on TikTok. It's a shame that at some point the mentality in much of the world became "unless I legally can't film you, deal with it"
@MyTimelord11
Жыл бұрын
Honestly as a kid I always thought it was illegal to film someone without their consent i remember the film on the news and docs and the like used to blur out background faces. Idk if the laws have changed since but obviously we've all seen so many videos of people online who didn't consent that it's either no longer law or just no one cares. I think it's sad. Even as a kid I always found it comforting that a stranger couldn't use my image anytime for any reason. Today's culture makes me feel so vulnerable.
@gabrielfair724
Жыл бұрын
I like this new format. Thanks again for being an advocate
@ellkeesler
Жыл бұрын
I don't know if it's illegal, but you can't post foster children's faces online at all in the US, but that is the only restriction I know of.
@phoenixa17earth63
Жыл бұрын
we need this in the US, the mommy bloggers are getting out of control and I've heard too many stories of kids who have lasting psychological damage from the amount of stuff their parents posted about them online without their consent.
@Grellibe
Жыл бұрын
I've noticed more younger parents being mindful of their kid's identities online. For example, Gwenna from Momma Cusses has two young kids who she mentions but won't share their names or anything else. Her teenager however is old enough to have an online presence and can consent to being in videos. So change is happening slowly but surely.
@NataschaYT
Жыл бұрын
Good point, I totally understand legislation doubling down on this. The new hair really suits you 👍
@veronikavartanova4044
Жыл бұрын
These laws also kinda make it practically impossible to share online the videos from trips to German cities and places of interest there. Because there's children everywhere, on bikes, on foot, on busses and on their own trips. Hope AI editing tools will help with that soon, because its actually quite annoying how you can't show your friends and families any videos from Germany (and Netherlands) via social media, except for those from pubs and strip clubs =/
@hilla3353
Жыл бұрын
Honestly, I don't think anyone would care if you post a photo and there's someone in the background. Besides the fact that, when I was in Germany, tourists spots weren't full of kids and if there were any, their parents would make them move out of the way of people taking pictures
@savanimay
Жыл бұрын
Another win for Germany! The US doesn't care because how else will they create child stars for capitalistic gain?
@magdalenamagda1309
Жыл бұрын
Parents should not post their kids pictures online, whatever the law is.
@humanwithaplaylist
Жыл бұрын
In Aotearoa there is no legislation to protect children online. People can also be photographed and videoed in public without consent. It sucks
@MyWolf96
7 ай бұрын
One i dont get is when someone has given birth they post on facebook the full name, date and time of birth and a photo of them. Thats all someone needs to steal an identity. I talked to my partner about this we are think of having 2 names their legal actual one then one we use online for any photos that might get posted of them
@luludu4770
7 ай бұрын
As a german, those laws didnt stop my mom from threatening showing my whole school the mess my room was in order to embarrass and traumatize me into cleaning up after myself. My room was never out of control in terms of cleanliness. Yeah, often there was a tiny bit of a mess like toys, random stuff or some clothes laying around or my trash bin being a bit overfilled. Also i was a bit of a horder who struggled with deciding what i still needed, what can be sold and what can be thrown away. ( Still am, but got better ) But my "messyness" never was out of control. But she expected my room to always be cleaned up all the time as if guests would stop by in my room any moment. This whole thing still gives me anxiety whenever friends drop by at my own, self paid place that I alone life at.
@aryanshukla7305
7 ай бұрын
Yeah like that trend where the parents hit the child to see if it laughs
@toteswurmelein
7 ай бұрын
92%? Of 2 yrs old?! Daaaamn... my oldest is 4. The bf of my husbands aunt once posted a Picture of her, without asking us. Like "our cute niece!" when she was a baby. We directly made him delete it. Luckily it was just in WhatsApp fir a few minutes and hopefully none saw it, who definetly isnt supposed to. That was the only time, our children were seen on the internet. Im working in IT and quiet allergic to children on social media anyways. I was so pissed about this action and his behavior...🤯
@lukedeulen1830
7 ай бұрын
Not saying this isn't an issue, but I feel like the U.S. has more important problems when it comes to children.
@chronically.artist8733
7 ай бұрын
UK law is fairly similar to the first German law, you have to gain parental consent to post pictures online
@morganband5711
7 ай бұрын
SORRY in the US you can just post pictures of any child you see in public?? Im from the uk and I remember my parents signing consent forms so that I could get school photos taken for a private, password protected website for parents to see them. That’s wild
@gggggg-hs2tk
7 ай бұрын
I'm so glad that my mom made me wait until I was 13 to open up my facebook account. It really gave me time to comprehend what it meant to be online
@mollybeee
7 ай бұрын
As a parent of a young adult I can honestly say the only image I posted of my child was one in her catcher's gear as I realized that it would be there for ever. When she was old enough she could post what she wanted, her choice.
@daetrg2991
7 ай бұрын
The right to your personal data is a very and emphasize VERY important thing here in Germany.
@johndoe-wv3nu
7 ай бұрын
I don't have any on line media presence. I wouldn't post pics of my home, cars, kids, or even pets. I'm American, and I value my privacy and personal space. Employers now are insisting you put an app on your personal phone to access your schedule, work emails and access to zoom meetings. I just quit my job. One more issue: text message chains through work. #1 everyone I work with doesn't need my number and #2 I don't need to listen to my phone notifications erupt for an hour with people replying with stupid.
@PatientPerspective
7 ай бұрын
Although I dont see this as mich, I notice that anyone posting children online in general will be face blurred or eyes blacked out. I know years ago in the US they thoight if yiu black out the eyes, the person wouldnt br identified. I dont think thats the case now.
@LittlePixieDoesGirlyThings
7 ай бұрын
In UK it's being a slight debate but not much.
@NoThankUBeQuiet
7 ай бұрын
Out of curiosity how do you keep US family members up to date on your kids growth/activities ect since they obviously dont see them often.
@johnmichaelchance1151
8 ай бұрын
*Takes a picture of my child so I can send it to my grandma who is not going to live for another month so I want her to see her beautiful great grandchild* Germany: “Yeah that’s illegal.”
@GODISGOOD190
8 ай бұрын
I don’t really see why it’s necessary but you guys do you and let some people do them
@spacebuilder4d
8 ай бұрын
American Parents: "Kids these days are glued to their electronic devices!" Also American Parents: *Post pictures of their kids on the internet for all the world to see, regardless if the kid even wants their picture online in the first place.*
@TheBrokenRobot
8 ай бұрын
It's weird to think how much people post their kids online nowadays. I grew up in the early 2000s where I don't think that was very popular outside of sharing photos between friends and family. Really the only photos of me as a young child were taken with an actual camera and are printed out in a photo book somewhere. I don't know if other 90s/00s kids had the same experience?
@wildwaters8348
8 ай бұрын
I have to give my consent every year for my school to use my data for school stuff and for the photos in the year book. Kind of nice to know you have that level of control
@derechtepilz
8 ай бұрын
Every single time I hear anything about the US, my image of that country just gets worse…
@onebutterfly_S
8 ай бұрын
we need harsh laws like this in the states and all over the world. it’s actually disgusting how some parents use every moment of their child as a mechanism to make money. and then proceed to justify it because they’re special needs and they are “raising awareness” or they’re “just kids.” i remember the time that memories were kept just for family and friends. I remember the times were people flipped through the family photo book and chatted while resurfacing all the good memories. but now parents use KZitem, Instagram, and other social media as a public photobook. the sheer amount of parents I see commercializing their kid’s childhood is sickening. I don’t think any kid should be posted online without their face being blurred. none of these kids can consent to any of the content being plastered online of them. parents post their kids on the toilet and parents post their kids only wearing a diaper. predators out there are literally having a field day, they can literally find content of kids anywhere. I don’t believe that kids should be allowed to show their face online until they’re 18, the amount of illegal content of children would be reduced GREATLY.
@avonzo
8 ай бұрын
Yup turn kids against their own parents. That’s the only thing now we are missing in the “advanced” society. Way to go gratitude..
@jennifergeorge7280
8 ай бұрын
Canada also has nothing. It’s awful. It’s just the parent’s vanity. Not thinking if the child at all. Personally I am gifting my children the gift of no digital footprint. They can start when they are adults, if they do choose.
@amymegr
9 ай бұрын
As it should be. I posted my kid once then had a bad feeling and never did again.
@Nygaard2
9 ай бұрын
In Denmark the digital rights have NO age limit, so parents have to ask for permission from even toddlers to post pictures publicly. Of course a “da-da” is enough at that age, but still, they do have the right.
@user-fp4uf9zv3r
9 ай бұрын
In my state they are making it easier for children to be killed by guns, so no.
@Snapdragon0593
9 ай бұрын
There is even currently a running ad from the German Telekom about this topic! It is called "Nachricht von Ella - Without consent".
@CassVanCat
9 ай бұрын
Children are perfectly valid business for parents on the USA. A lot of American influences make full time salaries of their children. They don't see it as exploiting their children.
@21bebaescandon
9 ай бұрын
Excellent, this has to be a global law.
@felixhaberbosch6765
9 ай бұрын
For example Rick Garrido(not real name ) from space frogs photoshops pictures of kakashi or himself onto his kid in Photographs. And in one Video he keeps the child either out of frame or blures the face Link: kzitem.info/news/bejne/lI5r1ZuKcX-coqQ
@Eeeeehhh
9 ай бұрын
as far as I know, in Germany even family yt channels theoretically have to coordinate with the corresponting Amt that handles children and laws that pertain to child work. the law states that highly private situations are not allowed to be posted, like the bedroom of the child or a medical emergency, as well has embarrassing situations. t's not enough but i like the start. as i understood it those are laws that were made for children on tv and are being expanded to include online stuff.
@justlittleolme7977
9 ай бұрын
This approach is needed worldwide!!!
@kittiwhieldon4329
10 ай бұрын
Must be nice to live in a country where the safety of children is more important than corporate profit. Or even a country where children have as many rights as corporations.
@boyinblue.
10 ай бұрын
My cousin shared an image of her naked child, he was about 2 years old.
@SweetHeart-cn2yf
10 ай бұрын
I think it Temps evils and the chance of them getting sold into many terrible industries, just let them be kids... They ain't gonna have it long, let it last
@kiriki4558
10 ай бұрын
And even if they are no kids. There is "cringe culture" and "NPC" videos, mostly done by right-wingers. Wich are videos taken without the person consent in ordenador to harm their dignity. Like making a woman have a breackdown and labeling her in the title "karen" and making up a story paint her like that. Also neurodivergent people are targeted.
@Spamilton1739
10 ай бұрын
I get it, if the kid is old enough to understand and consent to this stuff, but I don't get the people that have no problem posting pictures and videos of their kids in a bath. Like how do you not see a problem?
@Ares_V
10 ай бұрын
US protecting kids online? That's taking it a bit too far, how about if we start by protecting kids in general? Like doing something about school shootings, child marriage, transkids rights, queer kids rights and safety in general, access to real education, protection from being forced into a church or beleif system the kid doesn't consent to, beatings as a way of discipline (or as an outlet for their parent's anger/frustration), access to healthcare...
@jasonchristiansen9063
10 ай бұрын
I agree with this
@Octobris
10 ай бұрын
The US: LeT's PrOteCt tHe cHiLdReN! Also the US: every day school shootings, parents posting kids online for any creep to abuse them, student loans, kicking them out when they're barely 18 or kicking them out if they're lgbtq. In America, talk is cheap. And "kids protection" is just a slogan of the politicians who want votes.
@larryk-pi7xn
10 ай бұрын
They can't in the USA. SORRY N3VER HAPPEN
@sallysimpson872
10 ай бұрын
I live in the US. I have never posted my daughter online. She is now 20. I feel that her image is hers to do what she chooses. Now she is an adult she can post whatever she wants to. There are too many predators out there.
@Kanetsugi
10 ай бұрын
92% PERCENT OF 2 YEAR OLDS?!?!
@jfrazz9729
10 ай бұрын
I dislike content of kids posting videos of themselves and hit Don’t Recommend.
@izzykaii
10 ай бұрын
I appreciate the Tone alerts. Sometimes in hard for people with autism to tell if something is sarcastic or serious and this stops all doubts
@tuwuesday
10 ай бұрын
i think some parents in the US are starting to wise up about what the internet is and how harmful or unsafe it can be for children, but sadly a majority seem to not care, and a small minority actually put their kids out there specifically because their kid gets attention and the parents can profit off of the creeps. people don't need to see your half naked kid doing a good job with potty training, that should be completely private. people don't need to see your four year old doing the splits in a leotard, even if it is impressive. people don't need to see your kid eating, especially bananas or hot dogs or popsicles. but some parents post that kind of content of their kids because they know it'll get views and make them money.
@mandielou
10 ай бұрын
I still wouldn't want my videos or pictures of my kids even with their face blurred out... those sick people for the most part, don't care about the face and whether they can see it. They still see the activity that the kid is doing and how they're dressed, act, saying etc.
@shayerahol6434
10 ай бұрын
I hate that people post pictures of other people's children sometimes. It's not okay
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