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Being there for everyone, helping everyone when they need something, going out of the way for people and yet you find yourself having no one when you need someone? Feeling like you are spiralling down into a never ending hole and you think someone’s hand will show up and grab yours? No one is coming to save you !
Just because we do something for someone, it doesn’t mean they are going to be there for us… i learnt this lesson the hard way… at every stage of my life, there was someone for whom i went out of my way and helped them but when it came to my problems and my life, i stood all alone, made me realise one thing… you are responsible for your life, no one else is!
This may sound a bit harsh, but this is the hard reality of life! This is the truth we all have to face someday! There is no knight in the shining armour that is going to appear from nowhere and save you ! We all experience situations like this which will make us look into the outside world for answers and fixes but no one is coming!
And when that day comes don't get depressed, or start blaming people for your life… start taking responsibility for your life and get going, there is no time to wallow in self pity! Because you cannot depend on anyone except yourself!
But don't think you are alone or you can't do it alone, because you have everything it takes to succeed already with you… you are just one decision away from saving yourself, do you want to save yourself or not?
You must be wondering, save myself from what? From anything, an abusive relationship, a non fulfilling job or anything which you want to walk away from but waiting for someone to come and save you! There will be people who will tell you what to do, how to do it, but it's completely up to you, to take the call or not !
We keep waiting for people to cme and save us because we are trapped in our victim mindset,and we hold on to this so dearly that we end up in the same place again and again , waiting to be saved! I’m very familiar with this mindset because when I was in an abusive relationship, I waited for someone to come along and save me, but no one came, until I realised I didn't need anyone to save me! I just have to depend on myself! There is within everyone of us great power but it will come out only when we start being honest with ourselves, start accepting our shortcomings.
It is easy to become dependent on someone to put you together and we always look outside of ourselves to be complete…. But honestly we are complete within ourselves and you are the only person who can help you and you are enough!
Ask yourself these questions to start unleashing the power within you to save yourself-
What can I start doing now, to move closer to where I want to be ?
What do I stop doing which is preventing me from being where I want to be ?
This honest and simple yet powerful assessment will help you realise what exactly you need to do to save yourself from whatever situation that is you are waiting to be saved from
It's not the people who make things difficult, it is our own expectations and constant disappointments. There will always be people to guide you, help you understand things,but they cannot solve your problems, because they are not in your shoes, they don't know what it is that you are actually facing! But if you don't look into yourself for answers you will always end up feeling helpless! If you start trusting yourself, there is nothing you can't overcome and nothing you can't achieve!
If you don't believe my words, think of all the situations in which you felt this is it! I'm finished! But you survived and walked past those problems, so I think the reason why no one comes to save you is because you already have it in you to save yourself and start trusting yourself and you will!
You have to remember that you can't hold anyone else responsible for your life and help you to build the life of your dreams or escape from something unwanted! No one can make you feel good or satisfied as much as you can make you feel yourself ! when you spend the time you wasted waiting for someone to make yourself equipped to save yourself, unlocking your power,looking inwards, you'll never feel like a victim ever again !
Make it a conscious effort not to be dependent on anyone else for your happiness! You are the only person who knows what you want and no one else will be disappointed if you don't get what you want ! So don’t give up on your dreams just because no one is helping you ! Help yourself !
Choose yourself, just don't settle for it!
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